The Reality Of Dating In Your 20s vs. 30s - From A Female Perspective (The Desirable Truth EP 44) 

A lot of these women be lying about their age. Shows u that youth is EVERYTHING

Y’all can have higher standards as you age but the man still has to want to be with you AND THAT’S OUT OF YOUR CONTROL…. Respectfully

It’s interesting to hear women say they are comfortable with a man that makes less. In real life, I never hear this rhetoric or they have less respect for a man when he makes less. Essentially, I don’t think they’re being entirely honest.

8:51 wow… that’s some mother… never seen so many disappointments all in one place, this is what happens with no father in the household

I like how he just let them drown themselves 😂😂😂

Notice how all the older chicks cap about their age. Should start checking ID's

so they have higher standards as they’re losing attractiveness ..

The old woman with her daughters still dressing like her daughters smh

holy crap that woman with her two daughters dressed as cowgirls is crazy there is something weird going on it actually looks like she is pimping out her kids or showing them how to be for the streets because she is literally out in the streets with them either way WHAT THE ACTUAL F

This one is a little tough as man hearing men ain’t shit. Men and Woman have to know you attract what you are. I like the lady that said emotionally intelligent I think that shows so much maturity.

The dating pool is piss because some women don’t understand the type of respect man needs and are too independent. The problem is non traditional women want traditional men and freaking it up for the traditional women. A man shouldn’t be called insecure because he cares how his woman portray herself just saying.

Geez women are starting to look very old for their age 😂

When women say I have standards they are telling you they argue a lot by bringing up every little thing.when women younger they are most fun. Past 25 women turn poisonous.

If you ever ask women again about dating when they were younger vs older and if it's gotten easier or harder, you should ask them about why it was easier since almost to a person they think they have more to offer as an older person. They keep saying that their standards have gotten higher as the reason why dating is harder. But they automatically say that without thinking about how when they were younger, if it was easier, wouldn't that indicate that they had more to offer back then.

"I can cook..." That, more than anything else, will allow her to keep the man she wants.

Me, me, me make things easier, I feel, I have standards. The dating pool is getting lower, the standards are getting higher. IF I age any further? WTF Putting yourself out there during your youth has damaged you too much for your future. There are going to be a bunch of lonely girls out there.

5:30 "i know what i bring to the table" "what do you bring to the table?" "i mean, that's a loaded question"

So, no one noticed the guy in white covering his face😂😂 12:52

I think dating is hard cus everyone has secretes in their head of how they feel and if they want someone or something (like sex) even if it’s compulsory it’s hard to tell the truth when you’d lower your standards or don’t have any so you can get laid. Like I wouldn’t marry someone but I’d sleep with them type thing. Dating isn’t love, it’s possible to find love by dating but dating by nature is a temporary solution to a problem everyone has at different times, levels, and expectations based on status and how far society has dunked its roots into an individuals mind.

I am SO glad I'm not out there in those streets.

Women should be taught to have standards from earlier on! Not when you’re 31 with a list of failed relationships & encounters! Smh

8:55 wow this a mom? Wtf these daughter are going to be just like her

(8:22) She managed to be a poor influence on her daughters by passing down her highly rebellious, feminist dogma. "Let's go out in our booty shorts, even though we hate men and don't desire their attention."

"did money use to be a factor when you were 23" "yes" " what changed" " I grew up." lol I like the subtle honesty of that answer.

Ladies ladies ladies, i got some tuff news for you...a husband is not a male wife & a wife is not a female husband just like our genitals dont work the same & thus have different names. Those words are different because the roles are different, aka not equal. The bridegroom is called that because his role is to lead & provide & thus GROOM a woman into a wife. If you think you are already equal to him, you are only showing the delusions of an unwifely woman who will resist her man just as society taught you that we are equal when we arent. If you have no problem submitting to society, the rules of the streets, your mama, & errthing else except your man when he tries to correct you as to understand your role in marriage & the relationship, you will NEVER be a wife. The ring doesnt make you a wife just like wearing a black belt doesnt make you a blackbelt in karate. If you know nothing about your role in life as a daughterly woman, wifely woman, nor a motherly woman, men will spot it & the wiser of us will not court you especially after youve hit the wall. The official starting age of geriatric pregnancy is 35 & such women are down to the last 30% of their eggs, most of which are infertile especially if youve taken birth control. Every child needs & deserves a father but its the unwifely & unmotherly woman with a child who says she doesnt need a man, thus damning her children to ruin the only 1 childhood they will ever get their entire life. The same way such jezebel women notoriously rob children in the west of having a father, they also rob men of having the best years of his wife. To think that you can squander your best looking years in the club but wish to settle for a high value man after youve aged & been crotch to crotch is insane. Men earn their highest value most often later in life & will always have access to younger women. For every young woman whom you don't scold for becoming a porn star, thats a sign of how easy it is to obtain a beautiful young woman should we offer her a better path & even then, we are avoiding the ones whove already been passed around. On the contrary, younger men will feel emasculated by an older woman with money trying to court him as shes aging like spoiled milk. The best & highest value years for women will forever be their most purest adult youth which they all had to offer as to barter for the highest value man they wish to attract. You knew that too but you just didnt know any of such men & thus chose to give it out to the most handsome guys who wanted free punany. Point is, you played yourself & you know you did cuz soon as you realize the jig is up you get quiet & desperate as you fail to warn the youth out of spite because you know youre competing with them & would rather see them suffer the same fate than make the better choice. So again, your best years come but once for a season then forever you will never have that market value among men again. Men will smash anything, but good men wont marry just anybody & if all you have to offer are the simple basic traits of a non trash human being, we can both find & teach those traits to the younger version of you. So know, even the rich modified 30 year old version of you will never be as valuable as the broke, young-more pure 18 year old version of you & to lie & say a man who makes less than you is good enough is but evidence as to why the divorce rate is so high & why the most violent relationships on earth are female with female(cuz neither one know what they want, understand their role, & have been forced since youth to master their emotions especially around emotional females). The end.

LMAO you can tell he was annoyed with the one singing in the first 10 seconds of the video

I dont understand why men feel or think they are the prize?... Sad...

This is the most I've heard women say a man doesn't have to make more than her! Great! Smart women. Money doesn't rule all.

Lmao she’s a ten and Kim k a 9 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

12:00 she doesn’t even know

14:00 if she is a 10 I'm a 100. She is not the healthiest, she is on the verge of a heart attack.

33 yo looks 45 and 31 acts 17😮 mom with daughters was so aggressive and angry 😂

The woman with the purse is quite beautiful. The woman with her daughters was exceptional, she valued relationship over money.

If you are a parent be a parent. Parent can never be friend to their kids she is leading them astray. Thier dad i can tell is out of the picture.

Nobody talks about good character though character is lost everything is lost. 😢😢

10:10 I think that speaks more about her than those 3 guys 😂

As long as you as a man, make her life easier, then they may consider doing what women are supposed to do, all while you as a man, have been doing what men and likely will continue. Sounds like a bad deal to me.

At the 8:00 mark those orange background numbers are just one number away from being perfect. Change that 2 to a 4.

Shorty in the white pants was NOT 23 😂

Bring the harpoon.

She said she bring things to the table and it's nothing a man wants. Pahahaha these woman truly delusional lmao😂

These women aren't good managers at meeting men and who they let in their life. There is more than just the club.

1st lady super fine and wise, 32 year old!

well said, it's a man's world

16:30 so much cap. Can debunk every point

She got certain criterier? 😂 0:30

10:15 "men are pigs because 3 guys have screwed me over this year". What's the common denominator in those 3 failed relationships?

This generation is so dark and messed up … crazy times

Yes

Jeans mommy is ❤

11:06 Wait, women agree to have sex because they “don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings by saying no?”

10:20 in other words she slept with three dude who fit her list of superficial prerequisites and she thought sex was gonna make it a relationship whith each of them they reminded her that they have a choice an chose to only sleeo with her she apparently wasokay with that until she realizes shes not getting a commitment from any of them thats her own damn fault shout to the three muskateers who pumped n dumped now shes blaming everyone for her choice in sleeoing with those three

Just keep in mind, every girl in this video; when they are talking about men, they mean chads. Average men do you exist for them, they are not the radar. Every single one of these girls is looking for a chad. They find them temporarily, chase them, because chad has options, these girls have to work hard to keep them. Pay, cook, clean, do everything. They still get discarded, but their standard has been set, so, they get upset, but still either chad, or nothing. As they get older, they will either stay single and get action from chads, or settle for a blue pilled betabuxx oofie-doofie, whose life they will make miserable. A lot of average guys are waking up though, they are starting to realise that they should not spend money, or commit, because it's pointless.

13:12 I HOPE SHE HAVE FOUND HER SOULMATE

“I grew up.”

Those ELDERLY women @2:55 are NOT 23 years old! GTFOH

Y'all should have that that criteria at 22 instead of waiting until 32.

News Flash: Womens age matters to most men.

First girl don’t want a husband she want a wife

My name is Joe Smo, can I pay for your meal, drinks and try to say the right things and try make you feel good? Will you allow me to attempt to entertain you all in hopes that you'll like me? Young men, do some reflection and introspection.. DATES ARE FOR TRICKS It used to be courting. See if you're on the same page. See if she's willing to get on your program. Then knock her up and do the family thing... Or have another agreement if children aren't the focus. But casual sex is a little too causal these days. Nobody has a program or a plan. I'm not one to judge, just calling it how I see it

I, me myself

Full of materialistic mind and society

23? FOH!

As i grow see Woman are selfisih! Going into my late 30s Woman are lost! And dont know what to do Without! Oder!

😏 WHAT THE HELL IS FEMININE ABOUT COOKING AND CLEANING?... ESPECIALLY FOR BACHELOR'S.

A lot of these girls have big legs and it don’t look like they be from squatting… just sayin

that girl in blue sport shirt is living in lala land