@@BK-2003 I actually removed most of the guys in my phone bc of that 💀 deleted phone numbers and snapchats. I don’t find men attractive anymore, the lack of empathy is gross.
@@miad6160 I did the same thing. Most can’t even be bothered to at LEAST repost something. The silence really shows how little they truly respect and care about women. Or if they’re CELEBRATING it, I don’t even have words for ppl like that. Such a shame
I think one reason why women keep talking to guys who are clearing mocking them is because its so engrained in women to never really reject men. In the same way women make excuses like 'Im in a relationship' or 'I'm busy' to avoid hurting mens feelings irl, women online have to pretend like they are in on the joke to not seem like kill joys or karens.
ESPECIALLY when it's some random guy following you in public. When we outright say "no" to them it hurts their fragile egos and they often feel the need to assault or murder us over it.
For real!! I feel like women are so used to being called 'bitches' or being told they're 'ugly anyway' that they try not to let men down I don't present femininely often anymore but there's such an obvious difference in the way I'm treated depending on how I present
This is sadly true. There was a quote by someone that was along the lines of "Men are afraid that women will reject them. Women are afraid that men will kill them." and I think about it quite often. It's sad, but it's true. As women, we must have our guards up constantly because we feel that we might face danger. Women don't really get a chance to rest and relax because we are in fear a majority of the time.
It makes me kinda sad. Men always pretend that women are the fragile ones, but if you guys have to coddle our egos THAT hard, I think it's clear that a lot of us are giant babies. Back when I had just graduated from college, I met a woman and asked her out, she said no, I said "aww golly gee dang it, welp thanks anyway", and then I thought that was that. But then she texted me and said she changed her mind and WOULD like to go on a date _literally just because I didn't freak out at her or insult her when she said no,_ and my heart kinda broke for her a little bit. Nobody should have to lower their standards *that* far! I mean, I literally didn't even do anything, I just _didn't_ do something we all know we shouldn't do anyway! The thought of someone being so entirely used to being belittled/insulted almost makes me feel like crying tbh.. that's no way to live :/ (nothing ever came of it, turns out she was totally correct from the start; we had zero chemistry 😂. Really hope she found somebody who treats her well, maybe buys her flowers on occasion or something!)
He’s already so creepy but then doing that to her kid is PAINFUL. And that girl that he kept saying “he literally hit” looks underage. Regardless of age, she was clearly uncomfortable. He makes me so upset.
He reminds me of multiple of my abusers because a bunch of them shared red flags and traits he has. He's a time bomb. I'm also worried about his seemingly unusual interest in daughters (notice he ignored the one kid mentioning she had brothers?). I feel like those kids aren't safe around him, even if the moms keep it online only. -Not to say he's a P-word, but regardless he's got a creepy interest and he's not promoting boundaries in underage girls from strange men? If you like someone with kids you always consider the kids mental health before your own. It's dodgy behaviour.
bro his obsession with having mothers bring their kids (especially daughters) on screen just to subtly flirt with the mom, or talk about how he wants kids is so weird
nah, hell nah, there’s absolutely no reason to be having your kids talk to strangers on the internet. wtf. & the only reason this works… is because no shade: there are people who are starved for attention/affection/ have low self esteem, and it’s almost too easy to manipulate & prey on folks like that. and the ones that were receptive to his bs really gave me that energy. I hope everyone finds peace. thanks for this.
speaking from experience, there's also a lot of pressure for women to be overly nice and engaged w men in case they're psychos and you get hella murdered or stalked. you just kinda get into this bad habit of idly placating any random man who talks to you. also i cant help but not believe these are real videos, they feel so awkward and fake.
@@Saibellus but yeah you’re completely right. It’s kind of weird how the original commenter just ignored that and resorted to putting blame on women. Not saying that what the commenter said is impossible, but it’s definitely not the most likely in my opinion 😬
Hearing a person talk like that to you or your kids should be a biiiiiig red flag, like a random person on the internet saying stuff like "oh wow, we should meet up, you should introduce me to your kids" etc. is like "stranger danger 101", please don't trust ppl like this let alone let them see your face!
thank you for using inclusive language (“any and all persons who can get pregnant”) in your intro! as a non-binary person who can get pregnant, it genuinely made me tear up 🥺🥺🥺
Same for me!! I love how many people are vocal about this situation but it can get tiring hearing people think it only affects women when in reality it affects every afab person in America :/
i mean it was right after he said it isnt his place as a man to comment, ignoring trans men, but i agree that his language after that faux pas is super important abd helpful.
@@mothboy420 it’s very clearly implied that he means cis man because he says this affects *anyone who can get pregnant* Good lord y’all are picky as fuck
Saji, I just started watching you but when I say my face lit UP when you talked about helping women in this time. That is just the type of behavior I wanna see out of every dude especially with a platform like you. You definitely earned a loyal subscriber :)
You saying it’s thunder storming so much you got an amber alert and not a weather alert is so funny to me. Ik you didn’t mean it and just misspoke but it just sounds like you said it’s thunderstorming so much that a child went missing 💀
I'm assuming you're half joking that Rizz's 'technique' is 'working' for the mystery effect. But I just want to echo what some others have said; none of this is working. He's making them uncomfortable and they're saying '...yeah'. The awkward pauses and a vague non-comittal answer is a good sign they're thinking 'Am I safe to flat out reject this person? Would they react aggressively? Are they even crossing a boundary or am I being weird/dramatic? This feels weird/took an odd turn.' He's pushing the boundaries of people he speaks to, to find out how best to manipulate his way into their life, which you highlighted when you pointed out his chronic lying with the aim of seeming more similar to them. I started the video cringing and left it feeling stressed out, specifically because of how he targets the mothers daughters. I dunno if he just is using them as a prop to get closer to the moms or if there's something more sinister there but either way, huge red flags. Notice that one girl said she had brothers and he showed 0 interest in her brothers, only her? And asks for other mothers to bring in their daughters? Man's fucking creepy man. And lastly, when he 'smashed' the girl, they were clearly meant to do some kind of coordinated dance. I think she was supposed to look like she was throwing money at him, and he was supposed to be a dancer or something? (I'm not sure how tiktok duets work but it looked that way). She was so confused when he laughed and said he smashed and she finally 'let him'. Now think about that wording 'I never thought you'd let me' while she sits there getting more nervous, looking around slightly trying to analyse what he did while she was focused on their little routine. She didn't see him 'smashing her' and she didn't consent to it. She didn't 'let him', he took advantage. Even if it's just some online dance BS he still was violating a boundary and then took the effort to word it as though she consented so it's harder for her to argue it. It's a typical abusive thing. My rapist abuser often would state, in a non-aggressive way that he was happy I let him do X when it's like 'I didn't let you do shit if I was asleep or drunk as fuck'. But it messes with your head and confuses your boundaries and sets up the argument of 'why are you backtracking' if you state 'I didn't LET you do that?' They can play a semantics game that because the situation happened and you didn't preemptively stop it, that's the same as 'letting it happen' even if you weren't aware it was going to or currently was happening! Nah, he's got way too many red flags, the cringe is just the icing. And I reckon he doesn't even realise how problematic and creepy he is, especially when I saw how excited he was to 'finally smash'. He didn't seem to be mocking her, he seemed seriously elated. I've met a lot of people like this who push boundaries, abuse or commit crimes (such as stalking), and know what they're doing is wrong logically but somehow are convincing themselves they're just connecting and be friendly and stuff. I don't know if it's to do with lying to oneself or trouble merging who they want to be with what they're willing to do to get what they want... but he definitely does some things that require some awareness to them, but he seems pretty lonely and socially awkward. I wouldn't be surprised if he feels this is his way of overcoming it, despite that being at the expense of others.
Thank you so much for this fundraiser, Saji! We really truly appreciate it from the bottoms of our hearts, and you always make my day with your videos! ♥
hi saji. I just wanted to say thank you so much for using inclusive language related to the beginning of the video. I'm nonbinary and people like me are directly affected by the changes being made in the states and I've felt quite alienated from the conversation and your inclusive language near brought tears to my eyes because I felt supported for the first time today. keep up the good content, I love seeing yr videos
he's actually the scp 69 im surprised nobody has ever heard of him honestly lmao but in all actuality, thanks for being so supportive to women/people who can get pregnant. you're an amazing human and I hope your day/night is going good/gets better :)
plssss that "duet" physically made my entire body clench why is he like this fjdnfsjdk also thank u for doing this fundraiser/ur message seeing all the solidarity gives me some hope
Thank you, Saji, for your consideration of reproductive rights. I'm genuinely so glad you're willing to donate your hard-earned money towards this cause. I think it's weird that people keep thanking you just because you're a man helping out. Do none of them realize a lot of women were the reason Roe vs. Wade got overturned? There is an entire national organization dedicated to criminalizing abortion that is FILLED with women. We are not blameless in this war. We should thank women for speaking up, too. So I thank you, not because you are a man, but because you are a KIND PERSON who is willing to take a stand. I thank you, because you are ACTIVELY doing something to help us. You're a good person, Saji. Thank you again. :)
i hope your wrist is ok :( i'm so glad you're raising awareness about america's situation, it's honestly sad that us women get so excited to see males raising awareness of this, it should be normalised! love your content too :) i'm Australian but we're all here trying to support those in america who can reproduce as much as we can! i feel like this comment is all over the place lmao hope you get the jist HAHA
@@sophiathefurbst surprisingly no😂, he was one of those people who liked to piss people off just for fun l so I had to let myself out of that situation
omg the intro was absolutely amazing, you don't usually get men talking about Roe v. Wade in a positive light cuz it's either "against their beliefs" or "iT's A wOmEn'S iSsUe". so it's really cool to see someone that issympathetic towards people who are affected by this. like, I have multiple friends who have needed abortions and it's scary to think that the rights to get one are holding on by a string because some white men in power and one conservative woman thought they had to put their say in this.
Ahh, Saji. Just when I thought I couldn’t love you or your channel more. Thank you for all that you do. From funny vids to speaking up and helping with serious issues. You got a loyal fan here 💜
i found your channel not too long ago and i just have to say that i’ve enjoyed your personality and videos a lot!! also tysm for speaking up about the abortion ban and using gender neutral language while doing so. it means a lot
I know it’s mostly “big” names but I really want to see a collab someday of him with: Jarvis Johnson Danny Gonzalez Chad Chad I think that’d be awesome
yea he really does remind me of jarvis, personality, humor, and content wise. Them collabing would be an interesting watch. Really hoping this happens, it's exciting to think he's on the rise and really could become a big name in the commentary genre of youtube. Also exciting to see how their energies would interact/bounce off of each other.
Just wanted to say, just because you're a man or don't have a uterus, doesn't mean you can't be on our side and talk about the RvW situation. It's actually helpful when men/people without uteruses talk about it because it helps get the word out that the situation needs to change
So I know this has nothing to do with you directly but right when he was “singing” along with her, that Native ad with the lady centaur neighing kicked in and it was just about perfect. Also, shouts for being a good dude.
Thank you for speaking up. I can count on one hand the amount of men in my life and who I follow on social media that are actually speaking up or sharing resources. I truly appreciate it as someone with a utereus.
at 11:07 when that guy said "aha i'm sorry, i just get a bit distracted" i leaned away from the screen and felt the gta 5 "wasted" sound effect & visual playing over my soul
