The Shyness of the Righteous Women || The Hot Seat by AMAU 

I remember onetime hearing from Abdulrahman Hassan in a video that a Sahabi was told that shyness is a type of weakness (or as he said) and he then rebuked him.

@@ytuser9948 degradation an act of the devil ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-fiDTBiEfmHE.html

They don't known brother they don't theirs books too

Yeah or they think you're stiff if you're shy. But you can be a confident, bold woman and shy at the same time. Shyness doesn't exist in the west. SubhanAllaah By bold i mean strong headed.. You have aspirations and goals and you know what you want in life.

So true 🙌🏾

Indeed, May Allah protect us and grant us tawfeeq

When I become Muslim I used to be scared of niqab;) and people who wear with. Then with knowledge come the urge to wear it. It’s a beautiful way of obeyig Allah.

3 major things that if the Ummah was to equip its self it would get back on itself feet. I would live if the the Shiekh can address the connection between these 3 for the Ummah to rise to a better level.

subxanallah akhii abu humayd i never ever thought that i will see a person that talks about AL WALA WAL BARA walahi i am soo happy akhy to see your coments and the your believe about Al wala wal bara i wish we all learn that....

@@Zakapha Yeah but don’t think of me as a person who is pious and is implementing it, sadly there are a few lectures concerning this topic. I hope Abdulrahman Hassan can do a lecture about it.

Asalamualikum may Allah bless you and keep you firm. Sorry my sister for your bad experience and whatever it may be. But how does being Asian/black or white have to do with what the issue is about. Perhaps you had a bad experience with certain people but you shouldn't brush everyone under the same carpet. Many asain sisters wear the jilbab and many Asian sisters are shy. So maybe your comment could have been rephrased.

@@spiderhussain8795 I respect what you are saying... I live in a highly Asian populated area and as a teenager it was that group who really represented/ were the walking advertisement for Islam at the time ... as many were born Muslim I believe that they are gifted into knowing “better” from a very young age.... yet too many of their behaviour contradict such. I studied Islamic theory which obviously as the truth resonated Within my heart and mind, however it took many many years for me to officially take shahada and outwardly display my faith. Because of the behaviour of the people representing the faith (areas are the most unclean, high crime rate, modest clothing but bad attitude, lacking in matters, social etiquette) Like I said Many not all. I am sure you can understand people on the outside will base their opinions on the majority of experiences it’s just human nature When someone reverts it is hard for others to understand especially when they see a bad representation they think “why leave freedom ect to represent such awful people” when really it should be a move that inspires others inshallah. I will not reword my comment because it is true to me and like I say “many not all” At the end of the day it is a real issue that should be addressed in the ummah not watered down or brushed under the carpet.

@@spiderhussain8795 non believers are expected to see shy behaviour as “frigid” because they know no better. People born into a faith that regards shyness as an asset shouldn’t mimic the actions or mentality of the “enemy”

@@mrsk8518 now you've mentioned the context I understand your point of view. I totally get it. Muslims do play a part on the perspective of others if they like it or if don't by their actions. We have other communities that also have similar issues but from people from other nations and countries and even those who have reverted involved in these issues. May Allah recitfy all of our hearts and our actions. Best thing is to judge Islam from the text and not from people actions. As how many Muslims have gone astray and have led others astray from their actions knowingly or unknowingly. May Allah bless us and keep us firm on his Deen. Thank you for your reply.

@@spiderhussain8795 I can believe that. Here in the small town I live there are not many other Muslims from a wide variety of backgrounds. I never intended to offend or be racist. I am indifferent really in regards to such I take no pride in mine that’s for sure. Truth is important though and each Muslim should take responsibility for their actions Definitely agree on what really should be judged islamically. May Allah bless and forgive you and the true believers ameen

Fraudster!!!!

Aameen

aameen

Why tho? What difference does that make to you?

@@sarakhreawish6322is that a question? Seriously?? Shyness means modesty which will ensure that she will wear hijab properly and stay away from men

Indeed yes

@@saliminadampha5309 JazakAllahu khayran I thought so

@@islamimumin6641 wa Iyaak.

Shyness is good. It protects us from committing sins, because when we are shy in front of Allaah, we will not commit that many sins because we are shy that Allaah is watching us, and when we are shy in front of people, we will not commit immoral acts in front of them. So shyness brings about a whole bunch of goodness. May Allaah make us among them.

@@Averysadprincess JazakAllahu khayran

Ameen

Aameen

May Allah increase you in beneficial knowledge

@@jalilsuraj2712 ameen

Why?

Sadly, we as men sometimes cover more than women lol.

Who's fitna

subhanallah

Mashallah

Hes a fraudster ignore him he's sent the same message to everyone

Hes a fraudster ignore him he's sent the same message to everyone

Their topic was about women so of course they’ll talk about women. There’s another video about shyness in which they spoke of men too.

​@@MohammedAlSharif2002 send me link

@@MohammedAlSharif2002 why do a video on men being kind, why not men and women kind, its because their is the idea within the muslim community that it is more important for a woman to be shy then a man, thats why, its a stupid word anyway, we need to all be modest, but not so shy we cannot do what we need to do in life.

@@sarahm4516 🤨

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته يا خديجة كيف حالك ؟ هل وصلتك دعوة على الإيميل؟ لأني حاولت أن أرسل لك رابط الكتاب، ولكن لم أفلح في ذلك! ولا أعرف السبب! وقمت بإرسال دعوة بالمقابل، وأعتقد أن بإمكاني إرسال الرابط بعد قبولك للدعوة، والله أعلم! وأيضا أريد أن أخبرك بشيء كنت قد اجلته حتى أخبرك به عن طريق الزوم، أو أي برنامج آخر غير تعليقات اليوتيوب، وهو أن كلمة steps تكتب بالعربية خطوات،ولا أعرف هل قصدت كتابتها في اسم حسابك بالعربي أم أنك كتبتها بلغتك الفارسية ! على العموم أن كنت تقصدين كتابتها باللغة العربية فيجب أن تكتب خطوات بحرف التاء، والله أعلم.

@@arabiyyah7965 و عليكم السلام و رحمة و بركاته اختي كيف حالك، سبحان الله انا اشتقت اليك هه هه هه 😄 لا سبحان الله لم اتلقت ايميل غريب جدا لا اعرف اختي جزاك الله خيرا لتصحيح لي كما لم ألاحظ عن خطوات 🙊 متى أرسلت لي البريد الإلكتروني اختي ؟ سارسلك لينك هنا لزوم ان شاءالله غدا بعد ترتبط على هذا لينك ان شاءالله سنرى ما سيحدث اخبرني اذا انت تريد ان شاءالله

@@stepstojannah8173وعليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته، أنا بخير ولله الحمد، وأنت كيف حالك؟ وأنا أيضاً اشتقت لك يا اختي واسأل الله أن تكوني بخير وبصحة جيدة. أرسلته قبل أيام. نعم أريد ذلك 😍 سأكون بانتظارك أن شاء الله

@@arabiyyah7965 الله يحافظك اختي باذن الله حبيبتي سارسلك غدا

@@stepstojannah8173 أن شاء الله

وعليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته

Wa Alaikum salam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu

wa alaikum as salaam wa raaxxmatullahi wa barakaatuh

@@changinglifestyle6675 who?

Yes. Many men just resent and despise women regardless.

Islam is perfect. Unfortunately Muslims aren’t and many aren’t following the Quran and sunnah of the prophet. The prophet SAW never harmed his womenfolk.

Hes a fraudster ignore him he's sent the same message to everyone

What

The reason 60% view this is because society has pushed them to view this..

@@papac7940 Akhee fillah thank you for pointing out that societal views are fast-changing and unreliable which cements my point as to why the Ustadh shouldn’t be using these quotes. Society hasn’t forced anyone- between 1970 and 1990 and 1990 and now there have been big societal changes. Since the Ustadh chose to use two examples from the United States, since the 90s and now there have been shifts in societal views due to high profile cases like that of Anita Hill which shaped a generations view on assault and consent. My point at the end of the day, is that there is no one forcing anyone we’re just conditioned to keep following society which keeps changing but not the book of Allah or the Sunnah of the Prophet (saw) which we’re main to caretake till Qiyāmah.

@@safax2535 If I remember correctly, he chose those times the surveys were conducted because the non-muslims were a lot more modest. Of course he wouldn’t care what people like qawm lūt would have to say. I think the reason he chose surveys from that time were to highlight that even non muslims who are almost similar to us in terms of modesty almost hold the same understanding of women covering up. Not to say this is THE reason for women to. That’s why he mentioned the female companions and women from the salaf

Well we’re now living in a time of cancel culture, of course the results would change. We can say back then people were more truthful when giving their opinions. Now if you speak you get canceled.

What was the evidence he used from quran and sunnah. I really doubt he has valid evidence from either of these to say jesus died a natural death. The quran says he is rsised to Allaah

Don't listen to that 'scholar'. May Allah swt guide him.

Check out the Fareed Responds channel, esp the latest video

Abu Layth is a kafir

Link is given in the description.

@@beneficialknowledge5779 jazaka allah khir brother

why?

@@0AcE013 because these two guys on the video follow wahabism which is a sect cult created by the British in order to dismantle Ottoman Empire and create Saudi Arabia and then Israel. They are imposters don’t look at their beards and clothes there are Hadith about these people

@@endofdayzfitnessu.k2126 brother they might be wahabis, and like you i have my gribes about what happend to the umma because of the betrayel of saudi, but what did they say specifically in this video that is decietful? that's what i'm not sure i understood from your comment. could you elaborate?

@@0AcE013 salaam these manz have no right addressing the masses because they are unfortunately not on haq hence why I said it’s appropriate that they discuss who they really are and how they have deceived the world in thinking they are the saviours of our great religion

@@endofdayzfitnessu.k2126 وعليكم السلام ah, but then you have written a comment that implies that the content specificely put forth in this video is decietful, and ironically (although i'm sure it wasn't you're intention) that made your comment itself decietful. thanks for elaborating on what you meant, i would recommend for the sake of allah to change your comment to something that better makes your point. for example : "these people ae followers of wahabisim which is a sect that is believed to spread falsehood so i implore tje viewers to be weary of what they say althpugh nothing specifically mentioned in this video as far as i know is wrong" . someone unaware would read your current comment and assume the content of the video is falsehood and you'd be accountable infront of allah for their actions based on that . or worse if they ate non muslims and take your comment as to mean that muslims are lying about how their women/men should be have. والله اعلم

Asalamo aleykom. Can you please tell me what al wala al bara means ive been looking for its meaning everywhere.

@@Adrian-yf1zg Jazakallah kheyr for ur answer bro. But i still dont get what it means.

​@@elmimc1917 It is a concept which means "loyalty and disavowal" >> loving and hating for the sake of Allah (if I'm not mistaken)

@@Adrian-yf1zg please stop spreading hate. If you are a true Muslim you know this Ummah is NOT in NEED of disunity more than it already is in. And the Question was not for you.

@@elmimc1917 wa Alaikumu salaam. I just saw this. It means Loving those who love Allah and His Messenger and hating those they hate. This is derived not from any Scholar. Al wala wa al baraa is derived from Qur'aan and Sunnah. For example, Allah Ta'ala says he doesn't like those who are arrogant or He hates those who hate Angel Gabriil,and Makaaiil(another great Angel) and so we hate those who hate them too. Allah also says He loves the Pious ones therfore we must love them too. And like wise from authentic Ahadith(plural for Hadith). How can a true Muslim then love those whom Allah and His Messenger said they dislike or hate, or how can we show hate to those whom Allah and His Messenger praised or Allah saying He loves. Also, this means Loyalty. Loving for the sake of Allah and hating for the sake of Allah. And this is Ibaada(worship) for the sake of Allah Ta'ala alone. This is following the Qur'aan not a made up myth slandering deviated people. For example, Allah has said He curses the kufar, and therfore how can a true Muslim say they are good and love them. This is opposing Allah Ta'ala directly or in directly. Al wala wa al bara, is a deep subject. The foundation of what a Muslim should be with the creation. I suggest you buy a book called Al Aqeedahtul Wassatiyah by sheikh Al Fawzan or even by Shiekh Muhammad Abdulwahaab. Please ignore the one who completed with the negative narrative about the Ulumah and Al wa al baraa. To know the truth one must read for himself. And its basic dignity to have allegiance with his/hers people. This is a basic principle around the world between all humans. And so if one says he is a Muslim who should have allegiance to Islam and it's true people. The true people are the Sahaba for instance, how can one then say we will follow our mualana etc. They are praised in the Qur'aan and helped the Messenger to spread Islam and Allah choose them to preserve this Deen and importantly the Qur'aan. We must then follow their Aqeedah(creed of Islam) not others. And when you hear the Salaf, it starts with the Sahaba then their students then their students. These are student of those who with the Prophet alayhi salaatu wa sallaam. They are the ones who taught us about our beloved Rasul and passed down the Qur'aan to us and fought for the honour of this Deen. Who are we then? The 1st source is the authentic source. There are a lot of corruption and deviation the safest path is with them. Just as we read in Suratul Fatiha, "those who you bestowed your favour"...these are the Prophets and Messengers and those who were rightly guided like the Sahabah. And the next 2 generation after the Sahaba have brought from them to us. Nothing added or subtracted. Its simple, if your alliance is with Allah then those who He mentioned in the Qur'aan we love or hate them as He told us of. This is also to not be like those He cursed and to be like those He loves or praised. I hope that helps. Like I said Al wa la wa ala bara has deeper meaning and what I said is basic understanding of loving for the sake of Allah and hating for the sake of Allaah. Allegiance it is. This is what the Ummah is missing. We take as helpers and protectors other than the Muslims and we fight along the enemy of Islam against other Muslims We see a Muslim being abused by a kafir and we walk past like it's not our business. You can get these books from Amazon I think. Anything good I said is from Allah and anything wrong I aaid is from me an shaydhaan Wa salaam

Shyness is in our Fitrah , women and men

Why bother watching if you want to be critical. Go elsewhere

“Shyness” doesn’t mean not speaking up when things are going wrong. I think you understand the Ustadh incorrectly sis.

@@SA-dl6su maybe you dont know what shyness means ... (nervous or timid in the company of other people). People who are like this won't speak up for there self

@@TheRealMysha that’s the western definition of “Shyness”. Maybe you should look into what “Hayaa” means in Arabic, which is loosely translated as “Shyness” in English but it’s more than that. I.e. staying away from non-mahram men, not talking to them, keeping yourself covered etc this is all aspects of Hayaa, which the word “Shyness” doesn’t cover. It doesn’t mean when you are abused not speaking up for yourself, when you see someone backbiting - you should be defending that person etc It’s hard to explain as this is such a broad topic but I hope I made a little bit of sense and ﷲ knows best.