The thing about India that other countries and even Indians themselves get wrong is thinking there's uniformity in the culture. Meaning, it's the same experience in Mumbai as in a U.P village. It's like two different worlds. In metro cities specially Mumbai, the culture is a looot more open and accepting.
The characteristics of Indonesian women and American women are very similar, namely being noisy,I am Indonesia, Love you violin and Briit ...! Peace girls😅😅😅
i wouldn't say i was raised that way, but, that is what i believe. A smile or a nod is away to say "hello" and acknowledging the other person. we all need that in some form.
Violin is a good representation of the curiosity of most Indonesian. I think most of Indonesian would do the same, ignore privacy for the sake of curiosity.
India is a diverse there are many languages and different cities . Every place is different even in my place we make eye contact with others and smile not with everyone but yes
Most Indonesian especially Javanese indeed do not outspoken. Vio, as Hokkien Indonesian probably has the same character. However, some ethnics in Indonesian do out spoken more freely such as Batak people. in fact, I wonder whether their ability to voice their mind made a lot of them became lawyer. In Indonesian Constitution, the freedom of speech was not proposed by Javanese but by a person from Minang ethnic who studied in Europe. That's why Vio was correct when stated that she couldn't really represent Indonesia, neither any Javanese could represent Indonesia because Indonesia was so diverse. Bali, for example is more open to exposed clothes not because it is "touristy" but because their culture don't judge people from their clothes. In fact, when I lived in Bali, I saw exposed breast from local Balinese several times. Despite of that openness, Balinese still have standard for their sacred place. Thus, do not take nude pictures in temples or any sacred places.
We'll theres common behavior for a mother to exposed breast in the middle of conversation like when the moms was gossiping in the Bale ( pavilion ) to breast feeding their baby and was common in my hometown in West Java but since 2012 is more and more rare to see. They are Muslim but that culture was acceptable until well the new wave of Islamic view came.
@@LonerJoker-il7ch True. East Javanese are more outspoken than Central Java. Even in Central Java, the north coastal are more outspoken than Matraman. So there are degree of shyness/outspokenness among Javanese.
Just like Vio said, Indonesia is very big and has so many people. Every region has different culture, different habbit. Actually, in my region, when we walk passed each other or even stranger and we make eye contact, we usually smile and nod. And say excuse me when we walk passed elderly. And sometimes you can be friend with totally random people in a street food stand. You just talk to them like you talk to your friends
@@tomevers6670 i have no idea why you asked that to me, and reply my comment. But, I'll answer you. I guess they're student or something in Korea. Maybe she cant find a word in English so she speaks Korean, bcs they'll understand. But, if she speaks in Vietnamese, others will not understand what she explain about
Everyone is so clear, polite, and well-spoken 😭 Like they're discussing important things and bringing up great points and doing so without concern yet still mindful. Beautiful interviews thanks everyone 🥺
Come on, guys, these stereotypes are so safe 😂 I don’t think there’s anything wrong with them, even the big portion. I’d like to have 40 nuggets in one sitting! 🤤
The "open-mindedness" of the US does automatically mean "liberalness". There are plenty of conservatives in US too. The "openness" means that you are free to be as liberal _or_ as conservative as you want. The only rule is that you play nice with your neighbors, whether they are like you or not. You are an "Anerican" first and foremost, before you are a particular race, religion, or political view. We are all Americans, whether we love or hate each other. One big, messy family, lol.
India is huge and diverse. My experience is completely different from the Indian girl in this video. I especially got shocked when she said even married couples dont hold hands in India. I see them, married or unmarried couple, holding hands, hugging and kissing everywhere in India. Dint know which part of India was she talking about. But comoletely possible.
She is not wrong though... Our older generation were never that touchy in public...In north many couples really don't hold hands in public because their family is conservative...I observed South Indians are mostly conservative culturally
I do not think she is the one who can speak about India. India is diverse and are open minded.. but not vulger . Every country has their positives and negatives. We cannot put them in one box. She being Indian does not know India...
I think she is talking about south only , I am Bengali and Bengalis are open minded since Bengal was born. And I guess whole country know about this , from sati dah pratha to vidva vivah pratha to bal vivah pratha to caste culture we questioned every time every step without hesitation, and also challenged the normal society concepts like women empowerment to women education and personal hygiene Being open minded and being vulgar was always different thing , As we can say namaskar to a person whom we respect or don't know but can't always namaskar if he or she is my friend so it's depends. But If you are talking about India don't talk only about your state it's diverse and every corner of India is different.
Again, because Indonesia is way too diverse, for some points I don't agree with Violin, she's being North Sumateran of Chinese descent. And I am Jogjakartan of Javanese descent. For example, in Javanese culture walking pass stranger, we are expected to make eye contact, give simple smile, nod our head, or/and say "excuse me". Or else, we will be considered rude and mannerless, esp when walking pass elderly.
Yeah I see a lot of people do that in Jogja and Solo and I really love their politeness. I'm from Jakarta and we don't usually make eye contact and/or smile when passing each other but I think a little nod or a bow is expected everywhere in Indonesia.
that's why she said that she's not representing everybody in Indonesia as we have almost 300 million civiliants, she only stating what she saw as she grow up in North Sumatra.
Not every American who visits your countries are rich. Some of us just saved enough money to be able to go to your country and tipping is the norm here in our homeland. This stereotype of americans being rich needs to really change in some people.
It's also because the different of value of the currency. Like 1 dollar in US is nothing, but in southeast asia it can be a whole meal. So when American give a tips like 10 dollar it's like nothing, we think in our currency it is a lot.
It’s also just cause if you visit a third world or developing country, like Philippines, there is a stark difference in what “poor” in America is seen as and what “poor” looks like over there. Overall, a poor or low income person in America is like 10x better off than someone who is poor in PH. Some people have families of up to 10 people living in the same house, you and your neighbors have to share water, etc. So, there is some sort of truth in what some people say about us.
Yeah holding hands are normal for friends to hug idk I guess we are huge in number so it's not for her even in village hugging friend of same gender is common
Can u read other country people's comments even they are wrong their country people trust and make things easier and give support to them except Indian people always taking shitty scenes to destroy some one
@@sujeethakandhukuri7941 Then she should have mentioned that she is not talking about all of India. I have been in India my whole life and in this 2 decades I have never seen what she is saying! And I have been to most parts of India (thanks to my dad's job). I don't know where she grew up, but her ideas are like those shown in Western media without actual knowledge of her own country.
@@alesonu i have a friend she is from Delhi she uses elevator more than lift and she uses to tell I hate eggplants and her father is an army officer so she travels more and she says truck will come to load yaaa like that should go and tell that get out of my India no na bruh y silly sambar Vada you preffering it's Anusha choice what she use and talks don't worry lot of Indian people will come they will tell the answer u like or hear ok but don't make silly comments it can spoil their day that's what I'm trying to do. And I learnt that (supporting) is not our country's cup of tea
Looks like they mix open-minded with directness and honesty at 8:10. Most when they act nice to you, doesn't mean it's real. Compare it with the Dutch culture. Open-minded too, but with more direct and honest. I personally like that, especially if you want feedback.
I think what they said is correct. Being direct and open minded is very related. The reason why most Asians aren't really direct is because their society isn't so open-minded so you have to hold back to voice your opinion and most of the time you just keep it to yourself, especially on something that's sensitive like religion, culture, and sexuality. Also sometimes being too direct might be considered as being rude, which is another reason that Asia isn't so open-minded.
In which jamaana u r living in India I met lot of people who smiles at people and be a friendly persons... It's common that suddenly we see someone we eye contacted them we will smile lightly if u show a angry or bare face they will think u r attitude ones it's so common in India I sawww many people in North like that
Because you guys are so shy when we're so open. Even the thai girl said. If you stare too long it's like someone has a problem with you or they trying to flirt( automatically a negative mindset)which isn't the case at all for most Americans. We just like to say hi smile and strike up conversations.
Your title was, "why Asian people are so afraid of Americans", and I didn't see one single thing about this in the video. It was a very enjoyable video, and I loved the discussion. But, I HATE click bait, so automatic thumbs down. You obviously do a great job with the videos, but title it correctly next time.
As a multi-racial country, when USA strangers meet, the first thing we want to do is let the others know that I intend respect and friendliness. In single culture countries, everyone knows and lives by the same unspoken rules.
All the Indians who are commenting think before commenting she is not from your hometown . Be proud she is living in Korea she is achieving her dreams . She is not there to represent you guys she is there for herself . Why you guys are so jealous of her 😂
How is being in Korea an achievement? If it was the US, I can understand. There's nothing special with Korea and Koreans. Koreans are just racists who thinks others are lesser than them.
The reason we Americans smile at strangers originated with the origins of our country. This is a nation of immigrants, where many languages are spoken. Smiling is a quick, non-verbal way to signal that your intentions are not hostile.
So much varies from one place in America to another. In Southern California where only a third of the population is of white European descent and so many groups bring their culture with them is totally different than areas without diversity. But even some of the most close-minded Americans are probably more openminded than those in Asian countries.
Honestly, I think a lot of Americans forget about the freedom of speech that we possess. I think right now the country is so split apart, but I feel if more Americans could watch this type of discussion, I think that we could appreciate the liberties that we have. 😅
I am Indian and I also found Indian girls answer shocking about open minded questions. Indian people talk about all things what's happening in country,their opinion, whether they like something or don't. What they want to do in life everything. Comparing to foreign countries India is very diverse country and people have friendly nature and mutual respect towards each others, culture, tradition etc.
@@stephanatlas5331It's not false either.... Our older generation mostly never holded hands even when they got married.... Mostly conservative families are not really touchy in public
I am Indian and I don't agree with Indian girls answer about open minded questions. Indian people talk about all things what's happening in country,their opinion, whether they like something or don't. What they want to do in life, profession,marriage , relationship everything. If someone do something wrong people point out. Comparing to foreign countries India is very diverse country and people have friendly nature and mutual respect towards each others, religion , language,culture, tradition etc. Nowadays people are getting to know more about LGBT community. I don't why she just give one line answer that indians are not open minded.
The Indian girl is just spreading stereotypes it’s like she’s never been to India almost 90% of things she said is not even nearly true literally I laughed so hard when she said couples don’t hold hands in public😂 it’s like are u kidding me or have u never been to India?
Just because America does something does not mean your country needs to be the same. Embrace your cultures! America doesn't know how to do everything best.
We Indians are more like Americans, but we are a linear combination of all countries. I found an American at the Zurich airport she was really friendly. I was going to prague. I found out Europeans keep to themselves comparatively. Again, I am talking generally. I have met some cool Czechs also, they were also very friendly.
We do have freedom of expression constitutionally but when it comes to public display of sexual acts, social norms take the lead. I still remember the old lady in Delhi Metro bashing a girl for kissing in Public. I feel the lady was right
European countries even individually are diverse in social behaviour. In the UK for example, in rural areas it is basically mandatory to greet others you pass when walking. But in big cities strangers never speak and they even avoid eye contact.
@@dfpguitar True, I agree.My personal experience tells me that if a country speaks romance language it is more likely to be friendly, again it's just a theory.
@@ShivanshuTyagi72981 As a Delhite, I find it hilarious that they are still people who think showing affection to your partner is wrong and taboo but getting into fights, shouting matches and road rage is totally acceptable behavior. 😂😂 It's not all people in metros who think like this just stupid oldies (and other prudes) trying to hold on to their prudence.
Take note that what violin says that she's not representing the whole indonesia is very true Indonesia have 1400+ ethnicities and around 400+ languages that stored in 38 provinces. Means in average, every province could be home to 39 ethnicites Each ethnicities in indonesia have their own personality and character. Take north sumatra province for example. This is where i live Here, the biggest ethnicities are the Batak people that consists of 5 sub ethnic (cmiiw) Each batak sub ethnic have their own language and characteristic. Such as tobanese that have strong personality, speak as if they are angry and talk very very loud. Then there is simalungunese that the oposite of tobanese, they have shy personality, calm, and their intonation sounds friendly. Then there is also karonese which have characteristic described as the mix between tobanese and simalungunese So, calling one indonesian as the representation of the whole indonesian is not true
@@Zhizhuzye sorry I watched it in the middle of the night. he said “one shift” but 40 nuggets in one shift is still a lot. I've only eaten 6 and I'm already full 😭
@@Zhizhuzye in my country people eat normal portions. No wonder the United States is one of the countries with the highest obesity rates. and recently it went viral because there were immigrants who complained that the food portions here were small
@@haruto352 I, myself, don't see nuggets as a fulfilling food, however big the portion is, but yes, 40 is definitely too much! 😂 I think many American foods are more like snacks if they're in small portions, so that's why they need to make it bigger/larger. I've dreamed of eating a lot like Americans, but honestly, I can't finish a whole 'normal size' burger like them.
Vio maybe not come from region where Sunda & Java (especially the central part and Jogja) are the major community , because when we meet stranger we intend to look at them in the eye and smile like the american girl, also nod our head to them especially when they are older. Even back then when we walk and meet a person or bunch of people we will say "kulonuwon" (Javannese) and they will answer "Nggih monggo". And if we walk very close to where they are sit or squad (nongrong) it's more complicated, because we must lower our body and give a hand gesture, put 1 hand in front, while say "Kulonuwun".
NE is mean with their words but sometimes nice with actions at the same time. Like, they'll insult you for not knowing how to change your own tire while they're changing it for you. lol
Well all their opinions are spot on mostly. But one thing I want them to know is that there’s a large portion of us who aren’t open minded. Like I’m part of a larger culture of Christian’s that don’t tolerate a lot of things. What they see is only surface level they don’t know the abuse that the government and most other Americans put Christians thru on a daily basis. See you’ll never hear a good majority of us say what we’re really thinking because we’re afraid that the government will infringe upon us and put us in jail over nothing. See one thing I will open your eyes to is that America has been invaded by not only illegal criminals but also we’re being invaded by lgbt terrorists who are after children. So yeah there’s that as well
Imagine being such a dork that you spend a big portion of your time worrying about the fact that LGBT people exist. You must have a sad, boring life if this is one of your big concerns. The fact that LGBT people exist legitimately has no impact on your life. Maybe focus on yourself and prioritize bettering yourself. I guarantee doing that will have a bigger positive impact then being scared about LGBT all the time.
We a luk den ɡjal pikin ja, a de ajdenʃon wit den ol bikos den na motalman, den de toleret n den de kosmopolit n den sabi aw fo liv wit difrens insaj n ausajd den kontri. ❤❤❤❤❤❤🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌹🌹🌹🌹🍾🎶🎶🥂😊👍💋👍😇
an airline lost my luggage on a trip to Tokyo so I had to try to find clothing, which as a big guy, was next to impossible. I bought the only 3xl dress shirt I could find and when I put it on, I looked like a fat Hulk bursting out of a shirt. LOL. Fortunately a friend on a base got some things from the NEX for me.
I'm American, and one thing I don't like about us is how freely we insult each other. Like that American girl calling someone Karen. This is a derogatory term for someone who disagrees with your view point, and it's an ugly attitude. Besides, my Aunt Keran is a sweet person.
Great video!!! I wish they went deeper into the "love who you want" part so I could hear everyone's perspectives on LGBT people in their countries though
I identify with each girl in the video, we are not our country, whether within it or abroad, we are our cultures and personal preferences in our nation and abroad. 🌷🌹🍾🎶🥂😊👍👍❤️🌎🌍🏖️🏖️🏖️🏖️🏖️🏖️🏖️🏖️🏖️🏖️🏖️
