@Love and Light So true! If this man had been around in the 80s, 90s, and noughties, the generation born in the 60s, 70s and 80s would have fared far much better in love and marriage. Anyone who has children aged 16 years up, if you love your children, get them to listen to Benjamin Zulu, on whatever platform he's on!
Waaaaah...this is veeeerry true.... If u start paying bills for a man at the beginning of a relationship you will keep paying for the rest of the relationship
Generally we have people who don't mind being leeches and ticks; always receiving, never giving. Only their needs matter. In genuine relationships of any kind there is reprocity. People also build each other regardless of who provides until later when they are stable. What we need in life is wisdom to see and FLEE from what is not good for us from the beginning. Our gur feeling is always right ✅
I was conned once. I was the giver in the relationship. I slapped myself that I will never support any man ever in my life unless am married.. I stopped building men for other women. I thank God am no longer needy of love since I learnt and I am still loving myself and daughter. As I build my career and myself as Benjamin says. Though am above 25
Even in marriage, watch out for those men you work soo hard to build, you might be building him for another woman. Build him as he builds you, if not, run gal run!
After trying to save people, I am now looking at reprocity in relationships. People that give back, love you back, care about you back, add value to your life and so on. If you are the only one giving, if it is only their problems that matter, only their events that matter, run and don't look back. Relationships of any kind should be two way and God had already set the standards. We are expected to pray, fellowhsip, give thanks when he does good things for us etc. Tujipende 2021.
Mwikali style is always breathtaking 😍 pleasing to the eye and stunning 😍... I really love 💘 it . Benjamin and his wisdom once more🙌 I don't even want to miss any of his episodes .thumbs up ✅✅
I suspected my husband always texting a lady on his phone , We’ve been married for 18 years, we’ve both been happy together until recently when he switched side and I found out he has been cheating .I explained my story to a colleague at work then she introduced me to this genuine hacker, Darkwebprohacker who gave me access to his phone , I had complete access to his phone right on my own device and I could see all his activities for the past 2years and also have access to new notifications, his text messages, Facebook messages,location, call logs, and I found out my husband was also flirting on dating sites..I love my husband a lot and I still don’t understand why he betrayed me, I have been a good hardworking wife and never for once cheated on him. I tracked him down and found out he was always going to sleep in another woman’s house with me thinking my husband is always at work for night shift. You can contact this great hacker who helped me found out the truth about my husband at darkwebprohack(at)gmail com or Whatsapp +1(661) 485-5860 or text and call them directly on the same number.They helped me get access into his phone without even touching his phone.I have enough evidence against my husband and I am thinking of Filing for divorce.I want advice if I should give him another chance or let go ?We have 2 kids together it's a painful feeling but I believe things happen in life it comes as it goes, as it says what doesn't kills makes you stronger.
I was a pre25 that got myself in a hot mess of a relationship...long story short 6 years into the relationship I ended up leaving and never looking back...I usually listen to Zulu talk and it's like he's talking about me... I'm really thankful for the advice given cause it challenges me to grow and develop myself in all aspects of my life.
I have finally gathered the courage to admit I was a fool,ignoring the first red flags/s. i was conned emotions,time, a car&lots of money. I cried a river and my heart broke a million pieces. Hard lesson learnt. I'm hard& call out BS. Give and not only receive but ask for it. If not reciprocated, take a hike. Most of the time you ask a man for money, for something, he will give it or move mountains to get it for you. Don't be afraid to ask. Well I don't mind being called a gold digger or lover of money. Broke men are a pain.
Very true Zulu my siz started paying fees from day 1 and now paying til university the guy is enjoying himself with his salary. You can never change a person
i have never fallen for this dudes who want us to invest together while dating, i however get scammed alot emotionally falling for fakes who think of what they can get from me and are half invested. am always the giver in most cases and never being reciprocated. Zulu has been such an eye opener, not settling for less ever again
I suspected my husband always texting a lady on his phone , We’ve been married for 18 years, we’ve both been happy together until recently when he switched side and I found out he has been cheating .I explained my story to a colleague at work then she introduced me to this genuine hacker, Darkwebprohacker who gave me access to his phone , I had complete access to his phone right on my own device and I could see all his activities for the past 2years and also have access to new notifications, his text messages, Facebook messages,location, call logs, and I found out my husband was also flirting on dating sites..I love my husband a lot and I still don’t understand why he betrayed me, I have been a good hardworking wife and never for once cheated on him. I tracked him down and found out he was always going to sleep in another woman’s house with me thinking my husband is always at work for night shift. You can contact this great hacker who helped me found out the truth about my husband at darkwebprohack(at)gmail com or Whatsapp +1(661) 485-5860 or text and call them directly on the same number.They helped me get access into his phone without even touching his phone.I have enough evidence against my husband and I am thinking of Filing for divorce.I want advice if I should give him another chance or let go ?We have 2 kids together it's a painful feeling but I believe things happen in life it comes as it goes, as it says what doesn't kills makes you stronger.
I'm out of the country for school, I was in a long-distance relationship, being that I could work and was in a better place than my boyfriend, I would send money because before I went abroad, he had shown that he was ready to provide whenever he could. Long story short, I learned the hard way. A guy being comfortable asking for money is questionable. And, dating again under 25 is a NO.
it shocks me that my boyfriend says its okay for him to ask me for money....he said there is no problem with it and thus he asks me for money most times
Redcross with additional benefits😂😂...Zulu you are sooo hilarious. Can listen to you all day....Mwikali fuelling him but plz dont give him a heart attack....nice combination👍
I suspected my husband always texting a lady on his phone , We’ve been married for 18 years, we’ve both been happy together until recently when he switched side and I found out he has been cheating .I explained my story to a colleague at work then she introduced me to this genuine hacker, Darkwebprohacker who gave me access to his phone , I had complete access to his phone right on my own device and I could see all his activities for the past 2years and also have access to new notifications, his text messages, Facebook messages,location, call logs, and I found out my husband was also flirting on dating sites..I love my husband a lot and I still don’t understand why he betrayed me, I have been a good hardworking wife and never for once cheated on him. I tracked him down and found out he was always going to sleep in another woman’s house with me thinking my husband is always at work for night shift. You can contact this great hacker who helped me found out the truth about my husband at darkwebprohack(at)gmail com or Whatsapp +1(661) 485-5860 or text and call them directly on the same number.They helped me get access into his phone without even touching his phone.I have enough evidence against my husband and I am thinking of Filing for divorce.I want advice if I should give him another chance or let go ?We have 2 kids together it's a painful feeling but I believe things happen in life it comes as it goes, as it says what doesn't kills makes you stronger.
Now or never...i love that strong word.my husband told me , i am not surposed to know him better,,i was like,its either i know you or end this crap. Am very strong with my NO
Zulu my Aunt dated a broke man for 3 yrs. My Aunt paid for his education , supported him in every way. As family members we hated this man so much. 4th yr of their relationship they got married. This man today is millionaire successful business man who treats the wife like an angel, he loves the wife and he educated all the sisters of the wife. married for 10 years now. sometimes don't judge a man in their poverty situation.
But maybe he was also a man with a concrete plan and he had a good "pattern" as Zulu said....good testimony for your sister though...Those kind of men are definitely rare....
I like the part where Zulu says😂😂am not a miracle worker This other point caught my attention Don't date perhaps.dont date the potential...date what you are seeing noww🥳🥳🥳
I am a victim of getting scammed by a lover.Its the most painful thing.i sunk into depression..therefore of my left side was paining. Gosh. The guy scammed me money and was even slowly scamming my business. Yes peaple are evil.alwats have your guard up..
Psychologists are great.yes ,I know because I’m one.But I stayed in a wrong relationship for four years cuz I wanted to please my family and friends.I was dying softly.Knowing my worth,I told myself that I can’t die cuz I wanna please those around me and I immediately put and end to the toxic relationship.Now I’m healing.yes self love ❤️ is not selfish!🙏🏻
How do you expect that, leave alone the house having your, even a bike will have my name as the husband, you want us to put the name on our own assets then the following day you go to court wanting your share of the properties
Ooooh where were you in my foolishness years, I wasted 11years, ☹☹😥 I'm trying to reform this singleness life, turned to Dubai I love your wisdom walai 🤛💥💥💥
Heyyy, Zulus wisdom 👌 this is More🔥🔥, weee nilipenda my man with one heart, I stood with him in everything during the pandemic season only to realize he was cheating on me, like he loved me because of money, I sacrificed alot to make him happy but he broke my heart in return,, may God forgive him
I suspected my husband always texting a lady on his phone , We’ve been married for 18 years, we’ve both been happy together until recently when he switched side and I found out he has been cheating .I explained my story to a colleague at work then she introduced me to this genuine hacker, Darkwebprohacker who gave me access to his phone , I had complete access to his phone right on my own device and I could see all his activities for the past 2years and also have access to new notifications, his text messages, Facebook messages,location, call logs, and I found out my husband was also flirting on dating sites..I love my husband a lot and I still don’t understand why he betrayed me, I have been a good hardworking wife and never for once cheated on him. I tracked him down and found out he was always going to sleep in another woman’s house with me thinking my husband is always at work for night shift. You can contact this great hacker who helped me found out the truth about my husband at darkwebprohack(at)gmail com or Whatsapp +1(661) 485-5860 or text and call them directly on the same number.They helped me get access into his phone without even touching his phone.I have enough evidence against my husband and I am thinking of Filing for divorce.I want advice if I should give him another chance or let go ?We have 2 kids together it's a painful feeling but I believe things happen in life it comes as it goes, as it says what doesn't kills makes you stronger.
Always learning more about relationship, I've been into toxic one buy thanx to Zulu he's an eye open coz I can never go back there.. doin good now than b4
There is this man we met several months ago, yani Mwanaume anakubeg for money hadi unajichukia😅😅shida hajui nakuanga classes za Zulu 😜😜😜 he speaks the real life
Ile wizi iko in love game is so high, most of the time the road seems dimmed but again unless you're so blinded to see there is always 'red alerts' and not all are coincidence.
