Just like Netflix, we are bombarded with a lot of options out there. But just like Netflix, there are like 5 good shows you actually wanna watch. It's just an illusion of choice, but really, there's not much out there to have feelings for.
Hahahaha 100% of women want 20% of guys ..... So yall limited the fish in the sea but us guys know once we in 20% we don't need to settle cause of the options we get. All our work is to become that 20%
Definitely Bokang, we take things for granted because we have options, if it doesn't work we are on some "thank you next"..... We don't put it the work.
You ladies really look very amaizing and that a challenge because when I look at myself then look at any of your,I tend to have this feeling that am not your class which may not be true though.You ladies look like Arapapa models,very well accomplished successful celebrities and as a man, there is a kind of fear or intimidation that comes whenever I see any of you sweet ladies.
So many of my faves in this panel! This is such a loaded conversation and I enjoyed everyone's perspective on each question. Amazing amazing amazing as per usual 🤍
This video is pure gold!! 🔥🔥 There is a lot of learning and UNLEARNING that needs to take place in our generation; more so when it comes to romantic relationships. I'd also say that AGREEMENT between the two of you is integral. Without agreement, especially over fundamentals, values, principles and vision it will inevitably end in (premium gucci) tears. The Bible that I read tells me that "two cannot walk together unless they agree." So whomst are we trying to do that in this day and age, in modern dating, if we cannot agree about where we are going, or what we are doing, or what we are trying to achieve?? The questions that the ladies posed when dating are really good. I've said to my peers that you should ask everything that you can as soon as you can when trying to determine what your standing is with another person. "Your decision will only be as good as the information that you have at your disposal." So ASK, sis. ASK! Find out what you need to find out in order to make the best decision. As for roles in relationship...That is an entire conversation that I'd be super keen to be a part of! My thoughts on it are based on Biblical and/or Christian values and purview. Just a heads up on that (lol), in case I step on toes or knock on people's doors. This video was so captivating and insightful. Thank you so much, ladies! I am looking forward to Part 2 😁
Seems like the disconnect is rooted in a self-centered need to be loved rather than to love others. Love is not something you receive as much as it is something you give. Being in a relationship has shown me my past mistakes were that I was conditioned to believe that I needed to receive something from someone else yet not understanding that that person also required something from me: love. Our generation does not understand that love and relationships only function when both parties' needs are met and nkt just one. I'll honestly, seems like most people focus on what they can receive or what they like more than the character of the person they're dating. The disconnect starts with not seeing your partner as a person and only seeing them as 'a means to an end'. Dating needs to change. More empathy, compassion, communication, and understanding because love isn't enough. Love is a feeling, and like all feelings, it fades over time. Focus on building a strong foundation centered around trust, respect, appreciation, and friendship because I've seen that most married couples are with their friends over their lovers. And those with their lovers tend to wither and fade into toxicity or divorce
This was really entertaining and insightful. Thank you ladies. We are also learning from you guys and what your perspective is. Bokang, great job on the channel Queen 👏🏼
With the current filters,camera quality,editing skills it should also be noted that chatting with some one online with out physically meeting them first can be nerve racking if you finally meet in person.What you see online can be different from the physical person before you.
I loved this video so much. I’m still young and I feel like people my age don’t have the same mindset as me. I really connected with you guys. Can’t wait for part 2!
Sorry to invade the space,it's interesting hearing SA women speak about their dating experience it's so mind boggling hearing how some of y'all dating so much of a mission to think I was such a serial dater
@@TheBWord you create your own luck and it's starts by putting yourself out there ,also mind I ask why is it hard for women to make the first move? ,your more likely to get what you want as opposed to waiting for what you want feel free to make it content 😁
Just want to say something here.Points I would like to hear in the next one.Distance,for example we date online but your in Johannesburg and am in the middle east.how is it going to work?,Second point.Financial stand,on either side,how far are you willing to put in and the partner you have chosen what's his financial stand are you okay with it,Third point,Physical appearance,tall,short,black,white,glasses,slim,fat,chubby,mascular,guy with plainted hair like dread locks,beards,gym freak,social media freak,party animal,casual,dad bod,smoker,piercings,tatooes,drinks alcohol, point is would you be proud to present this person to the world that he is your partner.Forth point Religious affiliation,fifth point medical back ground,Sixth point,intentions for the relationship.
Modern women looking for traditional men, while traditional men don't want modern women..... Hahahaha it's so funny, yall did this to yourself ladies. Goodluck
This was absolutely spot on I can't say this enough I am grateful for such a channel like this like it's all giving big sister vibes advice and it is a safe space thank you Bokang 🤍🥺💕
