First time dad here and i was watching videos like this when my son was 12-17 months old! he was a very picky eater, anything new that he would "try" he would spit it right out! i was very worried and over thinking things ! im here to tell you not to worry and as long as he is eating something even if its the same thing over and over again and its still gaining weight theyll be fine. my son as soon as he turned 18 months old he turn into a vacuum, he is 26 months olds and eats and eats none stop! he even eats my food. hope this can give you some type of comfort, everything will be fine!
That’s great to hear, our two year old is still picky…which is fine. I just wish his father wouldn’t yell at him about eating it doesn’t help if anything does the opposite. He eats just fine with me I let him do it himself until he needs assistance. I try to feed him snacks throughout the day, he likes chips and candy way too much so I give him grapes or seaweed which he loves and will eat the whole packet of. Hopefully we can work together better soon ❤ (he got introduced to candy by other family members at a young age, we were actually going to wait until he’s older to give him that, but what are in laws for)
@@MeowMeow-909 with my son my wife and i offered him the food sometimes he would try it him self sometimes we would put it in his mouth because so that he could at least taste it and he would find out that he actually liked it. yelling doesnt help at all since they are still babys and learning. wish you best of luck, youre doing amazing !
@@MrLunatico13 Thank you, yes I agree yelling or pressuring is not the way, I appreciate your help. Wish you and your family the best. We are trying. 😊✨
Thank you so much. I’m a first time mom and my baby just turned one. She’s so picky when it comes to food. I’m so stressed out as I take care of my baby all by my self. These Words really helped me. Thank you so much God bless you ♥️🙏
Actually the last point is very true and I've personally experienced this.. My husband likes and eats only some specific dishes.. He doesn't like to explore or adjust with the new taste or infact new veggies if offered to him on a plate.. This made me really upset during the first year of my marriage.. When I talked to my mom in law about this, she told me that she used to make only those dishes which he liked and would eat happily.. even if something else is made at home, she would definitely make one dish out of his favourites so that he can eat without fuss.. This practice of her has made him a picky eater and now he's trying hard to adjust..
Totally experienced this with my nieces and nephews.... they're 15, 13, and 9 now and my mother in law STILL has to make boiled hot dogs and buttered noodles for every holiday meal because they won't eat. It's really ridiculous. We will be working hard so our little guy isn't like that! Edit: We aren't eating anything a kid wouldn't "normally" like either. Like 4th of July instead of hamburgers they all demanded buttered noodles. 😐
Another great video Emma. I’ve definitely stopped exposing new food with my little one and I’ve stuck with food I know they like. This video has motivated me to keep presenting new foods!! Thanks Emma 🤗
Can you please make a video on brushing teeth and dental hygiene. My 18 month old hates brushing and does not even allow me to do so. Thanks for all other videos.
Maybe it's just my toddler, but I've actually found the opposite effect for some of these don'ts. Yesterday she had a meltdown because she didn't want to eat her lentils. Today, I mixed them in with her rice and some cream cheese, not to hide the lentils as much as to make the texture more palatable for her and to make it more similar to a lentil barley mock risotto that I know she likes. It didn't quite work, although she didn't have a meltdown. But then when I started eating my cucumbers, she wanted some and I asked her to eat some rice. Then she said, "then cucumbers" and i said Ok. We finished rhe cucumbers and she still had some rice so I cut up some cherry tomatoes and said "let's try it some rice with tomatoes- is it yummy?" She said yes and then continued to eat her tomatoes and lentil/rice/cream cheese together without issue. So...? Maybe it's in the approach? Or maybe my kid is just more flexible
My parents used pressure to try to get me to eat when I was young. Not only did it not work, I developed food aversion, became underweight, and it took me years to become comfortable trying new or disliked foods. I still struggle with certain foods today.
Thanks for watching! Which mistake have you found yourself falling into? I frequently need to remind myself that my kids know when they are full not me!
@@lilangelanie You are not alone! I think every parent would say they have made this mistake (particularly when the mealtime is not going as planned and the little one hasn't eaten much)
I'm guilty of mixing foods. My 7 month old didn't like meat puree, so I mixed it with carrots. I'll definitely separate the foods now. Thank you, Emma!
Hi Emma, My baby is just 8months old and she has already started to reject any of the food that she used to have. She is not even opening her mouth even for a single bite. All that she is accepting is my milk. Could you please give me any suggestions here?
I am about to be a new mom and looking up information for early stages. not only is this video so informational, but REALLY helped me understand some of my personal food habits based on how my parents handled my eating. they pretty much did all of these bad habits
I’ve made most of these mistakes and now paying heavily for them. My child is so stressed when he sees his plate in my hand. Trying to undo all the wrongs but its very hard. He is my first n only child, m living away from my family I freaked when his appetite suddenly dropped. Force fed him, gave him only those things that he liked. Now trying my best to reverse it.
It will take a little time. But just keep presenting the food and let him explore the food without feeling the pressure to eat it. He should gradually start to increase what he is eating
Thanks for the great video Emma! Love your point on allowing our little ones to tell us when they are full…so different to when we were growing up which was to get dessert when we out the whole plate! Thanks so much for sharing!
Hi Emma, I am a new mom and the first thing I do when I come across some trouble with my baby is your channel. Thanks for this video and all other developmental milestones videos. They are a huge relief. As I was checking, I could not find a video on helping a baby poop, the current problem I am facing. Could you please make a video on this? TIA.
Thanks for the tips! I am guilty of hiding veg in foods like in a homemade sauce and my toddler loves to eat it but if I offer these vegetables as they are he often won’t eat them. I don’t ever force it and keep putting them on plate. Hopefully will work one day 😃 Sounds like I also might be giving him too much milk late on in the day…
Hi @Gracey Blossom | UK Mum Life thanks so much for sharing! I just wanted to clarify hiding food in other food. If your little one likes the homemade sauce and it has always included the vegetables then that is fine. This is because you have not changed original recipe of the homemade sauce. But if you suddenly changed the homemade sauce recipe to include vegetables (when it didn't before) then you run the risk of your little one refusing to eat it when he notices the difference. Does that make sense?
Thank you for the video! Can you please give some advice related to pacifiers? Until when is it safe to use, and what kind of pacifiers are better to use? Also, when and how to get rid of them?
Mine is 9 months. I'm having mental and emotional breakdown. He has lost so much weight. I don't know what to do. I'm just so miserable. He wants only breast milk, and my supply is depleted. I go to work, he nursery. I'm so exhausted. My little boy is now a shadow of his chubby self. I am so tempted to quit my job
If you're in the U.S., you could try joining a Human Milk for Human Babies group near you on Facebook. Some moms have an oversupply or pump more than they need and are willing to give it away, if you are comfortable with that. It might tide your little one over until he is more comfortable with table food.
Hi Emma, thanks for these. Could you make a similar video but for fussy baby eaters, before they are toddlers. Mine is 9 months old and still refuses most solids or the bottle (including breast milk/formula in the bottle)
Hi @Nozipho Nikuna thanks for the suggestion! I find at 9 month bubs often want to feed themselves. So if you haven't ready it might be worth trying safe finger food. Also it might be worth thinking of the time that you are offering your little one solids. If it is after a breastfeed then it is likely your little one would not be hungry. You could try having solids before the breast feed and see if that has any impact.
Ahh this is sooo good! Thank you so much for your videos, you have clarified some things for me and i can see now where i need to make some changes and why... 🙏 thank you so much I’m actually looking forward to seeing how things change up in time... I’m very grateful 😊
My daughter is 14 months old and completely refuse to eat her food but only wants what's in our plates. She has no problem eating when she is at daycare. Any advise ? Should we just let her eat our food? I'm afraid of the salt and other stuff that we are not supposed to give babies
What do you when your toddler only eat a little bit (just the safe food), screamed to be let out of the chair and come crying of hunger 15 mins later 😢. But also won’t go back to sitting at the dining table. It happens everyday day… I feel so defeated, I tried everything, reducing milk, NO snack, eating with her, eating same food.
Hi Emma, thank you so much for this video. My son is 3 years old and he doesn't like to eat anything than Indian bread. NO fruits, no veggies, no lentils nothing. I have tried several times but failed when I present new food. Is it too late now for him to accept new food and make new eating habits?!
Hi Emma, my 1yo has had a tough few weeks. first she had a stomach bug, then covid, and then again a stomach bug. Now she doesn't want to eat anymore. She's back to mainly breastfeeding. She drinks a bit of water sometimes or a piece of a dry baby snack. She wasn't a fussy eater before. Now she even refuses sweet purees. I'm afraid she forgot how to eat a proper meal. Should I expect for her appetite to reappear slowly? She's totally fine otherwise..talking, trying to walk. We were at the pediatrician every time she was ill so her health is well monitored.
I have been through the same situation with my little girl.. when she's Teething she just stops eating solids all of a sudden, no matter what I give her & is only happy Breastfeeding. She is a happy baby otherwise hitting all her milestones but I was a bit worried with her not eating anything else other than breastmilk but after a week or so she's back to eating her solids again. I think they go through this phase sometimes when they are unwell, Teething or other reasons.
So watching a few of your videos and the ideas are helpful, but what would you suggest if we present food we are eating and they don’t like it and dont eat it . Should we then not offer other food that they eat so they eat something or even put it on the plate at the same time . Thanks
I have always loved your content! My 19 month old has a very broad food preference. He loves fresh fruits, vegetables and meat. But it's a task to get him to eat. A lot of times he just refuses food even when he likes it, and is hungry. I realise that we have been using distraction and grazing quite often. Actually our meal times are now on the floor with a mat placed (for easier cleaning), but his toys are just close by. After watching this video, am just wondering should we change that? Because a lot of times he is playing while we feed him.
Im uncertain on what do when my toddler won’t eat anything for lunch let’s say. Should I offer the same meal for a snack later? She loves fruit, so she often won’t eat anything for lunch and then 2.5 hours later she can have a delicious strawberry
Hey Emma. Many thanks for the video, super helpful as always. Any suggestions on feeding 'not-so-favourite foods' in the park? My little one is so happy and probably distracted she eats fruits and veggies easily when we are outdoors. Do I need to stop?
Great video! Very helpful info. My 18 month old baby girl eats very little & it has concerned me, although her pediatrician says it's normal & she's healthy. The unusual thing about it is that she's not the typical picky eater described in this video. For example, you stated that a toddler may need to see a new food between 10 - 20 times before they will actually eat it... My little one is the opposite. She seems to only be interested in eating foods that are new to her & then she becames uninterested & doesn't want to eat that food until it's been long enough to where it's new to her again. She doesn't have a favorite food that she always will eat like most toddlers & kids do. So I guess it's like she's not necessarily picky, but just has a small appetite maybe? Bc she will try most foods but eat VERY little at a time. Do you have any thoughts or advice? thanks so much!
All good tips, hopefully it will click one day with our toddler. So far it looks like our 18m toddler has a different plan lol For instance, we keep presenting carrots, green beans and such every week and she still won't grab them, let alone eat them (Correction, she might grab them occasionally just to move them away from her plate). Is been a few months like this already. Unfortunately, when you start noticing your toddler losing or not gaining any weight (From 60 percentile to 30 percentile in the last 4 months) you start to worry and not falling into this "traps" becomes harder and harder and is just a vicious cycle, you start questioning everything. Oh well, maybe we have the pickiest eater of all the picky eaters. Who knows *shrugs*
My 2 year old is on the same thing right now. I completely understand how you feel. Like what am I suppose to do? Just let her starve? She literally won't eat any dinner we provide. We can sit together to eat and she still won't try or eat. So now what....
Hi Emma I am conflicted with all the information out there about a toddlers energy needs. I have read numerous times that they need to have minimum 1000 calories a day. This makes me so anxious as my 16 month old hardly eats 500 calories a day. This results me in force feeding her. So many people comment saying that she appears to have lost weight. Honestly its easier to say don't make these mistakes, but what is the solution when they just want to survive on water and air days on end?
Great video as always Emma!! 👍 I just realized my little one doesn't like to eat when we are out on vacation. 🤷♀️🤷♀️ We went on our first vacation as a family last week with our 14 month old and she just refused to eat.. she didn't any solids no matter what I gave her or how hard we tried. She just had breastmilk and nothing else.. she was really active, happy & walking when we were out. She enjoyed the vacation and the change in scenery except for eating. We are back home now and she's eating again. Is this normal for them to not eat anything when we take them to other places. Out of their comfort zone?
I'm not an expert, but it seems normal to me - a child experiencing a lot of new stuff at once (new sights, sounds, smells, sleeping in a new place, etc.) might make them want at least one thing to be familiar and comforting. Like if you went to a country where everything was different, they didn't speak your language, their customs were different, etc., you might find yourself craving a hamburger or something because you want something familiar.
My baby girl is now 9 months, whenever I give her to eat she starts playing looking at her grandparents and talking to them just, and she just make a mess but not eating, the matter if someone is looking at her or talking she leaves her meal and just focus on that person
Thanks for the video and all the tips!. I'm having a hard time with my 30 month-old toddler who reffuses to try new foods, literally he won't put any new food on his mouth, so I wonder how he may possible know if he likes it or not. It seems to get harder with time, rather than easier and it feels a little discouraring to be honest. How could I help him to be willing to try food?
Hi Emma, thank you for this wonderful video and tips, we are definitely seeing an improvement in my toddler's eating tendencies after following these. Could you suggest some ways to get kids to drink water? My son refuses water after taking a sip and only drinks milk. Thank you!
What to do when my baby is stressed when they sit on the high chair and for meal time? I really want to practice him to sit on the high chair and eat by himself. But till now I have been spoon feeding him on the high chair. He’s 11 months now and cry’s everytime we go near the high chair.
I just started with solids since 2 weeks but my son is notbshowing interess in food at all. He is already 6m and 2 weeks now, he is breastfeed. I don't know what to do anymore, I tried pieces, puree, veggies fruits but nothing 🤦🏻♀️🥺 Do you have any suggestions?
My daughter is 4 years old and won’t still eat general foods,she can’t even chew anything except take solid foods please what can I do to make her chew food
It might be counterproductive now with these new kids but it worked with me, if I didn't eat something my parents would just calmly take the food and NOT GIVE ME ANYTHING ELSE IN THAT MOMENT. I would have to wait for the next meal WHEN I WILL ACTUALLY BE HUNGRY AS HELL. And there will be no leftover food on the plate then. And no juice or snacks too. I'm not telling anyone to do this, I'm just telling you what did the trick with me.
I thought I had a picky eater until I found out my baby just didn’t wanna be fed by spoon and eat purées or mashed food anymore. So when I give him solids, let him feed himself or I feed him using my hands, he just eats his food voluntarily. No fuss at all unless he’s already full.
I'm a little contused because on your other video it says to try dips and spreads but here it says to not hide it in anything so they can explore the natural taste. Which should i do? He will only eat applesauce and yogurt 😢
With sauces and dips, give them the food and the sauce separately and allow them to dip the food in the sauce/dip themselves. You’re not hiding food they hate in sauces/dips. Hope that helps 🙂
my 10mo is in the 7th percentile and the pediatrician is telling me to force her (nursing and solids) she bit my nipple twice! im not about to try and force her again or to try and force feed her solids. if she is hungry she will eat
Hello! Do You have an advise how to get out of the situation when my baby is already afraid of food? When he sees or smells any food he is starting to cough and try to empty his stomach even if he is hungry. :( he is 1,5 years, he eats only when I feed him and only with distraction. He is a bit skinny, when I feed him, he may eat good about 1/3 of the meal ( 50g of food) but not always. I try to feed him at least 200g
Does he like any food? If he does like some food then you might find it helpful watching the video I made on the learning plate:ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-gf4kKfV00Yk.html If he doesn't like any food and starts coughing and trying to empty his stomach on seeing or smelling food then it would be good to check in with a paediatric feeding specialist (speech pathologist or occupational therapist) who can give you specific advice.
All I hear is all the mistakes I've made and I dont know what else to do if I dont ask or talk to her... to eat when I want her to eat, including healthy stuff.
Hi Emma. I have a 13 month old toddler who has 1 litre of milk in 24 hours. I have tried gradually weaning her off night feeds so she eats during the day. It doesnt work. She wont eat and then wakes up 3 times a night crying for milk as opposed to once. Should I accept she will drop feeds on her own and just relax? Feed her as I normally have and not force her?
My baby had the same problem, now he is 15 months and ask for milk at night occasionally once for week, I do give him cereals at night, and that’s the only thing he likes, but it works.😅
Our current struggle is my daughter (13 months in a couple days) is obsessed with feeding her food to me. Although she is hungry, although she asked for food. Like if I leave the room and she is with dad, she eats. If I sit with my back turned to her, she eats. But as soon as I turn around to look at her, she takes some food and throws her hand in my direction "da, da, da!" until I let her put it into my mouth. If I don't let her feed me, she gets really offended and projectile throws it through the kitchen. Sometimes because of this she stops eating before she even started properly, but if we take her down from the chair, she cries and motions to get back on the chair. Anyone else made a similar experience? How should we solve it? We try to eat together, but it's almost impossible at the moment. If we eat separately from her, she'll bounce around moaning and hanging on our legs the whole time, trying to grab our plates and cutlery, even if she just finished her food.
This sounds challenging for everyone. One thing you could try is tell her that the food on her plate is only for her and the food in your plate is for you. Then when she offers you food say “That’s your food” and then point to your plate and say “This is mummy’s food” and then place some of your food in your mouth and say “yummy”. Then encourage her to eat her own food and when she does comment on how well she is munching her food. Keep stating this and with time she will soon understand. Also if she does throw the food, say “Food stays on your plate or in your mouth” and try not to let her place her food in your mouth as this will just reinforce this behaviour.
I have a 2 and a half year old . He will play with his food but not eat his food and he barley drinks any juice . He is on a Ng tube and it has been rough .
Hi Linda it does sound like it has been a rough journey for you and your little one. When kids are on NG tubes the steps to weaning them onto solids is a lot more complex (as you would be well aware of). I hope you have a team of specialist with you guiding you through this process. ❤️
@@EmmaHubbard I do have a team of specialist and now he will be getting the G tube because he has been on the Ng tube for about 9 months now. His feeding therapist said he came along ways because now he will play and smell his food and he only would eat every once in a blue moon ......
I always used to say, that healthy children will not starve if there is food supplied to them and hunger is the best spice. I find it not harmful if a child goes hungry for some time (when food is offered). When hungry enough, they become much more adventurous with food. When parents are always nagging to eat, I can understand how a child can feel a need to resist. Eating is natural. Healthy childen will eat without nagging. They might skip one meal occasionally, but that will only make them eat better when the next meal comes. And I mean this not in a negative, ruthless way, but in a lighthearted way - let them find their and experience their hunger and understand their needs. And of course such approach doesn't suit for kids with mental or somatic health problems.
Hi mam,,,I have baby girl of 6 and half month still she is not rolling so worried about this bcz my family members are saying baggy should roll from 4 month but it's already going for 7 month but still not yet rolling I am really worried plz help me out of this
Hi @Anumm kavya that does sound very stressful. All bubs are unique and achieve the big milestones when they are ready. Your family is partly correct..some bub's do learn to roll at 4 months but definitely not ALL babies. Rolling over is a skill bubs generally learn between 4 - 7 months. So your little one still has time to learn this skill. I have a video on how you can help your little one roll from their back to their tummy which you might find helpful:ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-NCBEYie42iU.html Hope this helps!
Thanks mam ,,,I saw the video doing that only but she is uncomfortable with tummy time she is ceiling crying ,,,,,I am seeing Ur video and getting confident mam,,, thanks but family members are 😑
They will eat it later on in life it’s okay if they don’t eat certain things now no matter how many times you introduce it to them….just sayin taste changes as we age ❤
My 8yr old says that he's hungry. I offer him a piece of grilled chicken and some mashed potatoes, and he won't eat it. I offer him apple slices, and wont eat it. I offer him almost anything and he won't eat it.