I'm the black sheep of my family and I've resently ended the cycle of abuse I'm moving on I pray for them every night it's just me and jesus christ my bestfriend
Thank u I am my bro and his wife take care of my children because I am dying and now they boss me around I barley see my babies they treat mi like crap and so does my mother
I'm the Black Sheep in a narcissistic family.... I have learned to be proud of it... I realize they hate me because I stand up for myself against our narcissistic mom....they act like she was God...deep on their heart they know she didn't care for them either....they just target me... because it's easier than facing the TRUTH... thanks for the video
I feel the same , for the longest time I accepted all the criticism and blame which came my way but only now do I realise that my family has always put me down even at my lowest point. They have always hated seeing me happy and joyful and find reasons to pull me down. My brother has always made everything about him , it’s always how they feel and not me ever. Slowly disconnecting from this family and moving onto greater things , a world where only care and kindness and joy exists.
In reality and in most cases, the black sheep is always someone who thinks differently than the herd, is unique, a genius, is creative and intelligent. Foolishness has always been part of the flock who is thirsty for lies and illusions, even it means destroying itself in the process.
Excellent analysis and story of my life. Emotional and psychological needs never fulfilled, never heard in the family and always outcasted and criticised like an embarrassment despite being highly ambitious and achieving my goals. When bringing it up to the family I am considered “spoiled” and “lucky” that physical needs like food, water and shelter were met as a child. As soon as I left for college to the other side of the world I started to be free in every way which was soothing to my soul. You need to leave the sick people to heal their sickness on their own not blame it on you to feel better about themselves and see you as the sick patient when you are actually the most sane.
Yes!! Same here…..”Be lucky you had a roof and food!” So I REALLY was a different to my only child! Didn’t make the same mistakes….love him unconditionally!
WOW😮THIS IS ME!!....Today im 62 6.1 220lbs Fit n married ,retired n WEALTHY. I was raised bad, school drop out, criminal n jailed many times. Ive crawled out of a few holes N SURVIVED 😮😢🙏💝🥳🤠😎✌️
In a nut shell. I have always felt different and find it hard to put up with "stupid people" I feel so blessed 🙏 to have my strength of character and how I know myself so well. Thank you.
Yes, we can have dyslexia, ADHD, 🌟, depression, anxiety, INFJ s!!!! I have attracted a runt dog who has grown into an intelligent wolf, we are both outliers together in a rural.seting & keep. Each other sane. No contact is the only way. Forward. Strength honour holeness, be thy self thou truly is. 👍. Very good evaluation & content & true. ❤️
I am the black sheep of my family, I'm also a replacement child. I don't follow the narrative of my family. I'm 48 years old and have very limited contact with my family, I am free of the toxicity I endured for years. Always portrayed as the weird loner by my family.
I feel like you explained my whole life in this video! As a child, I was a night owl, introvert and nyctophile (one who loves night or darkness) and, as everyone else slept, I would sit awake looking out at the night sky wishing I could escape my abusive family. I was called stupid, weird and worse. My mom said I didn’t have a childhood. My dad said I would amount to nothing in adulthood. I eventually moved away from them to a state where I have no known relatives and it’s been wonderful for over 20 years now. I’m a proud, thriving Black Sheep that has traveled the world, pursued higher education and worked out my traumas in therapy. Thank you for this video. I hope that more of us will see this and realize how truly special we are 🖤🐑❤️
If you asked my dad and my stepmom I couldnt clean, wash the dishes, eat right, change my chlothes, shower or bath (i dont do this cuz i feel uncomfortable with it) , take care of my hair (i tried to tell them that my hair type is a rare kind and they laughed and said youre lying i have gave birth to 3 girls teemagers and they dont have any trouble witg their hair and for the last you just need to brush it or take a scissor and let the scissor do it main purpose (trust me i have tried this shit for solid 5 y AND IT NEVER WORKED!!! or body, i couldnt have friends cuz i just hanged out with them for a short time (i habe problems with having friends which they called autism - i got the diagnose mad 5 months later i looken it up and of 20 things i only related to like 3-5 stuff and when i asked my aunts they said "she doesnt have it" nad then i got the diagnose low smartness (its that you have the iq in the range of 80- 90 BUT this is a normal type of iq range to have during the teenager years, and if i had this range of iq i would never have contribute to get higher grader which i got after i moved out from them to my mom
As a 36 year old woman who just doesnt want children because I am the black sheep of my family , of the whole family (dads side which is the narcissistic side), after all of the pain they put me through... so now I'm a PROUD fur mama and rescue animals ... THIS really hit my soul. Thank you....really....God Bless You for making this....did you write this? If so..you must have experienced the pain as well? I'm so sorry. I think black sheep people need to stick together. If we dont, we may not be able to cope with being alone. 💔
I am a black sheep male 47 no children. Lol. If I found you and we fell in love and let say made 3 children. Two of them were like us but the last one was black sheep. Then what? I relate to what you wrote and I guess been put through pain as well but I don’t think of it like its there’s fault . Both side learning from each other. But of course I don’t know why you feel like you feel in yours situation. It’s a reason behind everything. To be separated from society and being alone creates anxiety so in my case to create a family it’s difficult and scares me because i failed to do what the community expect from me. To be parents is to give the children the opportunity for them to be whoever they want to be also a normal member of the society. In that context I am grateful to my family and what they have achieved despite the differences and opposite of me. I just wish the society was more advanced and not fake and not working against the nature and the spirit.
Omg. This is so true, at my age now a grandmother I am the black sheep of my family. Since the day I was born. Yes I have what my siblings want in life. They all be little me, I'm weak, stupid, no common sense, the ugliest one, I don't look like my sisters now women. I feel the anger towards me, just because, I can feel their jealousy..... There looks towards me is like wow.. so much hate towards me.. FOR NO REASON. I'VE MOVE ON HAPPY AND ENJOY LIFE... I'M VERY CLOSE TO OUR HEAVENLY Father AND HIS SON JESUS CHRIST. THAT KEEPS Me GOING WITH LOTS OF LOVE AND HAPPINESS AN TO LOVE Those AROUND ME
GOD'S BLESSING❤🙏🏼. This could be me, my sister. It's like I don't even exist, totally ignoring and disrespect! JESUS SAVED MY LIFE and founding a partner, who helped me to heal❤🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Thank you for this. I ended up being the artist, the spiritual one, the one who who, from what I can tell, is finding true happiness...I feel more and MORE grateful for my position as the black sheep over time, because I am truly FREE.
Being the black sheep = Being a lone wolf! Just rember that you are not living other peoples lives........you are living your own. As soon as you stop caring what other people think or say (within resone) you will have won the fight! The struggle is REAL!
This resonates with me so much. When I was around 12 y.o. a cousin of mine that was just slightly older than me said I was the BLACK SHEEP of my family. He said this after staying with us (my family) for just a few months. I took that as a bad thing & didn't know why he would call me that bad thing. Then as I got older (now almost 49) I realized that it was actually a good thing. As I see how people & this world are. I feel I'm not as blind or disillusioned as some people are.
Pray for those who tear u down ! Haha lol 😆 but stay away from these haters ! They don’t like us but constantly watch us God is with us . Your not the bad kid , your the chosen one . Your the light in the family . Pray they escape hell .
Many times my husband has said "the stork" brought me to my parents. I don't let my family treat me like the black sheep anymore. Have gone no contact. Took many years to come to this conclusion.
thank you I want to leave my abusive family I went through physical mental and sexual abuse through them I always knew there was something off about these people and this video kind of confirmed my suspicions when you talked about how we are usually the ones who can see the truth that there is something seriously wrong with these people it's TRUE I knew it the entire time no matter how hard they tried to manipulate me
I woke up this morning and just felt something in me to look this up. I was recently on vacation with my toxic family. We met up with a photographer and she mentioned something to me when we stepped aside saying are you the black sheep in the family. I said sure jokingly but she persisted and said it again differently phrased. It was coming from a tone of love, and sincerity. Like i didnt know what she meant but it was good intended. This video has tremendously helped on a level i cannot explain thank you
@@thoughtstormjournal1725 I can feel you as you speak since I've been through a toxic family and parents contributed alot and encouraged bad behaviors to other kids.I wish I could marry you and build a healthy family together,you've address the exact abusive things that innocent people go through from the people who should take care of us(bad parenting) I ❤ u
The most high knows their hearts better than anyone else. A black sheep or scapegoat are rare individuals that others may perceived as weak, naive, gullible.
I used an avatar of a black sheep for long time! My mother told me when I was about 30 how she and my father went to an abortionist…but because they were waiting so long….they chickened out! I was a surprise baby….first year after WW11 baby boomer! I didn’t attend either of my parents funerals, much to the displeasure of the other siblings. Thanks for the vid!
Cool, thank you for those positive, I was in a narcissistic home I was the scapegoat child (The Black Sheep) I only now understand just how accurate psychological profiling is. I was the odd one of 2500 forced conscript soldiers who refused to take up a weapon as a Religious objector in the South African Army. I was the one who was sexually, mentally, physically abused by there own family. I saw how people were treated unfairly, I was the odd white person in the marching against apartheid as a teen. I was the one going into the black townships staying over at my friends houses, which I didn't even know I was not allowed to go there. I was the one who had more friends of colour than white friends and I identified with them, I was not friends with them because they had a different colour than me but because they accepted me for who I was. You so right we need more black sheep in this world people who don't let fashion, media, capitalism shape who they are and yes its easy for me to be alone.
Because my wife is the black sheep , she is able to look at the pandemic in a special way. Seems to me , she knows the truth behind . Greetings from Germany
That's could be me. I viewed it exactly like that and knew sth. is not right here. I am grateful, that I might one of the Chosen One. Greetings from Germany, Rhineland ❤
Thank you for this. As "the black sheep", I totally get that, and have lived it. Thinking different always leads to a judgement. And when you love those who judge you, you keep quiet. It's a difficult and painful situation. God bless all Black Sheep.
1 min into the lecture and i started crying. I have not cry since i was a little boy. Never felt more identified with something, is like u read my mind. Thank you for making this videos 🙏
You definitely had a front row seat of my life. As an adult ( in my sixties now) I've come to the realization that the only being at my corner is God & that's not an exaggeration. Thank you for this post😢❤
I am a black sheep, may God bless your soul for beautifully putting all this in its truest perspective. Your affirmations have warmed my heart, thank you, profoundly.
I wear that Black Sheep badge with pride n honor. It's a compliment. 💋 I'm definitely not weak...exact opposite!! I see their crap from the sideline and smh. I got out..physically & mentally! 🖐️
This helps turn around negative feelings and beliefs about my self that have been so far hard to shake to regain my confidence in my self. I tried to convince siblings that I am right, but my validation will not come from them and I need to stop needing it and instead look for the awareness of who I am and what I can do from sources who have more insight. TY!
This explains my whole life I always felt like I don’t fit anywhere not even with my family I think differently I love darkness I don’t like light at all I also go outside looking at the sky like if I could see things that ain’t normal I can also hear things others can’t and see other things others cant and always said I have a bigger purpose then others thank u this explains everything
I really needed to hear this, I appreciate it very much, thank you for all of your wisdom and uplifting perspective. I'm sure like many people we've never been told this.
I’m the black sheep and everyone I made friends with and my family all treat me with disrespect all of a sudden I woke up the the punching bag of all their stress and failures
Oh dear Lord , I was a black sheep totally, ma'ma my problems started from the time I was born. Oh lord I do see right through family. This is the first time,in my life!!! Was born at 27 wks ( twin) ... oh I'm hurting deep in my soul, my heart hurts,to now understand Why I was treated like a baby that was never loved,and now I will understand , what me,my little girl hurt so much. You have just told me why my life is like this... Your so right ,I do all what u have told me.... bless 🙌 ❤
I feel so connected to these video We are all so special and born into families that try to break us but we are born already strong Find the way to tell your story ❤ I am working on it
This is so real I have always been the caregiver in my family yet they never credit for nothing but I am confident. They have always been really afraid that I will tell the truth and bust their bubble ~>I have been cut off and I feel good ~ oh how wonderful
It's funny how I ended being the black sheep and truth teller of my family. I'm the oldest of six children, physically the biggest, the brightest, the fastest, the most athletic, the most articulate, the most empathic, the only non-alcoholic sibling, the most sensible, the most hardworking, the most restrained, the most studious. the most spiritual...etc etc.....the furthest sibling from being the actual runt. But because my mother saw me as threat to her own narcissistic world view she brainwashed my whole family to hate and despise me. She always said i was too sensitive and she hated that character trait because sensitivity to other human beings was something she rejected in herself a long time ago, probably in her own childhood. It took me a long time to heal and realise that I was not warped or a bad person. I was in fact the opposite. A shining light in a dark family.
Thank you Thank you so much since a child this is exactly what I've been through even though I'm older I'm still seeing things that has been explained by you about the remaining of my family who are still around I'm the youngest one who lost a twin at birth
i start my job as a life insurance agent very soon … out earning my family gives me a chance to separate. im not looking back and anticipate their stagnation prior to their demise .
I'm The Black Sheep everywhere i go. I see all the bullshit that people don't want me to see, and that's why everyone can't stand being around me. I prefer to be alone, i lost interest in people long ago, i'd rather be around cats & dogs. I'm full of angels and i drive out the demons in people just by being around.
I hear you. This is also my story. It took me 50 years or so to realise this but all the vicious tools wielded against me just served to carve the diamond from its stone. We know real love because we found it in a nightmare :) I wish you love and peace.
Agreed...good insight, thank you. In the Bible, those God used for high positions were rejected by their family. Their purpose and call was somewhere else...
Well said! and true! I am a black sheep! and the square peg! My peg has boundry lines on all four sides! i have a picture of a square peg .I was delighted to find it built into the floor of a very old wood barn .It was litteraly in my pathway as i entered what used to be the attick or upper hay loft of that renovated barn . It was comforting to me to keep walking by that symbol for my stay! God gave me that little symbol as a reminder that a square peg is a strong peg! and as a black sheep i have and am still learning that being banished ? or jumping out of the pen(box)to the other side of the fence so to speak can be lonely at first but very freeing . I find that sometimes they want to rope me and drag me back in for a little ruckus but I have found all kinds of addventures out here in my own pasture! and choose to keep stepping away from the herd! or bermuda triangle! lol! Not been easy but enjoy running into other black sheep out here every once in a while. Thank you for your vid it was very good.
You know you're the black sheep when after a family member's funeral, the entire family gets together to go somewhere for dinner, but they don't invite you.
You mean THE truth! No one has ownership of THE truth, and to say otherwise, means people have leeway to enable destructive behaviors. Therefore, there is no such thing as "your truth," or "my truth." Only THE truth.
I'm the black sheep in my family hello I'm male 42 I got treated really badly from everyone in my family including cousins and aunties. I tried fitting in but I always got excluded from family holidays and normal events but by the time I was 17 i gave up trying. And only just seeing my family only at Xmas or family event but 2 years ago now at Xmas I was talking at the table with my cousins and aunties about my side business I started and before I could tell them how much money I was making they all turned away and started talking to each other and ignored me just like always so from that day I gave up and said to my self what am I doing why am I hanging around these people so last Xmas I didn't see them and all family events like wedding I will not be attending... and I am more successful then any or my other family members so maybe I should thank them for kicking me out of the box
I am the black Sheep scapegoat. I had 2 forgive. Thank fully my mom and her mom can no longer put dark magic on me anymore. I inherited spiritual scary gifts. I always pray 2 God.
Im the black sheep. My family was horrible but i did eat and had a residence. I was around alcoholics, nay sayers, verbal and emotional abusive people. I knew, some how i knew i was special even though i was different. As i grew up and read abour material heaven provided to me, i discovered i was an empath. I never could keep more than maybe two or three friends as a young person. I learned to survive under scutiny. When i became a mom and grandparent, i taught my family love is the only answer.
