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If you like her even more than she likes you then she will either leave you or cheat. Never act needy and desparate because whoever cares the least is the one with the power in the relationship.
It's the energy, they can "feel" it. If you have several high interest activities andd groups you tie to you can be "busy" enough that she's always competing with something else.
Game aware men can know... Also men who have bumped their heads enough time won't overly invest in uninterested women. But naive men will and have a lot of their time wasted or be used even though they might get some "scraps" of relationship business.@@OiG_GEMiNi
At the end of the day, women choose the man. Reason why y’all fellas be going thru so much loopholes , cause y’all trying to choose the women that’s not choosing y’all g.
@@suhaibsuhaib5947 let’s be real bro, these bitches choosing dog, can’t talk bout no relationship if she not even sexually attracted to you what you talking bout. you just saying what you hear in the manosphere RU-vid section
@@suhaibsuhaib5947that’s a bunch of shit. If it was true, women wouldn’t be leaving 70-80% of relationships to go get sex from other men who are withholding it from them
He spot on about letting yourself go. When I was getting ready to play semi pro football for the RPFL my girl was so insecure cuz I got back in shape. Soon as I got comfortable the disrespect came. And she would complain when we barely spent time because I worked 2 jobs. But when I spent time with her she complained about me being broke.
Maaaan always always work on yourself brother a lot of times women don’t know what they want. Always respect a woman but respect yourself first Sometimes they will steer you from your purpose. Either intentionally or unintentionally but you have to remain in your masculine frame. The best way to put it is. There’s a time to be gentle with your woman and there’s a time to put your foot down as a man you have to know when those times are
@@Motivation-_powerwhat’s he’s saying is. Know how to love your woman correctly meaning love her according to her love language but love yourself first get you a hobby as a man. Let your woman know you love her but you’re fine being by yourself and when you are on your purpose she will see that you are ok without her. Never ever get off your purpose to please her because then she will complain and probably seek another man who is on his purpose like you once was
Colder cool but walking in the "truth" of Yeshua is colder, because he was the coldest, Yeshua said don't give your Jewels to the pigs & don't give your scraps to the dogs... He called them dogs and pigs!! Then pretty much said anyone out of the will of God was worthless & is not worthy of God what's colder than that.
The thing Steph said about raising your voice is facts. I never raise my voice at my girl when she gets in her feelings and starts raising her voice all I do is tell her to fix her attitude and I’m not raising my voice at her so she needs to lower it and respect me how I respect her. I tell her in a very commanding voice without yelling and emotions and she always fixes herself. Later she comes back and apologizes and tells me how she appreciates me (she’s basically seeking validation from me that I’m not upset with her).
Lmaoo… I wonder if my man is this naive. Any apology to my man is to validate his ears. Could care less whether he thinks it’s validation seeking… Some things are just an act to keep the benefits in flow. Sometimes a woman gotta choose between her ego and her needs met
@@randomtroll- based on your comment you obviously have a hard time understanding basic concepts. Nothing about what I said was about wanting validation from my girl. It’s about the fact that when I check her in the right way she responds appropriately to my masculine energy. I could care less about a woman’s validation. Men don’t need validation women do.
@@ianjohnson9505facts. You’re doing right a wise man once told me that the way you say things can either trigger a person more or calm them down and make them think. Men have to be the calm ones in situations because women do before they think. It’s just their nature. Don’t mean we should love them any less. Just mean we have to guard them and coach them when we let them into our space
@@righteousmasculine facts bro! A masculine man is in control of himself and his emotions. He remains calm, cool and collected. He is the one who has greater influence by his actions. It doesn’t mean we don’t feel the emotions it just means that we don’t let those emotions control our actions. It’s taken me years to develop that mindset and to have that level of self control.
Facts this is golden and every now and then you have to let her know to always respect you just in case she forget lol 😂. But always respect her that’s one reason you should always demand yours
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@@mysticlegion8088 Real men don’t use words like that. So calling “Maximizing your looks” a derogatory mark is a joke on the defense. Some guys need to abbreviate to simplify their intuition. Take a hike! - Billionaire
Yep this lady taught my not to CHASE pleasing your woman’s emotions. They change so much and it wont stop. Validate and lead her in the right direction if she needs it. But make her handle with her own emotions
true. especially with dudes who get obsessed with women and go crazy and then do crazy things, thats a weak man. never be with a woman who u are obsessed with or love more than yourself.
Women think with emotions, men think with logic; don't permit an emotional person to question what you believe. Great video steph keep up the hard work👍
I experienced redpill rage few years ago but with more experience and understanding this game is fun and we accept how women are and can be, they are what they are fellas
That’s exactly why I can’t fw em they play too many games and they’re truly more of a liability than asset. Even the work required to get them is abysmal when you truly understand that money is king and you can do whatever with it.
Fact’s gentlemen. Learned from experience. My real estate business was thriving, then crumbled due to this. Experience is the greatest teacher, but don’t replicate.
It’s like a woman can smell if you like them more and then they instantly lose interest, they HAVE to like you more, all the girls I’ve smashed easily, has always liked me more 99% of the time, it’s something i had to really realize, I’m convinced guys should ONLY focus on the girls who genuinely like or chase them, those are the ones who will play the less games I promise, the moment you like them more and you show it, Issa a rap 😂
'' I’m convinced guys should ONLY focus on the girls who genuinely like or chase them,''💯 I'm a middle-aged man and yet......I only REALLY understood this in 2024. I will never....I repeat NEVER ever chase a women who shows little to no interest in me whatsoever again.
This is weird man and I thought I was the only one that this ever happened to. Doesn’t make since as men we don’t play these type of games this is almost crazy and not logic. I don’t understand this but it does really work. Are these women really nuts are is it me. Please feel free to comment
This where I messed up in my last relationship. Thank God it happened though. Taught me so much. Use your worship the ground she walks in shipped because I thought that’s how it was suppose to be. Ended up broken in the end. Your boy been getting right in the gym while working on his purpose. 🤷🏾♂️
This gem dropped exactly when I needed it. Recently experienced what Steph talm'bout and all I can say is once you find yourself getting emotionally triggered by her actions more than she does by yours, you've lost. Thank you Steph🙏
i started watching you when i was 18 and lost in life. I finally figured things out but now i am about to be 23 and im back watching and learning. Thank you brother
8:37 this the gospel that needs to keep being spread n taught to men everywhere in America and Mexico. Kevin Samuels preaching it in the the 2010's then AMS in the early 2020's MTR and Steph is Cold too. 💪
It’s crazy how showing appreciation is seen as glazing, so many people mad the attention is on someone else and not them, nice pfp btw. Miss that game 💯
This shit real bro ain’t gone lie. I take this info to the code of my mind. As young man at 22 experiencing this right now this is real life stuff. Thank you Steph
man i fell into a depression and had to start watchin you again. not too big on the female nature stuff anymore but that don't mean these vids aint helpful. thanks bro
I can only Quote the Godfather Rollo with this one “Women are utterly incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved. In its simplicity this speaks volumes about the condition of Men. It accurately expresses a pervasive nihilism that Men must either confront and accept, or be driven insane in denial for the rest of their lives when they fail to come to terms with the disillusionment. Women are incapable of loving men in a way that a man idealizes is possible, in a way he thinks she should be capable of.”
Know thy self, Go on your Hero journey slyly the Dragon as you Integrate your Yin/Yan become the Warrior as you Arises as a King you art ment to Be.. much gratitude ✨️ 💛
If you have to approach it that way, just don't ever marry the chick. Any woman you have to truncate your feelings and thought process completely for is really a woman you can't take that level of investment with. To progress well in a relationship, the equation has to play out with equivalency. You can't have one with all the care in the world while the other one is reckless as hell and doesn't give a damn. The one fully invested will get dragged down. That's why I keep emphasizing to not deal with any woman who doesn't want to contribute to the matter. If they don't go past the societal programming while dealing with you, they don't want you to be considered and they're just there for them. SELFISHNESS in a relationship NEVER works!!
Been here before. Where I was the man that showed less interest. They chased me, and listening to another bish that liked me at the time, told me I need to show her the same affection back. Bruh not even a year later started getting disrespected by the girl that was in awe of me cause I started appeasing to her needs. Never again gentlemen, right back to how I was before 🫡
This is crazy, but it’s true. Any woman that I’ve liked more than she liked me it has never worked not even once 😮 Wow. There’s really a science to this.
She says it matters to not do things because she is trying to get you around her more. The moment you do they go accelerate out your life 0-60 3.3 secs with a half mile of 9.98 secs. If they getting out of hand for having a life of abundance and not standing being alone, she’s high drama. Simple as that constant begging of actions to be around home that’s high drama. Drama is not peace. The faster you realize the world don’t care about you, that’s when you go realize not to fold in on her begging etc.
Steph, Please check your video edit my g. you put a lot of work into it and those videos gonna stay up on youtube forever. much love mate keep the god work.
That's the truth my man I really acknowledge this. I'm 25 years old and I'm starting to see what u talking about. Ofc I love hard but to not care so much about the things not important will embrace my mental health and keep my self focused ✨️
I’ve been staying consistent working out hitting the gym and getting good grades in college. Going to church every Sunday with my family and my girl. Fellas when you find that girl that motivates you and encourages you to be better for yourself don’t lose her.
Balance is key in any relationship! ⚖️ It's essential to both give and receive love freely and willingly. ❤️ If someone constantly needs to be pushed to show affection, it might be a red flag. 🚩 Trust your instincts and seek a partnership where love flows naturally and effortlessly.
1.I got a wife and a Girlfriend 2.They both pregnant 🤰🏽 weeks apart 3. They both love me 4. I don’t beg for attention It don’t matter what they say all I care about is getting that chicken bag stef
Thank you for your service and your dedication to us men(alpha,beta or sigma). Purpose. Principles. Performance and Prosperity = Productivity. Perspective. Practical and Protective in what you value the most.
Tell me why this shit so true how many of yall got a uncle, homie, dad that live there women more than there women love them. There too many of us like that Mane and it shows.
I really appreciate this Steph,even tho I learn this later in life. Keep bring the knowledge and game. I’m slowly going to be the man I know I can be. Thanks again G🙏🏾💪🏾💯
Brother your not wrong i have this family friend cute latina i never gave her the time of day but always checks on me daily and day by day i just kept doing me and now im improving and shes now my girl but i aint let that stop the motion
Bro on fiiiire 🔥🔥🔥👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 but fax the one time i liked a girl more she screwed me over and treated me like crap that was my red pill person and every relationship i was in power position chilling very indifferent unintentionally but sheeesh the one time i wasn’t it was brutal man. Never again.
