The truth about marriage! 

Don't ignore the signs. Stop committing to men/women that clearly don't view marriage the same way you do.

Any time you hear someone say marriage is just a “piece of paper”, you automatically know, they don’t know The author and creator of marriage.

I love to hear how well Tony cares for his Wife and children. Keep being a model husband Tony. You're making me raise my expectations. I pray God blesses you and your family always.

Oh Tony, if only other men were willing to sacrifice like this to repair their wife's broken heart. Instead they tell us we are insecure or controlling for wanting them to show us they care and are fully committed in this way.

Being married for 25years, I enjoyed listening to you, and no matter how long you have been married you can always learn and make your relationship stronger.

Marriage should be the goal. Date with a purpose, stop wasting precious time. Life is too short to play house. Make a decision to build your future.

“Marriage is NOT dead” 🗣🗣🗣you better say that again Sir! Thank you again Tony for sharing and BE BLESSED

Exactly why I left the ex-husband..he couldn't take accountability for his actions...🛣️

I can't wait to marriage my fiance this year! We both view it as commitment and a goal for our lives. It's not just a piece of paper. We will vow and take an oath to love each other and hold each other's hand until the end. Blessed tribe here🙌🏿✌🏾

Be blessed! Nice to hear you defend your wife even against your mother. There are a lot of “mama’s boys” who don’t practice that a man LEAVES his father and mother and CLEAVES to his wife.

Marriage is a lot but worth it when you with the person God has for you. Great message Bro. Tony Be Blessed

I love how Tony talks about his wife and how he believes in being one with her. ❤️

When you tell all your friends to subscribe to Tony Gaskins but they won’t listen to you 🤷🏾‍♀️

Nephew, that was a phenomenal video. Everything you said was right on point. I am definitely getting married again and learning from you to do it the right this time. I know I'm your Mother's age that's why I called you Nephew. It's never to late to learn. I still have 2 teenagers 17 and 19. My 17 is graduating from high school this year, my 19 year old is a sophomore. I always treated my kids special and my husband was very jealous of how I treated them. We have been divorced almost 2 years after 21 years of marriage. I still treat my children the same way. You are changing my life 1 video at a time. Thank you

I'm here and ready! Hey blessed tribe👋🏼👋🏼👋🏼 Marriage the right way with the right one, that's the goal. Ppl show you who they are the first time, believe them! Don't fall into desperation to be married. I'm not settling at all, you all shouldn't either. It's better to be alone than to be eating with the wasted time. I like to dance too, I would definitely go to that club. Be blessed!

You are such a great role model for all men out there . A woman who is married to a man who treats her as a queen will never disrespect him or talk down to him, unless she has unresolved issues from her childhood. I really appreciate you for speaking life to people and I wish lots of men will learn from you how to treat their women right. I am Caucasian and I feel like this apply to any culture. Thank you Tony , God bless you.

Thank you for helping Mrs. Sheri Gaskins heal Mr. Tony Gaskins. People must understand absentee fathers make it difficult for their daughters to trust or love men....because a father should be the first man we as women can love. I grew up in a 2 parent household (it makes a difference)Love it Tony will " LAY YOU DOWN ABOUT HIS WIFE".💯💯💯💯

The world would be a much better place if the majority of men would just get and understand what you're teaching and saying and if they would actually love their wives the way you are speaking of.

Marriage = commitment. If you want a commitment, be married. I remember my husband said before we got married "true love is when a guy marry you."

I can't wait to be married. I have many couples that have demonstrated healthy marriages where I have front row seating. A fruitful healthy marriage is one of my goals. God bless you man of God. That part of you not getting your plate first was hilarious lol.

And I realized quickly Tyler Perry did not write this 😩😩😂😂🙏🏾🙏🏾 oooooeeeewwww Mr Tony 😂😂😂

Mrs. Gaskins thank you so much for being such an integral driving force in your marriage that allows Tony to teach women who are willing to listen and learn about love and relationships. Your spirit and strength is manifested in your physical beauty, and the loving actions that you have for your husband and your boys. I don't say it often to you, but thank you so much for everything that you do and for being the person that you are. Tony, thank you for all of these videos that you provide I study them diligently, and I have to admit that it feels so good to become love, so that I can walk in love, and be able to love others, so that I can attract love. May your family continue to be blessed.

New nationality - Jumaican!!! Mr.Gaskins English.I cannotttttt!!! Mr.Gaskins,I teach British English and I wish you would write a book filled with your English,please! Be blessed!

Tony you are a walking, living testimony of God's power to save and deliver a man who humbled himself and is now being exalted. You are one of Daddy's gem shining brightly for Christ! Keep preaching the Word!

As a woman what he is saying is so true and real... That's why it's so important to be with someone who allows freedom within the love

It's refreshing to hear the honest to God truth and see a man say it was him causing the marriage to be difficult. A lot of men play the role like they don't know why their marriage is broke instead of dying to themselves and simply loving their wives completely like the Bible said. God bless u Tony, your a walking testimony of God's goodness when we obey Him

Marriage is not a piece of paper. However I lived enough hurt and loneliness in my marriage to realize it just didn’t work no matter how hard I tried.

I thought I was the only person that had all five love languages! I’m in good company! Yay Sheree! Tony, thank you for proving being loved properly is possible. 🙏🏾

I can't wait for the day to have a husband that will defend me to his friends and family and not bash me to his friends and family. I know God will answer my prayer 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾.

The way you love your wife is beautiful .... ❤️

I pre-ordered the book! I believe in marriage! 🙌🏿

Be blessed and I know exactly why my marriage didnt work. its okay..marriage is not dead to me!

A relationship is what you make it.If u want good be good ❤️❤️❤️. Marriage is not a bad thing it goes back to your mental state and morals.

Be blessed!! Just purchased MAKE IT WORK on audible and preordered A WOMAN'S INFLUENCE.

UNCLE TONY!!!!!!! THIS ENTIRE VIDEO ...... it’s raining today, my hair is straightened I’ll roll all on this floor in this rain!!!!!!!!!! Yes sirrrrr!!!!! YES SIRRRRRR!!!!!!!!!!!! God continue to bless you , your beautiful wife & bbies!!!!!!! Whew smh . BE BLESSED!

Hi Tony, What a wonderful video! As a married man and to hear you speak of Marriage in such a positive and loving way is Awesome. 👍 That's the way God intended it to be. I am an advocate for good Godly marriages. Your realness, transparency and humor is what the world needs. Continue to let God use you! I know he's proud! Be blessed.

This really put a smile on my face and heart, going through a divorce from a soul tie relationship not ordained of God but your message really gives me hope for my future. Your video on tips for dating for single moms was truly a blessing as well. I'm working on self and being that A+ mother for my son. Not rushing to find the next man but allowing time for God to continue a good work he started in me. God bless you and your family Mr Tony G 🙏.

Tony is dangerous!!!😤 when it comes down to his family, he don’t play!!!! 😬 I like that! Stay blessed and God bless you!!!

Tony you are preaching! This message is so amazing!!!! Marriage is a blessing! I still look forward to God blessing me with the man for me! Marriage is all about being a servant and showing that love by your service !

" Get mad scratch your bootie and get glad" 😂😂😂

It's great to hear a married man be honest about marriage and not try to scare us singles off! If marriage is so bad, why are so many people doing it? Because we all know that marriage can be beautiful but people be making horrible choices in spouses and try to pass their bitterness down to us folks who desire healthy marriages 🙅🏾‍♀️

Tony...You are 'correct'. You 'love' and secure her, you will reap the benefits. Lol.

😂😂😂 why was laughing at “The commercial break”

Tony be blessed! “The Truth About Marriage” video has been one of the most enjoyable ones you’ve done ✅ It’s true! I’ve also been in many church services and have heard “Women be submissive to your husbands.” But, I do not recall hearing “Men love your wives as Christ loves the church.” Tony, my heart ❤️ was literally smiling the entire time as I listened to you talk about how beautiful married life is! I’m so happy for you! God’s favor is on you because you are anointed to speak like you are! It’s called the Holy Spirit is speaking through you! This video is very “educational” for both married couples and those who wish to become married. It’s an 👁 opener to those who are in a toxic marriage because either one or both a “broken” and doesn’t know or want to know how to “fix” it due to ego problems, grown boy syndrome, father wasn’t in the home, etc. Tony, you have “uncovered” the truth about (behind closed doors) behaviors in a marriage! I need to build a library just to keep your videos for my children’s future generations to come! Only for a time such as this, “man” has never told the truth about how men think! And God knows the heart and mind of man is carnal and He is saddened by the “pain” it’s causing His beloved daughters (like me) and others who God knows love Him and are dependent upon Him for guidance in this journey of life! Tony, God has called YOU to level the playing field! I’m trusting God my time is coming around again and this is causing me to be a better person as well. YOU are a blessing to so many! Tony, I can’t say it enough! Tony, God bless you and your family!!

I'm in love with marriage and I'm still engaged lol!

Marriage isn’t the problem. It’s who your married too. And if your having a healthy marriage or relationship at the time , you’ll be saying marriage is the end all. Not all people who are married belong together. Nor are marriage material. So in all marriage isn’t for everyone. Not everyone can cherish the arrangement. I personally choose not to remarry. It’s easier to walk away from a relationship than a marriage. Divorce can kill you financially and it takes a very LONG TIME TO RECOVER!! And I’m a woman.

A safe space 😥 and washed her with love!! Protect & Defend your partner no matter who it is. 🙏🏽 I thx God for yur words on this one for all of us men & women.. I pray I get this ultimate level of LOVE one day 🙏🏽 bc I got so much LOVE to give!!

Be blessed Tony I appreciate you saying that you’re extremely in love with marriage. You have been the absolute only person I have heard speak on this topic and say that. Everyone else all tend to say the same thing and basically tries to deter us and tell us just appreciate being single and go on and on about how much work marriage is. I honestly don’t think everyone single is walking around saying they think marriage is easy so constantly hearing the focus be on how much work it is and not hearing how someone especially a man say how much he loves it and how beautiful it can be can be frustrating. This video brought tears to my eyes the way Tony speaks about his marriage. I’m so excited to experience a marriage like this. 🙏🏽💕

Just that story about you sitting with your back to the door just made me pre order the book

Be Blessed!! First I want to say happy belated birthday and anniversary to you and your wife! You have changed my life tremendously! Thank you for your time and wisdom. One day when you open your club my husband and I will stop to meet you and your wife.🙏🏾

Yes. People sign up to buy cars go to school, open a bank account but not wanting to get married.

Hey Tony and Blessed Tribe!

Tony you are too funny. But you are soooo on point. Trust me , i know other couples like you and your wife. Its a BEAUTIFUL thing to see. Thank you for teaching us women the role of a husband. So MANY men need to be taught this!!!

“Be willing to pay attention ⚠️ to the man we come in union with because every problem we have in marriage was shown to us before the marriage” AMEN 🙏🏽 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🌺🌹🌹❤️❤️ Be Blessed. I preordered “A Women’s Influence,” I can’t wait to read it. 😃😃🥳🥳🥳🥳

I'm excited to hear about this topic

Hey Tony! Hey Blessed Tribe!!!

Dropping bombs Tony. Love. Understanding love languages. A shift of the dynamics to get back to a loving smooth place.

Omg 😆😆😆 Tony you are hilarious. I appreciate the candor and truth. You are amazing and a hero of our generation.

Be blessed. I am learning alot from your videos! Many people do all type of videos, but not all are for God's glory.The love you and your wife has is awesome and a example of what love and marriage is about. This is my first time leaving a comment, but I have watched some of your videos.They are real and very true. Alot is common sense, however we can know better, have discernment, and God can open our eyes and ears to alot, yet still fall victim, or even be guilty of certain things ourselves.May God continue to give you and your family heaven's best. May he protect and guide you both day by day and help you to continue being a living vessel for his glory and kingdom!!

Its refreshing to hear a man say he loves being married and how he will stand up for his wife, kids and marriage. Now that's a real man and not a grown boy. I will be getting your books. Be Blessed

Hey blessed Tribe!! Ready to get this good knowledge! I just ordered your book Make it Work I'm excited and the guy I'm dating is ready to read it with me! :)

BROTHA TONY ....the last minutes of these videos is the whole reason everytime I listen till the end THIS VIDEO ....So much GAME you here me I'm Blessed GOD BLESS YOU and your family Brother

Be blessed! I bought that book for my sister's birthday. I'll be buying my own soon. Thanks 😊!

If you don't understand the love of Christ, it's better to not enter into marriage cause Jesus Christ is Love.

Marriage can be a beautiful thing if done right. I believe marriage is a ministry within itself. Brother Tony I admire the way you speak of Sheree. Its awesome to know that some men do grow out of that immature stage where everything is a power struggle. Be blessed!!

I thoroughly enjoyed watching this video. 😌 I love LOVE. You & your wife make marriage beautiful 💞 I believe in marriage regardless of what the world puts out there. It’s God’s way, just that simple. Thank you for the video.

I'm proud of you guys. Keep Most High in your relationship. You guys are blessed to be together.

👑Marriage👑 is not only a purpose it's a faithful commitment until the ending of time of ETERNITY. That's why you must know yourself 1st amen. Real talk Bigbro Tony👑

Your message has left me speechless,it's very real and powerful. Be blessed

Tony is LIT in this video...I love it! Speaking da truth.

Great message, I am happy for you and Sheri, be blessed!

Be blessed Tony! I had to watch this again and again! This is such a blessing!

Your strength is in your gentleness😔god I love it

Heya,y'all just getting in!!! Good evening Bigbro Tony& Blessed Tribe. Be blessed

Tony, If I May, it is my sincere perspective, marriage is God's divine convenant between 'HIS' creation; male and female. If male and female united together as God 'originally' design, marriages would be more holy. People come together with unrealistic motives. Marriage is not 'one-sided'. You come together as a team. It's not about sex, or materialistic items but to glorify God in that reunion. A man 'needs' a woman just like a woman 'needs' a man. We are to complement each other in that grace of God. Both male and female have their part to accept in a marriage without seeking any outside inferences. Until, we, as a people, respect the union of marriage, men and women will 'never' be able to come together. We, as ladies, we should 'never' be intimidated by the word 'submission'. Women has more power in their marriage then they realize, and not just in the bed. Marriage can be a 'beautiful' institution when you wait on God. Instead, both men and women burn energy hurting each other and that cycle continues from relationship-to-relationship and from generation-to-generation. God created us to be together. We are the one's destroying marriages.

Be Blessed, Mr. Gaskin thank you for that beautiful, honest, open-hearted video. God continue to bless you and your family ❤️❤️❤️

Got to be the best video ever!! Just bought 2 of your books, can’t wait to dive in with my husband!!!

100% on point! Well said, and you preached too. Thanks, Tony!

Tony, another great video. We needed to hear this. Thank you for the encouragement for those of us that are single women looking forward to being in a healthy & committed marriage. Washing a woman in love and being a safe place are some of the most important things we need in a marriage. Be blessed!

Tony you said it. It took prayer and the willingness on Both parts plus your wife wanted to obey GOD and so did you and now your marriage is so blessed. It only works when both want it. When you it's only on see person fighting it's a losing battle

Be blessed! Reading your book now!

Absolute gems...as always! Be Blessed

Keep teaching my brother. You are a blessing 🙏🏾🙏🏾

Be blessed! I can't wait to read the book.

"We don't speak on QUEENS over here."

Pure gold!!! I love the way you truly care and protect your Queen and sons. Only a real man does that. Be blessed Brother Tony 🤴🏽and keep up with the amazing content🙏🏾🙏🏾

Awesome video Tony!! Be blessed 💗

Be blessed. Thank you Tony!

Listening from Roanoke VA. Be Blessed! Thanks for all you do!

BE BLESSED!!!! This was beautiful!!! Thank you for speaking spnmany truths and blessing our lives with these lessons!

Thank you for being transparent in LOVE ❤ God Bless you TG 🙏🏾 Be Blessed

Be blessed!! So many jewels was dropped yet again, great message 💗💗

Thanks for this video Tony..Be Blessed

This video renewed my mind on marriage. I’m excited and looking forward to it again. 🎉

Good Topic. I Was Just Talking About Some Of This In The Gym Last Night.✊🏿

God bless you abundantly Tony Gaskins and your wife and kids I truly appreciate your message on marriage

Be Blessed Tony!

Be blessed... your best video yet

Tony Tony Tony tonnnnnyyy........ U herrrr me... U blessed me again with this one. As a woman who wants a relationship and has kept them legs closed you hit so many nails on the head of what I've been preaching to men about how I hold myself and view dating and relationships.... I'm big in respect.... #1 a followed by honesty trust etc etc but when I mean I'mma save this video adn anyman I date will be receiving this gift.... For clarity....... Yes sir.....

"you on the wrong page" 🤣🤣🤣🤣