I see women all the time bragging about having sex on the first night and still getting the ring. A lot of single women feel down on themselves being chaste while women who sleep around find husbands, but they don't ever think about the quality of the husbands or marriage. The title of wife alone makes them think these women really have something. I'm here to say majority are full of it.
Shay thinks for bringing this to light because I do still struggle with this as far as getting down on myself. It seems like what’s good is bad and what’s bad is good. There are so many messages out there that allude to “sis just be rude disrespectful and triflin cause that’s what’s getting these women the ring” yet those characteristics are so far from who I am yet women who are like this seems like they are winning … idk
@@Mindful.Movement.01 The Bible says WOE to them that call right wrong and wrong right. They will pay for their poor choices in the end, or sometimes in the beginning. Hold fast to what you know is right and fight the good fight. You might have to do it alone because a good man is hard to find, but hopefully fate and God will bring you a good one.
The women I know who sleep with men on the first night are all promiscuous beyond that experience. I highly doubt these women are in happy, monogamous, loving, righteous marriages.
This is so true. Just lost a boyfriend that returned to his ex after supposedly one phone call from her. And he had said she had a dark spirit. Its powerful. I am not competing, go have the temporary fantasy. God's got me.
Whom ever a man decides to be with is a reflection of his character. Don't ever lower your standards to be with someone. That goes for women and men. The right one will love and accept you for who you are 💯
“They both deserve each other.” Thank you for the reminder, Tony! I’m not in the best physical shape right now, so I get discouraged when I see a man I’m interested in fall for the sexy Jezebels. Thank you for reminding us that HE also lacks the discernment that a godly man *should* have.
@@maame6768 that was so unnecessary. If this the type of person you are why are you here? Being mean isn't necessary. I feel the same way at times so what does her race has to do with anything? The devil.
Take longer look in the mirror Your very attractive and you should see yourself that way so may a say this ,start thinking instead that hey , I am attractive and if he can’t see it well he’s blind anyway
@@gelleh.5456 i was just sitting here like sis need to just go work on herself and stop pulling down a beautiful woman that has invested in herself and her body smh
Man im so happy the Lord removed the veils from my eyes. Because this new era we livin in desperately needs us all to practice spiritual discernment. I’m not easily impressed or carnal minded anymore thanx to The Most High!
Yessss to the last part. Transparency moment: I use to struggle with the spirit of lust when it came to good looking and fine men . If I saw it I wanted it and would often make the first move and sometimes be aggressive if I’m being all the way honest. I loved sex and still do (again being honest lol 😂) but now since my spiritual awakening and since I have embarked on my spiritual journey o how the game has changed me for and my thought process. I see the world and men totally different now. It’s interesting cause now I’m easily annoyed by the smallest shit lol 😂 no matter how fine and/or successful they are. My mindset has changed so much for the better and I’m so grateful for growth
@@Mindful.Movement.01 I literally read this almost thinkin it was me for a second 😩😂…. I used to be the same EXACT way! Now I’m not so easily impressed by looks and still love sex but saving myself until marriage which is hard but I much rather wait and practice self control then allow a man/boy to use me for his own selfish desires.
@@Mindful.Movement.01 I agree, I am not easily impressed anymore. And this goes for all types of men whether extremely attractive, decent looking, short, tall, It takes more than looks and money to impress me now.
Sheri is content with her life. She is always classy on social media, content with the attention that comes from HER man. That alone-- make her unlike ANY of the other women in the public eye with a husband that has influence, that I HAVE SEEN! Period! I always say it, but it is truly uncommon and appreciated- actually makes Tony more reputable, your mate is a reflection of you.
My ex who is 70 married "Jezebel" who is in her 50's. They met at work while he was ready to retire as an attorney. He's her third husband and her second older man. He acts like he's 16 around her. She has a good body because she never had children, and she works out like he loves to. He was on the elder board of a church for decades and a Bible teacher. He is so completely deceived. Because of his childish attitude and behavior, he has lost two of his three daughters and grandchildren. He told these daughters that he cares more for this woman than he does for them and his grandchildren. My daughters are pretty sure they've been written out of his will. I am heartbroken for my daughters.
You not lyingggggg! I ran across a lady and a few of them teach femininity and how to be feminine that’s cool however….! Some of them is teaching it from a Jezebel spirit and when I saw it, I stopped watching her because I don’t want that spirit on me or in my subconscious mind. It’s a blessing that you teach this because google RU-vid….. it’s people teaching people how to manipulate a man, a women… how to be a Jezebel spirit etc. Man y’all better cling to the Holy Spirit because it’s evil out here man…!
Same. I randomly found a femininity channel 2 years ago because the video kept popping up on my side bar. I was intrigued initially because I had never heard of a channel teaching women to be ‘feminine’. At first I was naive to the reality of their message. I watched for a couple weeks but it completely disturbed my spirit. I soon realized they were teaching toxic femininity and they had a jezebel spirit within them you could sense from what they were saying and how they believe women should portray themselves. It’s sad that they’re starting this negative movement. As women we are innately feminine, we just need to be the best versions of ourselves, for ourselves, and the man for us will appreciate that.
@@fuzzypants101 yes very much so sister, and at the end of the day we are all still women. And most men need to understand that all women are not the same.
This topic explains why some of the most beautiful, wealthy and famous women on the planet can't keep a man. Or the've had multiple marriages. A fantasy will eventually give way to reality.
@@tiffanyd.8660 I don’t think it’s about image I think it’s more of the man wanting the image that’s not real versus being with her for who she truly is.
But, I don’t understand. Sorry but I am wondering, if anybody on this channel does have deep conversations on their dates? I mean, you all agree with this statement that « famous women can’t have long term relationships because men discover the real them in life » hummmm.. the problem wouldn’t be on the fact that you didn’t have any kind of deep understanding of each other, before you commit based on APPARENCES.....?! 🤔
In today’s society it’s hard because young women are constantly asked when they’re going to get married or when they’re going to have kids and are looked down upon if they aren’t married and have kids by late twenties. But what we as women don’t know is the people who pressure you to get married and constantly talk down on you for being single and childless past a certain age are simply judging you because they’re miserable. So many people pretend to be in happy relationships and are miserable and put up with nonsense so they can say they have someone. Things aren’t always as they seem. If someone tries to guilt you into settling down with the wrong person look at their relationship and their life choices and discern if you should be taking advice from them
It is said that some men hurt so many women and kill their joy, feminity, and kindness before they get their basic toxic selves together. Stay single ladies and get your education, spirituality, finances, fitness, and self-development together. Work hard and vet a man and treat the decent men who are trying well.
😂😂😂😂 “hush” I don’t know why anyone would be offended. This is the channel of stepping on toes. I honestly don’t think anyone who has watched T in the last year and a half, hasn’t had their toes stepped on. We all have work to do in some way, shape or form.
I needed this tony cuz these dudes be trying to talk you out your common sense, so you'll settle for less. Needed this word, confirmed I'm on the ight track. Bless you and yours.
Great book that now sits next to every single book that has helped me grow.. wish this book was available to me 10 years ago.. that a man like Tony who actually lived a life of manipulating women, decided to turn it around and let us know.. he gets thumbs up from me.. because I am big on credibility... he has it.. I read the book twice, great content and easy to read.. I recommend it to all women of all backgrounds...
Omg I just told an ex this same thing. His whole IG is filled with women who are naked contortionist. I said why are you so into a fantasy and you have a real woman with the shape and features in the real world but you push a real woman away for a fantasy. Smh. It don't make any sense. I had to delete and move on.
You can recognize that spirit listening to a man or woman that has been with one, there's a residue that the Jezebel spirit leaves in conversation and behavior.
@@janeo4635 Coach T. did a You Tube talking about "the representative". My advice, is take a run through his videos and your question and questions will be answered. God Bless Jane O.
This sounds similar to my ex-boyfriend. He told me that he couldn't love me because of something his ex did to him in the past. Eventually, he broke up with me because of the trauma that became so severe. It hurts a lot that he woke up my love for absolutely nothing when he didn't heal yet.
Tony I appreciate this video because it is So Authentic & Real! Men consistently go for the fantasy and break the hearts of the Non Jezebels . I’m learning the best revenge is to Love w/out being wounded because staying defeated would only let both of them win ..
Those men are dumb they basically gave a demon access to their finances and then they will complain about women being gold diggers after they get divorced lol
I think maybe because sex before marriage is conceptualized as normal nowadays. This was a video with great insights thank you for your valuable information !
@Apricot Jones if that's your decision go ahead . Sex forms soul ties with other men I rather be goin about my business until I meet my husband . Been single for a long time satisfied and happy . God has my husband in mind I do not need to chase or compromise my values when the time comes
I appreciate this. I am that authentic lady who has passed on very attractive offers. I do like the nice material and financial abundance/gifts, but it has to be from someone that I have strong compatibility with, attracted to and our purposes are aligned. So, I walked away a few times from the shiny offers, but I trust that I'll receive over and beyond anything that I could ever imagine...
This is confirmation… I use to operate in a selfish seductive spirit but 2020 changed me… I’m going to keep trusting God and “not be weary in well doing”🙏🏾
Money attracts women men want but struggles attracts the women men need. Most men pick women based on physical beauty but she could have a rotten and evil spirit. She won't stay beautiful always, cause time catches up with everybody.
Something to keep in mind sis, those identities are just that, mere identities of those fallen angels. There is no Delilah, Jezebel, & Athaliah spirit. Those are just disguises of those particular fallen ones.
Such a good class.... Especially nowadays with this porn/social media generation. The real flex is be human. Yes, be pretty and soft but stop with all the perfect all the time b.s.. Men nowadays can barely hold a conversation because they're use to screen time. I've experience this...men wanting me to not wear converse on a date. I don't wear heels like that...
I would add, Jezzy is also after a man's audience. She wants to corrupt his company and negatively influence those who admire him or that he influences
Some of these people sell an illusion and talk the talk but don’t walk the walk & it’s hard to break free of the jez abele spirit. She/he won’t let go of the financing in the relationship most are straight up narcissist. God help them 🙏🙏🙏☮️
My ex husband married the woman he left me for, I found out some disturbing things about her, she goes after married men that has money, she doesn't care if they are married or not, as long as they are weak and will do whatever she wants, my ex husband was weak spiritually, so she preyed on him, she controls everything he does and she takes all his money, she has the Jezebel spirit and she has a cunning spirit, my pastor told me to stay away from her, shes into things she has no business doing, shes evil and God will deal with them both.
@@shawandabeasley142 I’m glad you consulted your pastor and he confirmed that for you. I’m wishing you love, light, positivity, and peace. You deserve it. ❤️❤️❤️
I use to have a Jezebel spirit,I'm so glad the Lord rebuked that spirit,I wanted to change, because I knew that wasn't me,I've always been shy,and that Jezebel spirit isn't shy at all. To God Be the Glory.🙏🏾
Tony you're like the Big Brother I never had. I love your videos! They give me hope that real men still exist. You're like a unicorn! Your wife is blessed to have you. I thank her for supporting your journey to educate us women, and let us know that you understand godly and chaste women. Thank you for lifting us women up. God bless you!
every woman that doesn’t have a jezebel spirit it is not unhygienic and leaving tampons around and going outside looking like they just woke up. i agree with mostly everything you said but i just wanted to say that
It's the women they feel are more deserving and would make them look better because he doesn't love himself. After she gets one, another man lines up. Lately, we've seen athletes and music artists all over the news. Most of the women, same look; even b**ty implants. She will keep taking them and they'll keep falling.
Great point! These type of guys want those women as show pieces so they can be envied by other men lol. To me it’s sucker sh-t and comical lol. I have no desire to be envied by other men.
Preach Coach Tony. You best say it. These brother have truly gotten out of control today. Thx you for calling it what it is. God bless you and your beautiful family
Is it possible for a Jezebel spirit to be the type to willingly be a side-chick to a man and feel like she's "won" once she got him? The man may not have a "bag" or be all that, money wise, but it's just an ego boost for her to have been able to "take" someone else's man. Acting as if his conversation is so deep and profound and you know this man don't be talking about nothing. This man just might be neck-breaking fine. Fine to the point of having you do a double-take and make women shoot THIER shot.
Been feeling the same,, if your not over sexualizing yourself then you don’t get as much attention,, I don’t get it I’m not comfortable exposing my body for attention
I needed this today. Thank you Tony! I have been left in the dust before by someone who I thought I was special to me. Gut wrenching. Now he’s trying to get in touch but I’m saying no.
🙌👏🙌🙋♀️👏🙋♀️You betta preachTony! You're funny but telling the sho nuff truth! Thank you for opening our eyes to men marrying the Jezebel spirit. Looking forward to your video of women marrying the Jezebel spirit. God bless you brother Tony, keep up the good work.
THANK YOU TONY!!! I needed to hear this this morning! I was finishing up a video by you I feel asleep on last night and this one came on!! I just knew I was the problem and asked the LORD to show me what I was doing wrong and why things were happening with these so called men! This video gave me my answer! GOD BLESS YOU and the work you’re doing!! THIS DEFINITELY GAVE ME MORE PEACE!!
Love how he imitates his scenarios 😂😂always makes me laugh....thank u for the advice tony if it wasnt for u i'll be still entertaining some guys from my past i highly appreciate u
Tony.. This message is great and men need to hear this! Men be having unrealistic expectations..Thanks for breaking down the difference between a real woman and a jezzabel..
This was good! There are a lot of content creators who focus on femininity and teach women to be polished, pretty, and poised on a regular basis. Based on your video, there seems to be fine line and women need to be mindful of this. Thank you 🙏🏾
Lady L agree! I was actually speaking of a lot the messages in the femininity movement. I listen to them and some go the extreme in their teachings and the women are listening. This video just made me reflect on many of the messages I hear... I definitely see your point though.
You got more of them out there besides just Jezebel. You got the Succubus spirit, The Delilah spirit, and The Lilith spirit ain't none of them no good.
Yes many evil spirits out here. But keep in mind, the demons use these names along with many others. There is no “Jezebel” spirit given that the fallen ones, again, use these type of names to purposely confuse people to miss the forest for the tree. At the next of the day, these are just fallen angels that can only be casted out by the Name & Authority of Jesus Christ. God bless and peace!
Thank you for saying this! I have been saying this type of thing for years! It is rampant out there! Sadly, the women & men being played by these type of ppl are also being treated like the problem! Finally, some one who spoke truth about this!
What'd Cameo say? *"I'm living the single, single, single, single...LIFE!"* Bcuz yeah, Uncle Tony. I'm so sick of stretch pants & jelly rolls sticking out everywhere idk what to do! Hair not done, eyelashes 10 inches, and tail feathers jigglin' all over the place. These "brothas" step to decent, good women, like they're dating with purpose, only, not. Once, you peel away their representative's mask, you've got naught. It's tiring & pathetic & I'm over it. Kueens shouldn't have to question who they are or what they're "bringing to the table" when there's nothing on the table to begin with or no table. Stuff not even cooking on the stove. It's a whole illusory delusion. Jezebels shouldn't be a Kueen's competition point blank peer-e-oddT! 😒 tide.
