The Truth About Our Marriage

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@angievanderzon8976 Год назад

Finally, someone has the guts to keep it REAL! I say this all the time.. So many people on Facebook, RU-vid, social media...Only post how absolutely Wonderful their lives are going! When in reality...No one's life's...are PERFECT! I am so grateful that you two are upfront & honest and have taken the time to sit down with your viewers and discuss this topic. You are both just.... AWESOME...🙂🙂 Luv you guy's..❤️❤️

@clairesnelson9961 Год назад

I really appreciate and respect the honesty. It's so refreshing having a RU-vidr be open and honest. All marriages have bumps but it's how you work through them together that matters, which you guys do . I'm 27,been married 5 years with 3 kids and I can tell you from experience finding a healthy way to communicate your needs while still validating your spouse is so so so vital! I appreciate ya'll! All the love!

@nicolepereira3750 Год назад

the fact that you both can talk so freely, honestly, and non-judgementally about your “problems” as a couple shows how strong your relationship is and that is what’s important ❤

@joycewyatt2550 Год назад

I have been married to my husband for 22 years. The only time we had a sitter was if I was at school and my husband was at work. It was only out of necessity. We took care of our daughter. We are both disabled now and together 24/7. We have arguments, not fights. There is a difference. When Zoe tells the same stories is it about trauma.? If it is it just means that repeating it means she is still dealing with it and will. I had childhood trauma. I have to talk about it sometimes and my husband is the one I have to talk to. So like it or not he hears the same thing repeatedly. Just be there to listen , it is the most important thing. You all do so many great things with your kids, they are so very sweet. Take care!

@felicitycarter8120 Год назад

Well put Joyce. You have made me realise why I randomly tell my husband stories about past family traumas. I probably have repeated them over and over in the past 20 years. Thank you so much, you have really helped me with something that at 54 I still struggle with. 😊

@bri2146 Год назад

My bf gets upset when I tell him about my trauma after the first time bc it just makes him angry and he can’t fight it away but I really need to talk about it. I don’t love thinking about it or talking about it but when I think about it I get upset and I don’t want him to just wonder why I’m being snappy since he doesn’t like when I talk about it.

@alg2116 Год назад

Thank you for being honest. Marriage is hard I have been married 15 years it is not easy 100% we are around each other 24/7 . My husband and I are on SSDA so we don't work outside that house. I have been struggling with some things in my marriage too. My husband has had 3 strokes and 2 heart attacks and open heart surgery. It has not been easy dealing with all the health issues he has been having. I tell you people that have had this are always sleeping and very crabby. Marriages are not easy I know that for a fact. Thank you so much for sharing your story with us. You try crabby. Marriages are not easy I know that for a fact. Thank you so much for sharing your story with us. You two are wonderful. If you got God in you marriage you can do anything. If it were not for that I would be single. Love you guys!! There is no shame in getting help. I live with mental health issues myself and I have help. There is no shame in it all. Praying for you two from the bottom of my heart.

@stankastank77 Год назад

You are such a great mom. You not rude your kids are so sweet! You teach them everything c is for c c cut. I love you guys!❤❤

@emilywalker836 Год назад

I love how open you guys are with us!

@michelecooper2165 Год назад

Love Garrick’s long hair…

@r2488 Год назад

I think there’s totally something to be said about the seven year mark of a marriage being the hardest. My marriage had its problems but everything seem to get worse at year seven together. Not sure what it is but it seems like you kind of get to a point where you’re not sure if you’re sick of each other even though you love each other so much and you’re kind of bored in your routine. I think being willing to work on yourselves independently and on your relationship together it was super important. Being able to find some sort of independence and things that you like to do by yourself while also putting in your best effort to be the best partner and friend you can be.

@susanswanson2253 Год назад

What's good is you're aware of what's wrong, and you're talking it out. Lots of marriages don't get that far. 🙂

@brandybuchanan2674 Год назад

I love how incredibly honest you both are ❤ I have had struggles with communication- how I communicate and how I receive what others are saying. I read a book called “Non Violent Communication “ and it has been so helpful! I would definitely recommend it ♥️

@jeenaanstiss4065 Год назад

We just celebrated our 8 years, and I needed this video! Its opposite for us, we never see each other. He's at work and I'm at home with our daughter 😅🥰lol on the weekends, its filled with side jobs, and finishing the remodel on our family home! Its just been soooo much lately!! He has his long days, and so do I! But at times its like its a battle who deserves more sleep, and as a ftm that irritated me! But I also feel like he does need more sleep, he has to get up early and be physically whooped everyday! So I feel horrible, but I know I am also doing exactly what Iam supposed to....it can be very hard at times, wanting to get away but you can't! We argue because we need more 1 on 1 with each other, and be better at communicating! And yes dealing with parents' stuff and trying to deal and cope with your own, is so rough! It just adds more stress and tension😔 Iam so glad you guys share what you do! It does help us relate!😅🙌 Stay safe, stay humble and happy hauntings!🥰✌🙏🕸🍬🍭🍫🎃⚰

@Mangoliveson Год назад

As a couple who has three kids close together, and been married for 41 years, the only thing I would change is to have a date night once a month when our kids were growing up. It’s so important to be able to let your hair down and remember why you fell in love. It will make your kids happy to see your healthy love.

@lydiamcdowell8634 Год назад

I needed this video thank you for being honest I feel so much less alone when I hear that I’m not the only one struggling with these issues. I love you guys.

@siennakay3922 Год назад

also zoe look into online therapy!! you can do online therapy for couples through a few websites and they have times as late as 9:30 from what i know! that’s what my husband and i do and we don’t have to leave the kids :)

@deedeebow4506 Год назад

Ughhh! What happened to the end? Thx for opening ur hearts, Im sure your honestly helps so many! I've watched your beautiful family grow, baby by baby!♡♡♡. Im 52 & If I only understand half of what you know now at ur age I probably wouldn't be divorce now. The love your family projects is a beacon, so keep shining!!!!

@jaymieshaw9483 Год назад

Thank you for being real and for sharing your struggles with us. Not many people are real like this on RU-vid. Thanks again!

@Ohthetruthisoutthere Год назад

Y’all are so awesome! Keep being real, me and my husband went and go through something similar. Therapy really helped us and getting out for even just a day alone was what we needed. 😊❤ Hope you guys have a good week!🎉

@panicatthebrunch550 Год назад

I love your little family so much, love watching you both grow together. As someone who has been with my boyfriend for 6 years (similar to you guys) I relate to so much of this, it’s heathy to acknowledge the hiccups and work on them together. This video really gave me goosebumps when watching, love the video, keep up the amazing work :)

@emmajackson2516 Год назад

love you guys and always keeping it honest!

@simplyshannvlogs Год назад

I absolutely can relate so much to y'all! I love how so real you both are absolutely love you guys so much and your videos sooo much!

@siennakay3922 Год назад

i love that y’all are uploading this and being so real!! ♡

@udybrull2522 Год назад

I look out for all your videos and love the honesty 🫶🏻

@paulawilliams7030 Год назад

Besides loving watching you guys i enjoy reading the comments. Everybody loves your family cause your doing the best job!

@stelenaxepic9083 Год назад

You two are literally the reason I believe in love😭 Not because you have the perfect relationship but because you two are so real and pure. I really love what you two have and the family you created. I really wanna have something like this someday❤

@ChakrasJourneyVlog Год назад

You guys remind me so much of my husband and I we have now been married 23 years we are in our 40 es now and omg it has been worth all the fights and loving each other through it. We are now in a place of gratitude for each other and all that we have love gratitude appreciation it gos such a long way we no longer fight. I am bipolar and have gotten help for it and lots of therapy man I could not recommend it enough. Live in gratitude, faith and love for each other and don’t sweat the small stuff is my advice. But get help for your selves always bettering yourself and accepting the other person flaws and all. I love you guys so much . Your doing an amazing job. Keep it up ❤❤❤❤

@sarahpastrano1820 Год назад

I honestly would have never guessed so THANK YOU for sharing and making us all feel better about our marriages. Also young parents over here who don’t like babysitters so I totally understand what you mean. Thank you again for sharing, we love you guys!!

@amandaellefson320 Год назад

I agree with the how you treat your kids is how they turn out BUT my oldest son who is 17, is 💯 his dads behavior even though his dad is not in the picture. His behavior, how he talks, him not having empathy. It’s all like his dad. But he has been raised be me. So while I do believe that, there is always one off! Lol

@Briannalynn676 Год назад

Love that you guys are open!

@hannahlangevin397 Год назад

This conversation is so needed in society today!! With people growing up on social media and only seeing highlight reels, people aren’t aware that having problems is normal! Not being perfect all the time is expected and okay. Everything is temporary and this too shall pass. THANK YOU guys for normalizing this because this helped me out emotionally/mentally and I guarantee this will help others realize it’s ok to not be ok!❤

@jlynnharris0725 Год назад

My husband and I have been married 27 + yrs and you both remind me so much of us in our 20’s. We have an amazing relationship and it’s because we communicate and have always had at least one to two date nights a month. We bought 100 date night ideas from Amazon and take turns picking our date night. Sometimes we’ll go buy takeout and have either a car picnic or take a blanket and have one at the park. If you have friends with kids offer to alternate kids movie night even if for a few hours. When you are blessed to find your soulmate cherish every moment together❤️❤️❤️

@jamiebyers4357 Год назад

Honestly probably the best thing you could do for your relationship is talk about the things that bother you about each other. I think the more you talk about things and deal with the issues the better it is in the long run for your relationship. Even talking about your past childhood trauma is healthy for your relationship. Hugs and love to you both.

@fluteloops22 Год назад

Is it me or did the video cut off while they were still talking? Anyway…. love how real you guys are. Real relationships take work. The fact that you’re so open with one another and with us shows the true strength and love of your relationship.

@JustJillin61 Год назад

It did cut off!

@fluteloops22 Год назад

@@JustJillin61 k thanks glad it wasn’t just me!

@emmas5 Год назад

I feel like Zoe would make a great montessori school teacher! :)

@josiestyers5784 Год назад

My husband and I are going through the same thing. We literally never have any alone time. Not even in our own bed. Our two year old still sleeps with us. Now we have been working on her sleeping in her own bed she's been in her bed 6 out of the last 7 nights. We have Covid so we let her sleep with us one of the nights. But we have to do something because we don't even get to have intimate time anymore

@morganandjoseph76 Год назад

thank you guys for sharing this. my boyfriend & i are not married yet but we have been together for a while. we are currently going through a rough spot & have been arguing pretty bad. zoe, joseph gets so mad at me for not remembering things & i love how garick said he handles it because i can now see it from another side on how to maybe work around the frustration for him that i forget everything, if that makes sense. garick, i have been diagnosed with biopolar & honestly it changed my life when i went & got help, so i suggest to everyone to go reach out for help even if it isn't too bad.

@christinarose7894 Год назад

Love watching you guys! And I agree I love making and decorating cookies with my daughter ❤

@katetomlinson1638 Год назад

i love you guys.. i needed this, like i REALLY needed some help figuring out how to have these conversation but not have it feel like an episode of intervention

@kenneditompkins3609 Год назад

Ya'll should do meet and greets that would be Dope!!!!1

@drgnflylover0774 Год назад

Love that you guys are posting regularly. Love your family

@BabyMango Год назад

Some of the best advice I’ve gotten from a relationship therapist is - imagine yourself at the end of the argument and define how you want to feel. Most of us want to feel safe and loved by our partner. So communicate in a way that gets you there. My fiancé and I started holding hands and saying things like “when ___ happens, it makes me feel ____ because ____” That’s kept us from blaming or attacking. Holding hands allows us to stay connected and show love to each other even when we are upset. Even starting a disagreement with a hug and an “I love you, let’s sit down and talk” can change so much! You guys are obviously doing great as a couple, you can definitely get to a point where these issues don’t continue to linger

@MollysADHDMayhem Год назад

I love how much I can relate to you! I have ADHD so my forgetfulness and interrupting is down to that! But I’m so thankful you speak so honestly x

@KP-nk7fo Год назад

I love that garricks getting his own space finally and you too zoe. I’m loving how you’re decorating and have things just for you! So good

@kimberlypenac Год назад

This is SUCH a breath of fresh air. Thank you guys for being so honest. My boyfriend and I have recently needed to remind ourselves of the same values you guys seem to have. We have also been together for 7 years, we are 22 years old, and have a 5 y/o, 3 y/o, and 1 y/o. We always come to realize that we just have to work a little harder sometimes as we continue to grow as young adults all in the midst of being younger parents. You guys are amazing and I love watching you guys, especially with how much we can relate to you guys. Thanks for keeping it real. 🤍 Love from Central MN. 🤍

@Jmw1979. Год назад

Ty for being real it's refreshing

@bearhensley9722 Год назад

Thank you kids for this I really needed this right now. Your out looks hit home for me. I have been with my husband for 42 years married for 40 of them. I agree young parenting is not easy. I had my first baby at 19 and second at 21 it is not an easy thing to do. So keep up the good work kids so proud of the both of you and your kids are the sweetest things. Sending you lots of love ❤️

@thegrahamericandream531 Год назад

Cheers to healthy marriages!❤. Been married 12 years, together 18😊. Love seeing other couples and the life they live. Whether it’s similar or completely diff. I enjoy seeing so many people live life their way ❤ you’re kids are so loved. You’re incredible parents ❤.

@mariavalentinaguzman7843 Год назад

I will always be here to support and love you guys. Always do what you consider is best for you and your family. Opinions will always be there, just do you, be happy and whatever is best for all! 💗

@KaegansMamma04 Год назад

Sending love from Michigan!

@janetteheyworth2335 Год назад

Hi van clan I really love your video,s thank you for doing this video it is so nice you shared more about your self's loverly to see xx

@lizsen2254 Год назад

You guys are so awesome! ❤

@marieknowlton3966 Год назад

We love you down here in western ny everyone talks about you your the best

@lornajackson3934 Год назад

Your kids are adorable and so well mannered and credit to you both xxx

@TheIddieMorris Год назад

Damn !!! You guys!!! You have insight first of all, you are willing to own your mess, and work on it. Young AND smart. Pretty amazing. 💪💪💪❤

@rcarpenter3 Год назад

I simply can not say how much this video means to me.... I'm not married, nor do I have kids. That being said, I do have trauma, and have been told I have "horrid communication skills". Thank you so much for sharing this side of your marriage. I love watching you guys ❤❤

@ashleyosborne9218 Год назад

These videos are so relatable love it ❤️

@lucylawes Год назад

I really appreciate this ❤

@ashsanchez430 Год назад

Love from California ❤ watching your guys video make my day and get me motivated for the dayI have two boys 1 year old and 3 year old

@mirandawillie6909 Год назад

Hi Zoe and Garrick I love watching your vlogs your kids have grown so much I hope you guys are enjoying your fall so far I wasn't ready for fall quite yet it won't be long it will start getting colder again which I am not ready for that either I hope you guys are enjoying this cool weather well you guys get cooler weather then anyone else around the USA I hope you guys are having a wonderful day how are you guys?

@eliseaatravissknightt Год назад

Literally thank you soo much!! I really needed this relationship and real life segment I’m going through similar things in my relationship and it’s so nice to know that we aren’t crazy and this is normal!! And we too do have a lot of childhood trauma but the love is there

@eliseaatravissknightt Год назад

And you guys can relate really helped me to see because with my trauma anytime something goes wrong my mind picks fight or flight and I have no idea how to navigate and think my relationship isn’t normal and toxic when In reality it’s not at all. We’re just two individuals that have had hard childhoods and have a lot of baggage that we both have to work through And You guys also talking about the raising aspect of things for the kids I loved that too and it’s so nice too see because having kids is a terrifying thing for me to even think about because I don’t want them to go through what I did. You guys & your fam have just brought so much joy to my life from just watching throughout the passed year!! And being able to see not just you’re highlight reels, but real moments and sit down talks like this, it’s just simply EVERYTHING because I needed it, and you just saved me a lot less overthinking and took the stressors away when it comes to how stressed and focused I’ve become on my relationship and all the negatives that we have I didn’t think at all it was as normal and to hear you guys literally be speaking our truth in front of my eyes was really cool to see. Because life is really hard!! I’m realizing it’s okay to not always be okay!! Thank you so much I really needed to see this today! I love you all!😘❤️🥰🥰

@wt0416 Год назад

I love that u guys are open. Great vlog!!

@sydnowlan3500 Год назад

Loved this video ❤️ no one has mentioned yet the video abruptly ends in the middle of your sentence!

@jaimegower1736 Год назад

I am so proud of you both! I love your family so much!

@jessicafehr5529 Год назад

I really appreciate it that you are open and honest with us I love you guys so much ❤

@lindamiles5272 Год назад

I want to say first, I love watching your videos! You are so inspirational to me ! My husband and I married young and have been married for 43 years! Watching your young family I am sure you will have a long ..happy marriage too and you are so smart to talk and keep talking to each other! Keeping silent and angry can be a cancer in any relationship. I feel blessed to have been married to a wonderful man who understands communication is soo important and seeing you two figuring out your journey with your family is beautiful! Thanks for all you share..keep sharing. ❤️

@_shiannegolden Год назад

Much love from Panama City Florida

@terrimacdonald7782 Год назад

Love watching your family vlogs!! You guys have such beautiful/handsome sweet kids. My hubby and I are the same way in the sense of not having babysitters for our kids. love 😍 from Ontario,Canada 🇨🇦 🍁

@cheriwhitley8385 Год назад

Y’all r more grown up than many many people your age and even older people..u know and admit where the problems are and can apologize to each other.and to not argue or fight in front of the kids shows your love and respect for them and each other..u never want kids to have to take sides ..your honesty is refreshing.u do need family or friends that came give u a date night or just alone time away from each other once in awhile..everybody needs a out no matter how much u love each other.,or your kids..I use to take a looong bubble bath with a glass of wine,a book,and candles with no interference..it makes a diff..keep doing u..u r doing great!❤

@user-mh1qk1kf7c Год назад

We're all here because we love watching you guys and watch you grow in life and follow along on all your amazing adventures. I'm sure everyone else can also say this, that you guys are one of the REALEST RU-vid family's out there. Just keep on doing what you guys are and I am sure you'll get through all the bad days. sending lots of love ❤❤❤

@tornminds66 Год назад

communication is hard in every relationship. You guys have inspired alot of people from singles to families, and yes I'm sure most of us know that your marriage isn't "perfect". me and my fiance are still learnign how to communicate with eachother and it is hard but we try to not go to bed angry if we do we usually wake up and say sorry and hug it out.

@Hbaby727 Год назад

I just wanted to say.. as a fellow ADHD brain here I don't think you have anger issues. our brains just have a low tolerance to things sometimes so it just may seem that it's a pop off BUT it's just our brains... it likes to take those kindof risks and jump to things at times. lolol

@sophmadiirose Год назад

yes!! totally agree

@kathyanderson1509 Год назад

We love ya .just listen to one another . Talk it out .

@elizabethgrepo2178 Год назад

You keep it so real! Amen to normalizing therapy! Thank you guys ❤️ one thing that is helping my relationship with communication and loving each other how we feel loved is the book: The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman

@kenneditompkins3609 Год назад

Awesome Video! What a Beautiful Family I Love This Sweet and Beautiful Family Zoey your Stunning Garick Is adorable Wilder Is a cutie Hazel Is pretty!!! Baby Venture Is preious!!!!! I Love You-Guys So So Much!!!!!

@xxamythest503xx Год назад

See right there u just communicated to each other maybe u should do more of theses video like film them, u don't even need to post it, look how much u guys are able to let out and let be free, thank u this helped me but I think it also helped u!! LOVE FROM MY FAMILY TO YOURS❤️

@sherryedwards5352 Год назад

Hi from Tennessee you both are right and atleast you both are realizing what the problem is .you have to work hard on your marriage. But what you need is a date night or ask your mom or dad to come and stay a few days and you too go away for a few days.Zoe what size clothes do you wear.

@thealexanderfamilyy Год назад

"Everyone thinks it's just like Disney Land" THAT right there was a really good idk description? I am the worst with describing what i'm thinking but that part was just a really good way to describe how viewers may think our lives are!

@Hagrids_secret_elf Год назад

Sending love from Washington state ❤

@deniseanderson6404 Год назад

I believe whatever works for Your Family is your Family. I've been Married since 17yrs old and We just celebrated 42 yrs. You have to want to work hard at it and have FAITH of course LOVE 😘 above all. Prayers 🙏❤️🙏❤️

@zoemorrischoreography Год назад

Zoe I look up to you so much for trying to make a better life for your kids

@tracyjane1000 Год назад

Don’t be hard on yourselves. You two are AMAZING - and as you say - start worrying when you don’t argue any more. It’s healthy and shows that you both care. Just COMMUNICATE always ❤❤❤

@tracyjane1000 Год назад

And ps. I love seeing people breaking the cycle of traumatic upbringings !!

@sunnylife6892 Год назад

I love your video!

@shannonmalone9402 Год назад

I really needed to see this! ❤ did the video cut out for anyone else?

@blbell007 Год назад

Y'all are amazing!! I think that's true, you should deffinetley make vids truthful. I just started a youtube channel (I'm 15) but I love to keep my videos real.

@kirby1ist Год назад

Thanks for a great video. I have had a nagging question to ask. Is the opening theme song one of Garricks.

@Klaudia_M13 Год назад

It’s so nice to see you communicating with each other this calmly. You are aware of yourselves very much and that is not obvious for everyone. Guys, the ending of the video was cut. And please Garrick, let us know if Zoe pushed you away or not 😂

@cgotlb Год назад

It's amazing how even in those tough times u still seem to have such great feeling for ea other.. There's no relationship/ marriage which does not have ups & downs.. n (a lot of pple) have a time of divorce thoughts.. But good fa you to work through them.. and actually wld push u to yes take the time.. even just 1 overnight to have time just for each other.. "recharge the battery" and good for you just knowing what u need to do .. and both wanting to make it work. Good luck.. ur such gr8 parents with such sweet kids.

@mpdaugherty8549 Год назад

Marriage, Kids,Life and Family takes pride, respect,God and love to make it happen or work. Honesty is the best policy! Amen

@Auroraalucia Год назад

Love you guys more than anything

@TheVanClan Год назад

We love YOU

@chantelleefird6073 Год назад

Is it just me, or did the video end short?

@jessicarichcreek7000 Год назад

Your relationship is exactly mine lol my husband has no patience and had anger issues and I forget things a lot and he hates it. We all can relate to this so much!

@alexfuller2187 Год назад

Take everything day by day don't rush why ur guys are amazing person and awesome RU-vid and u both are amazing parents'to ur kids and everything just take everything day by day and everything I be very proud of u guys for do amazing job on RU-vid

@luciegrn6382 Год назад

I started following you the day you found out you were pregnant with Venture. I just wanted you to know that, the reason why I did it was because I needed to see a happy family, joyful, full of life... while I was loosing mine (my mom had cancer and I was 21). The truth of your words, the sincerity of your happiness and your kid's happiness, allowed me conforting moments when I needed them the most. I wanted to thanks you for that. You are doing a lot for us, without always knowing it. Stay true to yourself

@glynisbaglow2169 Год назад

I'm sure that with the love you have for each other and the way you are able to communicate with each other then with or without a Councillor you will be able to sort out any problems that you may face together. I was 17 and my husband 18 when we got married in 1972 I had my eldest son in 1973 I was 18 I had my daughter in 1975 I was 20 I had my youngest son in 1978 I was 23. When my youngest son was 7years old we started fostering for the local authority. When we had been doing it for 10 years my husband 42 passed away from a heart attack we had been married 23 years. I carried on fostering for another 13 years and then reluctantly I had to retire due to I'll health. I am now 67 years old. I'm sharing my story for you to see how much you both are already doing to expand and enhance your family. Love and hugs to you both and all your family. XxxX ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤

@kimurso937 Год назад

If you have a family you have ups and downs NO ONE is perfect and it’s nice to this because it’s how normal life is ❤❤❤❤

@0lovely_bpd0 Год назад

i don't know if y'all will see this, but i would truly seek a diagnosis of bipolar or BPD for yourselves. childhood trauma and a bad upbringing can truly cause your brain to rewire itself in ways we aren't always FULLY aware of.. i relate to the little amount of patience Garrick mentioned & the snapping to responsed immediately then instantly regretting it.. i personally have been diagnosed with a handful of things (BPD included) & honestly? it helps to know and learn about others who also struggle with the issues i have and has made me able to communicate in a more effective way.. i also related to forgetting what i have said & repeating myself like Zoe, and how you feel so frustrated because you want to not put someone through you repeating yourself.

@jasminepaton8089 Год назад

I feel like I'm looking in a mirror of myself and my partner. We don't have the same childhood history as you guys, but we have our own traumas and the way that has affected us is SO similar.

@ginnab777 Год назад

My husband and I have been married 28 years , together for 32 . We had our first daughter at 16 . Marriage takes work ! We are best friends and love each other beyond words. Arguments happen and we always talk about it later and strive to do better. Also, everyone needs there own time !!! Life is short and the petty things just don't matter.

@jillynjackson957 Год назад

I can completely relate to you guy’s completely 🎃🎃🎃🎃🎃 I have been with my sons father for 14 years and we struggle also dude to our childhoods and want differently for our son!!!! You are not alone. Open the Bible and stay in Prayer that is what helps me overcome and be able to sometimes just get out of bed💙💙💙💙🙏🙏🙏💥💥💙💥💥🙏🙏🙏🙏

@JN.S.M Год назад

Arguments are inevitable. The only thing that matters is respect. When there is a difference of opinion, keeping in mind the tone of voice like you said and the fact that the other’s opinion is just as valid as yours creates an understanding environment that even your kids can learn from.