The Try Guys Shave Their Dads • Fatherhood: Part 4 

MissDarcei think he said "are you crying?"

MissDarcei #Sad

Lmao

No eugene you're wrong im crying 😭

if you did not cry your soulness

Kamila Feehan that hit me hard. my mom left when I was in middle School and I don't know why. I had always thought she never wanted me.

Kamila Feehan Me too... It felt like a sharp object wounded my heart... like wow...

so sad😭😭😭😭

kamila feehan ur cute

lian bmut not the time for that, dude.

allthefeels not physically but figuratively

PJ B heartbreak is a physical feeling 💔

allthefeels i am crying right now

I doubt you felt your heart physically break . but i see your point

Heartbreak is real. That has been proven medically and scientifically

Exactly!

@@emilv.9135 he WHAT???

Sarah Sings oh thank god it wasn’t his real father. But his stepfather seemed like a very sweet man and my wishes go out to min, eugene, and their family.

@Sarah Sings Oh... well as you said, still sad

No it is his biological dad.. look at the image recreation video- hes the spitting image of him. And he always calls him his dad, and his dad’s girlfriend his stepmom If he was his stepdad he would have said so

😭😭😭😭😭😭😂😔

GloomyBean :3 no........ maybe............... yes.........

they say you dont always need tears to cry

Well I am so yeah...

The air is so dry there

I know, lots of people do that when uncomfortable in hugs, and some just do it because they're accustomed to if but I think that's what it is

Isa The Gacha girl gravity falls?

This is a cultural thing. Oftentimes, those who are older than you who give you hugs pat you on the back as a gesture of adoration. It's a nonverbal way of saying "I adore you" or "I love you". Koreans rarely ever say the words "I love you" even to your own child or parents so oftentimes we find other ways to express it without actually saying it directly. It's that passive aggressive nature that we're just born with 🤣🤣🤣

I am now almost 30, my mother said she love me for the first time a couple years ago. The first time she actually embraced a hug that wasn’t responded with Pat Pat Pat was just a couple years ago. It’s very much a cultural thing.

That sir, is the Asian pat

*hi*

Ashley Rodriguez Hi

@JackOfSpades no it isn't

@@yaldabaoth9235 To me it is because growing up as an asian, my parents would pat me all the time. It was a sign of affection so maybe we just have different experiences.

@@kortilla8287 I think it's pretty much a common thing to do in everywhere except the anglosphere. not exclusively asian

@@kortilla8287 yes lol pat pat is a thing here even in south Asian Countries

ITS ALWAYS THE PAT PAT BAHAHAHA

Ev Bear why are you crying?

Because it’s emotional

That’s me in therapy

MY FACE IS WET.

Ev Bear lol

we will see new Eugene , these videos are like having a therapy

legit made me cry

*cries*

leeah galaxies same

leeah galaxies i started crying that's for sure

leeah galaxies samee

leeah galaxies that's so me

leeah galaxies me rn

And what Ned and Keith's dads said right before about their wives already had me tearing up.

Me😭

I'm Not crying, you are!

Me..... 🙋😭😭😭

I almost cried.

I'm still crying :"c

12:30

noooOOOO. sh sh shhhh. shushhhh. I am like seconds away from crying rn

I'm crying so much tbh.

my mother and her siblings would say the same thing about their father. my grandfather father walked out on them before my grandfather was born

mena21721 they have come such a long way in just a couple of days

one day:)

That was so sad and happy at the same time. I almost cried and I told my eyes, DON'T YOU DARE CRY! WE'RE GOOD, WE'RE GOOD, STOP IT EYES! lol.

Disney Queen hopefully they'll keep it up that way :)

Fandom Girl i know x) it was really touching

you should watch the vid of eugene and his dad going to a gay bar together!!! their relationship has progressed really well and it makes me super happy to see it

Ghabrielle Almeida tbh Eugene’s dad wasn’t a bad dad, he just came from Korea in a time where the country was really poor so he had to work much harder to support his family than native born Americans since they had more generational wealth built up, it’s the unfortunate part about moving countries especially to from a poorer one to a rich one. I feel like he would’ve been able to spend more time with his kids when they were young if not for the struggles immigrants face

@imyourdadandim9 whoaaa dude you got a stick in the mud. I dont want to speak against your family because each one are varied in life but i believe people can change and at least based on the try guys videos we saw, eugene and his dad had mend their relationship for the better ps: you're not at fault, your family is

@imyourdadandim9 well that sucks really hope more opportunity comes for you, mate

OMG I KNOWW

¡~¡ BOOTIFUL...

sarah johanna :0

kaylin lopez I Know.. almost all of them got me feel emotional..especially eugene..

omg i forgot this. And they hugged for like 18 seconds!

Isabella Manson YESSSSSS TSUNDERE ENGENE IS THE BEST ENGENE

Isabella Manson the meaning of Eugene is tsundere

YEESSSSSS!! Ikr!!

Isabella Manson I

A tsundere with a little bit of yandere 😂😂😂

sometimes you just find that youre better seperate from someone than together, doesnt mean ya have to have bad blood

He seems like a respectful man

That's.... healthy? Like talking bad about someone after a breaup/divorce if they didn't do much bad, then that's just unhealthy. Edit: just for anyone who sees this, my dad and mom do **not** have this relationship. They are divorced. I know what it’s like to have parents like that.

@@djdog120 it is healthy but its not always the case in divorce. I think the commenter was just appreciating it

@@djdog120 nearly every divorced couple I know talks smack about their exes to their kids. It’s not okay but it happens so often. Of course not everyone does this but it’s so prevalent. It’s something sweet to be pointed out as something to emulate.

Writers Block Nah, we talked about that last episode.

we talked about that in EVERY episode

i was looking for this comment

Yes just deeper but the SAME

Writers Block omgggg yesss I waiting for someone to point this out lol

Random Person. *sniff*im NOT CRYING *double sniff* you're crying

Who is chopping onions near me?!?!

same same . hahahahhahah

Random Person allergies, I have allergies.

Random Person My eyes are deep cleaning the dust with tears, the dust is really stuck in there..

God this hit me deep.

Abyssal *same*

Nazaline is a beautiful name. I've never heard it before. Does it mean something special?? 💖💖💖

@@zuzuomeleteoriginal oh my haha

Like everyone else was so happy and they were just having sad, bonding, deep talk

Twilight Bright I cried

Twilight Bright I started tearing up

alexander hamilton ALL THE WAY FROM LONDON *DAMN*

I feel bad watching it it feels so private but I am confused because he was so shocked that his grandma left his dad...but his mom left him so why does that shock him, maybe just because he didn't know and because his dad didn't have a dad to go to it was just confusing

Laurissa Allen his dad died, mom left

NeonMoon SAME

Obviously Eugene was about to cry. I did

NeonMoon: same!! aww the feeeelz

NeonMoon me too😢

same I'm so emotional after watching that and cant stop crying omg 😂

Jenny Liu I don't understand

Jenny Liu Eugene is the star of everything

This is more insight into eugene's character than we've seen in the past 3 years. It was really touching and well done. Ps- everyone should take note- this is what we want from sponsored videos.

Jenny Liu they should start their own drama XD

Jenny Liu true

OK but your profile pic doe

Like number 666

Francisca Hale I cried for years in Spanish

I actually started crying at that moment

He said, "I don't know why."

Super Hijabi ARMY

that hit me so hard... at least Eugene now kinda understands his dad a lot more

I’m not crying! You’re crying!

asian Family.. hides. cries Not all but many cause it a sign of weakness For them.😔😔

*why did she leave you* *i don't know*

Do it !! 😒

@@isabelle4478?

Do it !! Mmmmmm nvm

You're right I am crying😭

So true 😭

Right?! But it's also not surprising haha

Yes but I guess he was insecure about his relationship with his dad

Right?? I actually found it kinda hot how confident he was haha

Yet he is the least open

He had a deep talk with his dad

ba nana Honestly, each video with the two of them together makes me a little sad. Especially juxtaposed against the others. I hope that this opens a door for them.

me too

Umaru Chan😍😍

I know this is a great and serious comment but umaru Chan

I think it was also more how he could relate, as well. I'm glad they did this video too.

Literally me. I'm in floods right now 😭😭

yep exactly. still wiping them away. wheew!

What time stamp

@@echle4675 12:10

I think they both grew with this experience. They learned, especially Eugene, about each other and the history between them. It's not the same with the other Try Guys and their relationship with their dads. I feel like we got to go to go through this experience with Eugene and learn something really personal.

Most Korean parents as well as Hispanic Are very old school They don’t open up much Or when they do it’s rare ... it’s the way they are raised. My father was taught that crying and opening up is weakness and pathetic My mom as well 🤷🏻‍♀️ Now as a mother I show my daughter so much love and kiss her and squeeze her cheeks and give her so many bear hugs Something that if my parents do to me it feels uncomfortable even if we give each other hugs now

@@mokiiaanramirez1006 Same as brown parents but my dad and mom were never taught that crying and opening up is pathetic. They just.. dont open up lol

@@mokiiaanramirez1006 A lot of older generation white parents are the same way. I'm 24 , but my father is 61, so he is from a much different time than most of my peers' fathers. It was always different for me growing up, hearing friends and schoolmates recall things there dads had done or said that seemed very foreign to me. Crying was the biggest thing for me growing up, because I remember him always treating it like a bad thing, even with my mother. I remember he would tell her to leave the room any time she got too upset because he didn't want to be around it, so I just learned to preemtively hide it any time I did. He was even more rough on my brother, ten years my senior, when he was growing up, borderline abusive, but I got the older, more mellowed version of my dad. He was always a bit cold with me, emotionally, but I did always know he loved me, because he worked so hard to provide for us. My biggest fear was always being a disappointment to him, so much so that I hid the fact that I started smoking cigarettes at 14 all the way up til a year ago, lmfao. I was 23 years old, frantically giving my fiance my lit cigarettes any time my dad came around, or tossing them so he wouldn't see me with one. 😆😆 I have a daughter of my own now, though, and I love seeing him interact with her. It's the most wholesome and beautiful thing I've ever witnessed. She really opens him up, in a way I don't remember very well. I know he acted similar with me when I was a baby/toddler/small child, always doting on me, but by the time I gained cognitive, long term memory, his behavior had hardened. But anyway, I've ranted far too long, lol. Sorry about that!

Actually their relationship is quite sweet towards the end of the series. You can see that they actually said i love you to each other and they meant it not just for the video.

Kate Brown so cute ❤️ 😢

Me with my dad

Ikr

@@trinalu7346 No, you're saying it because you want to be in the middle of attention

Jazz Taylor y’all are mean for some reason like chill

@@trinalu7346 please don't waste your time by responding to people like that ever again lol

DigitalEdwin it’s a RU-vid comment why would she try and get attention from that

I thought he didn’t cut him when he shaved him

*I AGREE*

Yeah made me tear up seing that jays father had parental issues aswell

princess consuela yes it is so amazing. He is so rite about the past being the past

Much respect.

All Koreans have..

loofy ikr😢😢😢

loofy omfg right when the video was ending and I started scrolling to the comments I read this same quote right when he was saying it. My mind is blown.

loofy just casually balling my eyes out. Nothing to see here 😭😭😭😭😭😭

Foster Child 12:30

EasyDistraction I b

Zainab Ali i wished eugene and his dad had more bonding time after this 💗

xxlmrjnxx :3 I really hope so 🙏❤

I can see that too

Zainab Ali this whole project was made for him.

Zainab Ali same

and the worst part was that they still had facial hair!

i read this and then i looked up and saw ned do it

@@krys7a WAIT SAME

same

Lia Foley I was getting ready to comment this! Soo True!

Lia Foley up

Lea Anthes That is so true! They are so inspiring!

Lea Anthes so true they are really brave

Brave and it will help others. It helped me.

It made my cryyy , my grandma became an orphan at age of 6, her mom died when giving her birth and her dad left her and I just respect her so much and I hope that when I grow up I can make her happy , and I think that for Eugene knowing that about his father was a big hit

It’s sad really, Ned’s dad looks like a sweet and caring father. I too wished he had taken his father’s advice 😓

What I would not give to see Ned's father kicking his butt for being a screw up.

so glad i’m not the only one who thought this

His dad seems so wise and kind. I wish Ned would've just listened or even talked to his dad before cheating on Ariel. I have a feeling his dad would've helped him work through whatever pushed him to cheat.

his father now is kinda ashamed of him

Do you think he thought Eugene was asking about Giselle the model? She's married to Tom Brady

@@nicky740 Both Tom Brady and the Patriots have partnerships with the brand Gillette. It's the name of the team's stadium

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I died. He reminds me so much of my grandpa

Riley Swenson sameeeee I’m from Boston

amaya lobato It's a weird idea that we are all just watching something like that. This is a special moment in both their lives and we get to goddamn see that. (And cry along) That's so special!

amaya lobato yes! I thought the same thing. It's like you could feel and see how important that moment was for him.

Lauren Clement I’m so late right now I don’t know what happend to them eugene and his dad I’m lost

this video was too much for my emotional well being

olimakiella that's exactly what I said!

olimakiella same... 😭

olimakiella me too

olimakiella Same!!

HAHAHA I EVEN HAD TISSUES IN MY EYES

Stella Hogg true

Stella Hogg this comment deserves more likes

twenty øne panicking piløts that band should be noticed more 😉 |-/

dont label then lol thats so generalized

euphony - why you gotta ruin everything

Lightforyourfaces nature of a barber setting my guy that’s where men just talk about things

Doing anything intimate with a parent can do that. Nothing creepy, but mom teaching you to shave your legs or put on makeup. With my dad it was helping him work on cars.

Lightforyourfaces ikr

The barber shop is the best place to talk things out with someone

Lightforyourfaces my dad would be telling me bad puns

I did cry...what a video

Duuuuude right when he said it i read ur comment THE EXACT SAME TIME.....i just found that hella cool😂🤷🏻‍♀️

I love billboard singer Eugene and his dad's relationship is common among asian countries.

I love billboard singer p

How does Eugene not have a boyfriend?!

I love billboard singer I agree completely. It's nice that he and his dad were open and willing to break whatever was holding apart. I hope they're much closer from now on. I just feel like they both really needed this.

I hope so too suga

That’s 100%!! What I was thinking as well

more like he was a failure as a father and partner since the beginning

If he feared it than that was on him, not the relationship itself. Those are his own insecurities being a husband and dad. If he wasn't ready and scared of having a family then he shouldn't have had one.

@@lilymae7516 Until intense therapy, yeah don't do relationships

Cheating usually has nothing to do with the person being cheated on. It is usually a repeated, pathologized behavior and based on a podcast episode where Ariel basically implied that SHE was the one that Ned cheated with, at one point. The ex who was cheated on somehow got invited to their wedding (!!!) and Ariel had to set a hard boundary about it. Obviously she didn't say all that but it could be easily extrapolated from what she DID say. Remember this: if your relationship with someone is the result of cheating, just know that they rarely ever stop.

JuJu Bee same lol

JuJu Bee yess

Ok

LittleFilms I'm crying; I'm balling my eyes out. Because; I know what it's like, and I know how he feels, and how said it, broke me more than I already am, shattered 😭😭

Ashton Weir i know that uegen's father cameback but i also know what its like to not have a dad i mean i am still waiting i met him one day and that was it.

+Ashton Weir I know right same here! You can really hear the weight and emotional impact that question had on Eugene's dad, as if all the years of questioning the choices of his mother and the decisions, responsibilities and burdens he had to endure were all exposed in that single answer ... " I don't know why"

LittleFilms I cried. Damn Eugenie's dad had a tough life. Learning stuff like that really helps you understand your parents.

LittleFilms I

human damn

Basically

I'm crying in two different ways, because of this video and your comment!

True

I laughed so hard at this that I snorted and scared my cat (Sorry kitty?)

It was seeing the red flags Ned may have learned from his dad, and Keith having a better example and being the superior husband. I mean, "We broke up and dated other people... It wasn't the same."

Janelle Galvez i know it’s like the record scratches and I was like huh what just happened

Im sorry but i didnt understand the « then she left » she left them or died ?

Oumi_Army im pretty sure she just left to marry another man cause she made an appearance in another buzzfeed video dressing eugene

raizal @@ they talking about eugene father mother , not eugene mother lol

He never met his father's mother so that wouldn't make sense. He was talking about his mother. His parents got a divorce.

I see so much of my relationship with my dad (even if I'm a woman) in theirs... it's insane... and makes it even more emotional...

phatcami I am glad he and his dad are working on their relationship

I dont know why but yeah I think this is an asian thing because I also have a hard time knowing my mom (i was raised by a single mom and she was just recently married)

Well. I was in the same situation when I was like 11. Then there is puberty, in wich I am still, that was just an horrible time for our relationship expecially before I came out as gay. Then I came out like three days ago and I feel like our bond is getting stronger. I love him much more now.

It's just an Asian thing, both India and china and those places. Kids and parents simply don't talk the same way as in Europe and the west. Sometimes I experience the same thing, even if I am an American born Indian. It's just a way of life. Not great but that's how it is.

jazmien ! *fixed

Chandler Patterson and his dad said i love u more

😭😭😭

I've watched this so many times and every time I cry 😭😭

i started to break forks

Not even there yet but I feel it coming

Tangled

Dani Setsuko bruh right when i scrolled to this comment that part of the video cam

When? I can't find it.

Kyakeku 12:11

Ur mom is not so local Thx!

Global.hoseok it’s funny bc you posted this a month ago

Jhoppppeeee

Gabi Consuelo i know but I watched this the day it came out

ARMYYYYYYYY

One thousandth like

🤣🤣🤣

Niloufer Nawaz How is that funny? I don’t understand??

Talk to them, if youre feeling really bad say tell then that you want help

Niloufer Nawaz I don’t understand your humour...

Wait he has depression!?

I'm Asian, from Japan. Allow us not hugging and not saying I love you to our parents. Because our culture associates hugging or saying I love you with more sexual context than that in Western world. Actually I sometimes argue about the difference of hugging culture with my colleagues from Europe. They recommend me to hug with my parents, but I just don't feel like doing that. It's unnatural to copy Western behavior in my private scene where we don't have the culture.

we never do it but i think its just a matter of the family in the place i live

I'm in an Asian family All those slippers and rice ;~;

My parents never say I love you or hug me

im jazz I agree with that, in my family it’s always hard to say an “I love you” because we know it means something and when we say it, there’s also awkwardness. We always use alternatives and say things like “Te quiero mucho.” Which translates to “I like you a lot.” So it’s never quite an “I love you” and even in non-foreign families, it can also be difficult.

Same bro✌️😐

Same... No... They're actually not allowed to take care of me. 😂😅😢

It’s doubled if they’re immigrants since they have to work twice as hard to get to the same place as native born people

Same here

Me too my father and mother always try’s to spend time with me but it’s not like the amount I might need but we spend good times together but my father was away for two years because of well……war

Eugene and his dad are similar in their upbringing and on an emotional level...I can see why Eugene is more closed off now...I think in this video he saw himself in his dad too...which is why he told his dad he should have not gone thru it alone and talked about his parental struggles earlier...and then the hug at the end...eugene hates hugs but you can see he really loves his dad and his dad saying "I love you more" and stuff after the last video when they said they didn't say "I love you" often...I'm sorry I'm kinda ranting now but this video honestly just had me in tears especially when most of eugene's dad's moments made me uncomfortable to watch but so relatable as well since I never had a good relationship with my dad either :(

greeneyes❤ IM CRYING EVEN MORE THAN I ALREADY WAS BC OF THIS

true

Ömer Faruk BATAN a

Loved his dad

i love you dad, eugene i love you more, i love you most, something something, its not a contest dad. lol

My best friend is exactly like that...she has so much family issues, I can't believe what she goes through, and I was starting to get suspicious at one point, until I called her over the phone and...heard stuff...

Bryn Jackson ikr

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I agree

aaliyah quillen my dad had a similar story

I watched this with my cousin we're both in Tears

aaliyah quillen me too I thought I was the only one

same

But he's fucked up, with you, I meant Alex. You have the same name

@@doraluffy What??

@@SP-ph5ws I think they meant that Ned fucked up bc he cheated on his wife, and the alleged mistress is someone named Alex, another employee from the Try Guys.

@@mitochondriaisthepowerhous9939 which is not an appropriate reply to my comment- (not yours, theirs)

@@SP-ph5ws I just want to make a joke because your name is also Alex, I'm sorry 😢

same

or blubbers externally

Same

Phanic! AtTheAmazingPhandomIsNotOnFire I love your name

Rachel Heart I had to change it because of Dan ;-;

Yup.. asian dad's don't show much of their emotion... Sometimes I think that my dad doesn't even love me. But I know that one day I'd fully understand what he's going through.

Isabella Adams I'm so glad they were finally able to talk a lot of things out... I feel like Eugene isn't as frustrated anymore with his dad because of what he learned in this video... it seems like he understands now

Isabella Adams yeah I hope so

Isabella Adams XD I DIDN'T NO EUGENES DAD'S NAME UNTIL NOW XDDDDDDD (oh and sorry if I was rude:(

yeah it’s so sweet but so sad

@@jesuschrist7858 You dont know how to spell the word "know" untit now.

Some ghostly onions

I sadly understand Eugene like my dads parents died when he was 8 and 10 and though he had rough times I could not ask for a better dad

Its namjoon cutting onions again

It's really not the saddest, but it is sad

@@lilystic9623 agreed

Unlocked me 2 i cried a lot

Hannah Cruz THAT PART HAD ME DYING 😭😭😭😂😂😂

Hannah Cruz 😭😭😭😭❤️

Im not crying youre crying .

“it’s not a competition, dad.”

Ranvir Dhillon ikr

Ranvir Dhillon poor Eugene

I really think that you should reach out to your dad, because it could be a significant "what if" if you never do it. But do it only when and if you're ready to do so. I'm rooting for you. :)

Shara It's better to try than to have never tried at all. It'll be ok. I'm rooting for you too!

My dad died when I was 6. I will never get the chance to have a relationship with him. You should reach out to your father before you're in the same boat as me.

Shara It's so interesting how these family cycles play out, so obvious from the outside and yet they so often go unnoticed. Their mothers both left at these critical times. It's tragic, but it's also a great place for them to start to build a bond based on empathy. I hope they do.

Emily Ash that's so true... I actually started crying at the end when Eugene and his dad hugged

Exactly. It made me really emotional to see such growth and everything.

elHEARTBREAKER I think with age and wisdom comes the realization that you don’t always have to say everything that comes in your head.

Awwwww c:

Angerona I cried too

I can relate to him becoz my dad passed away when I was a year old 😞