Ah yes, one of my kind. The pre T trans guy who has a voice deep enough to pass if people hear it. I remember my Ex girlfriend’s dad would always say he was mad that my voice was lower then his and I’m not even biologically male lmao
My hair is long for a guy. I like my hair. It makes me not pass though. I always passed when I had shorter hair, but now I don’t. It makes me sad not passing, but I don’t want to cut my hair again. I had a really great short hair a while back, and then I went to a barber and he buzzed my hair against my will. I cut my own hair now. I want to have a man bun type thing. The rest of me doesn’t look masculine enough for it to look like a man bun though, I just look like a lesbian (nothing wrong with that, I just don’t want to look that way)
@@princessmysterion_I’ve struggle with this to!!! I’m NB and while my hair doesn’t give me a lot dysphoria my round face does- I want to look more masculine but don’t want to totally cut my hair since people compliment my natural hair so much it feels like it would be a waste….
I literally looked up “how to get masculine hair if your hair is thin for trans males” I’m 12 almost 13 and I’m a trans male who will be going to get my haircut soon I’ll be sure to mention some of these things to the barber Edit: now 14! its obviously very hard to change my hair type, if its even possible, but its decently fluffy now as ive followed some of the tips in replys. keep that confidence up trans mascs ;3 also, ive started hormone blockers and started wearing binders!
if u wanna get fluffy and like textured hair when its short and thin using product is a really great idea! i use this thing i got at the hairdressers called 'de lorenzo elements grit matte styling paste' which is a bit of a mouthful to say but it works rlly well to get my hair to stay up. i also recommend a bit of hairspray afterwards just to get it to stay. also instead of both of those things, u could just use some hair mousse which works awesomely but can make ur hair look shiny and if ur not a fan of that u can probably(??) buy matte ones so i suggest looking into that. also i find that not washing ur hair every single day helps with getting it to stay up if on the first day u put in product and then just let ur hair do whatever on the next couple days. when i had long hair it used to get greasy FAST but having short hair kinda slowed it down for some reason? hope this helps!
Thank you so much for this I'm intersex but I'm still transitioning to be male also I'm from England so my accent is quite deep as it is can't wait to go on testosterone though :D
hey max! i randomly found your video on my feed, but this is definitely helpful for pre-t guys! i'm five months on hormones currently and also, your voice sounds pretty deep already which is super awesome :)
Recently came out as a trans male myself, videos like this really make me feel like I’m not alone in my struggle. Keep up the great work my dude, it makes us feel a hell of a lot better.
So I was the one being transphobic like 7 months ago and I apologize for that 😨 I was confused and uneducated, I don't appreciate all the replies getting mad at me though, that was really fired up and rude, had people shouting at me and all hell broke lose, Anyways, I'm literally transgender and gay now, I deeply apologize for anything rude I said 😭 I would have said this earlier, but I literally just got a notification of you replying to me so here I am apologizing now 💀
Heyyyo I'm a trans dude ftm and i have like a legit mustache and I haven't even started T and am probably not gonna for yrs, BUT I'm a darker skin colour and have blackish hair. But all these tips rlly helped! And I'm glad you got ur haircut you wanted! (Seeing from ur most recent videos) Anywaysss have a good life and I wish you the best! ❤️
I feel embarrassed it’s been 10 years since i came out, and i still gotta take tips from kids younger than me, bc i don’t have the safety to be out in public /: i’m nearly 20, and i don’t think i’ll ever get over this fear.
My mom hates me getting old spice she always like, "why do u want that?? It makes I smell like a boy, ur a girl and always will be!" And my dad said "ur a girl. What's in ur pants? YA BUDUSSY!" Like bro- don't ask what's in my pants. I'm non-binary btw but i have he/they pronouns. ❤👁👄👁
Tip: if you have it you can use mascara on your between nose and mouth to give you a small 'stache, and if you're in great closet from your family I found that tomboyx has "compression bras" which are binders for closeted peeps, im wearing it for the first time and it does the job for me 👍 Edit: and I have tried this yet but it might work, get an undercut so when you have your hair in a beanie ppl see it but you can still pass as a girl to those you're not out to yet if you still pass as female
4:57 flavor???...sir flavor??? Are you eating the deodorant my man???? My homie you good??? /j [ anyways this is a super nice video and I hope your doing well ]
Hey! I’m FTM and I’m not out and won’t ever be able to be, but these really helped! I can’t cut my hair short so I’m trying to find out how to make it look masculine without wearing a hat (my school doesn’t allow any) so Ill use a lot of these! Tysm
Thanks for the tips, i have been trying to pass as a guy, bc even if im genderfluid it makes me so dysphoric, no matter how i present i kinda always feel dysphoric. So this helps me a lot, i dont want to get a haircut bc i like my long-ish hair(its long to my shoulders) but it doesnt help me pass very well.
Idk if anyone cares about the scents in the video but I’m pretty sure that’s swagger (?) in the video I heard it smells like teakwood which is the only masculine scent I like lol
this is besides the point but. i just want someone to talk to. I can't come out. My sibling, My parents are transphobic. My great friend from school is transphobic too most people there i know are. but at least i have two friends that are supportive, my girl friend(not girlfriend lol-) thats pansexual, and my trans friend from other class..I can't tell them it would ruin everything
My voice is super high pitched, but my ability to natrually grow a moustache because of my ethnicity, and how accessive my hair growth is makes up for it
I did it by making the commitment by telling my mom to come up to my room at a specific time bc I needed to tell her something important. After that I jsut…had to say it. I did it bc I was in a wheelchair with disabling mystery symptoms and if you know me that definitely means I’m repressing something important, so yk
i used hand written notes a ton while coming out. it makes it easier to get all your points out without getting nervous or taking anything back and you can just hand it to them and run away giving them the chance to process it on their own and talk to your when they’re ready.
Hi, being old enough won’t actually be the only thing you need. You’ll need to go to therapy for a while to be sure that you need T (if you are ftm) and you’ll need the approval of the doctors you’re seeing. I hope this helps a little
Hi there! So I just watched this and you gave some really good tips! I know that this was from forever ago but if you are still having a problem with hair, something that I have learned is getting bangs and the wearing a beanie. It looks super masculine and had really helped my dysphoria. Have a great day!
I’m out to my parents but it’s been a journey. They are now fully accepting though. My mom even had a pride flag in front of her house and volunteered at a pride center for a while. For a little my parents didn’t want me posting about being trans in fear I would be harassed at school. I don’t know if that helps lol.
On the contrary, caring parents would do exactly what his have: support him in expressing who he is and being himself. Parents who won't let their kids socially transition care only about themselves and others' opinions of them
Me: I don’t like that much :/ THAT part of my mind: why is it cuz it’s “GiRlY”???? “It doesn’t matter if it’s girly it matters if it makes you feel less dysphoric Me: FINALLY SOMONE HAS THE RIGHT WAY TO SAY IT TO MY MIND
6:05 not really related but you can also wear a tank top or like a 5-shirt on top of the bras so people don’t think it’s a ring from a bra or if you just don’t like the ring from the bra
Hey, the term trans means someone who doesn’t identify as their assigned gender as birth! Meaning being gender fluid, non-binary, etc.. is also considered trans!! Ik you probably meant ftm but I just thought I’d let you know (that’s if you didn’t already know😅) ps:- I used to also identify as gender fluid before finding out imma dude
@@Thatonejoestar huh? I’ve never heard that. For me there’s cis, there’s trans, which is the opposite of cis, and then there’s everything in between. Trans is going by the gender opposite of what you were assigned to. It’s like if you think of just the meaning of words. I think about the meaning like how it means in organic chemistry, cis means on the same side and trans means on opposite sides. (I forgot everything about organic chemistry, Idk why I brought it up lol). But yeah I’ve never heard of someone being non binary or gender fluid or agender or something like that identifying as trans as well, or meaning that you’re automatically trans as well. Obviously there are probably people that are transsexual that also identify as non binary or gender fluid, etc. But I’ve never heard that if you’re not cis, you’re automatically trans. It’s kinda like saying if you’re not heterosexual, you’re automatically homosexual. I mean gender is fluid too. So yeah I’ve never heard it how you said. Where did you hear that or where did that come from? (Also probably unnecessary information lol (you don’t have to read): I don’t identify as gender fluid anymore. I sometimes just say that cause it’s easier since I had been identifying as gender fluid since I was 15 and I’m used to it. Until I took a gender studies class when I was 19 and realized that I wasn’t actually gender fluid. And then since taken that class (almost 3 years ago) I realized that I don’t have to conform to gender if I didn’t want to. And it wasn’t until a few months ago that I started identifying as gender non-conforming after I had just learned of the term. I had thought of identifying as non binary but gender non-conforming just resonated more for me. So I feel even more now that trans doesn’t fit me because I don’t even “do gender” anymore, or conform to it. But gender is ingrained in us since the day we are born (and actually before, e.g. like gender reveals), so I can’t actually “get rid” of gender. So I just try to live my life where gender doesn’t control/influence me and my actions and self expression is just me, and I don’t feel the need to label my actions and self expression as masculine or feminine (even tho that’s not a bad thing to do). it just makes me feel better to not do so and to not be thinking about labeling everything I do. I think that’s why after I stopped labeling myself gender fluid I didn’t label myself as anything for like 2 years bc I didn’t feel it necessary and when I heard about gender non-conforming, that felt the only thing that suited me even tho sometimes I don’t label myself as that and just say “i don’t conform to gender”. Which is probably confusing but I guess it works for me lol. (Also the gender studies class was very introduction so I definitely don’t know everything about gender lol) sorry for the long rant😁)
@@karimevelasco2813 well I’m not very educated when it comes to these stuff (and I’ve definitely never took gender studies class) but if you search up the definition of trans online, this is what you get, “Trans is an umbrella term to describe people whose gender is not the same as, or does not sit comfortably with, the sex they were assigned at birth.Trans people may describe themselves using one or more of a wide variety of terms, including (but not limited to) transgender, non-binary, or genderqueer.” “Trans” is just an umbrella term for people who choose not to identify with the gender they were given at birth (or atleast that’s what I know, so correct me if I’m wrong) Oh and also about you not labeling yourself anymore, I think that a great idea!! Gender can be a very confusing thing for some people (myself included) and I’ve honestly wanted to try going by no label but it was honestly pretty difficult for me, idk I just feel like finding a label that’ll maybe help me find myself a bit more (if that makes sense lmao) but I think what you’re doing is pretty nice!! Have a nice day
I like to just shove my hair into my beanie because then I can pull out some of my hair so it looks like I have bangs. The hair kinda gets in the way of my eyes but I guess its the cost for free fluffy hair/bangs🤷
I have long hair, and I can't cut it even to my neck length, cause I did it once, and my mother almost wanted to kill me. So I wear bandanas, and baseball cap with the snap back, or making a man bun, when I'm going to school or just being at home. My hair make me feel more sick in my stomach than my chest, I have b cup.
@@gludeusmaximus thanks, I'm 17, and I'm looking forward to my 18, cause I'm going to move out from my town to the city to have graduated and i think I'll get my first real haircut here. I was extremely happy to see a little boy who called me like "idiot", because I'm from Russia and we have different forms for nouns and adjectives for male, female and neuter, and that boy called me as male!!! And another old lady in grocery store called me "boy")