Not as yet. I still have some growing to do. I still like to be alone but you have opened my eyes to what a mature INFJ is. Especially my extroverted sensing.
I think I'll reach full maturity one minute before I die. We're all constantly maturing with age, like a fine stinky wine. Seriously, channels like this have really helped me improve my mental state, so thank you for spending your time to make these vids that help people.
Is it so important, to be fully matured? Is this the purpose of life, to reach full maturity? What is full maturity? Is full maturity nessesery? Can I live an good life without full maturity? Am I matured, because I'm thinking in this way?😅 And try to be perfect, is the divine within every single thing, that exists in this world. We must not die, to reach the perfect point, but after reaching the full awakening, I know now, that I can't do things only to make it, because I love to give my energy into the things I love to do.
I'm an INFJ married to an INFJ. We ran away from home 2 years ago. Moved all the way across the country from our families and lives, with the plan of complete isolation in a very small, rural town. It's been heavenly, with the exception of the townfolk, who insist on showing up with gifts, inviting us to gatherings, church, etc. So we gave in. We joined a church. We made friends. It's a struggle, but we always enjoy ourselves when we participate. I love your videos. They're always spot on. Lovely! Thank you!
This resonates for me. I recently found out I am INFJ and it has been so helpful … because I thought it was ME that was the weirdo… but it’s the personality type. Like the Joe’s say, knowing is half the battle lol
I found Human Design to be helpful in understanding myself on an even deeper level. Knowing our design has the potential of being massively empowering. Happy trails :) ❤
Amen! However, I have found that solitude is very beneficial, and the need for socializing has become much less important as I age. I first typed INFJ in 1977. It's been a hell of a trip.
Boundaries are a must. Otherwise, others will constantly mistake our silence for weakness. Unfortunately for them, they have a rude awakening with that.
At 69, this INFJ Has Reached this level of conscious elder maturity, complete with healthy "intentional pattern interruption, socialization, boundaries, loving self care, experimentation, exploration, and nonduality orientation." Thank you for your videos. It's helpful to see oneself mirrored back. 🎉
I've made it! But as always, I benefit frm hearing someone else verbalizing it (affirming my thoughts). It's good to stop feeling negatively towards yrself when yr ways oppose the maturity of those around you. That strong nudge to change and comply to become part of the grp has no pull on you anymore. It's freedom and it's peace.
Don’t worry… I’m in my early 50’s and, as an INFJ, I’m still maturing. Growth and “Maturity” are linked, my friend. As long as you live, there will ALWAYS be something new to learn and discover that’ll add layers of Growth and Maturity, if you’re receptive to them.
It's really starting to piss me off how accurate and astute you are to the INFJ profile. I really want to dislike this content, but you have so many accurate observations I can't dismiss this as hog wash. Damn, that's a really disturbing way of saying I like your content. Suck it, I'm INFJ.
The confusing approach to socialization, how damn brilliantly presented this is. Relating to this 101%. Still having a somewhat long way to go before I mature, BTW...
🎯 🎯 🎯 48 here. It's been a difficult life. All are spot on though. I am looking forward to my "hermit" stage in my later years as I let go of everything.
We older INFJs had to figure everything out on our own. NO internet, hell no idea there even was such a category as INFJ. Fortunately the way we think tends us on a certain path.
Age 51, my friend. I became aware of this INFJ thing a month or so ago. What a relief. I went from an undercurrent of dull confusion to radical self-acceptance in a heartbeat. It's been spiritual whiplash but of a good kind. I wish you and every other INFJ all the peace God can give.
Working on knowing when to set boundaries, I occasionally still overextend myself. Being present is also a challenge some days, especially in social settings,
Spot on. I'm on the path of number 7. I'm slowly reemerging from an intense, prolonged isolation and solutide phase. Gradually, an interaction a time, I'm feeling my way through what works for me, and how best to enjoy it. This was made possible by my learning and committing to setting and enforcing clear boundaries. Great video.
I stopped the 7 paths,at 20 yo things changed, friends disappeared little by little. Freedom is in my blood and goals are back, let's be a 3w7 with weak wings before success maybe(I m 2w1),oups sorry it doesn't exist 3w7 but my tree is broken or awakened. Let s use skills and focus on target and goals,for my case let's run INTJ/P mode the time to go the next step, strong partners, let s be successful just for haters and have an opportunity to make the world better or just taking it easy gardening and cocooning. I did the good since I m born being free now now let's built and reject those who forgot how I gave them love,care and I show them what is a friend. Life has many lessons I ll give some I think. Feeling so good with nothing ❤ all wings can be developed. 7 is my birthday 🥳 just doing things and seeing people with who we have deep connections and surrounded by trust and good vibes 1 to 9 are made to be linked using the good skill at the good moment. Infj must develop sigma stepping out of the box. What thinks others you don't care if you have integrity and if you haven't bad minds. Be unshakable and choose good causes, please you for sure but healthiest 7 is making people who deserve live amazing experiences and ofc doing it for things only you love and learning from new experiences or people about what we love to do
INFJ isn't as smart as people they they are, but they're extremely curious about everything & wouldn't stop after until they reach the 360° views of everything. Once they understood a certain topic they can give 360° perpective on that topic making them seems smarter than they actually are
❤Thank you ❤ With 61.... will watch the video a 2nd time to take some written notes ... pin them on my bathroom mirror... to improve some points (e.g. do not teach my lessons learned to others and to set more clear boundaries 🙈)
Me either, I’m loving the antisocial part of this journey. My stepping back has been a game changer! I no longer run to those who wouldn’t cross puddles for me, I’m over it. My door is always open, I have coffee if they like and a lake view. I’m tired boss!
I’m a INFJ and autistic, so I feel that makes things a little more complicated. I’m 43 and at this point in my life I do feel like my maturity has improved with regards to the personality aspect. I’m still working on figuring out how to live as an autistic adult though.
