Every INFJ Has Experienced These WEIRD Phenomenons 

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seeing things move around, nobody else sees.

I was a clairvoyant kid with dreams that I had to translate. The clairvoyance got weaker as I've gotten older.

I can telepathically see, hear and/or feel other people's pain and feelings.

My dreams are complex and they reveal answers that I never saw coming. I am very good at dream interpretation. But that’s not the weirdest thing. The weirdest thing is when I purposely give someone an INFJ stare. In that moment I open my emotions and push them over to the other person. Simply put, I put my emotions in my face. And they are shocked at first, overwhelmed, scared, and confused because they are feeling the weight of the situation-the deeper meaning. Then they are relieved and they are deeply moved in some way. It’s very rare. INFJ’s hate to open themselves up. We usually just take energy from others, with that energy usually being sadness, hopelessness, etc. But when we do the INFJ stare we are a mirror. It is as if we show the person, this is what I see when I look through you. This is who you really are. This is the truth of it. I see who you REALLY are, and I am still standing here. Sometimes we do it to protect ourselves, but more often we do it to help the other person. Once I did it to a guy who was thinking of attacking me. I let him see inside me. What he saw was no fear. He saw someone who mirrored him. He saw a predator. It was 💯 INFJ rage. Silent, cold, and potentially deadly. He kept walking because he saw something he recognized which was a total lack of emotion. We can take emotion in, project emotion, and we can also completely turn emotion off. I stared him down with zero emotion like a mountain lion or any other predator. And my face said what I wanted it to say: I’m dangerous. I see your evil and I’m not afraid. One of us will die. I’m not like you. I’m not afraid of death. I can feel your trepidation and I can reflect it back to you so you can see your weakness too. Do you like that bitch? He wasn’t shocked or confused. He understood me perfectly. He was tall and he outweighed me. He was thinking about his odds. He was thinking about self-preservation. He was doing risk assessment in his head, like someone working out a math equation. But he couldn’t concentrate because of my INFJ stare. It was throwing him off. He had zero empathy, guilt, conscious, etc. He was pure evil, and he kept walking. And he’s not the evilest person I ever stared down either. INFJ’s can tap into this mode when we just don’t give a shit. That’s INFJ rage. It doesn’t mean we yell, scream, or throw things. We don’t have boundaries like regular people. If someone crosses us big time, we will destroy them by using their weaknesses against them and taking what they love (because we understand manipulation sooo well). But most of the time, almost all the time, we are just helping other people.

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Especially when you give them the 411 and they don't believe you. Then you drop hints and STILL nothing... THEN two years later they're like.... "You were right....." Like I don't have enough paper or crayons for this! 🙄😬🤦‍♀ Literally, my life story.

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Me as well.

Spent way to much time giving empathy to someone who used it against me, still recovering, still scared to trust

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@@MusicbyDiVa hard learned but is a must

Same here!

Well Said!

Happens all of the time. I've actually learned to just wait for it now.😏

Christmas is the worst. You will not catch me anywhere near a mall or stores. I do my shopping in the summer. I AVOID work Christmas parties. People think I'm antisocial. I love Christmas, just not in public.

Social gatherings are always exhausting... feeling the strong conflicting emotions , energies& dynamics in the environment. I become drained... find myself looking for hostess tasks to distract me. Or find a polite reason to leave.

I can't watch medical programs where someone is suffering pain, makes me really uncomfortable...

I had to look away at The Passion of the Christ during the crucifixion scene.

How I wish I never saw Schindler's List. All these years later there are some scenes which still haunt me, knowing that the story was based on real life. By the same token, I'm so glad I never saw Titanic.

I can relate 100%. I'm an Infj as well❤

@jenniferc1671,I've been told by psychic's for 50 + years,'what have you come to see me for' ?, 'because do you know you are psychic too', ,or told by them you are a round hole in a square peg,but don't ever change your personality for anyone else!.I do not believe in coincidence's either,so he's spot on with that too .

@jcoop49 I have to say that we are quite fascinating individuals. I wouldn't change my life nor myself for anything, and y'all shouldn't either. I love watching these videos because their too spot on.💖

We read people through our intuition. It’s weird, but we just know. 😕

That is because there are patterns in everything you see.

I’d love to _know_ the answer to that, myself. I can guess it’s that you expect them to process information like you do. But INFJ’s are very intricate and often opaque (even to themselves) in their thinking process. Maybe you’re not explaining it in a way they’d understand. Maybe you’re wrong in your thinking, or your conclusions. Maybe you’re right, but it’s not possible to convince them. How I could go on about the last part.. I can ask this for sure: Does your anger in a given moment make sense? In other words, should you even be angry about it? Are you extrapolating your thoughts in connection with reality? Are you sure? Are you even capable of catching yourself in the moment and detecting if your anger makes sense, that it’s justifiable in the grand scheme of things, or are you simply incapable of anything less than, “I am angry right now, therefore I am right to be”? There’s someone I know who, for whatever reason, became someone I had to grey rock like a narcissist (maybe she became one, but she wasn’t like this, once) out of how hair trigger her temper became, almost always over the smallest things that had no bearing in anything, but she saw otherwise. She justified her anger when it really wasn’t, often to the point her voice would be wrecked for a couple of days, but good luck convincing a raging woman that her anger is irrational. Oh, you occasionally express your regret and apologies for the tirade, but only the day after. Like, that’s going to help fix things? Then it keeps happening, and each time, in the moment, you justify yourself like you never internalized any lessons? golly, I have so much contempt.

@@EMichaelBall what usually happens is that my intuition kicks in then i share it to others with all the possible justifications I’m seeing and they just pretended to listen. Then that thing happened which affected us all but they failed to recognise that I’ve been telling that all along. I don’t know if it’s ego or they find it so hard to believe something that doesn’t fit their logic. Then when I share another one of my intuitions they gave the same face/expression and its just frustrating that I would just close my eyes to calm my self. I can’t just let go of the intuition coz if that happens, it will affect me and the only people who can stop it are the people I’m sharing those intuitions to. Another instance would be when I’m sharing my thoughts about a topic to someone after hearing their side, the other person won’t even address the points I’m raising and would just go back to their initial argument which I’m nullifying with the points Ive shared. INFJs are known to be balance and listens/thinks all the possible outcome. Just a slight hint of that balance from the other person is all I’m looking for but they tend to push over what I’ve said until it’s too late and it started happening.

We INFJs have a deep desire to be understood so we have a tendency to over explain. I don't know all of the science behind it but I know from experience that this tendency can cause a lot of frustration on both the INFJ and the listener. Remembering that not everybody thinks the way that you do is extremely helpful in these situations. Also, don't be so hard on yourself we are all human beings

@@teresaphillips9692 i agree but at times it takes the better of us and we lose it then regret our actions. How i salute people that can keep calm at all times but I’m learning and trying that. Lol

@@joserowellcorro8683 how right you are!! However, there is only one way to form a habit and that is by repetitive action. Since INFJs are not endowed with perfect patience (I don't think I would trust anybody that was) we have to struggle with ourselves to obtain any amount of patients... for ourselves

They wouldn’t understand even if you could. We are generally not understood. I just tell people that I don’t know why….it’s too exhausting and then you would just get the blank stare.

Yep. Someone melted earlier, how did they meaning others not see it!

It's not the F but the N... you feel but intuition allows you figure out.

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SAME!

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Me too! I see 9:11AM and PM every day. 111 is also a common synchronicity I experience.

I can see in a person's face if they are about to die of an serious illness.

@@lumpyspacecadet they just tell me! When no one else is around! I had 2 home health patients do this. One I really didn't know and was there to be an extra fill in since he was on hospice and needed full time shifts. He kept thinking I was someone else and telling me what he'd want to say to them including that he knew he was dying any minute. He did die quickly after I first met him...or the family, I don't think he had a clue I was there. The other one I'd had a long time. She had stopped eating, drinking and talking. I was giving her a sponge bath in her room and suddenly she would start talking! The first time she asked me to get her coat because her sister was there and they were going to see a movie (her sister was passed away), I just went on with it and told her sure let's just finish getting ready. The second time she was angry at me! She demanded "oh will you just let me go?!?" And I asked her "go where" and she said I knew where she wanted to go. I said try to hold on, you're just sick, we can help you through it, but she knew better. I adored her and gave my first child the same middle name as hers.

I remembered my mom calling me when I was away at college and before she said anything I said "Grandpa's passed on". She asked me how I knew, and I said I just felt it.

I also have those dreams. 😢

Well you're most certainly an INFJ in that case lol!

It is a good thing to have this personality.

Agreed. I suspect there are some people that sense other's emotions in the form of a 'sympathetic resonance'. But sometimes it is overwhelming, so I retreat to work-out and physical exercise and clear my mind. But truth be known, I’m a lot like Lovecraft, if Lovecraft worked out a lot at the YMCA and thought black people were sexy. I recall a time in my early 20's where I was unemployed and my sense of time was so lost. I could not recall so many details. It felt like that song Desperado, hard to tell the nighttime from the day. When I went to college and back to work, my sense of time snapped back in form. Regular exercise now is such a strong component of my health. In some senses it feels like occupational therapy, improving bone density and muscle strength. There's definitely a mind/body connection that is enhanced through exercise. It felt pretty good to bench press 292 lbs. at 49 years of age in 2019. I bench pressed 305 lbs. at 47 years of age in 2016. And I got stronger in my 50’s.

Pourquoi as tu peur d'être toi-même ? Est ce effrayant d'être soi

​@@dalelerette206 Same! I'm 34yo male, and I've been an athlete who has worked out my entire life (started with gymnastics and karate at 4😂, football and track lead me to the weights). The gym has always been a form of meditation for me! I too am an INFJ-A, and life is not always easy, so I learned a long time ago that for me the "Gym" helped me to re-enter myself. I think ALL people should find what type of exercise they enjoy, and then make it a constant part of their lives forever. I'm a Heyoka as well, so it's ironic that I have worked and done many things, but I ended up in fitness. It's for myself, as well as the health and happiness I help others with. Very fulfilling in that sense. Hopefully when I reach my 50's, I too can be strong. Anyways, I felt like I resonated with what your comment said. I Hope life is going well 🙏 and stay 💪

Yes! It's certainly a double edged sword at times 😅

It's painful, yeah. I look at it like, it's why I'm here on this rock at this time. It helps others see that it's all more than just mortgages and dentist appointments and remembering to get more milk. It helps them trust their own intuition. I've always regretted holding back. Not immediately, but eventually, I regret it. I don't regret door-slamming! You gotta EARN that! HAHAHAHAA!

People not believing me or understanding me because operating intuitively I may myself have to think about why I did this or that and it will seem as if I'm lying even if they had access to my mind and can cause people to have fasle verification to there own assumptions

Learn to embrace it and life will be so much easier.

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It can be very powerful to others if you learn how to use this wisely. A double edge sword - read "The Empath Survival Guide" by Judith Orloff.

Omg thank you! So many videos have severely irritating and totally unnecessary extra music, fast editing, and grating voice overs. It's awful.

INFJs *are* empaths. ❤️

​@@LifeAdviceSiteThe very often are, and therefore also have a way of attracting narcissists to them. 😱

@@cc1k435 Oh yes! I wish I didn’t know that, but I know it all too well... 😂

Sometimes, it’s ADHD (learned behavior in an abusive relationship) so you are “feeling” what you’ve been abused by. I’ve also discovered narcs pretend to be INFJ and empaths fall for it… it happens. PS ENFPs are also empaths 😉 Less narc tho.

There is no such thing as an "empath", and I advise you to be careful with that lest you become one of the thousands of people who claim to be empaths but are clearly and by definition narcissists. Everyone who isn't a sociopath experiences empathy. And many many people experience it strongly. Even us INFJs who experience it very strongly are just human. I know too many people who believed they are an empath and ended up alienating themselves from everyone we knew because they became delusional. They became arrogant and absurd about their empathic "abilities", which turned out to be wrong in many instances.

I wish there was an off switch to transference/empathy at times!

@@DeeDeex007o There is. Recognize it. First step. Turn it off if you feel like it.

@@DeeDeex007o You, even an INFJ, are not at the mercy of other people's emotions.

@@annaleabrown4588 Obviously. It's not that easy to do with people I actually care about. We can only speak for ourselves.

@@annaleabrown4588 You can't be that egoistic to assume all INFJS are just like you. You do not represent the community, KAREN.

Amazing, you're most welcome - and thank you for the feedback!

Telekinesis is moving objects with your mind… is that what you are referring to? Or are you referring to “telepathy”, which is essentially “mind reading”? I would assume you meant the latter given that you mentioned “intuition and empathy”

I know exactly what you mean...

True, being an INFJ doesn't make you Jesus. But understanding others quickly is an advantage, which makes it possible to help people, when you want to 😊

Maybe Jesus made us INFJs.

I can recognize that! Sometimes feeling down, I 'steel smiles' fom people passing me in the street (and often they smile back!) 😊

Thank you! 🙌