The Worst Pieces of Marriage Advice EVER and Why You Should Not Follow Them

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There's a lot of bad marriage advice out there. Control and manipulation tactics. Tracking, spying and hacking your spouses devices. Having an open marriage. Watching pornography together.
We've heard counselors, therapists and other marriage "experts" tell people to do these things because it can lead to the reconciliation of the marriage.
THIS IS HORRIBLE ADVICE.
After decades of working with thousands of couples, we know what works and what does not. We also know the best empirically-based research that has been verified by the worlds leading researchers.
So let's talk about all of these tips and advice that some people have said is a great idea. We want to go ahead and bust ALL of the myths out there that these things can lead to a better marriage.
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@MarriageHelper Год назад

What is the worst advice you've received from a "marriage expert"? 🤔 We are genuinely curious as we have heard some wild stories.

@moirarose2915 Год назад

Over Christmas my husband told me he wanted out of our marriage. I was blind sided. I am so hurt, confused, angry, sad and every other emotion possible. He’s developed feelings and is in emotional relationship with a co worker who is also married. I’m sure it’s gone further now. We have had our issues but I never expected to be in this position. We are still living under the same roof because neither of us can afford to move out, to say this is difficult is an understatement. My emotions are all over the place. I unknowingly did the no contact thing, but it was purely a natural instinct for me. For my mental and emotional health to remain somewhat intact, the less I see of him the easier it is to accept and move on.

@AmadaAmatista Год назад

Jesús said “let no man separate what God has joined together” 🙏

@jazilahspeaks8978 Год назад

The Best marriage counselors ever,I look up to you Kimberly.

@MarriageHelper Год назад

Thank you so much Jazilah Speaks. We truly appreciate your comment and are grateful to have you as part of our community here on RU-vid. Don't hesitate to reach out to us if there's anything else we can do for you. Our phone number is 1 866 903 0990! We'd love to be your support system! Blessings,

@russelkhodai2289 Год назад

But Joe if they leave you for someone else , why would u want to contact them .

@boomdawg56 Год назад

The one thuing a guy could say is "Hey, I just won the lottery for $250M."

@angorachic Год назад

😂

@yennien88 Год назад

My husband wants a divorce and I dont. He say he will always love me, but right now this feels best. I dont know how to handle this, it feels likd I am dead inside smd hsppyness is gone. I will get a job and get s apartment on my own snd try to use this, but i dont have any hope right now

@JordanNHoule Год назад

I’m sorry Jenny. My wife did the same thing 2.5 years ago. Granted it was my anger that pushed her away. I hurt her, I made our home unsafe and she doubts change can happen. She is living on her own in a safe and affordable place and trying to heal. I say this because we can’t control what our spouse does. Sometimes they do thing because of selfishness and sometimes they do things in response to our actions. The best thing you can do is truly make yourself the best person you can be and focus on what you can which is how you respond and and choices you make based on your growth. I’m praying for your marriage, I’m praying for you and your spouse growth perhaps in faith and that you find what “Love” means and are pulled to that strength. God Bless.

@MarriageHelper Год назад

Jenny so sorry to hear you are going through this. We truly understand your pain. We want you to know that there is always hope. And just like other members in our Community like Jordan who responded to this comment as well, all you can do is work on becoming the best version of yourself. Work on your PIES! Practice SMART Contact, and maybe even consider getting some 1 on 1 guidance from our team. We are here for you no matter what happens and would love to be your support system during this time. You may also find this video we created a while back helpful. My Spouse Wants A Divorce: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-oXbbqSzutHk.html We hope this helps you my friend. Stay strong and keep doing the next right thing!

@yvthaminthabiseng.thamaiho5679 Год назад

My husband moved out, saying he needed space. But he comes by the house almost every day... really don't understand

@kriptonis Год назад

Maybe it's a small house?

@MarriageHelper Год назад

Hey YvthamI Nthabiseng.thamai@hotmail., we are so sorry to hear you are going through this. Unfortunately, what you have described is very common to what we see and deal with on a regular basis with the couples we work with. Because of situations like yours, we actually created a course designed to help you save your marriage! It's the Save My Marriage Course Membership! It's 12 in-depth video lessons designed to teach you exactly what to do to save your marriage. You also get the included workbook, a private online support group, discounts on coaching packages, and even private live support calls and trainings with Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes! If you're about to give up, please consider getting this membership first! Find out more here: bit.ly/3EXzcKn

@camillagonzales2409 Год назад

…or you can hire a private detective and find out what’s really going on.

@boomdawg56 Год назад

"Give us this day our daily bread." Then do something about it, work for it. That is something I needed to hear. Thank you.

@ramadevilingaraju5375 Год назад

God helps those who help themselves!

@sap9971 Год назад

My Wife has left after my infidelity and I told her I would never do it again and I never gave her any reason to leave but she still left. How can I get her to come back?

@MarriageHelper Год назад

Hey Sapø, we are so sorry to hear you are going through this. Unfortunately, what you have described is very common to what we see and deal with on a regular basis with the couples we work with. Because of situations like yours, we actually created a course designed to help you save your marriage! It's the Save My Marriage Course Membership! It's 12 in-depth video lessons designed to teach you exactly what to do to save your marriage. You also get the included workbook, a private online support group, discounts on coaching packages, and even private live support calls and trainings with Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes! If you're about to give up, please consider getting this membership first! Find out more here: bit.ly/3EXzcKn