the worst thing for men(how social media is ruining men) 

Thank you very much for your message. I truly love the way you put it. Thank you.

Where are you getting these random stats from? There are male and female cheaters. You really can’t complain about rejection if you haven’t done the inner work like going to therapy.

They’re more to than you think you should watch the mouse utopia experiments universe 25. The behavior of the mice is pretty much to the T what’s happening to us. Even the behavior of the woman, the creation of gangs and men walking away all happened in the mice.

​@@ralphrugan5985thanks for mentioning the mouse study, it seems to be the only real psychology here. This lady is pulling the standard blame men that's a staple of political rhetoric. There's some dude's sharing their life experiences in the comments of this video which is also truth.

I'd say this goes both ways

Exactly. Just work on being the best version of yourself, sit and wait... They will chase you

Don't chase but make sensible approaches and it'll come

Woman*

Wife picked me up in a club, I could tell that she would do anything for me. Married 44 + years and it's been a smooth ride. I can still give her goosebumps and tummy tingles. Guys, believe me, this is the kind of relationship you want. She derives happiness from taking care of me. And for my part I provide a verry good lifestyle for us and she is appreciated.

*WoMAN* . Your sentence is referring to a singular subject, "Woman". "Women" is plural. You're not referring to multiple *woMEN* in your sentence.

I think it's better to date in person.

Yeah I'm getting to that point. Actually taking a year off from dating entirely, sick of the "culture".

U heard nothing that she said did u? 😒

@@bodhisattva2348 The person who writes like they're functionally illiterate criticizing someone else for his ability to understand others is absolutely adorable.

@@Vitriol-Divergent so u have no actual argument, just a criticism of my literacy level. Superb

That went into 1 ear & out the other huh?

​@@bodhisattva2348😉

Impact on *women*

I created a video on this... Watch out.

But honestly pornography is the least of our worries. The toxicity of the current feminist movement, the toxic sensitivities looking to control everything, is a real threat to our democracy right now. It's all gone to extremes that are now of oppresive statures that want to dictate who you are, who you should be, what you can and cannot express. What you should be instead of that over this for the benefit of others to gain from it at your expense. Taking away from you instead of adding to you.....its serious right now. And it's wrong.

I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other. Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone. Women tend to be more emotionally intelligent, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more understanding, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind-hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, more intuitive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way. Women regulate emotion better. Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men. Also, girls that are friends touch each other in ways that guys just don’t.

​@@icysnow57cold64 It's a worthwhile question, and I don't fully disagree with anything you wrote except that women regulate emotion better. I think most of what you said points to the opposite, in fact. But I'm open to your reasoning, and I certainly don't mean to say men are healthier. You seem like someone who's given thought to this stuff and would make an interesting discussion partner. I'd like to chat further but I'm keeping this short for now because so many people don't show back up (nothing personal).

Fact

Keep chasing. Smh

Sometimes people got a bad day and treat u bad! No one is perfect! You won't have a real person on your life if u keep going after one and so on ... other than trying to work it out.

What it is is your praise and admiration for her beauty. She doesn’t like you, she likes the attention and the benefits. Not chasing attraction keeps you level headed and balanced

Utterly ridiculous. Don't chase anybody smmfh

you can do it any moment bro.

@@sanyok185 I did over 6 months ago. Not a bro btw

I deleted mine a year ago. Dont miss it at all and I have more time to actually do things with my life instead of meaningless scrolling

Because… this is how i met your mother😂

@@happylife44332 I deleted it nearly 6 month ago too, not a bro.

That’s what you call a narcissist she was a narcissist they live bomb you at first but only to gain your attention then once they get you their true colours show it’s very evil and cruel but unfortunately most people are narcissist these days or have narcissistic traits be careful don’t ignore red flags and also be sus when someone is being too extra at the start and you can tell it’s fake and their not being themselves…

Same here sadly

She may have a trait that needs challenges. Meaning you weren’t as interested in her in the beginning so she saw this as a challenge. Love bombed you. You fell for it. Her challenge was completed. And then she lost interest. This happens. Some people are not interested in others they are interested in winning that challenge. Also just so you know, women too use men for sex. So that is what could have been happening. Society judges women less when they have sex while in a relationship.

Oh so sorry to hear you 😮

That's the thing about many men. When men get respect, they fall in love. And that love is very different from any love a woman can give. The love is eternal because in our hearts, it generates the will to protect, serve, make life comfortable to other whilst sacrificing our own. Similar to the love we generate for our country for example. With women, it's all emotions. And emotions aren't eternal. Emotions come and go. That's why they lose interest. Men, too, need to be better leaders. They need to know when to be harsh, same as a senior would be to a junior in say, the armed forces. The harshness is the same as a father for a child. Scolding is done for the betterment of the child. Moral of the story: females and males love differently. Meaning of love for both is also very, very different. Only when both grow with each other and set their "goal" and "aim" to simply be to "love eachother", all other things fall in place. And that, would be called teamwork

omg bro, this wasnt even about religion damn dog

@@cykablyat3680 NOT ABOUT RELIGION NOW...SEEK TO UNDERSTAND FIRST

Women don’t even waste money on cool shit

U completely missed her point. Smh

@@bodhisattva2348 u completely don't understand where she is coming from i.e. what.her real motivation is.

@jasonscala5834 she's a psychologist, what is a psychologist real motivation.

Well why not? You expect multiple jobs out of her...housekeeper, chef, assistant...child rearing...all while you get to have the career you want and "protect" the house probably once out of 20 years...

I wonder if you ..and most men on here have simpagram, watch corn. I'd guess 98%

Holy shkt sorry that's mad. What wife tells her man what to do with his money?

So you divorce because you can BUY things ? Wow, norteamérican people amaze me.....

Brooo $8k?!!!? Oh man

@@DiamondsRexpensive all wives

I wish there was an easier way for decent people to find each other. I feel the same way about men after what my ex husband put me through. He was secretly situation #1 while I was so supportive and caring for him. We’re both military but I took care of house and kids while always checking in with him to make sure he had his needs met in every way the best I could. I treated him well I felt like but not sure if I have it in me to be that way with someone else. I don’t want to see myself up to get used. This modern world will ruin us all

It's human do be attracted to attractive people, its not a man vs women thing, those studies also have a major flaw (that you can check for yourself), attractive men rarely use the apps as they're married/taken/have no need, change your gender and you can see theirs way more attractive women than men, like depending on city 1000 to 10 ratio is insane.

Yeah for money not looks. That's 1 way street

Men and women are attracted to different things

meh,people that use online dating services are non datable to begin with

yall really acting as if you'd settle for the first woman you see, like little humble you have no standards at all

We can't afford to keep losing men at this rate. Something's gotta give

You mean the suicide rate? 💙@@MadisonChloeLoves

No, men have always put beauty in a pedestal. The problem is family law in western societies.

​@robertomonreal4023 it's not the law...Men just need to choose better partners and not just focus on Beauty alone. Beauty fades character is what's important.

Of course, the fact that beauty fades is obvious and agree it shouldn't be the only criteria in partner selection. But saying that men are focusing more on beauty now than before and claiming it as what is causing problems with men and relationships is incorrect. I would be more curious to hear commentary about how society has normalized gold digger attitudes, not that men suddenly like fit, hot, girls more than ever. Please. @@misskeah8893

We actualy see all the woman going for the 20% guys must rich/Sucessful/good looking, it doesn't matter if it ugly woman or a hot one... While a lot of 7/10 guys and below being completely lonely or being used by them because of their low self-esteem for being rejected so many times... Man are complete alone, that's the punchline of this joke of reality.

@@Kondes500 There’s a large swing in the numbers when it comes to men because women are more likely than men to go to therapy. Women are also able and willing to do the self reflection necessary to become better people and fix their toxicity when compared to men. Women also tend to stay in relationships hoping the man will change but the men don’t.

​@@thrill102considering the rate at which women leave relationshipa 80% I'd say most of whatever you wrote is whitewashing.

If you were to die today, are you a 100% sure you will go to heaven? If no, here is what the bible says, (1) Romans 3:23 KJV [23] For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God. Q1. Do you know what Sin is? Sin is anything bad that we have done. Q2. Have you sinned before? Yes or No? (2) Revelation 21:8 KJV [8] But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death. Because we have sinned, and God does not allow Sin into Heaven, the punishment is burning hell. What is the way to reconcile our peace and relationship with God? Q3. Do you know the Story of Jesus? (3) Romans 5:8 KJV [8] But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. Jesus = God who lived up in Heaven, but he came down on earth and became a man like us, he lived for 33.5 years without committing any sin. Then there were certain people who were jealous and therefore framed him on phony charges, and crucified him. Then he was buried and resurrected on the third day; Now he lives in HEAVEN. Q4. Do you know why Jesus went through all this bloody mess for us? A4. As mentioned, our sin is the reason why we can’t go to heaven, and the only thing that can wash away our sin is the Blood of Jesus. (4) Romans 5:9 KJV [9] Much more then, being now justified by his blood, we shall be saved from wrath through him. According to the bible, the only way for us to reconcile with God is through Christ Jesus’s blood, and not through any works that we do or merits we accumulate, such as water baptism, attending church, or any good thing that we do. The following verses clearly support this. (5) Ephesians 2:8-9 KJV [8] For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: [9] Not of works, lest any man should boast. (6) 2 Corinthians 7:10 KJV [10] For godly sorrow worketh repentance to salvation not to be repented of: but the sorrow of the world worketh death. In order to get saved, repentance of one’s sin is needed to get saved, we need to be sorry, and repent, with conviction, that we are a wretched sinner. (7) Romans 10:9 KJV [9] That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved. If you truly do believe in everything you have heard in the gospel, ,I strongly suggest you to make a proclamation to GOD! You can say it to God in less than 15 seconds !Repeat after this simple prayer, to make sure you truly get saved. Remember repeating this prayer doesn't save you, it's you telling God you BELIEVE THE GOSPEL. Ok, here is the prayer : ‘Dear GOD, I know I am a sinner, as I repent, I put my faith, that Jesus is GOD, and that he died, buried and resurrected, so that his blood, can wash away my Sins. I put my faith in that alone to save me, not my good works. In Jesus’s holy name, I pray. Amen! Congratulations ! Now you are a child of God. Download /Buy a KJV bible (I highly suggest getting a hard copy bible , as one day, it will be illegal to buy, own or even have an online version of the bible) and search for youtube channel like REAL Bible Believers , Spencer Smith to help you grow , study dispensationalism to understand the bible ( How do we reconcile the verses in the New Testament that tell us that we need works to show our faith, and another that tells us that nothing that can take our salvation away? That's why we need to study biblical dispensationalism to rightly divide the word of God.( study to show thyself approved unto God, a workman that needth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth, 2 Timothy 2:15) (I recommend the dispensationalism video from Genesis to Revelations by Dr. Gene Kim, ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-GI4CteEFxOk.html) , Jesus in Genesis (ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-RmnUkNT55gU.html) join a bible believing church. God bless you brother/ sister ☺. See you in heaven one day!

​@@Kondes500where the hell did you get this statistics? those imaginary women who only want to use poor little you? are they in the same room with us?

Make sure they don't choose your wallet 😂

Choose me? What if no one chooses me? I don't have that luxury.

@@chaitanyagupta6668Welcome to life for the majority of men

So no woman has chosen you since your early 20s. Got it 👍

@@Lex-jv9zn some men do be unlucky.

mesh? transvaginal mesh?

@@krillansavillan mesh = get along with (like I think/feel that I have known you my whole life. That is the type of 'mesh' that I was referring to

If she's not attracted to you, you can't see if you are compatible.

Proud of you my friend I hope God bring you someone in your life were there is no need to be in a toxic mentalité to chase but everything goes naturally

Don't date them...duh

@@misskeah8893 yea exactly that's what I'm doing I'm just focusing on my Career. I have my self respect and I will marry tall girl only. And I hope soo girls start to stop following trends and make decisions from their heart instead. The problem is that Society is Concerned with Girls interest only and not have any Favouring for Men.

​@@misskeah8893You are right. I created a video on this...

She never mentioned about women should be all over men and dropping their pants all the time.... You're misunderstanding her.

She never mentioned about women should be all over men and dropping their pants all the time.... You're misunderstanding her.

Taking care of your partners needs are YOUR responsibility..... You should be glad he is sexually attracted to you BUT if you drive him away like that don't be surprised if he finds someone who can take care of his needs

​@@morgueblackshe did mention submitting, so yeah

@@SensationalSeafairy That's not what submitting means.

Yess agreed, they all want to marry a prince😂

You nailed it, an extremely sad truth. Respect.

Women could also choose to grow out of children movies.

We all can have fantasies. There isn’t anything wrong with that. When you grow up you need to separate that from reality, but, then again, I’ve just debunked this whole video.

I feel like biologically both women and men seek attractive partners, but when it comes to forming real relationships chemistry/compatibility is king, especially when creating a family/children/age/sickness comes in, kdramas/disney/romantic porn is just feeding your ego/fantasy, its dangerous if used to cope/escapism but by itself social media is powerless unless your already 'broken'

& that statement says everything about u we need to 😂

Maybe you always get attracted to women who have similar facial features?

@@florad629 🤣

​@@bodhisattva2348the fact you always laugh to the person you are talking to without any arguments tells us everything we need to know about you, one being you are everything but a bodhisattva. And you will never be one.

@@aldomonti813 🤣

Thanks for sharing your thoughts 🙏. You are appreciated 👏

You better listen up

Hope this is sarcastic

Mine is also low. Got to keep out all the drug users.

You obviously didn't listen to a word 😂

Here's a clue...*historically.* the world has and continues to evolve. You can't go off of what happened historically. Men need to evolve...i.e. traditional marriage is not sustainable in today's society yet men keep declaring they want a traditional wife, but wants her to contribute 50/50. You're asking for a divorce before the marriage exists... Bottom line be accountable when choosing a partner. You can no longer go off of looks alone.

@@misskeah8893 traditional marriage may not be sustainable in your* society (even though any modern sort of marriage is also not sustainable there as well, as whole frame of home n marriage is breaking in your society) but im from part of world where traditional marriage is still working n here husband doesnt ask women to work or 50-50. 50-50 cant work in marriage coz even if you are contributing financially 50-50 then still child bearing n many things put more work on female thus she would be contributing more. By taking more financial burden on himself,a man just lessened the burden of women some bit n then the relation balances. Women by nature dont respect a man who is not lessening her burden, n if she is not respecting him then he wont he happy. So for a man its wise to be a bit more in financial contribution so he may earn the respect of his female partner or else he cant complain.

​@@misskeah8893false. The world has always been as op says. The changes you are talking about have occurred in less than 100 years and sooner than later we will get rid of those.

Wise words. Thanks for sharing 👍

When did you know you were into her?

Great question…also, harder to answer than I’d expect. We started running together, since we both needed some exercise. Over time, I just started feeling the butterflies, and wanted to spend more and more time with her, to the point where I didn’t want to be away from her.

If men are to settle with a woman they aren't attracted to then they would be better to stay single.

Hilarious for you to assume anyone wants to "madly be with" you or any other man.....

You're amazing 👏 Thanks for sharing your thoughts 🙏

Very interesting point. 👌 I wish 🤞 things would be as you are putting them. Thanks for sharing your thoughts 🙏. Truly appreciated 🙏

Some people are twice your age and never been in a relationship, and most never will, never having a million dollars is no diffirent

@@man.i.literally.failed6772 I should be so lucky

Blackpill, nero angelo, wheat waffles, psl god mindset, TAILS, basically women care about looks height we as a society pretend looks dont matter

There's more men than women from the ages of 18 to 40. If you want a girlfriend, you have to compete with other men in looks, money, and status A girlfriend is not going to fall in your lap like some movie

You are appropriated. ❤️

Wise words. Thanks for sharing. You are appropriated. 🙂

SPOT ON. If the only criterion for a relationship has become female happiness, then we must opt out in swarms.

Enjoy your boxed wine and cats

I love the way you put it. So precisely. Thanks for sharing your thoughts 🙏

So wise. That is the best advice 👌 👏. Thanks for sharing 👍

You are amazing 👏

Jesus is glad to have you

It's time for him to cheat. So you know what you've done.

@@chaitanyagupta6668 no he dont cheat he is a born again christian just like me we dont do revenge past is past

@@zhouadwina918 hahaha no. Just saying a few "godly" words doesn't absolve you of the hurt you've given to others. It will and should come back to you. That's how people learn.

@@chaitanyagupta6668 of course i did reap what i sowed but im no longer that person cz i was willing to change

Bullshit.

That was beautifully put. Thanks for sharing 👍

The "female inflation" era

What is it that you include in their value other than beauty?....

@@misskeah8893 right? Like what do they actually offer?

It's possible that these men ignored red flags and used their resources to attract women into relationships. Be accountable about choosing a partner. Looks alone will not sustain a healthy lasting relationship or marriage.