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In today's episode Melissa and Kev bring on guests Khadeen and Devale Ellis from the Dead A$$ podcast to talk about balancing marriage, family, and career.
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@ccronk04 3 года назад

Accountability feels like an attack when your not ready to take responsibility

@sensiblemindset423 Год назад

Absolutely. It’s that immaturity at hand .

@lemlavarin 4 года назад

Y’all are literally bringing value back to the institution of marriage to a generation that was losing it. Ready to get married now 😭

@kimwright6377 4 года назад

Vikki DC Also many of this generation are afraid of showing love and genuine caring.And it’s a game of how much do you have and can you afford me.ijs

@Cecesingsonpitch 4 года назад

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@toomuchinformation 4 года назад

@Vikki DC True dat.

@lifewithnatu 3 года назад

👏

@kortenisamoses7313 3 года назад

Our generation aint about taking crap so we up and run fast🎆

@tujuanawyatt3755 4 года назад

I think Kevin and Devale should do a 4 week segment "For Men Only"

@christinajackson9940 4 года назад

Oooooo that's a good one Ms

@christinajackson9940 4 года назад

LMBO. .they would talk about how far they can p what it's like in the barber shops in L.A. lol

@kourtney8850 4 года назад

I LOVE that idea!

@HelloMsSongbird 4 года назад

Tujuana Wyatt YEEEESSSSSS!!!

@papi77on 4 года назад

yes, yes, and yes

@tylerfranklin967 4 года назад

As a single person who desires to be married this was soooooo insightful and powerful. It motivated me to keep working on myself. Not just for the sake of marriage but because theres just always gonna be something to work on. Love it!!! ❤️❤️❤️

@derrickmason7457 4 года назад

Tyler Franklin from a married person this is legit advice

@jasmines2250 4 года назад

I was thinking the same 💜

@mrmushin1 4 года назад

If you are as fine as your pic I will marry ya🤣🤣

@tracyreadytv 4 года назад

@@mrmushin1 did you say that in the voice of that old lady on the train on Coming to America? 😂😂😂 "If you're really a prince, I'll marry you." Lol

@juombe 3 года назад

@@mrmushin1 Simp!

@ugommaokorie1660 4 года назад

MAAAAAAAAAAN this was one of the richest episodes! I feel so empowered to go ahead and get married and say "Husband, I have been learning all of the things!" Lol! Thanks so much! ❤

@derrickmason7457 4 года назад

Ezi Ugo Jen 💯

@FromEricaWithLove 4 года назад

Ezi Ugo Jen yessss, ALL of the things

@mskesha4735 4 года назад

Yes, all of the things🤣🤣🤣

@taliapeters-john6375 3 года назад

lol

@MotiA. 4 года назад

Melissa did such an awesome job of letting the guests just talk freely!!

@ericabelcher8760 4 года назад

Yes I was thinking the same thing too!

@susancupid9122 3 года назад

So rich conversation, this relationship.

@MS_A_Renee 4 года назад

This episode was everything! As a single woman I truly enjoy real and authentic black married couples. ♥️

@glois80 4 года назад

I agree 💯 I learn so much from watching both couples that help me in my single/dating life

@jessicablakemills 4 года назад

Let's take this group on the ROAD!!!! Next Love Hour Tour - let's include the Ellis' because I love the CHEMISTRY HERE!!! This is EXCELLENT BLACK LOVE!!

@derrickmason7457 4 года назад

Jessica Mills chemistry was nice

@everythingalyb 4 года назад

Clearly, the consensus is yall should go on tour together! Can this be a thing?!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

@ChelsaSMoore 4 года назад

YES!!!! The chemistry was perfect!

@dee_scussions 4 года назад

Facts

@nicholasjohn3215 4 года назад

"We Y'all, Y'all Us"

@shenisewilliams6703 4 года назад

I’m late to the party but yeeeesssssss!

@ItsErikaNaturally 4 года назад

@@nicholasjohn3215 That's the name of the tour. It has been properly motioned and seconded.

@dexterhunter2299 4 года назад

Some parents leaves us with a legacy of their trauma. They teach us wrong and gives us a poor outlook on relationships and marriage. In which makes us ill prepared for relationships and marriage.

@RoniiiB 4 года назад

Dexter Hunter Yesssssss

@Cecesingsonpitch 4 года назад

Talk now!!!

@lilone11586 4 года назад

Facts!

@fdoctor79 4 года назад

And this is why it is important that you (we) renew your (our) minds daily so our past won't be a reflection of our present or future.

@cheshahale 4 года назад

TRUE!!!

@thesyspace 4 года назад

The "High Five" moments tho 😂❤

@lakeishar23 4 года назад

🤣🤣🤣That took me out. I rewind it like 5x

@kortenisamoses7313 3 года назад

Lol

@AdaDa_10 2 года назад

🤣🤣😂😭😭 Kev had me crying

@tracyb246 Год назад

I just saw it as I was reading this comment 😂😂😂

@TheresaAdele 4 года назад

Melissa you have been killing it this year.. The evolution is amazing.. Another great episode!

@chidinmaume326 4 года назад

Theresa Adele 🗣facts . Melissa girllll, you know how to curate a conversation!

@fatimadildy5997 2 года назад

This is my first time really watching her and I love her. The way she speaks and all

@bigerthanmyself421 4 года назад

These two women are very blessed to have men who are understanding and truly open up...lord i know that you have my future husband out here i would love this level of honesty, understanding and accountability in him..thank you in advance

@the1andonlyof16 4 года назад

Like they said, it took time to get there so once your person comes along it will take time to build this kind of trust, openness, and willingness to be vulnerable with one another but I hope it happens for you.

@ameliaking9225 4 года назад

Amen

@jillisahodge886 3 года назад

They really are ♥️

@keishapuryear8180 3 года назад

I believe this is modeled after a happy parental marriage. Make sure you don't dismiss your mate's parent's dynamic. No one taught me this, but it absolutely will affect your own relationship

@keishapuryear8180 3 года назад

Don't get me wrong, my dad died when I was a baby so I was raised by a single mom. I think I romanticized marriage and am shocked all the time about how different it is than what I expected. I love my hubby and we have grown together, but boy was it hard.

@caliliving9127 4 года назад

Kev making fun of Melissa for the high five made the moment soo much funnier!

@thisbrowngirllovesreading5017 4 года назад

This episode made me love my husband even more I see how he has been trying to adjust to who I am I will definitely put in the work! Love y’all working on grace......

@niknikky 4 года назад

@59:23 - Two things - 1) Yes, society did not treat Black men kindly in those days. But Black women dealt with racism as well. 2) The whole Suzie Homemaker thing was not a reality for most Black women in the 50s. A lot of them worked outside the home, too.

@nca4794 4 года назад

That's true, but it doesn't mean the principles and expectations to "make a home" were different just because you worked. Employed outside or working for the family inside, there was still the idea that being a good woman meant catering to the needs of the family, especially their men, first. That's why so many women in the next generation started to reject marriage and motherhood in the 60s. Plus, there's a cultural element with her family also. I grew up in a West Indian family, and making a plate is seen as showing reverence to the husband as the head of the household. I know men who expect their plate before the children have eaten. I wasn't raised in a household like that, but it's no less real than taking your shoes off at the door.

@boomboom6577 4 года назад

Facts. In fact, the majority of black women worked outside of the household after the great migration north. And the myth of the mother homemaker was facilitated by black women domestic workers who cared for the house holds of white women. And yes, to the commenter who pointed out that black women were still expected to maintain a home for their children and husband. And when people assessed the state of black America, they blamed black women for working and displacing men from the workforce AND the household. The Moynihan Report is the most glaring and influential example that.

@fromama2011 4 года назад

Absolute facts.

@ericabelcher8760 4 года назад

THIS RIGHT HERE! ☝️☝️

@CorettaJG 2 года назад

Truth

@cdisturbed 4 года назад

That man said "balance is nothing but recorrection" THAT BLESSED MY SOUL KEVIN!!! Who gave you permission to live this enlightened???!!!

@ericalindsey5561 4 года назад

THIS! That was a WHOLE WORD! It BLESSED MY SOUL as well!

@cdisturbed 4 года назад

@@ericalindsey5561 my grandmother would say he was "talking good" 😂

@ericalindsey5561 4 года назад

@@cdisturbed Very good!

@michaelmishaw Год назад

Man, I love this. The two best couples on the internet. I agree that Kevin and Devale should do more segments together.

@sidersproductions941 4 года назад

Man it takes some honesty and courage to discuss personal issues for all to see and hear but I appreciate y'all for doing these episodes and having these conversations. I feel like we're a family. Keep love alive y'all and y'all out here saving marriages and relationships.

@glamazini 4 года назад

I need more of this. All 4 of y'all hashing out topics. Kev and Devale only. Khadeen and Lis only. I don't care. I need more. Thank you.

@vivianyoung9390 4 года назад

I so agree!!!!

@kymberlywallace8650 4 года назад

I follow you as well!!! I love Black folks!

@ladytinag4276 4 года назад

Yes Khadeen!!!! I absolutely believe in the concept of men's jobs. I DO NOT take out the trash, shovel snow (unless ABSOLUTELY necessary), cut grass....etc. My husband & I have a very clear understanding of this. However, he doesn't cook, wash dishes, do laundry or clean the house (unless absolutely necessary) and I'm totally fine with that. Not only do I cook daily, I make his plate for him. Not because he demands it but because I choose to. He works full time AND is a full time Pastor and he takes very good care of me financially, emotionally and spiritually. This has worked for us for 30 years. To each their own!

@sleepbaby17 4 года назад

When Devale said, "find someone who has found happiness in themselves," I literally started crying. 😢😢 I am diagnosed with major reoccurring depression and general anxiety disorder. I struggle with finding happiness in myself all of the time, and I wondered if it was even possible for me to be in a relationship with someone because they almost never live up to my expectations or I start relying on them to make me happy when they really can't. But I don't want to be alone because I don't have a lot emotional support outside of myself. Waiting until I "fix" things in my life is a slow and isolating process. So I don't know what to do, and I get scared when I meet someone I like. I want to wait, but I need love in my life outside of just myself to pick me up when I can't do it.

@shawandasmith3818 4 года назад

sleepbaby17 Don’t think that you have to be fixed to find love, sometimes finding love in those moments will catapult you to your best self. My relationship with my ex taught me my triggers and flaws and now I am a different level than I was before.

@sleepbaby17 4 года назад

@@shawandasmith3818 thank you for that! I hope that will be the case for myself as well. Sending love and light your way 🙏🏾🙏🏾

@TweetsyCk 4 года назад

Just know you'll be all right. You don't have to isolate yourself. I understand where you're coming from - especially when you don't have the support. Know that you're worth love, just gotta find it in you first. God made you special and He made you YOU for a reason. Once you find your light, you'll find your purpose... once you find your purpose- you won't be so focused on what you didn't have, but what power you hold to be great on your own. You're worth it. If you believe just a little bit- it can help. Don't let your depression define you, once you let go of its power over you you'll find strength you didn't know you had. You're here for a reason & you'll get to see it if you keep your head to the sky. Remener... love attracts love

@cherylkay1636 4 года назад

You are enough! Happiness doesn’t even come from ourselves but from God our Father. When He gives us joy nobody can take it away. Looking for Jesus will allow you to find yourself. I tried it your way once looking to my husband to find my happiness but it wasn’t until I began to focus on my faith and my Creator that I finally realized it’s not about me or my husband...there’s a bigger picture and purpose ❤️. Be blessed😘

@perdybirdie 3 года назад

Both my bf and I have depression, and we have helped each other grow and heal. I honestly would not be doing as well as I am right now without him, it's a myth that you have to "fix" yourself before a relationship. You have to be accountable with yourself, open to fix bad habits and modable

@AC-hp2es 4 года назад

For the issue/question discussed at 35:00, I think the reason criticism from our partner feels like an attack and/or earth shattering is because, as a society, we (women) are unconsciously programmed with the idea that we should be perfect. From childhood (at least in the black community) the expectation is that girls will do well in school and boys will cut up. When girl misbehave the conversation is of shock, but when boys misbehave, the messaging is ‘boys will be boys’. Then fast forward into adulthood, the message when it comes to relationships is, “What you won’t do, another will”, the existence of side chicks, strip clubs, etc.) All unconsciously creating the mindset that we must be “perfect” and we don’t measure up, there is another waiting in the wing to replace us. So, on a deeper level and even unbeknownst to us, we see criticism as not us not meeting the standard that has been placed on us all our lives, but also a possible pathway to infidelity.

@lifeofneu1438 4 года назад

You ain lie! I know I'm not perfect but when I called out, it feels so crushing because there's so much placed on us women from childhood. No one ever says "girls will be girls". Proverbs 31, every church mother and their advice to the women. There's a meme about women not being able to admit when we're wrong, but lowkey, a part of that is because of societal conditioning that men will make their mistakes, but we don't have that same window of grace as women.

@vicm.7576 4 года назад

A C you hit the nail on the head with this

@cristaltorres. 4 года назад

so perfectly said!

@gloglocreations 4 года назад

Well put

@ericabelcher8760 4 года назад

Omg! You said nothing but the TRUTH! Smh

@TracyCats214 4 года назад

These two couples are so realistic and down to earth. I love how they don't sugarcoat their marriages. Wonderful conversation with wonderful people.

@Mzviola29 4 года назад

Kev and Liss..... y’all mesh so well with the Ellis’s and the conversation was flowing and POPPIN and hella funny!!! I love the content and the honesty and I’m not even married but so much knowledge was dropped! Yassss!!!! Hands down my two favorite couples on the Internet.

@erinnmjones 4 года назад

Even as a single person watching, this was a great episode!

@shawntaharris9075 4 года назад

Single but lovvvvvvved this episode. I can see myself because of this conversation, not just in romantic relationships but family connections.

@Getthejobasap 4 года назад

My favorite podcast couples together

@LookerStenographer 4 года назад

The smoothness of Kev cuttin' people off is on par with Doboy's ad transitions - I don't be seein' it comin

@Baddiesandbudgets 4 года назад

Lmao! I love these but I wish he wouldn’t cut everybody off so much. He’ll come in and completely take the convo over.

@satindol69able 4 года назад

@@Baddiesandbudgets I thought I was the only one. 😂

@shevaunbryant8554 3 года назад

Can you imagine him and Lis arguing 😳

@yeukaimudzi5032 3 года назад

Great convo. Kev good input and perhaps more listening next time would be great. Melissa great moderation and would have loved to also hear more of you. Ellis’ on point always!

@latashawalker5964 4 года назад

After this podcast, I believe more singles need to listen to married couples. This really motivates me to continue to focus on myself as a person and a potential wife. I realized there is no distinct definition of being a good wife, but be yourself allow yourself grace.

@mbubb4626 4 года назад

This was a great episode. My family is from the Caribbean, they get on me if I don't have my husband's meals ready. And it has to be a full meal. I always tell them that he can cook also. It is important to find balance. But he loves my cooking and praises me and my meals. That makes me feel appreciated.

@QueenRiveRose22 4 года назад

That was my sticking point......why can't Devale make his own dinner? Is he grown?

@ericabelcher8760 4 года назад

M Bubb.. oh trust me, my family is Caribbean too & I definitely understand EXACTLY what you're talking about!!! Smh

@arianacollymore7091 3 года назад

Not in my Caribbean household! If you can eat, you can cook😂😂😂

@alanaterrel9914 3 года назад

@@QueenRiveRose22 yes but didnt yu hear the part where Kay wont open her own door if devale is there because it's a 'mans job' its the same thig she grown she can open her own door

@ivoryc7143 3 года назад

@@alanaterrel9914 i guess that's true. ...it seems they have their balance that works for them.... i guess it's a matter of determining your agreements/expectations and finding a partner that's OK with that. that having his plate ready business is not my ministry :o) but I honor my partner's needs / preferences in other ways that matter to him and vice versa.

@kaliahlittle9557 4 года назад

Kev went off this episode! I mean dropping GEMS 💎‼️

@CorettaJG 2 года назад

💥💥💥

@jwilliams1870 4 года назад

Im so freakin excited....I've been waiting for this episide!!! My 2 FAVORITE COUPLES❤❤❤❤❤

@km7890km 4 года назад

Same here❤️❤️❤️❤️👑👑👑👑

@missbeemarie1607 4 года назад

“U not always gon be on point” facts 👏🏾 Do ur best to find a balance but sometimes we come up short and its ok, as long as u realize it and keep trying.

@FromEricaWithLove 4 года назад

Y’alls energy is amazing, so refreshing and light 🏆👏🏽 Melissa, girl you are growing and it’s SHOWING. Your listening skills have been improving so much! I did miss your input in this conversation, but also hearing the guests speak and allowing for a full conversation was awesome with everyone having an equal share. So good guys! ❤️🤗

@wahaywgr 3 года назад

I watch these marriage discussions all the time…getting myself prepared for when my boo comes along. Lol!

@akorn4668 4 года назад

28 mins in and I have tears in my eyes from laughing so hard. Y'all are hilarious and great together. This conversation is great

@zeldapolk1980 3 года назад

Y’all are so blessed to have spouses that care, extend grace and are committed to working together.

@justrishema1271 4 года назад

The chemistry in this room is so good 😫😫

@TwiinStar1224 4 года назад

My two favorite couples. Would love to see a Kev and Devale Real Husbands podcast DEAD ASS! Loved yall on their podcast too.

@lanas.johnson2943 4 года назад

I don’t EVER comment on these videos but let’s be clear black women have ALWAYS worked in America. While I understand the theory of how a black man is made to feel out in the world (reminder: we are a step below you) and his home should be his refuge, we ain’t sitting around twiddling our thumbs... well I’m watching this RU-vid now but I’m an entrepreneur in my own right. Lol But you get the point Davale.

@CorettaJG 2 года назад

Truth.

@sidersproductions941 4 года назад

The failed high five and fist bump though.😂😂😂

@kevinkkirimii 4 года назад

That high 5 is unforgettable.

@maxinec1616 4 года назад

The Frederik's and The Ellis' !!!! Lemme get ready for this ride!

@QUADacityLyfe 4 года назад

This is by far my favorite episode next to the super emotional one with Kev's brother.

@Angela-cd9bj 2 года назад

“Reciprocation” - it’s great concept - Devale wants to figure out how can he make his wife better? That’s sweet.

@MotiA. 4 года назад

Loved this podcast, but I'd like to see Devale and Khadeen answer the questions in full. I know it's difficult being that you guys have so much in common, but a lot of the questions thrown at Devale weren't answered in full cuz Kev had a similar personal story to tell

@ChelsaSMoore 4 года назад

The Love Hour Podcast will receive the recognition that it deserves in 2020! This content is GOODT every week. I'm claiming that for y'all! #AwardWinningPodcast

@zevlonantoine3986 4 года назад

Amen.🙌🙌

@itsMaghan 4 года назад

I would be totally happy with them collaborating to give us a third podcast 🤷🏾‍♀️ I’m just saying

@the1andonlyof16 4 года назад

Me too

@shaneadockery8508 4 года назад

I'm around for the Fredericks/Ellis collaboration 🖤

@moca1992 4 года назад

By far one of the most enjoyable couple interviews. Thank you so much Melissa & Kevonstage. Lawd Melissa gave a word. #Issa-a-word Melissssssssa do you know how many people have realized they have given up on good relationships because they thought growth was bad. Amen! Whew! When those who do not want to grow to realize that growth is infinite. Y'all, Kevin, Devale, Khadeen, Melissa did a wonderful job.

@jccanteen 4 года назад

I see ppl on this vid and others commenting on the hosts’ level of participation in the discussion and I don’t get it. I personally prefer to hear a conversation rather than an interview. I love you guy’s style... it’s engaging and feels organic. And Melissa if you’re not a therapist, you definitely should be one!!!

@mrs.w2942 4 года назад

I love Melissas appreciation of other ppl! So humble and sweet

@akalaspeaks 3 года назад

Ultimately, the defensive response when you hear what's wrong is connected to the shame cycle. We already beat ourselves up and when it comes from our partner, it amplifies our flaws.

@Drm386 4 года назад

we need this group to have a whole show!!! I love you all!!!

@angiebaby0603 3 года назад

learning how to extend grace to your spouse is everything. After 12 years of marriage, this is straight facts! This is a great episode! I love both couples

@tamarajohashen1813 4 года назад

Heading out to my job interview feeling nervous. Then I saw the upload all smiles 😊

@bigerthanmyself421 4 года назад

Girl you got this,

@linalouwillis 4 года назад

Great luck to you

@brangeeellis3083 4 года назад

We need an update on how the interview went (yes, I am all up in yo biznrss) 😉

@tamarajohashen1813 4 года назад

(Update) I got the job offer this morning. 🙏🏽🙌🏾 thanks for the motivational comments.

@alexandralee794 4 года назад

Tamara Latty congrats!! 🙌🏾❤️

@jdw39503 3 года назад

Best conversation ever. I wish my husband listened in on this because they touched on majority of all our issues. I see now things that I need to change immediately that he has been asking for months and years. You all truly opened my eyes and mind on this marriage thing for sure. Thank you.

@EdenAdele 4 года назад

Just when I think I've seen my favorite episode, y'all do something like this! #HighFiveMelissa 🤣🙏🏾

@ms215rep 4 года назад

🗣THIS WAS THE BEST EPISODE THUS FAR! (If I could make the word THE bigger I would) It’s so enlightening to hear other couples go thru similar situations. I learned so much in 1.5 hrs that I’m watching it again to instill parts of it. I felt Khadeen when she said “Damn we had this discussion b4 & I didn’t fix it yet.” That’s exactly how I felt recently. I was like ok I gotta do better. When u want to make a relationship work you put in the work ya self! Love this episode!!! ♥️ 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 ♥️

@jasminedark8255 4 года назад

Shout out to Melissa!!! Truly my spirit animal when the awkward high five happened. You and Kev are helping the next generation of married Christians! Also speaking on your wonders and thoughts concerning your sexuality as a young lady has helped me feel differently and opened my mind to my own situations. I thank you and I’m sure my husband is grateful.

@m.l.2483 4 года назад

All I know is...Devale and Khadeen better be at the conference and I'm not even going 😂

@the1andonlyof16 4 года назад

Well I am and I hope they come through

@sincerelyajg5067 4 года назад

This is such an honest conversation! My husband just wants me to express my concerns where I am prone to hold it in & be mad! I’m always thinking ahead & my husband always says “it will get done, relax”! He says “if you don’t tell me, I don’t know”. I see Kev, Melissa, Devale, & Khadeen... I watch!

@Songtresskelli3287 4 года назад

Ugh this was such an awesoooooommmeeee episode.. Both of my favorite couple's together.. And everything they talked about has made me look at my marriage and see where I can work on me and us as a whole!!! Thank you soooo much!!!

@WillieEarlSon 4 года назад

I need kev to a video on growing up without a father and how he dealt with that growing up and how it effected him raising his kids

@MrsKevOnStage 4 года назад

Bdynamite ‼️‼️

@paulanderson2225 4 года назад

Dang today episode had me all in my feelings. A lot of good points I wish was made in my previous relationship. Things could've went differently so we could've reached our true potential in our relationship but we never made it there before we broke up.

@the1andonlyof16 4 года назад

What's great is that you now have the opportunity to take this information along with what you learned from past relationships and be the best version of yourself that you can be for the next person.

@lydiaheelu2681 2 года назад

So soo many golden moments and insights. But the point Melissa made about expanding one’s vocabulary to articulate and express emotions is 👌🏾👌🏾.

@kp7223 4 года назад

I love that, "I want to make life easy for you"

@Lea_Maree 4 года назад

Devale said he’s a Aries so yes We remember EVERYTHING😂😂

@ChloeBaileysRightBootyCheek 4 года назад

leamaria I’m a Leo and I feel like Aries are the only sign I gel with 😂 we’re a lot alike

@cdisturbed 4 года назад

@@ChloeBaileysRightBootyCheek I'm an Aries w a Leo wife 😩😂 BUT for the grace of GOD

@breleflore8749 4 года назад

leamaria yes! We remember it all and NEVER will be told what to do! Deal with it or not but it is what it is and is gone be what it’s gone be!! Period!

@ChloeBaileysRightBootyCheek 4 года назад

Ajahni F so what you tryna say? We difficult or something 😂🤔

@cdisturbed 4 года назад

@@ChloeBaileysRightBootyCheek lmao nah just that I know 2 fire signs could either take over the world or burn it down in their wake 😩 believing God for the former, AMEN 😂

@lindy-annkeil6640 3 года назад

Devale and Khadeen man! You guys are lengendary.🙌💯👌 Loving the hosts, Kevin and Melissa great people. Top level 💯👍🙌

@Reeses710 4 года назад

Lol, this episode is hilarious (and I'm only 13 mins in), Devale's face when he said they moved MiMi to Cali, lol!! I absolutely love & respect the open honesty between all of you, communication is definitely important--brutal honesty!!! Kev: "turn around & huggggg me, don't dap me up" hahaha, I completely understand that! Omg, I'm in tears laughing at Melissa & Kay's missed high-five moment....

@Goalfluencer 4 года назад

Yoooo when Melissa said I got mad right now ahahahhaha I felt that. But to he made a great point!!!!

@shaenam9497 3 года назад

The way I’m chuckling at Melissa yawing at the end of this video should be illegal 😂🤣😂😂.

@lorol5224 3 года назад

I am glad they're not putting up a fake front about how relationships really are, like how many people do on social media, then behind the scenes they are screaming and miserable and toxic. Many times people have fights, don't talk to each other, irritate each other... the mature thing is to know the limits of each other, recognize that each person has their own inner life which they keep to themselves, to have a base set of rules about fighting and disagreement and to give each other benefit of doubt.

@msfiesty88 4 года назад

My two favorite families are in the same room together 😍😍

@amandadewalt5268 Год назад

The see-saw was a great analogy. You are only balanced if neither partner is moving. It's a constant rebalancing!

@bebetucker1 4 года назад

Im here 8months later and this is Great!! This conversation is great and so similiar to what all couples are going through.

@tj103libra3 4 года назад

Y’all have no idea on how this discussion just added clarity to my marriage. We will continue the work, but to know we are not in weird space that is unfamiliar to marriages is comforting and helps with healing. Thank you!

@johnrucker4696 3 года назад

Freaking love this SHIT!!! They need to become frequent guests on you all podcast!!!!!

@karentjackson86 4 года назад

Listening to this again. I'm older than you guys and have been married a little longer but I'm learning so much from you. Thank you all for being so open and sharing so much publicly. I'm gonna recommend my husband listens to this......wish me luck!

@QGODDESS1 4 года назад

This is what Young Black Couples NEED... Other Strong Black Couples as Great Positive Examples. THANKSSSSSSSS

@cherishdeb 4 года назад

Yoooooo this is the realest conversation on marriage, and i have been reading books and watching videos on mariage for years. The talk about keeping the mad front on, pettiness, not wanting to start being happy bc your partner says so....this is sooo real, so good. Ya'll getting me ready.

@nicholasjohn3215 4 года назад

"We Y'all, Y'all Us" new show for you guys. Dopeness. Who else would watch? (Forget This is Us)

@Wahn23 3 года назад

Is it weird I'm really young and like watching these podcasts whether #K&D or #ONSTAGE. Im nineteen im a male, but yeah im fascinated with my culture and its people 👊🏾✌🏾

@TomorrowMims 4 года назад

This was everything I hoped for and more! It was like a continuation of Devale and Kay's Podcast. Loved every minute. They should come back quarterly.

@berlitzjoseph8797 3 года назад

I didn't want this épisode to end. I wanted to stay in the room with them! I feel like i'm ready to be married now because of this vidéo !

@la-nekabrown6825 4 года назад

I laughed without breathing with Melissa and Deval’s fist bump. Flailing arms and all.

@MsProsperity0803 3 года назад

I am a single woman & I have learned a lifetime of information from this podcast!!! I am a supporter of both couples & love them so much!!!! Thank you guys for being so transparent & REAL!!!!! ♥️♥️♥️

@everythingalyb 4 года назад

17:29 "I'm sorry to cut you off, but I'm gonna continue..." 😂😂😂😂😂😂

@blkfiit 2 года назад

What I LOVVVVVE about these two couples is their ability to keep it ALL THE WAY REAL, and to be able to reflect and laugh at their flaws and each other without getting upset. That seems to be essential for a healthy relationship. Laughter and love is Everything.

@tdroney1 4 года назад

THISSSSSSSSS!! My goodness, this is the absolute best video I've EVER and I mean EVER watched on RU-vid. This video was on time. This video is real. This video is enlightening and such an amazing conversation. Thank you all for your transparency.

@llaing30 3 года назад

One thing I know about marriage is that we need to work for each other most people think marriage what they can get out of it. Marriage which is wrong marriage is a constant work on self and each other.

@Ohitishim 3 года назад

May 27, 2021 Watching for the 1st time, and I must say that your assessment (grace and recalibration) is so necessary. Thank you for the wisdom, and for the love. Continued success in all that you set your hands to accomplish in the near future.

@nicoleprice354 Год назад

I absolutely love this whole conversation 💕💕💕. Thank you all so much.

@amandahooverlester 4 года назад

I really was legit mad that this episode was over.😒💪🏾👌🏾👍🏾😍😘

@msvanessaceo 4 года назад

Great show, my 3 keys I look for in a man is Faith, Health, and yes willing to grow together all through life. It's good to find someone who you can be just be yourself around and willing to always put the work in even when you don't feel like it. May God continue to bless these real couples!