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In today’s episode Kevin & Melissa discuss the importance of intimacy and the differences between men and women.
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@SoFocusedonTheMark 5 лет назад

My husband and I watch your videos and it helps us talk through difficult topics that would normally end in one of us shutting down. These videos have given us tools and resources to tools that help us communicate our feelings and what we are trying to actually say. We’ve grown so much. Thank you. We’ve paid a licensed marriage counselor but didn’t make nearly as much progress.

@lilone11586 5 лет назад

I keep trying to tell my husband to listen to them, because I am Liss and he is Kevin, and I feel like my explanations fly right over his head, but... yeah... I guess I'll just have to sit down with him and listen to it with him.

@Passion84GodAlways 5 лет назад

@Jenayia Lashae - What a BLESSING! 👏🏾 CONGRATS to you and your husband on doing the work & growing closer 💖 based on the resources Lis & Kev have blessed us with! 🙏🏾

@SoFocusedonTheMark 5 лет назад

lilone11586 yes it took my husband a while, then after he finally watched he apologized for taking so long to watch. The book and podcast suggestions that Lis recommends is so good. That screaming in silence video really hit home. Hopefully he will watch with you.

@Leocalamb2 5 лет назад

Seeing Lis blush when Kev gets all ratchet & carried away is soo funny 😆 She’s like chile I can’t 🤣🤣🤣

@Nezziekay 5 лет назад

I be cracking up

@Shesha626 5 лет назад

It's so cute!

@quickpolar97 5 лет назад

I love the pastor and first lady pic in the background.

@psylettagilroy 5 лет назад

That would look great on the back of a book cover, too!

@mlkchklt 5 лет назад

LIS! The way she started transitioning from BJ to Blue Chew cluelessly, lol.

@1tuffcookie689 5 лет назад

😂

@guyanesegal280 5 лет назад

The fact that Melissa getting movies titles wrong 😂😂 😂

@1tuffcookie689 5 лет назад

🤣🤣🤣

@donnisha5180 5 лет назад

Single parent listener. I listen to give me insight on what a healthy relationship looks like. Thank you for what y’all do... even though y’all are just living parts of your life on display.

@PamelaGrace31 5 лет назад

I can’t wait to see y’all on the tour. I’m single but listening to y’all has been such a blessing to me. Especially bc I grew up in the church with the stigmas and all. Love y’all ❤️

@mizzpeach01 5 лет назад

Yes waiting for the singles conference lol

@PamelaGrace31 5 лет назад

@@mizzpeach01 haha yes same here!

@mimi_davis 5 лет назад

I think what you are doing is good because you don't just cover marriage, you show how you work on yourself. Even though this is about your marriage we learn how men and women view things and how that affect the other person. Thank you 👌👍🏽

@christophermm23 5 лет назад

I feel Kev @19:03, when I try to be mad at my wife and say i'm not gone touch her or let her touch me, it never last/never works. Even if she deserves me being upset with her. And it's crazy cause they can be mad FOR DAYS with no problem!

@Goalfluencer 5 лет назад

BJ I’m dying!!!!!! I caught on right away and poor Melissa was like huh Ahahahhah ahahhah then the Segway yo blew chew and she didn’t catch on I’m holllering!!!!!!!!

@lillielevros-desir227 5 лет назад

I was right there along with Liss, had NO idea what he was talking about

@LadyAqua112 5 лет назад

i really needed to hear what Kevin said about washing dishes; i just had this conversation with my husband about my love language being acts of service and how him volunteering to iron the kid's clothes or taking out the trash without me asking means everything to me; never made the correlation from that to me initiating sex but it makes total sense; i definitely need to start looking at thing from his perspective

@talithasuya8908 3 года назад

Update? 👀😂

@princess20131 5 лет назад

Melissa you are an awesome teacher I'm single however I have learned so much from you and Kevin

@nstolliver 5 лет назад

You two are incredibly brave for sharing your marriage journey! THANK YOU! This is type of content value that isn't often attained. I appreciate you so very much!

@chaosswa-ee-ty5911 5 лет назад

Thanks for not leaving us hanging. Congrats on Zay.

@stillirise4401 5 лет назад

I don’t think my mama has ever said a movie title correctly in all the years I have known her lol!

@stillirise4401 5 лет назад

@@ktyler4045 lol!

@MrsKevOnStage 5 лет назад

Still I Rise 😂😂

@jamojayj 5 лет назад

Kev is teaching a word for the women. 🙌🏽

@Passion84GodAlways 5 лет назад

"...we are going into these relationships unarmed, uninformed, unaware, and unprepared"!!!!!! 40:26 Y'ALL BETTA PRRRRRRREACH!!!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾 ComeAsYouAreByEmilyNagoskiRecommendedReadingForEVERYEngagedCouple

@Oone2023 5 лет назад

Awwww grandma Lis will be the cutest 😂 😂

@nstolliver 5 лет назад

I hollered when Ken said Lis be remixing movie titles!!!

@antoinycemathis 5 лет назад

You learn yourself day by day. I have changed sooooo much since I've been married - sex and otherwise!!!! I do not feel that I was stifled because I was a virgin when I got married, because I was willing to learn at the needed pace (lol). However, I'm constantly changing... and I appreciate that my husband and I can evolve together and take the time to understand the changes.

@alanabrooks8526 4 года назад

This podcast is very much needed especially for the African American community. I know you say you don't have the perfect marriage and no one does but being open to share and being volunerable with each other and your viewers is everything ❤️ Thank you Mr. And Mrs Kevonstage

@Fashion_With_Tamyia 5 лет назад

I thoroughly enjoy watching these, and I’m so glad they are on your channel, so I can comment♥️

@roxxymr616 5 лет назад

Kev: "This is why I think that some of the stuff that we do for the love hour is so important even if you are not married. The more you know about yourself the more prepared you are for a partner" Me: Exactly!!!!! I have been thinking that since I started watching. This podcast, for me, is a real and Godly example of a marriage but also great marriage prep!! I love that the commentary and tools come from research and experience, not just opinions. May God continue to bless your family, you have surely blessed me and my circle.

@antoinycemathis 5 лет назад

HAHAHAH... I think it's sooooo interesting when men (and women) think sex is only for the man!!! Like... what?!?!!? Where do they do thaaaaaaatttt!?!?!?! Let me tell you how grateful I am that I knew it was for MEEEE (and him lol) and that we tried to focus on learning each other!! Still learning... and it's fun lol

@antoinycemathis 5 лет назад

We equally share the "jump starting"!!! We cannot be mad long!!!! I am so grateful that we can't let tension linger!! I'm like Kev... it's super hard to remain mad. I explained it like this to my husband last night - we have such a dynamic flow that when one thing is off, not only can we not flow as a unit, but we cannot even flow/function individually. So, since we are so interconnected (by choice and intentionality), we absolutely cannot remain at odds without the potential impact of throwing everything else in our lives off. Sooooo, we opt to aim our hardest to achieve and maintain our flow!!! Sooo amazing!! #MomentumCycle

@Sjxoxo817 5 лет назад

I came to more than few realization today. Thanks guys... love the show!

@Passion84GodAlways 5 лет назад

UNT-UH! Not "Yeah gurrrllll...snappity-snap... I'm natural"!?!!!! 😅😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 26:04

@carter394able 5 лет назад

I caught that too lolol

@KBDamson 5 лет назад

Kevin about to be in the mirror practicing that wink. Kevin should've asked "Does the winking emoji works?" Lol

@bookguru8940 5 лет назад

Excellent episode, Melissa. Very helpful.

@ltswann9583 5 лет назад

Life is given every single week. This is so good!!

@missbeemarie1607 5 лет назад

Kev winking 🤣🤣 dead! I dont feel sexy winking either.

@rebelsol333 5 лет назад

It amazes me how Melissa's mind never goes in the gutter but Kevin's always goes there!! Ohhhh BJ! 😂😂😂

@niquemonet929 5 лет назад

Holiness is STILL right!!! 😂😂😂

@KTRN52 5 лет назад

#beatfire #spidermon #homegoing y'all I may have had a cocktail when I was listening and that whole movie mix up took me out 😂😂😂😂

@juriannefranqui3061 5 лет назад

I can’t wait for part 2 of this discussion ! Love this podcast and all the topics that y’all discuss. I’ve been married for about 3 years but most of my friends aren’t married so I don’t get to have much dialogue about these topics.

@tinaamariee832 5 лет назад

How young of kids are we talking? I wasn’t allowed to go to sleepovers & stuff until I was 10. My mom wanted me to be old enough to be able to voice if anything happened. So yeah I would let my 10 year old go. Bey & Jay got more security than a child’s school & summer camp combined. Idk maybe it’s cause I work at a daycare but I view my kids going with them the same as sending them to summer camp with strangers.

@pamelamorris4802 4 года назад

I listen to a lot of your podcast and this by far gave me the most knowledge! I'm going to have my husband listen to this as well. Thanks you guys for all the information! Can't wait to listen to part 2.

@Calida 5 лет назад

This was so informative! Accelerators and Brakes... Kev always cracks me up when he goes too far on the jokes 😂 I'm also a higher desire woman, but so so single so this vid really insightful. I must go listen to that book!

@byoutyfullgurl 5 лет назад

Lis you look stunning. Hair laid and face beat.

@braidabunch 3 года назад

KEVIN CRACKS ME UP WITH THOSE SUPER SMALL SIPS OF HIS WHATEVER HE IS DRINKING EVERY EPISODE HAHHAHA

@ramonajones3963 5 лет назад

I love how Kev stares into the camera after saying something naughty, lol 😂... Yess you two are a blessing thanks to you both!!!

@tiffanibutler9691 5 лет назад

Thanks for doing this! I missed the first half of the Love Hour last year.

@musicneurons7807 Год назад

This episode is low key GOAT.

@camilletolbert5657 5 лет назад

Another great one for the books👏🏾 I'm not married and I'm barely dating(not by choice) lol BUUT this podcast is always a good word🙌🏾❤

@keishapuryear8180 3 года назад

Wow this episode is amazing. Wish me luck I'm going too share this with my hubby

@miss__monique 4 года назад

this is my most favorite video of you guys. This explains a lot of what was going on in our marriage. I carried a lot of Guily for a lot of the things that happen. I learned that we were in a vicious cycle of broken. Thank you for sharing!!!

@klf0526 5 лет назад

I’m all caught up!! Yay🤗🤗🥰🥰

@antoinycemathis 5 лет назад

Agreed, Kev... you definitely have to speak for the two of you!! lol... it is beyond true that men and women can be so different!! I can definitely turn mine on and off, even if there is some tension going on lol. But, I do realize that I'm a rare case for most women.

@SuchALady215 5 лет назад

I love watching you guys and that intro song is EVERYTHING!!!

@marteshalee8013 5 лет назад

You guys are amazing and completely relatable. Please keep the sessions coming!

@mizzpeach01 5 лет назад

Can I say I love love y’all theme song. Find myself humming it during the day. Lol

@thedebbyoshow685 5 лет назад

Kev's face at 12:52 and your genuine look of confusion 🤣🤣🤣 I love you two for real

@princessKayluh 5 лет назад

I just wanna say that at a bout 45:00 Lisa really impressed me I already love her point of view and the clarity she brings to things and at the moment she checked Kevin and acknowledged that they have a "wider audience"(meaning not all couples are heterosexual) I just really felt included in the coverage especially since I'm in a relationship that has all of these emotions intertwined and crossing over where it's not just male vs female it's female vs female with all the extras. idk I dunt usually comment but I really Kent slot having a successful black Christian couple that I look up to include that sentiment. love you guys I will stay loyal to the 95%

@kristopherrobinson3250 5 лет назад

I'm definitely feelin Kev's word on this because I'm the same way. I just want to know that I am wanted. So I want my wife to initiate because it makes me feel like she wants me.

@elise2627 5 лет назад

Kev had me CRACKING UP multiple times throughout this episode, great job and great advice!

@unitsbykim3295 5 лет назад

💖💖💖💖💖 always love the podcast

@Shesha626 5 лет назад

Love both of you guys channel! I'm single but these discussions have enlighten me a lot! Love you guys and thanks for using your platform to speak to us! Blessings!

@keishapuryear8180 3 года назад

Melissa i love your look today. Your hairstyle works so well with your pretty eyes. Thank you guys for sharing

@Nmendenh-rl6ej 5 лет назад

Really odd topic. Liss I don’t know if you’ve seen the RU-vid couple getting flack for calling out their newborns dark complexion. You’ve hinted at your struggles with colorism before. I’d love an episode on that.

@immortal_longings 5 лет назад

Very nice episode...you spoke eloquently about relationship dynamics and male/female needs. 😍

@tashmoore3825 4 года назад

Okay, that explains the hugs. I didn't understand that ice breaker because that's not common in my background but I definitely will cherish the hugs more. Especially after COVID.

@tashmoore3825 4 года назад

I still often need to get to a place where whatever happened isn't just raw. Like I need a moment or several.

@tashmoore3825 4 года назад

Oh my gosh, this is gold. I keep having to pause & consider, Oy! So many moments where we could do it differently. Hindsight & things. But I genuinely am feeling better than I did last Saturday reviewing trauma. 😅💜

@tashmoore3825 4 года назад

I had to come back & say I (not having given birth yet) thought, hmm, Beyonce & Jay-Z with our kids for the summer? IDK, is it structured? Like mogul camp or something? Then I thought, Rihanna & Drake with our kids for the whole summer? Big deep breath. NO. And that's why we're maturing. 😅💜 I hope they never read this.

@CJtheGr8. 5 лет назад

Man Kev spot on I WANT TO FEEL WANTED !

@beardzthebeast4898 5 лет назад

Kev, You killed the segway to the bra plug from "nekidness" lol. Hysterical

@ShakiraKGardner 5 лет назад

This is so needed! Thanks for always sharing.

@Wampaantics 5 лет назад

Low key”Pirates of the Galaxy” sounds like a dope movie.

@yes_anotherone3260 5 лет назад

Congratulations on another great Love Hour ❤️

@antoinycemathis 5 лет назад

Melissa is meeeeeeeee.... I'm like - why is he talking about BJ (the Sam's/Costco competitor lolol). I only caught it when he said, "if you have Blue Chew, you can have a BJ..." Lawd, have mercy!!!

@latresemilton6729 5 лет назад

That or This with Kev and Liss

@carter394able 5 лет назад

I mean we know what it is lol #thisorthat

@Truu5StarLifeDriver 5 лет назад

It IS DEFINITELY a good thing UNTIL it is no longer a 'good thing'! LovYall Ase' Amen and Ase' Again 👑💛👑

@danabryant6138 5 лет назад

Ase🌟

@psylettagilroy 5 лет назад

Ok, so when is the Love Hour workbook/study guide coming out?

@MrsKevOnStage 5 лет назад

gilroygal36 good idea!

@1tuffcookie689 5 лет назад

Hahhhahhaha he said I saw your eyes gloss over🤣🤣 I just found you guys..and loving ya'll already

@carter394able 5 лет назад

Welcome to the podcast 😊

@Drm386 5 лет назад

Kev is going to be practicing his wink from here on out 😂😂😍😍

@candace7745 4 года назад

I so enjoy your show i watch faithfully i learn so much thank you for teaching and encouraging others to excel in love with your partner. THANK YOU

@DesmonaeLloyd 5 лет назад

Lol kev and his singing 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@AprilTaurus35 5 лет назад

Love the back ground

@thickumz211 5 лет назад

Luv y’all and the growth 😎

@antoinycemathis 5 лет назад

I've been scared to try Third Love, but it's my birthdaaaaaaayyy, and I'm going to take the risk to try it out!!! (And, since I signed up, I got a $10 coupon today lol, but I'll take the 15% instead to support MY PEOPLE!!!)

@joannaajoi8539 4 года назад

🤣🤣🤣🤣 I love when youu guys go on break. Y'all be having me dying laughing !! But thank youu soo much for sharing guyss ! Soo much beneficial information on this episode & I'm pretty sure Every single one ! I just have to catch up !! 🤗🤗🤗🖤💪🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

@KRWatkins 5 лет назад

Sadly, a lot of y'all content on these podcasts won't even get heard by my husband. His attention span for shows like this is VERY short. ☹

@mavsgurl061 5 лет назад

I know!!!! Same here! It's so annoying. A book. A podcast. A short article. Nothing will keep good attention. But an agreement will! 🤔

@KRWatkins 5 лет назад

@@mavsgurl061 girl yes, and he doesn't call it an argument. He likes to say we "debate". Uh...no! So, I have given up on trying to share info with him that can help both of us.

@LadiTrypleA 5 лет назад

Awesome as usual

@cpc439 2 года назад

We in here Kev. Married father of 3

@GoonSavvy 5 лет назад

You guys r so dope👏🏽👏🏽 I hope I get to meet u one day @kevonstage

@ParisLeShea 5 лет назад

Yayyy my favorite series on RU-vid aka The Love Hour is up! \o/

@alanaterrel9914 3 года назад

Them prizes on thirdlove is a killer for a owrson from my country

@SD-hs2pk 5 лет назад

Sounds like a great book!

@michellepegues4011 5 лет назад

Thats a nice thought Kev but every spouse is NOT working to be a better partner. However when in Christ through prayer for personal patience and forgiveness that spouse that wasn't working or seeing their part in a problem transforms!!! #livedIt

@jasmyneprice6068 5 лет назад

I LOVE LOVE LOVE the podcast, keep it up guys. Where can I get Lis's book club podcast? I need it in my life ASAP.

@floyd7124 5 лет назад

love the show

@antoinycemathis 5 лет назад

Yeeeesss, I realize that I am "abnormal" lolol... My husband and I are just about equal sexually - we may alter up and down every now and then (either of us going up or down), but I'm definitely light on the brakes and make his life easier hahahahaha

@jazzysview981 5 лет назад

BJs tho liss clueless, kev looks straight in the camera cause he and we all know she didn't catch it. But we caught it. Lmbo

@MrsKevOnStage 5 лет назад

Drapedby Jas 😩😩

@MissLady8806 5 лет назад

Ya'll are really tryna make me cry talking about the boys growing up and neglecting y'all. My only baby will be 10 in November and I don't want to think about the day he doesn't want to be with me. 😥

@antoinycemathis 5 лет назад

Just ordered my Third Love bra... sooooo EXCITED!!! Let me see if I agree with Melissa!!! lol

@SarkazzHere 4 года назад

a B JJJJJJJJ lmaoooooo *ding*

@crysjames9156 3 года назад

@MrskevOnStage I love your sweater!! Where can I get one?

@byoutyfullgurl 5 лет назад

Lis can we get a tutorial on this look.

@vivianwells8215 5 лет назад

How do I join book club?

@OutOfFocus777 5 лет назад

MrsKevonStage can you get on Kev and Doboy about getting the RR pack the codes for the tours, please!

@Amberrechelle 5 лет назад

Can yawl make sure to not put all women in a basket when we speak about our needs . There are women , like myself, who aren’t solely an emotional connection for intimacy.

@generationswatching 5 лет назад

I feel like our society send our kids off with strangers all the time. A new mother who has to go back to work will have to utilize day care and in the beginning it’s basically sending your kid off with a stranger for about 8 hours a day 5 days a week. We send our kids to new schools filled with stranger who we entrust to teach and educate them. People send their kids away to sleep away camp all the time and they don’t know who the camp councilors are. I feel like your example is just an other variation of what’s already going on lol

@Nezziekay 5 лет назад

Men want to be desired just like women, I can't wait for part dos #mexico