As a 17 year old I listen to this everyday b4 I sleep why because no one else can understand me like theo does he makes me realizes that I’m going to be okay that I can’t and will not give up in life I will bet better not for anymore but for my self I can get through this depression
I’m 19 and I’ve been fighting a similar battle for years, I can’t speak on the problems that you’re personally going through ,but I’ve felt like I don’t really know who I am and there’s no real purpose In my life. At times I feel I’m drowning and can’t reach the surface, I feel like A failure and outcast, but I am determined not to lose this battle. just hold on please and keep pushing every day, I can’t say I’ve made it, but I feel that I’m getting closer, I finally understand that I’m not alone. I hope one day you find meaning and purpose that guide you through this thing that we call life.
@@poppz-11bro, i’m 19 as well and you wrote that beautifully bro. every word and sentence you said was relatable, like how i would describe it, i pray your doing well as you read this man, and just try to remember that when it’s bad it’s going to be good next, ik it’s hard to tell yourself that but for me it is. again we’ll wrote man, seriously sincerely 🫂
Keep your head up mate, I'm 32,ivr battled myself for 25 years and its the only battle worth fighting for, please try and find beauty in something and be in the moment, it helps me get through the toughest days.
i’m 16 and feel almost everything that he’s feeling, i feel like i’m to young to be feel this way so i don’t express the way i feel about it, i’ve done so many great things but i’ve always felt this way. i hope we all get better eventually. i hope the best for you and everyone else feeling the same way
“Let’s start with other people, that’s safe” in that context, just hits. I’m 23 now gents, not really a vet yet but I feel I’m one of the older ones that tune into this shit. DO NOT GIVE UP. Man I may give up, but I’m telling you; “do as I say, not as I do”. Life comes at you so fast man. You will always, ALWAYS realize you were thinking wrong at some point. Please, please give yourselves the time to think. I’m laying here at 23, basically drunk, and thinking about my life the same way y’all are. You don’t wanna be here and everything fucking hurts all the time, but you have to carry this burden. Things will pick up. You do not want to be a tragedy. You have to live for you, man. Try not to be hyperaware of how people feel about you because we all know we base our feelings off of the emotions around us (which isn’t the route boys). You have to get up. You have to do something. I’m now realizing more and more every single day why middle-old aged men get up and mow early; because you gotta keep going. Don’t miss out on your life waiting for everything to be perfect. It’s not as red pilled as you think; it’s really about positivity. I wanna kill myself almost everyday, it hurts so bad all the time, i’ve wronged so many people. I wake up and go to work feeling this immense anxiety that balls up in my throat and makes it hard to speak, my stomach is upside down. The worst thing is about to happen. It won’t. And if it does, you’re ready because you been thinking bout it. Don’t be me bro, please try to be a positive influence on yourself and the world.
@@yasin7068Things are looking up. Got a girl by my side at the moment, she’s nice and treats me well. It’s just everything hurts all the time man. I don’t know who I am or what’s going on. I’m at the point where I’m starting to think I will have to just live life always feeling this feeling and not leave under traumatic circumstances so I don’t hurt anyone I love. At least I’ll die knowing I did it for something type thing.
Writing this comment is proof that you are of value. I'm Theo's age and been through my own set of struggles, but someone almost half my age just gave me a different, wise, positive and valuable perspective. My own brother once told me that he expected to get a phone call with the news that i offed myself, because he thought i was the kind of person who would end up doing it eventually, so that stopped being an option, out of spite if you will lol, so i'm here at this point in my life to tell you that if i haven't given up, you definitely can and will survive it all, and hopefully find happiness. NEVERRRR give up, EVER. I believe in you, God bless.
See a lot of lonely people here. I’m a 30 year old guy. I struggled a lot for a long time. And I just wanna tell you it gets better but you gotta put in the work. If you ever need to talk to someone that won’t judge or someone just to listen feel free to reach out. I’m here for you. I love you
I grew up as the oldest of 3 brothers. I moved out and started my career in the military. I was alone for the first time in my life. Eventually, I was able to meet people who really cared about me. I learned that I am a better version of myself when I have other people to care for. Being alone is hard but you can also start to enjoy it in a weird way. Don’t get comfortable and really try to meet people. It took me 3 years to find just one person who I bonded with outside of my family, but it was worth the time. Keep pushing my fellow humans. Onward.
I’ve been out for 2 years and moved back home, it’s unbelievably hard to even connect with people it just feels so much easier to be alone and not even deal with trying
It's crazy when you finally get clean and stop suppressing emotions and trying to forget the reasons why your cooking your self. the answers slowly come back to you and the problem solving part of your brain kick back I love how you are able to break your thought process down and narrate your feelings for us To use as mental processing tools and help us solve some of the root causes. Iv had a life long battle from age 8 to 31 with drugs and alcohol on and off Stay golden theo 💛
ITS SO AMAZING THAT THEO WAS DOING THIS "TRYING TO HELP OTHER PEOPLE" PODCAST EVEN BEFORE HE WAS FAMOUS!! HE EVEN HAD A PHONE NUMBER TO CALL IN AND TALK TO HIM ON THE PHONE ON THE PODCAST TO ASK HIM FOR ADVICE/HELP. EVEN BEFORE HE WAS EVEN REMOTELY FAMOUS! 💙 THEO HAS SUCH A PURE HEART! 🤘🏻💙🤘🏻
Through defense mechanisms God has given Theo an extremely rare gift. The gift of expression. He’s able to express himself in such away that EVERYONE understands exactly what he means. When Theo talks about his brother I’ll always stop what I’m doing and listen. Those silent pauses talking about his brother were so powerful that I felt it in Oklahoma.
Man 17 years old, and I finally feel like i connected to someone for almost the first time in my life but will never meet him Theo has said all the words that are in my head and i probably wouldn’t be here without my older brother either knowing what that he could get through what he did knowing that he can be happy and start a family made me believe that maybe I can too. Good luck to everyone out there’s who’s struggling I hope you find your peace
I'm just so happy that Theo has his brother in his life, family love hits differently and it's so important to have at least one family member you can rely on, and a true friend and i feel like Theo has that in his brother, someone who will love him no matter what, even if he wasn't a successful comedian and didn't feel like being funny all the time, he just loves his baby brother Theodor, no matter how old they both get. I wish he had more people like that in his life but that's what makes his dear brother so special.
I’ve dealt with anxiety and depression my entire life. Every single day, I fear death. I fear my dog growing older. My moods swing. I fear getting older. I fear losing my loved ones. I just want to make this comment to anyone out there who may be too afraid to admit they battle anxiety and depression. You are not alone. You can and WILL keep going because you are stronger than you think. My biggest piece of advice, and why I love Theo so much, is he heals himself by helping heal others. Go do something positive for someone, it always feels better after. It gets greater later. One love. ❤
Everyone deals with stuff like this. Every single person. Theo is right on the edge of faith. I'm not talking bout religion. I'm talking about a spiritual personal relationship with your creator. You won't find it in a girl. You won't find it in another person. Pple are flawed they will fail. God isn't. He is faithful to keep his promises. He's just waiting for you to give him a chance. He won't let you down and his peace transcends all understanding.
What’s crazy is I feel like giving up is the only route I have left. Because I’m on the edge mentally. I truly see how pointless life really is, the same song and dance of working to pay bills me rinse and repeat. Like what’s the purpose behind it all? When I can just take what dignity I have left and just blow my brains out? At least I won’t feel this way anymore. I just keep taking the hits and get nothing out of it and what pisses me off is that people want me to remain when all I’m doing is suffering. Really feel like I’m gonna just go ahead and check out soon tbh.
“Somewhere a long time ago I needed somebody, and they didn’t do it” hits me harder than any bullet could. I don’t need none of you, but I do need myself.
Men’s mental health is no joke . I think it’s crazy cuz as men if we speak out or say how we feel it’s seen as weakness . “Not everyone can smile all the time “ . Don’t be afraid speak to someone. Talk it out the only way over it is through it keep going .
The father thing is how I felt. My father was old when I was young. But died from lung cancer. I blamed my self. Maybe if I didn’t bring that one pack of smokes maybe he still be here. Maybe if I was better. Amen
Really emotinal. I'm so caught up with the trends that I forget how people who are positive, make me laugh, create content on yt, also have struggle's of their own.
Till he talked about his brother I didn’t realize how much my little brother actually helped me through rough times even though he was younger it made me feel like I had to pretend I was all good infront of him and eventually it just felt like my lil bro didn’t care about all the negative I would say think or feel he just cared that I was with him and not trying to hurt myself or getting into my head or trouble to distract myself he truly is someone I looked to for help (would never tell him he’d let it get to his head😂) but I’d do anything for him c abuse Ik he would for me
32 years ive been an athiest but i swear ive found hope in jesus through theo and jordon peterson boys look into christ i never thought it would happen to me but it is helping
"Indeed, Allāh will not change the condition of a people until they change what is in themselves..." Qur'an 13:11 "Your lord did not abandon you, nor did he forget" Qur'an 93:3 "Do not lose hope, nor be sad" Qur'an 3:139 "Verily, with every hardship there (will be) ease" Qur'an 94:5 "And put your trust in Allah, and Allah is sufficient (as) a disposer of affairs" Qur'an 33:3
The only thing keeping me alive and other people alive is the drive to conquer goals and dreams because what is the point of living if you don’t have a goal or dream in mind?
Not only is this man a national treasure to the American people, he is a God damned bona-fide world wide treasure!!! He comes across as a sweet guy who struggles with his demons! If I ever see him, I'm gonna ask him if I can give him a big man hug, and buy him a diet soda!!!
If your depressed I mean anyone who feels down, and can do some push ups or any sorta work out. Get down and do a pump or as many push ups as you can. But most importantly don’t not result to drugs or alcohol. I’m hoping for the ultimate best for all you guys on here.
Trauma is real, Theo. And you are hurt from birth, and trying to heal and parent your inner child. Tim Fletcher was a brilliantvguestcfor you. Take care, amy
My parents had me before they got married which means I’m a bastard. My dad is the biggest fuckup I’ve seen. He’s like in his 50’s and he’s still doing stupid shit and landing himself in jail. Since I carry his blood and I look the most like him I truly feel like I am a bastard. A child with cursed blood destined to fail. There’s this girl at my job that I’ve been talking to and joking around with and I want to be closer with her but at the same time I can’t let myself because I dont feel like I’m worth having someone. I wouldn’t be able to do right by her because I am my father.
you are your own person your father doesn’t define who you are, he just made you. show that you can be better and successful. i’m sending healing your way fs.
your parents don’t define you. you are your own person no matter who’s blood you carry. you are deserving of love just like everyone else bro. hope you’re doing better
No no no, you are your own person. The fact that you know that your father is not good or know of his bad habits means that you are aware and I m sure that you won't do those mistakes. Ask the girl out, the worst thing she can say is no and thats alright brother.
A lot of anxiety stems from avoiding God and avoiding making the choice to give up your own will and lay down your life for Him. God loves you so much that He won’t force you into His presence for eternity and you have to make that decision on your own. That’s the meaning of this life you are living.
The partners stuff I understand … my dad is an alcoholic and I just want to help him but I don’t know where to start I love him to death but what do I do what do I say