Therapist Reacts to RUNAWAY BRIDE 

HA!

HECK YES WE LOVE YOU ALAN

Sounds like Alan got some therapy about self deprecation, lol.

'All you need is love plus a lot of other things and it's hard work' That's realism punching romance making it possible because of it at the same time, right there. And that is a giant sentence ending with 'right there', right here..

BTW: why áre sentences ending with 'right there' always short? Like I know the type of sentences are firm and argumentative. Nothing wrong with a firm sentence being long. Just be creative.

🙋‍♀️ maybe not completely free as I have to put in the time to watch way to many ads 😏 but extremely cheap 😂

I swear every episode is perfect timing too

this is so great to learn not only about favourite movies, but also about psychology/atry (I dont know which is which)

absolutely yessir

🙋🙋🙋

balance is a keyword to achieve happiness i guess ^^

Yes!!!

Same here

honestly this is true manliness

Yeah, I still find cringy people love to see that.

There is a great book by Chuck Snyder called Incompatibility Still Grounds for a Great Marriage.

Haha, I was writing down Jonathan quotes from this vid too.

For me compatibility meant that we can see ourselves building a life together,you don't have to like same things,but you do have to have similar visions of what a marriage and family should be. People can love each other very much,and be great together,but if their vision of the future is different to the point that there is no way to compromise and one side is just going to have to concede,they are probably heading for a disaster.

Please don’t make sexual jokes or advances or swear God wouldn’t like that and there are children here May God bless you and your family and help you Give your life to Jesus Christ and repent. I pray that God will lead on the path to Jesus Christ and send the Holy Spirit to be your helper. I pray this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ I pray Amen! Jesus Christ loves you. Give your life to Jesus Christ and ask for forgiveness for ALL OF YOUR SINS. Even the ones committed in the past and repent. He’s coming soon. Please pray and repent. GOD IS ALPHA AND OMEGA!!! THE BEGINNING AND THE END!!! GOD SENT HIS SON DOWN TO DIE ON THE CROSS FOR OUR SINS. PLEASE GIVE YOUR LIFE TO HIM!!! PRAY AND REPENT AND GOD IS COMING!!!!!! THERE IS NO TIME. FELLOW CHRISTIANS GOD WILL BE COMING DON’T LOSE FAITH!!! PLEASE!! PRAY FOR STRENGTH AND DON’T DOUBT HIM!!! Romans 10:9 “That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.” Romans 10:10 “For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.” 2 Peter 3:1-18 “1 This second epistle, beloved, I now write unto you; in both which I stir up your pure minds by way of remembrance: 2 That ye may be mindful of the words which were spoken before by the holy prophets, and of the commandment of us the apostles of the Lord and Saviour: 3 Knowing this first, that there shall come in the last days scoffers, walking after their own lusts, 4 And saying, Where is the promise of his coming? for since the fathers fell asleep, all things continue as they were from the beginning of the creation. 5 For this they willingly are ignorant of, that by the word of God the heavens were of old, and the earth standing out of the water and in the water: 6 Whereby the world that then was, being overflowed with water, perished: 7 But the heavens and the earth, which are now, by the same word are kept in store, reserved unto fire against the day of judgment and perdition of ungodly men. 8 But, beloved, be not ignorant of this one thing, that one day is with the Lord as a thousand years, and a thousand years as one day. 9 The Lord is not slack concerning his promise, as some men count slackness; but is longsuffering to us-ward, not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance. 10 But the day of the Lord will come as a thief in the night; in the which the heavens shall pass away with a great noise, and the elements shall melt with fervent heat, the earth also and the works that are therein shall be burned up. 11 Seeing then that all these things shall be dissolved, what manner of persons ought ye to be in all holy conversation and godliness, 12 Looking for and hasting unto the coming of the day of God, wherein the heavens being on fire shall be dissolved, and the elements shall melt with fervent heat? 13 Nevertheless we, according to his promise, look for new heavens and a new earth, wherein dwelleth righteousness. 14 Wherefore, beloved, seeing that ye look for such things, be diligent that ye may be found of him in peace, without spot, and blameless. 15 And account that the longsuffering of our Lord is salvation; even as our beloved brother Paul also according to the wisdom given unto him hath written unto you; 16 As also in all his epistles, speaking in them of these things; in which are some things hard to be understood, which they that are unlearned and unstable wrest, as they do also the other scriptures, unto their own destruction. 17 Ye therefore, beloved, seeing ye know these things before, beware lest ye also, being led away with the error of the wicked, fall from your own stedfastness. 18 But grow in grace, and in the knowledge of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. To him be glory both now and for ever. Amen.” concerning his promise, as some men count slackness; but is longsuffering to us-ward, not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance. 10 But the day of the Lord will come as a thief in the night; in the which the heavens shall pass away with a great noise, and the elements shall melt with fervent heat, the earth also and the works that are therein shall be burned up. 11 Seeing then that all these things shall be dissolved, what manner of persons ought ye to be in all holy conversation and godliness, 12 Looking for and hasting unto the coming of the day of God, wherein the heavens being on fire shall be dissolved, and the elements shall melt with fervent heat? 13 Nevertheless we, according to his promise, look for new heavens and a new earth, wherein dwelleth righteousness. 14 Wherefore, beloved, seeing that ye look for such things, be diligent that ye may be found of him in peace, without spot, and blameless. 15 And account that the longsuffering of our Lord is salvation; even as our beloved brother Paul also according to the wisdom given unto him hath written unto you; 16 As also in all his epistles, speaking in them of these things; in which are some things hard to be understood, which they that are unlearned and unstable wrest, as they do also the other scriptures, unto their own destruction. 17 Ye therefore, beloved, seeing ye know these things before, beware lest ye also, being led away with the error of the wicked, fall from your own stedfastness. GOD JESUS CHRIST AND THE HY SPIRIT IS ALPHA AND OMEGA!! 18 But grow in grace, and in the knowledge of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. To him be glory both now and for ever. Amen.” GOD, JESUS CHRIST, AND THE HOLY SPIRIT IS ALPHA AND OMEGA!

sounds like a cool family. This idea would make a lot of things more efficient I guess. Bravo!

Same for my mom and me!

Love that

Eggs Benedict is all I order from my local diner 😊

That’s awesome! I’m going to use this from now on 💕

Please don’t make sexual jokes or advances or swear God wouldn’t like that and there are children here May God bless you and your family and help you Give your life to Jesus Christ and repent. I pray that God will lead on the path to Jesus Christ and send the Holy Spirit to be your helper. I pray this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ I pray Amen! Jesus Christ loves you. Give your life to Jesus Christ and ask for forgiveness for ALL OF YOUR SINS. Even the ones committed in the past and repent. He’s coming soon. Please pray and repent. GOD IS ALPHA AND OMEGA!!! THE BEGINNING AND THE END!!! GOD SENT HIS SON DOWN TO DIE ON THE CROSS FOR OUR SINS. PLEASE GIVE YOUR LIFE TO HIM!!! PRAY AND REPENT AND GOD IS COMING!!!!!! THERE IS NO TIME. FELLOW CHRISTIANS GOD WILL BE COMING DON’T LOSE FAITH!!! PLEASE!! PRAY FOR STRENGTH AND DON’T DOUBT HIM!!! Romans 10:9 “That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.” Romans 10:10 “For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.” 2 Peter 3:1-18 “1 This second epistle, beloved, I now write unto you; in both which I stir up your pure minds by way of remembrance: 2 That ye may be mindful of the words which were spoken before by the holy prophets, and of the commandment of us the apostles of the Lord and Saviour: 3 Knowing this first, that there shall come in the last days scoffers, walking after their own lusts, 4 And saying, Where is the promise of his coming? for since the fathers fell asleep, all things continue as they were from the beginning of the creation. 5 For this they willingly are ignorant of, that by the word of God the heavens were of old, and the earth standing out of the water and in the water: 6 Whereby the world that then was, being overflowed with water, perished: 7 But the heavens and the earth, which are now, by the same word are kept in store, reserved unto fire against the day of judgment and perdition of ungodly men. 8 But, beloved, be not ignorant of this one thing, that one day is with the Lord as a thousand years, and a thousand years as one day. 9 The Lord is not slack concerning his promise, as some men count slackness; but is longsuffering to us-ward, not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance. 10 But the day of the Lord will come as a thief in the night; in the which the heavens shall pass away with a great noise, and the elements shall melt with fervent heat, the earth also and the works that are therein shall be burned up. 11 Seeing then that all these things shall be dissolved, what manner of persons ought ye to be in all holy conversation and godliness, 12 Looking for and hasting unto the coming of the day of God, wherein the heavens being on fire shall be dissolved, and the elements shall melt with fervent heat? 13 Nevertheless we, according to his promise, look for new heavens and a new earth, wherein dwelleth righteousness. 14 Wherefore, beloved, seeing that ye look for such things, be diligent that ye may be found of him in peace, without spot, and blameless. 15 And account that the longsuffering of our Lord is salvation; even as our beloved brother Paul also according to the wisdom given unto him hath written unto you; 16 As also in all his epistles, speaking in them of these things; in which are some things hard to be understood, which they that are unlearned and unstable wrest, as they do also the other scriptures, unto their own destruction. 17 Ye therefore, beloved, seeing ye know these things before, beware lest ye also, being led away with the error of the wicked, fall from your own stedfastness. 18 But grow in grace, and in the knowledge of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. To him be glory both now and for ever. Amen.” concerning his promise, as some men count slackness; but is longsuffering to us-ward, not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance. 10 But the day of the Lord will come as a thief in the night; in the which the heavens shall pass away with a great noise, and the elements shall melt with fervent heat, the earth also and the works that are therein shall be burned up. 11 Seeing then that all these things shall be dissolved, what manner of persons ought ye to be in all holy conversation and godliness, 12 Looking for and hasting unto the coming of the day of God, wherein the heavens being on fire shall be dissolved, and the elements shall melt with fervent heat? 13 Nevertheless we, according to his promise, look for new heavens and a new earth, wherein dwelleth righteousness. 14 Wherefore, beloved, seeing that ye look for such things, be diligent that ye may be found of him in peace, without spot, and blameless. 15 And account that the longsuffering of our Lord is salvation; even as our beloved brother Paul also according to the wisdom given unto him hath written unto you; 16 As also in all his epistles, speaking in them of these things; in which are some things hard to be understood, which they that are unlearned and unstable wrest, as they do also the other scriptures, unto their own destruction. 17 Ye therefore, beloved, seeing ye know these things before, beware lest ye also, being led away with the error of the wicked, fall from your own stedfastness. GOD JESUS CHRIST AND THE HY SPIRIT IS ALPHA AND OMEGA!! 18 But grow in grace, and in the knowledge of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. To him be glory both now and for ever. Amen.” GOD, JESUS CHRIST, AND THE HOLY SPIRIT IS ALPHA AND OMEGA.

​@@angelemeana2754What?

Maybe those other guys would have gotten a bit further in their relationships if they had done that. If they had stopped being the receivers and instead started chasing. chasing as in giving of themselves-not like stalkers.

Whoa ! So true. I didn't pick on that.

YES BABY!!!!! ...sorry, thaaat was a bit too loud. But I'm glad somebody else got it! xD

Thank you! I was looking for that comment - that’s the same thought I had when I first watched it.

Yes exactly!!!! I noticed that as well - the one that really saw who she was - was the one who truly loved her and so he fought for it.

I think some of her movies are bordeline creepy.

@@missanikoh89 It doesn't change that she was in several well-known rom-coms. Plus, plenty of these movies have an element of "creepiness" by today's standards.

That's exactly what I was thinking! How can you forget "You've Got Mail"?

Exactly! I was surprised he forgot her!

I was gonna say "meg Ryan did not made rom-coms so u could give credit to other people."

You can learn through observation as much as practice. Why burn your hand on the stove when you can watch someone else do it and say, "Now I know not to touch a hot stove."

@@NoiseDay I agree. But truths do anchor themselves better in your mind when practice confirms them

This mad me laugh

@@AliciaB. i wouldn't say truths. That suggests that certain things are malleable and can be slightly different from another perspective. Facts. Many relationships are an experiment for those in them. And through that, and trial and error, they discover what they like, want, need, and love.

@@NoiseDay I literally did that when I was young. Lol. Because of my intellectual disability, my response to pain is delayed. Not by much now, but back then, oof.

Truth

Regrets, major regrets

I would prefer if she knew before ceremony. But yes, I agree. Better run now then never. My twin sister told me many times after she got married:"marridge is not a goal that will make you happy and that you have to achieve. It's just a new livestile. And you should marry someone that you can immagine to live with even 50 years later without killing each other"

Lol I had a car run into the beauty salon right underneath me when I was getting my wedding make up done. I went ahead anyways lol. My marriage ended up being kinda like that car hitting the beauty salon.

@@ksy4747 Oof yikes. Hopefully both of you are in happier, less car-crashy situations now

This hit me a lot!

@@JaneMagdalena ... me too

I LOVE that book! Nice reference!

Great book! I'm a therapist and I recommend it frequently to clients. Unfortunate title, but excellent content. So glad you mentioned it!

Thanks for the book title. This comment helped heal me a little and I wish I could tell him too …

Same.

Same here. It's what my teenage mind took away from this show.

Omg same, that's a scene I remember the most. And that also made me realize that poached eggs is my favorite. Lol.

when i first saw this movie, i still was a kid and had single to no clue what is the "bad thing" of running from your wedding. But that egg-testing thing stayed with me for so many years :)

@@marxsescondo1352 Same here, poached eggs for sure!

The egg thing is one of the only parts I even remembered about the movie until rewatching it recently.

Those MOMMY ISSUES that they JUST became aware of🤣🤣🤣😭

@@thekatvita So: pretty and submissive. Got it XD

Because they think she's hot.

She does not know who she is so she becomes who they want her to be. For me, the point is that Maggie is a nice person that can be loved, but because she was not her true self but pretended to share all their passions and hobbies she could not be happy.

@@sarazenha5626 in my case, yes it was because I was submissive. I would people please and encourage them them and unconditionally love them. I was easy going because that’s how I had to be with my dad growing up because he always needed to have his way. The way she found love with her dad was to just do what he wanted... so that’s how she treated other men in fear of being put down or criticized for not doing what he wanted. Her dad doesn’t support her or believe in her and he gives her conditional love. He doesn’t treat her like she is good enough. She’s a people pleaser. She is charming and light hearted and easy going in order to pacify situations and also to get acceptance (love and attention). If someone likes what you likes and also knows how to prevent arguments and stressful situations, then that’s nice. They feel love and acceptance from her because she shows she likes what they like and they feel good enough and validation and worthiness because someone likes them for who they are.

Yes so true - we never see that !!

Daria was one of the very few things on TV that was very true to life. It's amazing how cerebral that show was especially when you consider that it was supposed to be a spin-off of "Bevus and Butt-Head".

Glad you are still making progress. Keep it up! You're awesome. :)

i keep constantly challenging myself and finding my things because most of my life i was doing things to please others and never just for myself :)

@@tynameowth

It’s that lorelei gilmore moment of “do I even like pop tarts or am I just eating them because it’d piss my mother off?

you just made a rhyme!

Good for you for pursuing psychology! I love doing psychological movie critiques. Good luck!!

Well unless you are in a masters program don't Worry you may end up in a vaguely related field because I know people who graduated with Honors in psychology and didn't get into any masters programs

Perhaps we could team up on my other channel. I’ve been wanting to do movie reviews/reacts of children’s films. I have been psychoanalyzing movies ever since I became an aunt a little over four years ago. Lol.

Good luck with it! You can do it! And if you have trouble with getting a master program, come to Europe for that2. :D

She’s the “cool girl” Amy Dune talked about

meaning, she was codependent and being in enmeshed relationships

Very similar to Ann Perkins in parks and rec

Snap EMDR was amazing in helping me.

I'm glad to read you're better now. :)

I just turned 30 and my boyfriend ended our relationship two weeks ago. I'm currently going through EMDR and learning to heal. I hope to have a healthier mindset and learn to love myself one day.

Wooooow.😮 That's me too.🤯 Especially with jobs. That's crazy🤔

@@16041987alex have you gone to therapy for help. I wish I found out about trauma therapy sooner. I didn’t even think I had traumas from childhood until about 2 months into my therapy. I initially went in for something else bad and shocking that happened when I was 29 years old. I honestly would sit down to write or edit a resume to tailor it to a specific job, and I would black out for about 2 hours. I regularly did that. I learned later it was called dissociating. Sometimes I would get an interview or invited to test, and I just wouldn’t show up. I once got dressed and studied so long for the test then when I got in the car, I was too petrified to make myself start the car and go to test. It’s kinda sad because once I did work through it with my therapist... I actually got offered the first job I applied to after being terrified for a year and a half to apply anywhere. AND they offered me more money what I asked for. It was funny... the previous job I was offered about three years ago offered me more money than what I asked for too, but I sabotaged that one about a week and a half before my start day and ran away so to speak. I had it bad. I encourage you to get help. EMDR and trauma therapy worked for me. It could maybe work for you too.

Thank you for being so open. Please let us know how things are going. We really want you to be happy/healthy!

@@CinemaTherapyShow Well I wanted to share so you know that I started watching for the entertaining analysis, and stayed for the wisdom ❤️ You are doing an amazing job.

I wish you all the best. My best friend had the same problem and thanks to therapy she has now been the last 4 years in a happy relationship with a loving, caring and respectful man who likes her for who she is. So go for it!!! 💪💖

@@helgaioannidis9365 Hey thanks! We’re doing our first weekend together, and he build my daughter a 40 ft tree swing! It feels great. I’m glad for your friend too.

I wanted you guys to know we did get married, and things are going well!!

SHE WAS IN "INSTANT FAMILY" FOR LIKE 2 MINUTES AND SHE WAS AMAZING.

"Raising Helen" with Kate Hudson and Hayden Pannatiere!! 😃

Addams Family Values and School of Rock! I love her.

Shameless, she nails it

i love John Cusack but Joan has always been a hit or miss personally. some things i liked her in yet others she kind of annoyed me? idk if it's the characters she portrayed but some of them weren't very good

Great idea! You should watch Schafrillas Productions’ video about Megamind, it analyses the movie as a whole but also talks about that

It’s also got a “nice guy” stalker that they could discuss as well

Yeah, that sure makes things more complicated. Glad you did find your true self.

I would love to watch a react on Howl's Moving Castle or a conversation and something such as self-confidence/acceptance. Great idea, I support it!

Great idea

Yessss

That would be wonderful! One of my faves

Oh, that would be amazing!!

I totally agree, however that is still a fear of commitment, just with a different root to it than what most people perceive to be a "typical" fear of commitment (myself included until I watched this video). She is still AFRAID of COMMITTING to marriage, but it is simply because she doesn't feel secure in herself/love herself, therefore she is morphing into this "perfect partner" or "perfect marriage" for the guy, rather than taking the time to discover herself and what SHE wants, as you said. That fear is rooting from your point of her mask, and being afraid to have to live in it for the rest of her life.

I think the fear of commitment has to do with what she believes commitment to mean, in which "it doesn't matter what she wants" (ex: making eggs how she likes them) because she had to care for someone else and there wasn't room for her wants/needs. With a core belief that "I'll never be seen and heard" it's no wonder that internal story kept her from saying what she wants/needs.

I think it may be a combination, but that's a really good point

I second that. But the movie was actually more about healing, not just "bertie" but also in a way "lionel" himself. Both found their sense of selfworth and even their voice through their work with one another, which turned into friendship and in the end into pure respect for one another as the people they actually were, and not as the roles their worlds forced upon them. They found similarities but also challanged one another. That combination allowed them to heal themselves and each other, but also to grow into their forms of greatness. And besides it was not just overly strict parenting, it was absent and deattached parenting. But you are absolutely on the right track with your interesting ideas. "the king's speech" is a true masterpiece and a very important because educational movie. I don't know if you are reading this or not, but thank you for your idea. I hope you enjoyed the movie like i did (multiple times).

@@leventmuyan21 I agree, that this movie has much more to learn from it than the stammer-thing. 😃 still this point interests me the most, especially from a therapist's point of view.

If this is done it would be good to have a speech and language pathologist involved.

@@TheRickymausi good to know. Without that reason/explanation it would have been just an oddly specific interest.....hehe.... But that wouldn't be a Bad thing, just a bit odd

@@sonyagaffney266that would be a great and practical idea. But only as long as it is not to technical, otherwise it would not be much like traditional Cinema Therapy.....I think.....

It has stopped :) Measures have been taken ;)

What a lovely couple... I mean family.... Clan?... Are they going for a sports team?! 😜

I feel it was more than just putting it in there for jokes. Even when someone is suffering wit trauma, some humor comes into play with the anger and denial. That does not mean it is being made fun of.

@@gabrielleduplessis7388 I understand you, like, the characters IN endgame are very sensitive, except for maybe Rocket, though he does what he thinks is best for Thor. But I keep thinking about the viewers cause I don't know if everyone got it right

@@user-df8oh4vx9l you have to tackle this topic casually. otherwise it will never be handled properly. if you spotlight mental illness too much in a movie, then the reaction will be that people will be extremely careful of people with mental illness and then handle them in a special way, that alienates those with the illness.

I feel like it started as a joke, but Chris kept the fat suit on. There was no "get fit montage". He was living with the consequences of the trauma he'd been through. That's not something he could just shake off.

I hear what you’re saying. I was frustrated with Endgame for their treatment of Thor’s grief (ha ha he got fat lol) but also for Rocket’s (he lost his entire family ffs) until he finally blew up at Thor for acting like he was the only one who was suffering. I imagine that frustration had been brewing for a while, but he remained supportive until Thor’s wallowing threatened to jeopardize the plan, which Rocket had clearly hung all his hopes on. I think it was really well done - not as good as the Guardians films, but those are all about damaged people dealing with their emotional traumas - so I can overlook them trying to get a few laughs out of the situation even though I don’t particularly like it. I would have preferred them to spend more time on all the characters’ emotional reactions, but it’s an action film, not a drama. Thank god for fan fiction. 😉

That's one of the great parts of Cinema Therapy. You don't necessary have watched the movie itself before. But in a case like this you should probably watch the movie "runaway bride" at least after this. Because it is one of the most watchable movies of all time. Easy to watch and enjoy, but also easy to follow the plot. You could watch a movie like that on a cosie early afternoon. Comfortable to watch but also exciting and intriguing in its ways to entertain. But not to exciting, hence the comfort, and with some charming comedig elements that make the characters more satisfying to watch. Plus the two main characters show a lot of growth. If that sounds like your type of movie, you should definatively watch it someday.

@@leventmuyan21 yess exactly! It's an amazing movie and down to earth and comforting.

@@acelovesdiyschristopher7023 yes it is down to earth. Thanks for taking the time to think about it and to comment

@@leventmuyan21 aw thank u for taking the time to comment in the first place and to reply to mine and being so nice.👋🏻💚

@@acelovesdiyschristopher7023 And thank you for your kind words

could you try to make it work with him still?

Girl, you can do it. You are strong af. As a former Maggie... keep up working on yourself. It is amazing that things can change, even very old, hurting patterns.

regardless of the outcome, we are rooting for you!

So much love! Thank you guys! Eventually it didn't work anyway, but I'm fine 'cause this time I really gave it all and have no regrets. Thank you ♥

We're not sure how soon we'll get to it, but we DEFINITELY will!

@@CinemaTherapyShow I think the proper reply was AS YOU WIIIIIISH

“As you wish” cinema therapy replied 🤪

How long did you wait before getting married, out of curiosity?

@@VioletEmerald we got married three years later.

I've always been of the opinion that you can fall in love at first sight. But also, if you're going to spend the rest of your life with a person then rushing to get a piece of paper is silly. Not having a marriage license doesn't stop you from starting your lives together and taking some time to be absolutely sure that the other person is your FAVORITE type of egg and not just a really good egg is a good idea

Can we make a confession? We shot this episode like six months ago and had planned to release it quite a while ago... but then our episode schedule got all rearranged, and it ended up working out to release it for Valentine's.

Dude same xD

That's exactly what I'm figuring out right now too! Thank you for putting it into words so nicely(I was struggling with explaining this before), it sounds like a great journalling prompt🙂 And good luck on your journey 🤗

You're so welcome. :)

They really are the best - not just as a couple, but as parents too! They love and respect each other and they have/create space for everyone to truly be themselves within the family ❤️ #relationshipgoals #familygoals

They parent well together, they have their own separate interests that the other encourages despite not being interested themselves, they can be serious and silly together, and even after years together they clearly still adore each other. Definitely goals.

And now they did!

I'm an aro-spec asexual woman who still dates just without the sex or kissing etc and who hopes to write more fiction soon too, and that's very cool that this kind of analysis help with your writing!

I had raising Helen on dvd in like middle school and watched it all the time!!

This is a great suggestion!

That is such a good movie! Watched it for the first time last month.

SAME!

We know everything.

RU-vid knows everything...

@@harrietst6114 Jonathan and Alan know everything!

@@kiraKX_ Indeed ❣️❣️

@@CinemaTherapyShow Do your wives share the same opinion about you guys?That you would know everything.......Just asking.....

I second this!!

Is it on Netflix?? Bc I’m totally invested now

@@chloevaughn9755 yes it’s on Netflix! It’s truly amazing

it's a tvN drama oh, that's gotta be good

Aah the zombie child book still haunts me

I agree 💯

Especially Prince Caspian. Peter, Susan and Caspian and dealing w adult responsibility

yes please!!!

Second this!!! 👆

Yes true!!! She was the queen of rom com in early 90s.

Let's hope they show up and don't run with no return 😉

LMAO

Unforgivable.

Oof, Cimema Therapy and the butt maggots = love speech from Addicted to Love would be AMAZING.

@@laurahewitt5451i would love to see this

That just shows he isn’t ready to try or something. If he tries and understands, it makes your life easier. Even for people who don’t exactly need therapy. Like me :)

@The Fool Wtf? O.o I dunno what the hell you are talking about and it also makes zero sense in itself. Maybe you want to rephrase that?

@@RiesenWuschel from what I'm understanding, he's saying that these people only help political agendas for cisgender and heterosexual people. 😂😂😂😂 But that's just too dumb to be true; he's definitely hopefully not suggesting that.

There are different kinds of therapy. I prefer goal-oriented. They can give you actual practical tools to change a negative behavior, move past a trauma, etc. CBT (cognitive behavioral therapy) especially seems to help change negative thoughts and actions in a direct way that gives people concrete methods of feeling a sense of accomplishment and control in situations that normally would make them feel powerless, depressed, and anxious.

@@availanila I also really really wonder where he got that from? It's super weird. Because last time I checked a lot of people need the help of a psychologist to recognise and reconcile their sexual preference and gender with their life... so if at all the argument could be made that therapists are for the 'queer' part of humanity...? I know that is why I myself am considering seeing one. I just don't know how to justify it? "I am confused" seems a weird way to ask for a session?

Especially Unikitty’s unhealthy drive to be happy, no matter what

@@ohnowendigos8804 Yes. She and Batman do not get along very well. 🤣

I agree with much of what you said, but her “daddy issues” or codependence does mirror the same patterns. She was never full formed or realized as herself because she was caring for her alcoholic father, and covering for him at times. As an adult she has come to realize that she doesn’t like his alcoholism but doesn’t yet realize that his dependence on her is in part what shaped her ability to morph into the “perfect” support for the other men in her life. This is incredibly common in codependent family structures. I love this movie for the real portrayal of codependent awakening that doesn’t assume it can all be fixed over a few weeks. Breaking deeply ingrained codependent habits is a lifelong journey and requires constant vigilance.