These Fathers Break Their Silence on Abortion 

:( I'm so sorry.

How terribly sad!😢

So terribly sad.. 😥 but I hope your brother can forgive and move on... he deserves better life to live on... 🌺

Ufffffff, you made me cry for I never had any children. I wish I could meet your brother.

This is heartbreaking! I ache for your dear brother. May God comfort him. And yes, he needs to forgive that girl for his own sake to get peace. His sweet child is with Jesus. May he call out to Him! Someday, he will see his child! I ache for him!

That is so wonderful as that should that way regardless. In the past, men would go all the way with marriage as that is part of being a responcible and being a parent.

that’s amazing!!💛💛

You nasty demon.

@Manuel Delgado Talk about physical manifest satanism. You genuinely need help my friend.

Your father is a saint

As a woman myself, too I say amen! I stand with your statements!

That is so sad and yet beautiful in a way. it’s heartening to know there is a person who is that aware of what he lost - not a blob, but a human life, his child.

Amen

Thank you Iris .... ☺️

My brother & his girlfriend both wanted the baby. Her parents would have nothing to do with it. Told her if she didn’t abort they were through with her. She couldn’t get past that & as my brother walked up & down the street banging his hands on his head his child was killed. Imagine how powerless a father feels when he can do nothing to save his child from unnecessary death. 💔 God bless the men who try🙏😇👶

Congratulations for choosing life. 💟

You go girl ! Hallelujah !

Amen

@@zaidkhan6296 Amen

WONDERFUL human with a heart of Gold in the right place . May your tribe increase and HIS Blessings Abide with U and this GRRR8 JESUS - loving 17 yr old.

Jahmazmine I love your comment. God bless you :)

Amen. This made my day.

Jahmazmine beautiful!!

Thank you for your choice.. Ur kid deserves to know that u fight for them in that decision God Bless You...

Jahmazmine I got pregnant in college. I couldn't tell my parents or my friends. I left college and worked eight hours a day in a cannery till I delivered my son. I took care of him after he was born Than gave him up for adoption. I'm so glad I had the courage to give him life. It was only four months out of my life when I found out I was pregnant. Luckily I was raised Catholic so was taught all life is precious. It certainly is.

Miss c and the funny thing is these feminist don’t understand the human anatomy it’s not their body but a completely seperate human being they are killing a baby isn’t a selective organ they are removing.

Hope Joy so let’s just kill it instead. Isn’t it funny all people who are for abortion are already born. Abortion has never been about choice. It’s escaping the consequences of your choices by taking all choices away from another human being.

@@georgeibrahim7945 The fetus is inside the woman's body, you know that, don't you?

What always bothered me about the pro-choice movement is this: when a woman is not ready to have a baby she will refer to the life inside her as a fetus, not a baby, not a living being and she will abort; but when that same woman becomes pregnant again and she feels ready to start a family, suddenly the life inside of her is a baby, a living being, and needs to be protected at all costs. Oh the hypocrisy of the pro-choice movement. It makes me sick.

Eliza Dolittle I’ve never heard of someone saying I’m having a Fetus shower but they mention baby shower lol

BlueEyedSoul21 a woman doesn't even have to notified the father that she aborted the baby.

Princess Fondu I realize that. And I find it very sad. That could have been that man's only child in life. And he has no say in the matter.

We? As in women? Yes. You usually only think about yourselves.

It tears fathers up too; some literally for a lifetime.

The only one that matters in abortion is the baby. Baby is dead. That's the real problem.

So sorry for your loss! And yet I'm happy that you have your brother with you through your nephew.

How is the mother and her parents?

​@@brittroobies274 The mother and her family are ok. She knew her parents loved her and were just worried about her future. But she graduated from her University after taking a semester off and my brother graduated a years after her. After she gave birth she had a lot of support not only from my brother but also from my entire family and also her family. So it really didn't affect their studies since many people where there to help. She has a high paying job right now in the Government and my brother was a civil engineer so they where both really smart. She was heart broken when my brother died and never left his side when he was in the hospital and after the funeral she stayed in his room for almost a week crying.Now she is saying she is gonna go back to University and get her masters degree since that was what my brother said he was gonna do.

Damn imagine how hard it must be for that child to find out that there grandparents wanted for him to be killed

I'm so sorry about the death of your brother. I'm so glad his son is here and that you all have a part of him through this child.

Thank you for choosing to save your daughter! God bless you!

Gail, Blessings from Above continue to Protect and Prosper you and yours for your brave and Big 💓. Wish we were near enough to give you a Big 🐻 Hug. Love and greetings from lndia.

@@lauraretail3923 thank you. I would never choose abortion ever for any reason.

@@marietheresa7866 thank you for your kind words. I will always choose life🙂❤. Never ever would I have aborted my babies. Ever.

At 18, who paid for your pregnancy, post pardom, food, housing, clothing, car, utility, and other bills? Tax payers. If tax payers are required to pay for illegitimate children, then tax payers should be making decisions about whether abortion should be available or not. ProChoice.

don't know if you mean: it takes two to conceive, or two to abort. Because it does take two to conceive, but sadly depends on one to abort:/ so sad to think of all the fathers out there who got their child taken away without any say.

It truly is a shame they're ignored. 😔

King Zak not all but thanks for telling us your hatred towards men

If these men feel so unfairly treated, blame it on nature ...... pregnancy just happens to take place in the woman's body and its her body not his ..... of course he cannot decide what she choses to do with her body ..... period.

@Jessie Arturo Thunder, my heart breaks for you! I'm praying for you right now. I used to volunteer at this not-for-profit pregnancy center, RETA (www.retaforlife.com) and they have a men's program. I believe they'd love to walk with you through your grief to help you find healing and hope, if you reach out to them. 💗

@@baileyk.6197 thank you for understanding

@puglous3 it weighs heavy on me even now and I was pro choice until then but now I don't agree with it nothing is more rewarding than being a parent

I'm so sorry for your loss. Why did she keep your 3 year old and not the other baby? Have you forgiven her?

Jessie Arturo Thunder she’s senseless find yourself a better woman

So it grows on the father's inside...ok

The baby my not grow inside the father...but the baby is part of the father

Sarah Yoder having a one night fuck does not make you a ‘father’.

It is your choice to have sex or not or not to have sex...but it isn't anyone's right to say the mother life is more important

@@laraking804 The baby's DNA is a mixture of the mother and father's, so IT DOES make you the father. There would be no baby without the two.

@Val O'Brien you do not need to add to her pain..she already has expressed regret..God has already forgiven her if she has asked for it..it is not your job to add to her pain. I chose life when I found myself pregnant as a teenager twice..but I had friends who didn't and regret their decision..I would never add to their pain by condemning them for what they already feel convicted for..Please continue to speak for the unborn..but recognize when someone already feels remorseful and needs forgiveness, not condemnation.

@Val O'Brien And you have just shown why the pro life lobby would never be successful in changing ppl's views if it was full of ppl like you. Thankfully it's not. Do the cause a favour and keep your mouth shut the next time the subject comes up you vile little shit. ps I'm guessing, (and hoping,) you are not a mother yet. Try and and cultivate some compassion and forgiveness before you become one.

@JW McCabe Why would you say that?

@feebeedee Thank you so much. God bless you.

@@michellebarham326 Thank you so much for saying such kind words.

God bless you and your family for trusting HIM. He promised never to leave you nor forsake you. He promised to supply all your needs according to HIS riches in glory by Christ Jesus.

You and your daughter are both a blessing. God loves you both.

N B Awesome miraculous life! Thank you for sharing your story! I’m so sorry for your loss. Beautiful circle of life is evident in your heart. God bless!

May god bless your soul. Im sorry for your loss. *Hugs*

Thank you for choosing to keep your baby. Bless your heart and soul! God bless!❤

You are right...There is nothing like looking at your baby your little human being that you gave life to...its a feeling like no other and a love that's Priceless

Awww sorry to here your child's father abandoned you at the same time you are right you did win you are blessed with a special gift which is your child ❤️ I would also like to share a suggestion with you which is to please seek Jesus he can change that around for you. Ask God to touch your child's father's heart to come back and be in your child's life as he should rightly be there to support you and be there for his child. Have faith in God that in due time the father will come back that's if you want that though. Love and blessings ❤️

automaticchic that what my sister says to me. I pray so that empty feeling never went away I still regret decision I should have just stay single cause now he’s not even around smh this shelter in place got me thinking even more

@Lacy Monster First off, let me start off by saying, I can't even imagine what that is like. I've only been told. But second, I know there is a merciful, sympathetic God who loves you very deeply. All have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God. I know its very easy to feel ashamed, pathetic, broken and lost. Undeserving. I fail him everyday. But the amazing thing is that, nomatter how many times we come up short, he is ready and willing to forgive us and recieve us with open arms, we need only to repent. Yes he is a just God, but He also offers grace. Do we deserve it, no. But how amazing is he for still loving us the same. We will all one day be held to an account, and we will face the Lord for what we have done, which plainly comes down to is our disobedience/sin. But for those that know him as their Lord and savior, he has offered us the gift of eternal life with him. John 3:16. I hope you know that Lacy, nomatter what you have done, its never to late to seek repentance. We will always have scars from our past, but through Christ, our sin doesnt define us anymore. We are made new in Him. Again, I cant imagine what that is like, but I do know that He deeply still loves you. I hope this rings true to you. Just said a prayer for you. ❤ If you'd like to talk more, I am open anytime.

@Oceanovo94 Mysia oh trust me they do

@Oceanovo94 Mysia BITCH ILL SLAP TF OUTCHA SO IF I DECIDE TO NOT OWN UP TO CHILD I GET ON CHILD SUPPORT RIGHT

@Oceanovo94 Mysia A FEMALE GET ABORTIONS IT'S THE RIGHT CHOICE BUT A MAN DONT OWN UP HE'S A DEAD BEAT RIGHT

@Oceanovo94 Mysia so you cant answer my question right

Fanny Grimmesey You don’t know my friends. Their girlfriends went to get abortion without telling them, the boyfriends found out after. That’s so sad.

I've always said that the father should be able to raise the child if the mother doesn't want to. It took 2 to make that baby but yet only 1 gets to make the decision? That's wrong.

okametiger you know I’ve been investigating and looking into this subject a lot more lately and this is the first video I’ve seen where it ever mentions the impacts it has on the fathers. I was actually caught off guard, it wasn’t something that had occurred to me yet. I’m so used seeing only one side of the story... but you are absolutely right. It took two to make that child and that’s where the entire argument about women’s choice falls short and is unacceptable. I’m so sorry about your friends and what they’ve experience, whatever the reason. Hearing these testimonies felt incredibly heavy I can’t even begin to imagine the pain this has caused..

@Sarah R it's not her body. Nothing is done to the woman's body at all. It's the baby's body. A baby growing inside of you is not a limb of the woman, therefore it's *not* her body.

Did the women say they wanted kids? If not and you hate abortion don't have sex with her.

Caca Bear It’s not murder. Murder is a legal term that only applies after birth. It does not apply to foetuses

London Girl just because killing a feutus is not illegal dosent mean its right

There are men who had no choice but there are even more men who insist on abortion

London Girl I understand what you’re saying, legally yes. But these men who had no say feel like their child was murdered. It’s traumatizing for the men who really wanted that baby!

Amber xx so very true Amber xx, it’s a human with separate DNA, eye color, personality, gender, ethnicity etc.

Oceanovo Lyanna that’s very sad.

So sad. But there is forgiveness and healing in Jesus, and they both need to forgive themselves. They can see their babies in heaven..... I knew a young man who saw my baby models and told me how his girlfriend aborted their twins even though he begged her not to. He was visibly still very broken about it and wished he had tried harder to stop her. A few years later I saw he had written a letter to the editor about it, then a while after that I saw that he had died. He was only in his early twenties..... Men, please get forgiveness and forgive yourselves, you still have alot to give to the world, and your testimony can help others....

brenda ann oh no that’s so sad. How did he pass?

would you cry for women who died while being forced to go through pregnancy unwillingly ?

Oh please, if these men feel so unfair, blame it on NATURE ..... nature just happens that pregnancy takes place in the woman's body, its her body not his, obviously he has no rights what she does with her body ..... By the way nature also decided that women bears the pain of giving birth while men gets to have babies pain free, its not fair to women too ...... give and take, its works both ways ....

The question is whether a man should have the rights to a woman's body what she choses to do with it ........ of course not .

​@@88fejithe choice should come when she has to decide to open her legs or not. Once the baby is on the way, she should have no choice. Murdering a baby to excuse her lack of personal responsibility shouldn't even be an option.

wow. i felt emotions with what u wrote. u'r a great writer.

@@rizzamaeong thank you x

It's not someones future friend if it's not born 🖖🏻

an unborn child is a person and everything you said is correct about them being someone's baby, a grandchild, cousin, niece or nephew, etc. but i want to address the question you asked at the end of your post. the sad fact is that we can kill our loved ones who are sick. it's called hospice, and it is actually assisted suicide. back in the 1990s, Jack Kevorkian, also known as "Dr. Death," battled to change the law here in the U.S. to allow "assisted suicide." but most people did not agree with a doctor killing a patient, so to get around that, they started something known as "hospice." the evils of hospice are absolutely horrifying. unthinkable. people should research the beginnings of it and understand what it truly is. today, hospice is encouraged to the elderly who aren't even sick! a dear old man at my church, who was 83, was talked into going on hospice by nursing staff and social workers when he went to the emergency room for chest pain. they put him down. his daughter still suffers greatly because of his death. she is the one who told me that he wasn't even sick. but after they nagged him to go on hospice, he gave up the will to live. i worked at hospitals for 40+ years. i can tell you from personal experience how health care workers today are encouraged to kill as many on hospice as they can, as a means of population control. get rid of the sick or elderly or even mentally deficient, who are just taking up space and resources on our planet! i have very little doubt that both my beloved husband and my angel mother would still be alive today, had they not been started on hospice. the hospital social workers talked my husband into going on hospice because his heart and lungs were both bad, he would have needed a double transplant. he was only 47 years old. a Christian doctor begged my husband not to go on hospice, but he did anyway. where they overdosed him until he was dead. my precious mother had Alzheimer's disease. though she had had Alzheimer's for many years, she was still not at the end of her life. she had always exercised and took good care of herself. she did not smoke or drink. she was healthy apart from her poor mind... i truly believe she still recognized us, she just couldn't voice it. but she snapped her fingers to music. she smiled and laughed. but my sister had the 'power of attorney' and decided it was time to put my mother down, like a dog. i will spare you the horrifying details, but they put her to sleep a little bit every day, overdosed her until she was dead. that is the true, horrifying fact of hospice. do not ever start your loved one on hospice, unless they are ready to die and they want it... and even then, is it ethical for us to decide to kill ourselves, so we don't have to suffer until GOD takes us home? i suppose that is a question between the person and GOD. i don't want to suffer! but can i kill myself? i don't think i can according to my faith in JESUS CHRIST. but in our world today, you can decide to die by "assisted suicide," also known as hospice. i know there are many who say i am cruel because their loved ones are suffering greatly, and without hospice, that suffering would be prolonged and worsened... i understand all that, but because a person is suffering, can we murder them? it's the same as the unborn child. it's still a life.

@@fireykitten9217 you contradicted yourself 🤦‍♀

? I’m sorry for your pain and I hope you will find healing but you made a wise choice and will be stronger for it. That boy lost two precious people for his inability to take responsibility. He will miss out on a incredible experience.

I agree! They SHOULD NOT be excluded from this decision!

@@Mmmkay10 They should be legally excluded, a man should not be able to force a woman to give birth if she doesn't want to. If she wants to discuss it with him, fine.

Rose NoHo then don’t have sex if you don’t want a baby.

@@isaroman0 What about a woman who is raped?

@@RoseNoho What about the 99% that aren't?? Please, don't try to make the outlier seem like the majority. It's not a good argument. Women don't get to be the arbiters of life.

It's been a year but I am so, so sorry. I hope you're doing well now.

I'm so sorry for your loss... You didn't deserve to go through that

God bless you for your unselfish gift to another person who wishes to have children of their own.

Heather!!!!!!! Bless you! Bless you!! Twice for making the right choice to save your babies!!! Yes! Yes! Thank You Jesus for strengthening my sister to choose You first and foremost and then for choosing life! Bless you Sister! Speak up! Don't stop!

Every day I wonder if I should have been as selfless as you were, and adopt my boy, so that he would have had two parents. He missed out on so much, not having a father figure. I thought only of myself back then -- how hard it would be to let go. I don't know you, Heather, but I'm proud of you.

I'm guessing youre American. I really admire the way adoption is always seen as an option for unplanned/or unwanted pregnancies over there. In the UK it is never discussed. I have never known anyone who chose that as an option. I'm guessing it's down to the religiosity of the US perhaps but to see ppl, especially young kids, choose adoption over abortion is incredible. You did an amazingly selfless thing. Best wishes to you.x

Proud of you Heather.

BECAUSE THEY ARE ALSO VICTIMS!

Ga Bunnie I just cannot believe that people don’t even consider what the father may want 🤷🏽‍♀️💯

My heart's aching for you. I hope you find healing

@Psalm 27 Did you know that Planned Parenthood began as an organization to eliminate black people from America? Margaret Sanger, the founder of PP, openly hated and wanted to kill all black people. PP's mission was literally ethnic cleansing. Modern day Nazis.

Sometimes adolescent boys think of having kids and they should be blessed

How are children including me who are concieved out of wedlock a gift?

@@bailujen8052 because you are made in the image of God. And just because your parents decided to sin does not make you any less worthy of your basic human rights. Yes they sinned and had sex outside of marriage but they didn't comit the sin of murder by killing you. You are a blessing and God has great plans for you because He created you with a purpose. A purpose that was designed for only you to fulfill.

Funny thing is. ..when you have a child, God may not give us all we want, but with our effort and prayers, HE ALWAYS GIVES US WHAT WE NEED!!

Ellen I am for now on

I wish more women were like u instead of acting like they have to do there so stupid and then have the nerve to won't sympathy girl bye

So sorry no one was there for you.... Guess they only had one thing in mind... To move you through the line as quickly as possible..... Jesus knows your despair, he has the answer, he stands ready with forgiveness and healing for what you went through... Your baby is safe with him in paradise, you can see him/her one day!

So sad, so sorry. Pray for him to pull himself back together, God has a plan for his life. Alcohol is just wasting it....

It's a two way street. Was the girl on the pill - both parties were young and irresponsible.

@@ElizaDolittle yes, probably a little too irresponsible to raise a child. But i get it, both parties are at fault.

Getting married and having children isn't the end goal for everyone. For all you know, she's out there happy and having the time of her life.

@@marlenegallardo8195 doubtful..

@@marlenegallardo8195 nope she's not, life has not been good to her. She was free to make many choices in her life but she wasn't free of the consequences (neither was I). The Robert Frost poem comes to mind - The Road Not Taken with the verse - I shall be telling this with a sigh, Somewhere ages and ages hence: Two roads diverged in a wood, and I- I took the one less traveled by, And that has made all the difference.

@@theironson1043 true, she always wanted to get married and have a family, just not at 22.

I just think abortion should be illegal and people should get married first. We wouldnt have this problem nearly as much if both people got married and was responsible. Man and woman both.

@@paleindian10 where being pro choice becomes so illegal where pro choicers get stuck in solitary confinement for 9 months

@@bailujen8052 okay 👍 I made a comment three years ago. I’m not pro choice or pro life now.

And roast doctors and feminists

Hope you saw my post to you above...Jesus forgives all who ask, and so you must forgive yourself so you can heal. Your sweet baby is counting on you....

Brenda Ann is right my sister. I would've done the same thing if I were you, but thankfully I was never pregnant before I heard the gospel of life. All of us have fallen short of God's perfection, and all done evil. Forgiveness is available for the worst offenders, and I am one.

We're so sorry to hear that Robin. Prayers for you and healing.❤️

A friend had an abortion, she wasn't ready or had the income to raise a child (neither her boyfriend) Years later, she become more successful at her job and it's with her boyfriend, now they are considering to have childs, they can now. Most abortion are a realese to their lifes

Wow. That actually happened? That’s incredible. Does he have full custody of the child? Did the girl give up her parental rights ?

@@MistyEry yes this did happen. He now has his beautiful teenage daughter and 4 other children. She did lose her parental rights. When they went to court to keep her from aborting the baby, her lawyer let her speak and she did the entire speech on how it was her body and she would do what ever the F she wanted etc. She had a history of going in and out of the the mental health home. The judge essential put her under house arrest and she had to be escorted everywhere. Before baby was born she told the judge she wanted nothing to do with 'It". He granted Brandon custody. He paid all her hospital fees, living expenses etc. After baby was born, her and her lawyer then tried to keep the baby and even had the guts to ask for child support etc in their court papers. The judge denied it, Brandon got full custody. And Bella lives to her name sake, she is beautiful, bright, extremely selfless and caring, she is a talented equestrian and skilled Archer. It was a huge deal when all of this happened, because in Illinois the mother is almost always awarded custody, even if she is not suited to care for children. I do believe It was the fact that the mother had a history of mental instability that helped the just initially deny her to terminate the pregnancy.

Lindsay Doyle wow, I’m so glad that he received custody.What an encouraging testimony. Clearly the judge was using wisdom.

So what would you do to your mom

Your mom's horrible

That would require progressive women to have consciences.

I was brutally raped and had an abortion..i wouldve agreed with you if it werent for your choice in words..thanks for calling me a murderer I guess....

@@theemptypeanutsystem8431 You're giving an extreme example, these men are not rapists. Both parties consented to have sex in their case.

@@FrostDirt I know that. Duh. I'm just saying that you shouldnt call EVERYONE who gets an abortion a murderer..

Wivy X3 I'm very sorry that that happened to you. But that doesn't make your decision right. I have compassion for you AND your baby. Whoever did that too you should be extremely sevearly punished, but that doesn't mean you also didn't kill a little life.

@@theemptypeanutsystem8431 yes you should. If you kill a human, that is murder. GOD will be waiting for you and the rest of the murders to explain this one day. Good luck.

I think that is the issue. If people are seeking happiness and only live to please themselves above all else and at the expense of other individuals. There is a deeper root at hand. They are essentially selfish individuals to the core. Perhaps they had children for the wrong reasons ( appearance sake , etc) parenting is difficult and was never promised to be easy. However I will agree with you that not all People should have children. Narcissistic individuals should not have children. If they can make one good selfless choice, giving adoption would be it and ensuring they do not get pregnant.

No lets not. They are still rape victims

@@ioo15yearsago57 left always use worst case scenario as an excuse to say killing your own baby is ok

@@Morningstar-xz5bl people use rape as an excuse for stupid convenience

No one is a mistake Anthony! God doesn't make mistakes! If your mother said that, she is definitely sick in her mind and does not value what true gifts are. The devil would like to destroy you with that thought. Toss it into the sea of forgetfullness where God puts all our sins! He created you for a special purpose on this earth, and NO ONE can take that away from you!!! "For I know the plans that I have for you, says the Lord, plans to help you and not to harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future".... Jeremiah

Great definition of a real man!!!!