Things Not To Say To Someone Who Doesn't Drink Alcohol 

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Abstersroxx seriously. Like, I'm sorry I don't need it to have fun and I'd prefer it to be sick and hating life in a few hours. Smh.

Abstersroxx i made my boyfriend stop because i didnt like him drinking. its a waste of money and bad for you. he's way healthier now and saved a lot of money so i can finally meet him for the first time after being with him for 2 years

exactly

yeah exactly, for me it just doesn't make me feel good for whatever reason, I feel ill 95% of the times I drink so there's just nothing fun or enjoyable in it.

This is the perfect response. Very well put!

"There are 50 people in the room that are wearing clothes yet I'm perfectly comfortable being naked around them. You see one person being naked and are uncomfortable enough to make an issue of it. What does that say about you?" Well it doesn't really apply everytime.

Harzburgitic Why? It's the majority to wear clothes as well as it is the majority to drink at a party.

No. I have no idea what kind of logic had lead you to that conclusion.

Nekrochomikon8 The reason why your logic with the naked people doesn't really work is because alcohol and nudisism are both looked at as negative things. (from how I understood it) The original post is referring to a sober person feeling comfortable being surrounded by something negative (for lack of a better word). And those negative people don't feel comfortable around the positive person and they want him to fit in and be negative. Your example by having a room full of clothes people and one naked person is putting one negative person in a room full of positive people who want the megative person to do something positive. Which is the opposite of the original post. Sorry for my bad explanation, but I hope you still understand what I'm trying to say.

Thank you! I already have a drunk personality so I don’t even wanna know what I’m like with alcohol in my system 😂😂

@Ebony Addison i bet you smoke yourself hypocrite

@Zelda Ray Stop wasting your time trolling and try to do something actually productive. The Internet is not for trolls like you.

Dragon7ly I can take any opinion, but she said that you need alcohol to have fun, but really, that’s not true. I just don’t get why poisoning yourself and going ape shit throwing up and getting wasted as shit is considered “fun”. To me, that sounds very unpleasant. But if you want to drink poison and get wasted, go ahead. More power to you. I could care less about what you do with your body. But please don’t spread misinformation about alcohol, because we don’t want to be dragged down to your level. We already have enough alcoholics in the world, and we don’t need more.

Dragon7ly I didn’t say that I was better than you. Where did I say that? XD Learn to read, pal. Let me reiterate: I don’t have a problem with people drinking, but my pet peeves are that drinkers WON’T accept the fact that I don’t drink. I’ve seen many people drink until they get drunk and wasted, and I just don’t want to go down that path. I’m not forcing you to stop alcohol, I’m just asking you to accept that I don’t drink, and that’s all I want. It’s just my personal preference. This is another reason why I don’t like the Western culture. Besides, there are MANY ways to have fun without alcohol. You can read a book, play video games, go to an amusement park, go out with friends, etc. I don’t drink alcohol because I want to live longer and have a great life. Alcohol, for me, is ONLY used for cooking recipes, because at that point, all the alcohol has been vaporized.

This reminds me of a friend who often drives drunk and then I wonder why I'm still friends with her. I despise the idea of driving drunk; such a selfish act. But if I confront her (about anything) she will brush it off. Makes me mad.

@@amy-bethtaylor2656 From my experience. Never. And i mean NEVER have friends that put you and others in danger. Dont get me wrong i dont want to tell you what to do, just speaking from experience. Have a nice day/night

@@ivagrujic248 No I totally agree with you hun! I should speak with her and see if she can wake up about the situation. If not, it's better not to consider her a friend, unfortunately. Thanks for your constructive feedback! :)

@@amy-bethtaylor2656 you should probably signal her to authorities if necessary. I really despise drunk drivers, sorry.

@@JadaKingdom971 No need to apologize. Of course ❤❤. Wise advice.

Exact same. I'm glad someone feels this way too, a lot of children of alcoholics also severely start drinking, but there is an oppisite to that too!

Lauren good 👍🏼

Lauren Literally me. I swear. Why do I need to give people another reason?

plot twist: youre not youre dad & youre in control of yourself

turntrie this is true, but growing up that way would of still been unappealing and sill make the idea not worth it.

Alcohol = drug

I know but generally when I refer to alcohol as a drug, the uninformed masses of the internet go mental like "ALCOHOL ISN'T A DRUG", so now I just separate the two.

tforceraven girl u have a fair point. totally agree

techfan42 being sober does not make you unattractive, and you do not need alcohol to become attractive. I'm female and I'm sober, and personally I find being sober an attractive quality, maybe purely because it's something I can connect with, or maybe because I like a man who stands by what he believes or knows to be right for him. It's not to say I find people who drink unattractive, not at all, but someone who knows drinking is not for them, and stands by it, that's pretty attractive.

tforceraven same

You practice totalism!

*Same* Also 7. We just don't like alcohol and passing out.

every. single. one. YES.

@@_InsertName_ will someone admit 8. i don't drink because i don't like someone that drinks ?

I don't drink because Allah says don't drink.

Same

@Zelda Ray I can counter at least with one of your argument. The other don't see it as a counter argument. 1 Yup, I tried, didn't like it. 2 I don't really have more fun when I eat ice cream. I get humiliated everytime.

Camilla Olsen finally! someone said it

Zelda Ray If you want to drink, go ahead. I could care less about what you do. Just stop trying to spread misinformation about it. We don’t want you to drag us down to your level.

I love the taste, it’s just that I dislike the feeling of getting too tipsy. So I tend to not drink much and only on special occasions usually

Amber P. does ir matter to live few more years when youre an old shit and u cant do anything

edga truth tho. Rather have good years younger than more years older. Every year younger is worth 5 years when you're older

Michael 2715 That's not what you'll think when you're older.

Lea Kenny at least ill die with no regrets and fun memories

But that's the point. One does not need alcohol/drugs to have fun times.

But how do you know it's not for you if you've never been drunk before? XD

I'm not stupid, I see what it does to people. I don't need to set myself on fire to know it's not for me.

+brammatie1 there's plenty of idiots out there who do stupid shit for fun that I don't need to try to know it's not for me. Fallacy back at you.

yeah, they all do stupid shit when they're drunk. It applies to everyone who has ever been drunk. Sort out your fallacy dude!

sweetkorshka I've only been drunk once, coincidentally less than a month ago (on Thanksgiving.) I'm not sure what you would consider to be stupid behavior, but from my opinion I don't believe I did anything stupid. The worst thing was that I couldn't get in the car correctly, but it was funny for everyone who was watching, and still brought laughter for future conversations. It took away my coordination for sure, but I wasn't compelled to do anything bad. The whole night, I just listened to music, had some nice conversations, played with some kids, and dance to a song or two. The little kids were the best part. It started off with one of them tickling me out of nowhere. I declared revenge would follow, and later tickled him back. I played catch with several of them, and then they started to tackle me. I had 5 kids doggy piling on top of me at one point. It was a lot of fun! I can't say with absolute certainty that this wouldn't have happened if I weren't drunk. However, I have severe anxiety and the thought of that happening again while sober, in front of so many adults I didn't know, seems frightening. I would have probably been too embarrassed and self-conscious to be playing around with the kids so much. (Kids don't give me anxiety, it's teens and adults that do.) But the alcohol made me go in a laugh-mode. I thought everything was fun / funny. I didn't even think or worry about the adults present. And one of the bigger noticeable differences was this: On all other holidays or get-togethers, I always want to leave as soon as possible. But this time, I stayed for hours and didn't want to leave. It's actually shocking. But, I wouldn't say that was the drinking. It's definitely because of the kids. However, would I have played with them so much if sober? A little bit maybe, but definitely not in the same way. If I visualize it happening again now, but without the drinks, I'd like tickle the little guy back a bit but then turn around awkwardly to see if any of the adults were watching, being fearful of them. I can't see myself shouting revenge, but I can see myself going inside and watching SpongeBob with them at least.

My ex was the same way

Thank god he is your ex.

what an ass

what a dumbass, glad he's an ex

@jim taylor not drinking isn't dull or joyless?

And it's funnier to be able of walking back home without the risk of passing out on the street or being involved in a car accident

Nah, drunks are annoying af when you are sober. Soooooooooooo glad I'm completely sober.

Omg yes! I can relate to that! I thought the same thing :)

*me completely losing my mind when someone drinks (we're not even talking about someone being drunk) and trying to jump out the window to escape* i wish

I mean you have a point and I can relate to it

***** It makes us sad because we care about them :( And yeah, how are we the boring ones when we can actually remember the fun we've had? XD

***** cool

***** ??

SomethingReallyStrange People who think that you're boring for not drinking think that because most people are insecure and drinking/drugs make you lose your inhibitions and be less insecure, but you don't need drugs or alcohol if you already feel secure in yourself.

LemonZeppelin thank you!

wtf? illegal? hahahahahah

DarkPock omg hahaha I hear that so much. I will like a drink that doesn't taste like alcohol and doesn't have any side effects... let me just go down to Coles and get a 2L coke for 90cents which I can have the whole night while you spend $12 on a single drink XD

I feel you man!

DarkPock drinks? Hun? :****

Aro & Monsuuni cider is fine but it tastes way better if its alcohol free XD

Always remember that the people who try to force it on you are usually miserable and/or insecure. They want to drag you down to their level because misery loves company. I've genuinely had someone ask me how I can be happy without it. The simple answer to this is to surround yourself with people who are happy and secure in themselves already. Then they won't care if you drink or not.

It’s actually amazing to see pple like you who doesn’t drink whole it’s something normal in their society which can be very difficult to not do it. Surprise, Surprise coz I never in my life thought there are some Nonmuslim who can control themselves and not drink it at all. 😱 OMG

The same is here! Where can meet a guy who does like alcohol the same like me?

VikzeLink Same here

yeah good for you

Zelda Ray Keep your useless poisons to yourself, mate. We don’t want to be dragged down to your level.

Seth Belfort I did not. 😑😑

Y’all are amazing and It actually surprised me to see pple like you guys who doesn’t drink whole it’s something normal in their society which can be very difficult to not do it. coz I never in my life thought that there are some Nonmuslim who can control themselves and not drink it at all. 😱 OMG y’all keep going 😏

Seth Belfort No🙄 Read the spencer o’keefe thread, then you’ll know what I mean

@@halalpolice7544 bruh we get it just stay safe.

Gin Yure I get told that all the time. “You don’t drink, you must be boring”. Actually no, you’re a moron.

That's what I used to say when I was 13 and butthurt. I learned later that I actually need it to have fun at parties, because it fixes the social anxiety problem. Unfortunately I'm sort of an alcoholic now, so fuck me

You’d think that, I always got that impression when I was younger but now in new situations it helps people relax and be less awkward because of less anxiety and being afraid of what people think of you x

Ikr??? lol

I can be honest, even blunt, and playful without a single drop of alcohol. Guess I’m a total drag to be around...lol. People can say whatever shit they want, least I know what’s up with how I drink, or don’t.

My boyfriend drinks but very rarely. And he doesn't do it to get shitfaced.

BIOL6895 LITERALLY MY STRUGGLE

Go to temperance society meetings & sign the pledge.

Bars are a crap place to meet someone anyway. This is x10 when you don’t drink, especially out with friends. I have 1 friend who has never drank, but sadly 4 friends who drink regularly

Zelda Ray Said every drunk person ever. It’s really sad that you depend on a poisonous substance to fix your problems. I think you need therapy before it’s too late.

I’m on medication so it’s a win win for me

i stoped drinking because i realised I may create a problem if I need alcohol to get through uncomfortable situations

@Selina Kyle they're saying that they don't drink alcohol because of their medication and that it's a win-win because they won't experience the negative side effects to their mental health

@Zelda Ray yep, you need serious help

@watergod 83 🤣🤣🤣

Age limit to drink is 21 here

I would say " to get my driver's license, that is a lot more useful"

CourtneyMarie 6661 omg yes!!! it's like I'm having fun and I will remember this tomorrow

Maryvera Horsefall exactly! and no hang over! we're a rare breed, us non drinkers that still have fun.

you know what sucks? when you are sober and dance like a crazy person and people assume that you must be high on ecstasy -.-

Cygnus I love festivals but people don't believe me when I say I'm sober because I dance like a lunatic X'D

Rin615 Have the same problem i dance a lot and have lots of fun when going out but they al act seprizes and don't belive me. Or say there proud of me. i hate the last one the most beceause there's lituerly nothing to be proud of. The people i go out with know i never had problems with alcohol or have a hard time seeing every one drinking I mean they know I don't mind. while others don't get prazed but have a reason to be.

Equally, some of us drank moderately, and then quit for reasons unconnected to alcoholism.

Dymond Kitty Amen brother

It also doesn't mean we are saints who take no drugs and don't like to party.. I get just as smashed as the next person.. just don't like drinking.. *shocker*

less possibilities of getting into a car accident

@@ItsTanuki0_Clock just don’t drink if u know ur gonna drive 💀. Trains exist

@@Stanzbey69 Bold of you to assume every single city has train stations nearby bars and clubs

@@ItsTanuki0_Clock then just don’t drink 😱 or don’t go to clubs because they all have commercial shit music anyway which is the reason I drunk at them. At techno clubs i don’t drink cuz i actually like the music!

@@Stanzbey69 You have come to a video where all of us are criticizing alcohol

W K What kind of doctor prescribes wine to a patient?

I just reread your comment. 6 years old? How long were you drinking it?

Lol this was the funniest comment on this video

Never read a bigger load of bullshit in my life

@Pretty Boy it prob was a very small amount. And maybe a special wine. My grandma says when she was little, kids used to have bread with sugar and warm sweet wine for afternoon snack.

Taylor R.S good craic

even my dad had a liver problem because of it

According to my mom. My dad and his side of the family spent most of the wedding depressed while my mom and her side of the family enjoyed themselves.

Same here since my grandpa from my mom's side were heavy drinkers that led to most of them suffering severe health issues or died. My grandpa suffered nerve damage to his legs so he has to use a wheelchair for the rest of his life. Because of this, my mom chose to never drink like her dad and my dad never liked alcohol in general. Personally, I see alcoholic drinks, cigarettes, and drugs (aside for marijuana and other drugs that help people with medical issues) useless and just a waste of money.

Same here.

Yakumoki the golden sentence "you would look nice with makeup".....what am I now then? Frankenstein monster?

Hahaha yes! And the "You will look less tired" oh thanks

YAAASS! I've always hated makeup. It made me feel fake. I like my imperfections. I always get, "You'll change your mind." or "You will when you get married." Why? If my husband is fine with me and no make up before marriage, then he'll be fine with it afterward. ^-^

Yakumoki Yes please 😀

On the opposite spectrum, do a "things not to say to someone who wears makeup". So many people get butt hurt over how much makeup people put on their faces (oh, you wear too much makeup, you should go natural, guys prefer girls without makeup, etc 🙄), and being a girl that wears a lot of makeup, I get judged on the daily about how much makeup I wear. But I've never judged (nor have I ever seen someone else been judged) someone simply because they don't wear makeup

Bryan Plus that would violate the Hippocratic Oath

I told a doctor once I drink only occasionally, but when I do i might go through a two liter carton of wine in two days. Later when I changed doctors (for unrelated reasons) I got my records and found he had written "drinks two liters a day". And before anybody says so, yes I know I'm an alcoholic. I knew it then too but wasn't prepared to stop. But he made it out to be much worse than it was.

@@jayfredrickson8632 A liter carton in two days isn't great. And they give me friggin coins for every year *I* quit drinking, haha Here's how you really tell: you don't want anything to do with people who don't drink. Nor do you ask or find out more about them as a person after that point. If you don't want to go anywhere there won't be booze. If you drink before you leave the house. If you never had "just one" in your life. EVER. lol. You think you drive better drunk. You've never left anything in your glass. I was sober 4 years before I heard the Joe and Charlie tapes. He said norm drinkers drink maybe one and a little over and when they start to feel a bit high, they STOP! What?? I never stopped until there wasn't any more or I passed out. Oh, blackouts are another huge red flag. Jmo.

Not the docto, but i had to get an official mediacal test for a course, and the options to " how often you drink" were +1 a day, 1 a day, several times a week, etc and the last one was 1 a month. There was no less frecuency than that as an option..i was tempted to add a " once in every red moon" option, but instead left it empty and told the doctor i just don't drink except in very rare occasion one single piña colada, but it's usually like once a year or so, because is only in summer and only if i go to a chill out which i don't do so often. So she just made a line over the option to indicate " doesn't drink"

I love that shit feeling tho

That's the same for everyone you grape.

Rhanna Russell if you don't like the taste of alcohol, you're drinking the wrong thing.

LemonZeppelin that's sort of like saying "if you don't like prostate exams, you haven't found the right finger"

janelle s It's not, because different types of alcohol taste different.

Lola Bint yes!!

YES! People have asked if I'm high because I'm naturally so weird and happy, and im like "nah, this is me naturally".

congrats friend!!!

CONGRATS!!!

Congrats mate!!

Jesus Christ's blood is wine.

And I belive in the norse gods and they drink alot

@@lunamorningstarblaze7668 Jesus' most recognized miracle is turning water into wine

It's Tanuki o'Clock and that’s a cool trick but I still bellive in the norse gods :3 (Thor, Odin and Loki)

@@lunamorningstarblaze7668 I don't believe in any gods, but I love Greek religion with the olimpic gods and mythology

Marína Urbanová loser

Marína Urbanová 13 for me

I had a friend tell me at fifteen that if I wouldn't drink she'd spike my drinks

blackmen trick fick dich

How sad

*Everyone should be like that.

SUM1 why should everyone live like that? Not everyone is addiction prone, or have poor relationships with alcohol. Plus not everyone who drinks does so at a dangerous level.

dinkyboss t. Drunk brat No one said any of those things you stated, go be a sheep elsewhere

That is like saying I'm content because I don't eat apples.

@SidtheKid because drunk people are annoying and not funny.

"Friends".

Lmao I was also the outsider in school during breaks because I don’t smoke. I mean they took me with them but it was always awkward just standing there

@@pollinger1967 why did you stand there?? You were nearly as dumb as they were - consciously and purposefully poisoning yourself.

Hania Popowska lmao no. I avoided the smoke as much as possible, I literally get throat/nose pain if I inhale that smoke. And it’s not like we get poisoned by the air (car exhausts for example), by shit in our food and stuff already

@@pollinger1967 It is like we get poisoned by it. All the more reason to avoid and delegalize the poisons that are not in the least necessary to our lives.

yeah i don't do yoga and i dislike veg just as much as i dislike alcohol

Cerulean Skigh stfu u basic

pokekitty1 same! 😂

@Cerulean Skigh I can only do seated yoga because of an injuru

That girls cute.

Honey cat I can make your orange juice taste better. 😁

Elderflower cordial with sparkling water in a tall glass with ice, and sliced lemon snd lime.

Honey cat add a little bit of pineapple juice to it and I'm with you.

Honey cat vodka and orange is nice tho

Omfg same juice is much better!

Exactly I relate so much

Claire Redd Again with the “moron” thing

Hey dude, I'm 22 going on 23 in a week. I'm the same. I don't drink, surrounded by people who do. I'm at risk of addiction if I do, so I can't, but I also don't see the point.

True

I have a few friends who are 20.. 22.. 23 and I'm 19. None of them drink but I occasionally enjoy a cider or something, but I always feel bad because funny enough, I feel like they are better than me for NOT drinking. Lol do I make any sense? Like not the typical "I won't drink if they don't drink." It's more like... I actually feel ashamed because they are better than me for not drinking 😂.

Same here, I go to parties, pubs, bars and still have a good time, even though I'm sober.

I just say in response to being pregnant, no I'm just fat. I like food. Lol

I legit know exactly how you feel. I don’t drink soda/pop either and I’ve been called a weirdo for it so many times that I’ve just gotten use to being the odd one out. Anymore I’m proud of it.

@@MyProGamer10 is really stupid people shame other for like different thing.

When i say i don't like the taste (.specially when the offered drink is beer) i always get the " no one likes the taste at first, but you build a taste for it with time"...and is always been so confusing to me, like why would you want to build taste for something you didn't like the first time.and doesn't have any benefits like being good for your health?quite the opposite in fact. Like i get saying " no one likes vegetables at first, but you can build a taste for it" because vegetables are needed for a good diet... but beer? Why?

@@MyProGamer10 ohh me and my best friend are the same, aside lf alcohol, with just don't like drinks with gas or bubbles. We basically only drink water, milkshakes and smoothies. I do take a piña colada or daikiri... something like that with sweet taste and doesn't taste like alcohol but is a rare thing ...once in every blue moon or so XD

I think some of us are just naturally miserable, stressed or just incapable of living in the moment, and thats why they need something. That may be weed, booze or prescription drugs, or choose to never take a break from it

@@stephenolder4552 why not harmless hobbies to not be "miserable, depressed or incapable of living properly"? You know... like watching your fav movies or serials, travelling, reading, paragliding, painting, making music, writing, learn a new language or try out different cuisine, dance, teach, take up photography..there's honestly a lot of shit out there. Many therapies and treatments exist just for this. But whatever, if people wanna make excuses about intoxicating their body then so be it.

@@blueshoes5145 some peoples brains are wired to be high strung, stressed or whatever and simply picking up a fun hobby isnt gonna change that. Thats why some people are on some form of prescription drugs, or self medicate with weed or booze. You may not be like that, so you'd probably find it hard to relate to but thats okay. You dont have to get it. On a side note, while drinkers do say these annoying lines in the video, some non drinkers do have something just as annoying: self-righteousness. And id rather deal with a drunk than a self righteous person any day of the week. Not saying you're self righteous, im just talking about those who are.

Alcohol isn’t dangerous if you know what you can and can’t do.

I literally only smoke meth so I can go for days without eating. Its my diet fix. I can go months or years between several day or several week binges. Meth never destroyed my life like it did with so many of my friends. Because although I abused substances. Substances weren't my real vice. Anorexia and bulimia were. I've cycled through various eating disorders for 15 years though... I don't need drugs for fun because that's literally not why I take drugs.

Therefore you shouldn't accept a drink from an unknown source

It doesn't have to be an unknown source At our school trip there were 30 of us in one room and 5 of us weren't drinking A friend of mine was quite drunk and came to me with something and said it was coca cola She knew that I don't want to drink and I reminded her of that and told her that I can smell the alcohol and she crying because "I don't trust her enough to try her drink and I think she'll poison me" Luckily, another friend (also drunk) came to us and told her to calm down and that he'll make me split the drink with him When she left he threw the shot in the sink and told me not to worry about it I'm forever thankful to him for that because if she continued pushing it would end ugly and we wouldn't be friends anymore

water, vodka, whats the difference

@@marlena2535 Frankly, I don't understand why you stayed friends with that girl. It may not have escalated past that but it was still a betrayal of trust when she tried to trick and then outright pressure you to drink it.

Only an idiot would waste vodka on someone that doesn't even want it

most people have serious problems and alcohol helps them get thru it. Its the same as taking prescription pills or whatever vice you may have. And everyone has a vice!!!

@@tbewin1z143 Except alcohol is a depressant. Much different than taking psychiatric medication meant for your specific condition(s).

@@EclecticallyEccentric No different!!! They can be used as drugs to treat unhappiness. Most don't though and you can control how much alcohol you drink, but you can't with those other medicines. Weed is also used the same way and probably the best option of the three!!!

@@EclecticallyEccentric I guess it's all best in moderation.

@Seth Belfort yeah everyone who has an occasional beer is an addict!!! Get some help!!!

You're really young. Just do daytime things with her.

Lexi Peck Oh god that was surprisingly good

and remebering what I did...

The vast majority of people who drink aren't alcoholics and won't become alcoholics.

Unless you’re an idiot, you won’t become an alcoholic if you drink. I go out every weekend and get pissed but I’m not an alcoholic.

@@tiermax1629 I was going to agree with you, but then you claimed proudly that you get wasted every week... That's just sad. However, most people who drink aren't alcoholics. And don't get piss drunk every week. It's wrong to assume they all do

That's me with weed as well. Take a away all the health factors and I still wouldn't be interested in either. It really sucks how much staying sober takes a hit on your social life though

Because its easy to pretend to be someone while sober. When you have a few drinks in you, your inhibitions lower and people get to know the real you and thus can make a better connection and become better friends. Its deep but its why people ask you that. People who dont drink have something to hide imo and know it will come out if they drink.

I just tell people "trust me, you don't want to see me drunk."

I say, remember 9/11? That was because I went out drinking and...that's what happens when I start up.

monkiram Good for you 👍!

Ronald Fulton And?

And why not have fun and try theese things since you only have one life? Atleast try them lol, and moderation is key.

@@aok9153 if you need alcohol to have fun in life then that sucks...

"more calories per unit than anything else" are you drinking straight ethanol?

Wise head on young shoulders. Good luck.

virtual high five, i feel this

H Z Familys? You mean family right,hope that was a mistake cause if not you're an idiot

Drahcir Nevarc I love that best response I have ever seen

+Zuli Ramirez Haha, thanks! My kids are too old to discipline - early 20's - so it's not very often that I get the opportunity to play the stern paterfamilias.

Drinking a few beers isnt going to kill anyone lol

@@tbewin1z143 Only problem I have with alcohol is that it doesn't taste that good. Also in the long run it can makes you look older which I don't want at all.

@@tbewin1z143 k

@@alokbaluni8760 To combat the taste people make cocktails like mojitos. But I understand this reasoning

@@Morphoidism You are right. I am not saying that it tastes awful. Some drinks are quite good but I feel like I can always taste a much better drink with no alcohol in it( generally Soft drinks). Obviously both are bad for your health one more than the other.

Me too. I know how you feel.

And after you do they get all butthurt as if you were personally accusing THEM of being alcoholics too :-\

I should have thought about that before hahha

You shouldn't leave it alone anyway. I know grown men who got dosed.

That's scary!

Good job for the keeping of the cool

exactly! its rude to disrespect others sentiments and then guilt trip you into drinking , like if you cant respect that , im leaving.

Yes, well said girl! :)

I never had the right words ... That's it! Thank you and your boyfriend!

You made the right choice, congratulations 👏

What are your symptoms? I'm planning to use having an alcohol allergy as an excuse.

@@flowercool3985 just google how far east Asians can't handle alcohol and you'll find a list

I'm not allergic, but in alcohol intolerant. I sip of alcohol and within a minute I feel terrible. The feeling is similar to low blood sugar or that feeling after you've had a lot of blood drawn.

BKaitsuki What’s fermented got to do with it?

That’s not What they mean :/ and you know it...

Kelly Harmon SAME !

Gurl, same

Same

Jesus drank wine.

Templedelagloire because back then you drank fruit juice instead of water because water was still iffy to drink while fruit juice was fine. The juice ended up fermenting and had other uses aside from getting you drunk. So, yeah, Jesus drank wine, but because that’s what was available all that was available at time. They referred to regular juice as new wine and fermented as old wine

Nafeesa Ali yet you rely on a chemical reaction and movement of electrons inside of your head

Nafeesa Ali why do people who don’t drink say shit like that?

Null Identity That’s a bad analogy. His/her meaning if liquid is alcohol

I understand if you don't want to drink alcohol, but why drink carbonated water?! It's rank!

@@emme2141 So is sour milk but I rather have club soda over that for the obvious reasons.

are the teachers sleeping on the job if a teacher heard a student say that at the college i went to they would kick them out. college is a place of learning not a nightclub

Imagine going $30,000 into debt just because you want to have parties and drink alcohol

wtf? why would someone pay all that money and put themselves into 10+ years of debt just so they can get drunk all the time? that blows my mind

That's hilarious

pokekitty1 at my college I literally heard teachers say we aren't doing college right if we don't drink. As a person who doesnt that was so annoying

EunYoung Uzun Hello 👋I'm a muslim Army too😄

EunYoung Uzun and you're so right!!

Tbh it smells gross too haha I don't drink, in the long run people who look young and have less wrinkles in their 50s usually say it was because they never drank alcohol. I'm on a all water diet cuz healthy lifestyle. Btw JHOOOPEEE lol ✨

My aunt (not blood related) used to drink wine like there was no tomorrow as a horrible way of coping with family issues. She's Muslim and I didn't even know how to help her then because I was a kid

Tbh before alcohol was even haram they were husband that abuse there wives and also u feel sick after eating and change ur whole personality when u were drinking and could be addicted so it's haram

Huh gaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyy

Chelsea Bondz It isn’t as bad if you know your limits, but I do respect people’s choices.

Yees same here!! Music is that which gives me that good feeling!

In German culture it's just as shocking if you don't drink around the age of 18-19 and my "friends" have also asked me if I'm drunk just bc I was having fun on the dance floor. Even though they all know I don't drink

Same in Hungary. The problem is, we have 1 million alcoholic people in this country, so we have a serious alcoholism issue, still, if you decide not to get on the bandwagon and refuse drinks you are ridiculed. Well, guess who's the idiot here...

Honestly, what even is the point of going to a Bar sober? It’s loud and crowded with drunk people, I can’t imagine it being fun at all

@@jatsikoira meet girls

Hayden G3 well that's true

basically..

I know, at Christmas there was a guy, about 18, on the night bus saying he'd had a great night out, he was sick twice! That's disgusting, why would he not go home when that happened? His body was already telling him he'd had too much.

dave seems like my kinda guy

And me fuckin head is in bits. YEEEEAAA

My parents who don't drink anymore: stonks

They want to drag you down to their level. It's insecurity and not being able to stand someone else being comfortable while sober.

Exact same scenario with me

I don't drink because it makes me feel tired and heavy and I don't really like how I say/do things I wouldn't normally say or do when sober . It's weird how alcohol is synonymous with having a good time in this country (england) . I mean , standing in a room drinking endless liquid is the epitomy of fun ? I get it though , when I was younger I used to drink a lot in pubs and parties too it's just not interesting to me anymore

Ben J, Good for you Ben, each to their own.

Yh I would think that alcohol is just dangerous especially with a wine or a beer or even vodka. So that is why I probably would have to experiment much to my mother’s disgust.

It's because making a fool of yourself is seen as fun.

LemonZeppelin lol cuz it is try it sometime 😂😂😂

brent pollock Been drinking for years mate so I know

You sound like a boring wuss

I get this! In fact last time I was out, was dancing before anyone else who needed a few drinks first!

"You only live once" really should be the exact reason why people don't want to drink. Like if you die... there's no coming back

@@aimeefasick2004 I have a seriously obese friend who uses the YOLO argument as an excuse for feasting. Like... WTF?!

Pissed as a fart 😂😂. I agree, I don't drink & one of the funniest things is watching all the drunks, yeah I said it DRUNKS! Making complete fools of themselves 😂😂

I’m going to explain the argument. I’ll leave it up to you if it’s a good reason or not. Everyone is going to die anyway so you might as well take the shot. That’s the reasoning do with it what you will.

SubjectRandom Good for you. While them alcoholics throw up and get wasted, I’ll be drifting my future Rocket Bunny BRZ down some awesome hill and mountain touges.😎😎

Morgan Williams I don't know you but I'm proud of you!!

I wasn't a problem drinker.I just got into my 50's, stopped liking alcohol, and finally quit a couple months ago. In that time I've been dry except for maybe 3 sips of beer and 1 of wine. It's been fine. I'm quite enjoying it, and I've lost a few lbs I needed to lose.

Don't let others standards influence you. Btw, a lot of makeup companies are extremely cruel to animals and isn't necessary (look online)

Barbarella Hurdas ...... live a little

MrSkinnyWhale i don't like alcohol

Barbarella Hurdas you must smoke a lot of weed then

Nah lol but been around people who do lol

MrSkinnyWhale 😂😂😂

ironic because the main religion in the country requires you to drink a little alcohol as part of the service which is actually why i hate the stuff. i think only an alcoholic would like the taste of church wine it's that awful i always felt bad for the priest because he had to drink what was left.

Yea... I’m British too, but I not faced that problem... at least not yet cuz I’m underage, but still I remember I given small amount alcohol at one of my family gatherings, but I never drank it. I taste it with my tongue, but it was so horrible that it feels like shit to me. So I leave it at the table and always go to a room where I can be by myself away from my family as I’m a private person and I hate parties. So, yea

Not all alcohol tastes the same. Beer is a unique taste, so is wine. Applae cider is disgusting but a mixed fruit cider is amazing. My recommendation is dont get dead set that you dont want to drink, try a little here and there. Stay away from wine, its the most alcoholic tasteing thing ever

Damo2690 To be honest... I rather not run the risk of getting drunk, embarrassed myself or worse, ended up sleeping with a random stranger. What if I have weak alcohol tolerance? I don’t want to risk that, especially since now I have a boyfriend

Kuno Phantom-Kunoichi2001 If your main fears are the things you listed, *if* you want to, then try having *a* drink with you bf/with friends at a house. If thats ok, then the time after have a 2nd drink. I wouldn't recommend 3 drinks for someone thats just starting to drink. Edit: I would recommend this only if your 17 or older

middynighty I get this I have had three sips though

Amen

Get new friends and isolate yourself from your family