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A man approached me two weeks ago to date. He said he wants to get married at some point and wants to abstain from sex until marriage. He's an alpha male. He's consistent and truthful. I let him talk the most and take the lead. I'm really enjoying getting to know him.
Red flag!!!!!How long have you known this guy? Usually if you've just met and they are talking soulmate or getting married...RUN...RUN...AND KEEP RUNNING!!!!!!!!!!
Remember this!! It takes a strong woman to walk away from a toxic relationship, and a weak woman to stay in it. Which one are you? When you refuse to lie down and die after a bad relationship.....YOU LIVE!
Eternity With Christ I am so sorry that you went through that! I pray that the strength that God gives you keep you out. God loves you and He did not put you here to be a doormat. You are a survivor!!! Stay strong in Christ Jesus. God bless you!!!!❤️❤️🙏
I walked away from 8 year toxic relationship. I was in it because I had kids with him, I just wanted for my kids tp have a father and full family but when I got pregnant I admit that I cried a lot because I realised that my hesitation and fear of not finding other person for me made me choose a wrong person. In those 8 years I wanted to go out from relationship so many times because he sabotaged my dreams, I had to sacrifice a lot and had 3 kids coz I had problems with pill effectiveness and my sisters and friends said to try to fix things. My sister still says we can make up in the future and I say I never were happier. Better be single, struggle but happy ^^ I will have an audience for a domestic violence too
I have been told that my mouth is a turn off in terms of me speaking recklessly as well as using profanity so I am aware that i HAVE to stop cursing and I need to be more respectful. Thank you Tony
You don't need vulgar language. Your beauty is to powerful for that, it devalues your natural beauty. To acknowledge that is power, that's a great characteristic to have.💛✌🇱🇷
It really does boil down to the 3 B's, being abstinent, having solid standards, knowing your deal breakers and sticking to them 100% of the time while dating. If we do this, we won't be sticking around nagging and being insecure when they start testing us with games. We will just silently exit stage left.... We have to know our worth. We have to know we deserve respect. We have to stop operating in fear and desperation and instead operate in power and positivity. We are worth THE BEST treatment ladies!!! If they can't handle that, we must stop giving them our time and energy and invest in caring for ourselves. Be blessed Tony!!...
Can somebody please tell Uncle Tony that us women do not suck our teeth and go “Ooohhh” every time we’re about to say something!!!!! 😂 I crack up every single time!!!! LOL 😂
Aisha Cansler Every single time! I cannot wait until his live tonight! Always a good vibe!! He’s funny without even trying which makes it all so much funnier, “you hear me” !??! 👈🏾in his voice of course 😂
If Tony and his wife ever have a daughter I think Tony’s teachings would go to a level unknown. The wisdom is already powerful but I know there’s much more yet to be revealed. 🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️
What really drives us to cheat?! It's a selfish act, inconsiderate of the heart that has become vulnerable in order to be loved, not broken. There's no excuse....NONE!
I had Toney playing in my car while my son was in here and when Toney mentioned about people getting certificates as continued edu from taking his courses on life love and business, my 7yr old son says, "yeah that's just like when I get a certificate from Lexia and Dream Box at school and that means I completed it!". I mention all this to say that not only am I getting the knowledge and able to apply it to my life but so is my son, and it made me smile lol. Thank you Toney and many blessings to you! 🙏
Dana Sermons If you are asking me do I agree with Tony’s quote, then yes, I agree. I don’t have to judge what God has already condemned. All I have to do is repeat what God says. Are you judging God? Ephesians 4:29 KJV. Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers. James 3:10 KJV. Out of the same mouth proceedeth blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not so to be.
Dana Sermons Yes. It’s the Christian’s place to judge according to God’s word/standards not their own. Jesus tell us clearly how to do this in Matthew 7:5 KJV Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother's eye.
Be Blessed 🙏✝️🙂 A grown boy is to me an immature grown man that never matured. He didn't have a father around that was mature as a man to teach him. He has no clue what is to be a grown man. He only has false perceptions from the world of what a grown man is. Thanks ♥️🙂 Coach Tony
Every time I suspected something of my ex I was right my intuition was always right. Never was It out of insecurity . I can appreciate another beautiful women and not see her as a competition. I’m my only competition.
Idled mind is the devil work shop , when I was a little girl my mama used to always tell me this, that’s stuck in my head. It’s still no excuse to cheat. Ijs I was in relationship for years and felt empty, but never did I cheat . Just not in my character.
@@itsme3k right. I would imagine in a way that makes you feel single but your married so you feel single but trapped. And if there's no attention there's probably more issues
Very TRUE Tony MOST women that are with a man ESPECIALLY if they are happy with them DON'T cheat!! How TRUE about the "season"!! IT'S just like fashion!! I LOVE your looks challenge term!! Lol
Judith you are correct! I didnt cheat even when I wasn't happy because a woman cant do what a man does and still be a lady!Also we are the ones that can become pregnant! We have to be very careful!😘
To Eternity with Christ. Get it RIGHT! I NEVER said CHEATING equals happiness!! HONESTY does NOT mean that people won't cheat or commit any other sin!! DON'T TWIST my words!! HONESTY is a character trait!! Remember we ALL fall short of Jesus & are NOT PERFECT NO MATTER HOW MANY GOOD CHARACTER TRAITS WE MAY POSSESS!! I CLEARLY AGREED WITH TONY! THAT MOST WOMEN DO NOT CHEAT IF THEY ARE HAPPY WITH THEIR MATE!! GET IT RIGHT.
@@sharoncobb2547 AMEN sister I couldn't have said it better myself!! I have NEVER CHEATED either. If a relationship wasn't working for me I left it. However I realize there are plenty that DON'T & take the CHEATING route! I have married girlfriends that both they & their spouse CHEAT on each other yet stay together. Makes NO sense to me. But everyone lives their own LIVES!! And LET'S NOT FORGET ABOUT ALL OF THOSE NASTY STDS OUT THERE!! THAT IN ITSELF SCARES THE CRAP OUT OF ME!!
Prime example Kenya Moore & Marc. Her husband was not with all the drama i watched the episode of his event party and she was nagging and being so negative. The next day he filed for a divorce. The way he treated her or talked to her you can tell he wasn't really into her. Over 50 and still nagging & bringing misery to other people. Smh. Great points TG! Be blessed all 💫
@J Designer no, I'm sure he liked her but it's clear he didn't love her. They got married because that's what she wanted to be married and start a family. I agree she does deserve better but she has to do better as well. She's no angel. ijs
Ladies! Please, listen to Everything T.G. is saying, he’s spitting TRUE FACTS! My best friend made a joke, and that joke triggered some hidden past hurt, that I had been carrying.I did bring to his attention how his joke offended me. And of course, he did apologize, but I just couldn’t let it go. ( I reacted by using profanity along with a loud voice tone).Out of 2 years of investing & connecting with each other. My best friend decided to demote me from partnership to only being his friend & business partner ( for his organization). He stated “ I can’t do the profanity & yelling, it’s negativity”. We re - capped the situation & also talked in depth in regards to my perspective so he could get a better understanding on my emotional reaction.He listened, but I knew my actions left a bitter taste in his mouth. Unfortunately, we are now only business partners & friends. I felt like I’ve lost him. 😞 Mind you, I’ve NEVER had anyone to teach me, about men,self love, & healing. I literally made a vow to myself 3 years ago, to invest into me, ( I was tired of repeating toxic cycles). I’ve been educating myself, and it’s been challenging, but rewarding to a sense. Side note: My now business partner, told me to get a book on emotional intelligence. This book will help navigate me through my emotions. It’s vital, that we as women have sober emotions.
A few of these stepped on my toes but I needed it. Still work to be done but I’m making progress!! And you right just because I’m “nice and country doesn’t mean I’m dumb”, don’t take my kindness for weakness!
Tony got me looking up words. Although I have heard these terms used before, I never truly understood their meanings. So hear in an extension of nuance. What does it mean to be nuanced? adjective. The definition of nuanced is done with extreme care to appreciate fine-point distinctions that you have to be very detail-oriented to notice. An example of nuanced is a nuanced glance, when a person looks at a painting and understands the fine-point details about what makes it great. Another great informational video, you added extra info that went beyond the question. Rich wisdom here
This video 🙏🏾👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 That's straight 💯 regarding a woman being Faithful... That's me all the time but I'm learning how to be faithful and devote my time to the right man who wants to commit, Husband Material. Amen 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙏🏾🛐
YES! YOU ARE RIGHT SIR. EVERYONE ESPEICALLY WOMEN WANT ATTENTION. YOUNG LADIES YOU WANT ATTENTION? JUST PLEASE YOURSELF, PAY ATTENTION TO YOU DRESS TO IMPRESS YOURSELF AND DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY AND WATCH WHAT HAPPENS I DARE YOU TO TRY IT.
Be Blessed 🙏✝️ Your looks is what attracts him but your exquisite good character he sees in you is what captures him. It won't be a Wam Bam thank you ma'am when your character attracts him. You capture his ❤️ and you can't shake him off with a stick. 😂😂😂 U will become the center of his universe ♥️🙂 and can do no wrong in his eyes😂😂😂
@@tabithafaulk6068 Yes our good character is what keeps him. How we respect ourselves, how we love ourselves also how we love, respect and treat others, our confidence in ourselves. If we carry ourselves this way they will see it too and love us for it. We may not be perfect but in their eyes they think we are 🙂😉
'Thank You' Tony. I 'don't' think women like to be alone either. We were created for the comfort of each other. There is 'much' validity shared in this video. Blessings.
We need to accept a person where he/she is and appreciate the good things he/ she brings. A lot of men ARE in some type of personal and spiritual warfare.
man I needed this...my man has constantly told me this....thank you Tony...I really need to take a step back in my relationship and evaluate myself frfr...you are a God send
Love watching a love coach that I relate to, who is opposite of me in soooo many ways but is more honest and articulate than most the love coaches that my algorithm usually shows to me. Your feedback is solid gold. Thank you, can’t wait to see more.
A year ago I was not watching these videos, I only discovered Mr. Gaskins by chance maybe in November 2020, but I can say of the great videos that I've listened to so far, this by far spoke to me and made me stop and evaluate myself. That is probably the reason why women wanted you to do a segment/video like this. Thank you for your valuable time. God bless!
That’s a mans favorite line your insecurity going to cause you to be alone when u knowing something is wrong and they know they doing wrong when u have facts
I'm guilty of some of this. In the relationship I was in with my girl's father, he was insecure. It was so stressful. AND I fussed alot out of FEAR. I didn't trust his decision making with the livelihood for my girl's and I. He always had a business idea and wanted me to support him with it, but I didn't feel secure about doing that because I felt like he wasn't focused enough to make things happen for us as a unit. And we were not married and I wasn't asking him to support my goals. If you want someone to invest in your dream, you have to invest in your dream first. I love him, but we didn't make a great team😔 But I pray for him daily, that he finds what his purpose is because his children livelihood depends on it. Everyone wants to be an entrepreneur these days but lack the doers will power. He's a good man, but once the babies were born, he didn't seem like he could handle the responsibility of a family. He was supposed to a Christian man and that's what attracted me to him. But where we went wrong, we stop pointing each other to Christ.
Tony I have been listening to you for months and have read several of your books. Thank you for sharing your Godly wisdom and being obedient to your calling. I pray for you and your family daily. I can only hope that one day God will bless me a Godly man like yourself with your beliefs and values. In the meantime, I will continue to grow in God, self-love, and being single (3Bs) May God bless you and your family always.
I loved this. It really did hit home. I know what I’ve been through. That’s why I’m mindful about what other people may be going through. We all have stuff. Thank you again, Tony and be blessed!
Thank you for breaking down what a Proverbs 31 woman should be from a male's perspective. This really takes it to another level when you break it down into real-world experiences and behaviors. Thank you!
It takes a real man and woman to admit their mistakes and take ownership for their flaws and mishaps I agree with you Tony 💯% women are more faithful just to the wrong men and the lack of knowledge being raised and mislead but it goes both ways
Brother Tony, I laughed & cried and jotted some notes down too. I was so blessed by the anointing God has given you to give understanding to those like me seeking it. I love it when you talk about the Ebon & flow between you and your beautiful wife. As you described her spirit my heart was touched. I want 2 be more comfortable in letting that side of me be exposed more often and I'm praying for that. Can't wait for my book to arrive ...again I can't thank you enough. Be blessed!
Great words of Wisdom Sir. A Man Who did Not Me At All Wanted To Married Me Because Everyday When I Got On The Bus I Sat To Myself And Never Talked. I Stayed To Myself And This Bus Driver Watched Me. I Guess Men Respect Women Who Do Not Talk All The Time.
Yikes....I've been a nag about what a man eats; about his health as well as his looks. This is Revelation. They have to care about their health and physical condition before a lady comes into his life. He does not have to be perfectly built; don't want to give that impression. I've already lost one husband due to heart attack so I'm cautious about a man's health.
Be Blessed. Thank you for articulating the mind of a man so well. I look forward to listening to your insight and your point of view on love, relationships and business. You explain your concepts so clearly and with great humor; this combo really helps drive your points home. I'm so grateful that you met Sheri, grateful that the love you two share helped you change your life and also grateful that you submitted to your calling. God bless you and your family.
Hopefully your sister can leave!! I wasted 13 years being abused. I took my 5 kiddos, didn't follow the exes on any social media, changed my phone number and moved out of state. It was the best decision ever!!! It was hard for a couple of years, but God is blessing me beyond measure. I'm a single parent of 5 and living so amazing!!! Prayers and you deserve better!!! It takes years to heal so the sooner, the better!
WE ARE HUMANS THAT'S WHY GOD LOVES US UNCONDITIONAL HE KNOWS WE WERE CREATED WITH FLAWS. WE LEARN FROM OUR MISTAKES. YOU UNDERSTAND THAT MR. Tony . WHEN YOU THOUGHT ABOUT AFTER IT AFTER IT HAPPENED YOU UNDERSTOOD IT. GOD BLESS YOU.
The truth only steps on your toes when you walk out of line!!! Awesome Thanks Tony! Love what you are doing and saying and so thankful you and your wife are doing what you are doing. Thanks to her also!!
Yes yes Tony G. You’re telling the truth and all areas of the truth. I have been in a relationship and with the lies and betrayal and they got caught. I found out and I put my foot down and they said I was nagging and they getting caught up again I had to leave to respect myself. LOL you really telling us the truth and I’m laughing too because you explaining and acting it out but we know you’re talking the truth and that’s why I can relate to everything that you’re saying cause I’ve been through it. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY
Be Blessed...This video helped me to identify a few insecurities that can be remedied; however I am proud of myself for having self love and not being a pushover - the good outweighed the bad.
