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Think before you speak, hacking the secret of communication | Catherine Molloy | TEDxEnniskillen 

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you might think that you have communicated, however have you really? this talk explores the impact communication can have both negative and positive and how we can hack conscious communication. Author, Executive Leadership Coach, Communication, Body & Energy Language Expert
Talks about leadership, body language, communication, keynote speaker, and emotional intelligence This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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@smyrnasstory
@smyrnasstory Год назад
“Thoughtless speech is like the stabs of a sword, but the tongue of the wise is a healing”
@catherinemolloy1
@catherinemolloy1 Год назад
I love this ❤ thank you for sharing
@catherinemolloy1
@catherinemolloy1 9 месяцев назад
😊
@Abundance01
@Abundance01 8 месяцев назад
Proverbs 12:18
@travisarmour8709
@travisarmour8709 27 дней назад
um, no it's not. Not even close. Silly, meaningless sentiment
@shelaghbrennand348
@shelaghbrennand348 Год назад
This is brilliant. It seems such a simple thing to do - conscientiously communicate - but clearly it’s not! Catherine delivered such an important message so perfectly.
@catherinemolloy1
@catherinemolloy1 Год назад
Appreciate 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️agree If it was simple communicating wouldn't still be the number 1 most needed skill !
@catherinemolloy1
@catherinemolloy1 Год назад
Yes such a little thing that makes a big difference ❤
@user-fm2yw1gd1v
@user-fm2yw1gd1v Год назад
Thank you, Catherine, for highlighting the importance of conscious communication and sharing your story and knowledge. I value your insights and appreciate you bringing awareness to such an important subject that impacts us all.
@catherinemolloy1
@catherinemolloy1 Год назад
Thank you Vikki . Yes being aware of our self talk mixed with our non verbal can make all the difference ❤.
@demipaterson
@demipaterson Год назад
Such fantastic information, I love the power of three!
@catherinemolloy1
@catherinemolloy1 Год назад
Thanks Demi ! 😊 the power of 3 The tools we've all been given!
@lanhuongnguyen9988
@lanhuongnguyen9988 10 месяцев назад
Thank you so much❤❤❤❤
@HassanYounes-official
@HassanYounes-official Год назад
Great TEDx talk...Very relevant to our times.
@catherinemolloy1
@catherinemolloy1 Год назад
Yes, when we make up stories for others, it often ends in confusion... always best to check in! 😊
@rosminazuchri9090
@rosminazuchri9090 Год назад
I am Rossy. This vidio very interesting n.helpful to learn communication in English. Thanks
@Roberto_wisdomworld
@Roberto_wisdomworld 11 месяцев назад
Amazing speech Cath ❤🙌 thank you for sharing your wisdom🙏🙏🌺💝
@catherinemolloy1
@catherinemolloy1 11 месяцев назад
Appreciate 🙏🏻
@vaibhav02
@vaibhav02 Год назад
I like the new perception towards misdirection and with a great example
@catherinemolloy1
@catherinemolloy1 Год назад
Thank you. We had a lot of issues with slides not starting, etc, but we kept going and hoping the message would come through!
@bredamccaguemotivationalsp6732
Brilliant TedX Catherine 🌟🌟🙌🙌
@catherinemolloy1
@catherinemolloy1 Год назад
Thank you x
@beverleyhenderson5956
@beverleyhenderson5956 Год назад
Amazing, thank you!!
@catherinemolloy1
@catherinemolloy1 Год назад
Glad you enjoyed! Looking for more win wins in life x
@MondayMorningActivation
@MondayMorningActivation Год назад
Great content. Always learning from your content.
@catherinemolloy1
@catherinemolloy1 Год назад
Thank you.... like is a wonderful lesson! Xxx
@hulamei3117
@hulamei3117 Год назад
Needed this !
@catherinemolloy1
@catherinemolloy1 Год назад
🙏🏻😊
@JanaSzIsBasicGlitch
@JanaSzIsBasicGlitch Месяц назад
Yep... Gonna need that one.
@moseshmoses5074
@moseshmoses5074 5 месяцев назад
thank you, I thought I was just going crazy. I've always thought of communication in the same manner. I am glad I've found this video.❤
@catherinemolloy1
@catherinemolloy1 4 месяца назад
You're so right ✅️ miscommunication does drive you crazy 🤪 😮😊... so glad it resonated x thank you for sharing.
@transelite
@transelite Год назад
love it!
@catherinemolloy1
@catherinemolloy1 Год назад
😊🙏🏻
@kirankumar-hg5fd
@kirankumar-hg5fd Год назад
Just loved it😍
@catherinemolloy1
@catherinemolloy1 Год назад
Thank you x
@prakashkumaroneworld
@prakashkumaroneworld Год назад
Catherine , this is amazing stuff. knowingly or unknowingly we are a victim of mis-communication or missing the context of conscious communication. Thank for bringing such an important aspect of daily life. I truly agree conscious communication brings domino effect and high productivity. Once again thank you.
@catherinemolloy1
@catherinemolloy1 Год назад
Appreciate 🙏🏻 thank you for taking the time to share!
@catherinemolloy1
@catherinemolloy1 9 месяцев назад
@brightsideperspectives991
@brightsideperspectives991 Год назад
“The response is everything.“
@catherinemolloy1
@catherinemolloy1 Год назад
Absolutely 😊 nailed it... reflect respond
@garybriandoherty7299
@garybriandoherty7299 Год назад
Love it
@catherinemolloy1
@catherinemolloy1 Год назад
Thank you for support.
@clementosea.8294
@clementosea.8294 10 месяцев назад
An interesting topic this is, and was well presented.
@catherinemolloy1
@catherinemolloy1 9 месяцев назад
Appreciate how easily we miscommunicate. The number one problem in all businesses and life. Just bringing some consciousness to our own language. Thank you
@antandshell
@antandshell 2 месяца назад
"Would you like to change lanes " is still a trigger. Let him drive, he doesn't want your help.
@kimanhxmt5668
@kimanhxmt5668 26 дней назад
Good share
@kimberlykane7065
@kimberlykane7065 Год назад
Like being in a bad therapy session this Ted talk
@maggiemaynard6199
@maggiemaynard6199 4 месяца назад
She's got the right ideas but could present it better. The intro story went on for too long...
@user-ng4xp2ri5s
@user-ng4xp2ri5s 6 месяцев назад
hmnnn!!! Bravo 👏🏼 @Catherine for your presentation dear., yet in my opinion, WE are Not D Same individually. 1st Some pple will spite at U or even frown when u Smile at them, some will totally decide to go opposite just Nevis they are wired that Way. U making an excuse for yr husbands inability to have communicated his concern in a more gentle ñ verbal way rather than a smack ñ also communicating certain morales to a certain demographic may turn out to be a new schooling on yr Psyche altogether Nevis of Cultural beliefs but A BIG tHANKS to U for I did Learn somethings from yr Talk maam
@LarryP248
@LarryP248 7 месяцев назад
The content here is extraordinary. Reading a book on the same subject was a transformative experience for me. "Mindful Mastery: Living Intentionally in a Chaotic World" by Kyle Ash
@catherinemolloy1
@catherinemolloy1 5 месяцев назад
That's awesome thank you for sharing. My book was traditionally published with international rights being sold to UK and they made it business book of the year in 2018. The Million Dollar Handshake. If you get a chance to read it I hope you enjoy it ! 😊
@ekene626
@ekene626 Год назад
Love the story, but why would tensing up, make someone upset.
@orvilleraposo7760
@orvilleraposo7760 7 месяцев назад
We must be aware of the unconscious, that which is outside our consciousness because unconscious thoughts emotions behaviors attitudes biases inclinations cause us to trip. We can be mindful only when we are conscious of the unconscious, that which is outside of our consciousness, all that is automatic and conditioned like our reflex actions anger and our very nature... Once we become conscious of the unconscious we can become mindful and conscious and aware.. And live deliberately.. Consciously.. Mindfully.. With awareness and translate that into conscious communication
@catherinemolloy1
@catherinemolloy1 5 месяцев назад
Wow, you nailed that ❤😊 an aussie expression 👏... you got that right !
@adnangan7639
@adnangan7639 Месяц назад
terimakasih bu atas ilmunya
@catherinemolloy1
@catherinemolloy1 Месяц назад
Thank you 🎉❤
@SumitGupta-so3jv
@SumitGupta-so3jv Год назад
Good
@catherinemolloy1
@catherinemolloy1 Год назад
Appreciate 😊
@kazukisaita8111
@kazukisaita8111 Год назад
Sorry I didn’t exactly get what she wanted to tell me because of my English, Could anyone tell me the main point of this Ted talk briefly if it’s possible 🙏 As far as I know, before taking action, people might as well think second thoughts so that we can take away the miscommunication
@catherinemolloy1
@catherinemolloy1 Год назад
Hello 👋 we react before we speak ... if we think about the action we just did ...eg the talk and me leaning back ... then used our words to match eg. Do you need to change lanes? ...Then you would decrease the amt of miscommunication you have in life. You see what we think isn't always right ! We need to be more conscious in the present . 🎁
@kazukisaita8111
@kazukisaita8111 Год назад
@@catherinemolloy1 Thank you for your help!! It’s pretty much straightforward and good examples! I truly appreciate it
@catherinemolloy1
@catherinemolloy1 Год назад
@@kazukisaita8111 miscommunication is the number one biggest problem in all businesses and housholds today . Yet the solution is simple. We need to be present /conscious of our actions and think about our responses in the moment. Thank you for your response:)
@LLMTECHSTORIES
@LLMTECHSTORIES Год назад
​@@catherinemolloy1 thank you for this video, conscious communication. How do I practice this? Should I prepare myself before hand? Or just before doing any action, think. How to put this into practice daily? 13:53
@catherinemolloy1
@catherinemolloy1 Год назад
Yes, it's about being present and conscious of our thoughts, which domino into actions and words. Sometimes, we need to explain our actions so as to not confuse the other person !
@YasminYoruba
@YasminYoruba 11 месяцев назад
I think so intellectually but I can’t say what it is I am thinking 😢
@catherinemolloy1
@catherinemolloy1 10 месяцев назад
Interesting isn't it ... One part of our commuication is just being aware of our micro expressions, and what we are thinking to help avoid miscommunication , however, you may find writing it out first will help you when delivering what it is you want to say. x
@user-dj4bx2tk4k
@user-dj4bx2tk4k 26 дней назад
bro this is literally me
@vlogons
@vlogons Год назад
how can i improve my English any body can talme. because I'm learning English language...
@smirkfanta5535
@smirkfanta5535 Год назад
1. Watch movies 2. Read books 3. PRACTICE speaking with someone And the third point is the most important
@CB19087
@CB19087 Год назад
My communication is a mess. I've used humour all my life to avoid showing up authentically. Sometimes I say things that sound abusive and I think why? Why did you say that??
@catherinemolloy1
@catherinemolloy1 Год назад
Wow that’s great that you know this ❤ first step to being more conscious and present is understanding you. I know it's not easy, but practice will get you there. Cheering you on 🎉
@1minute.everyday923
@1minute.everyday923 5 месяцев назад
JESUS LOVES YOU ALL ❤️
@ibeshkhadka
@ibeshkhadka Месяц назад
Don't just assume what they want to say from their behaviour communicate properly...!
@travisarmour8709
@travisarmour8709 5 месяцев назад
pretty basic stuff, not sure why all the praise here - are people generally this naive about this stuff?
@JeffGoldberg-bx2tv
@JeffGoldberg-bx2tv 5 месяцев назад
She just kept repeating herself for 14 minutes
@MobileZoneel
@MobileZoneel 3 месяца назад
She share her own experience with us and i think it's best ever in ted talk
@risimahlongwani1103
@risimahlongwani1103 2 месяца назад
Fr she was just yapping for the first 10mins
@CourtneyW-jr6fx
@CourtneyW-jr6fx 10 месяцев назад
In the words of the Bush famuly wouldnt be pertinent Mac
@shaileshyerekar9746
@shaileshyerekar9746 Месяц назад
Ye kaisi eng h sab mere sir ke upar se gaya😂
@gami195
@gami195 Год назад
Wasted 14 minutes of my life, not a good talk.
@creep_919
@creep_919 7 месяцев назад
Agreed.
@ottomaan1186
@ottomaan1186 Год назад
you dont need ted for whining about the personal stuff. primitive
@SJT929496
@SJT929496 Год назад
She seems like she’s in an abusive relationship if she knows her husband is mad by how hot he is. He went off on her for nothing and she blames herself which is classic victim mentality.
@catherinemolloy1
@catherinemolloy1 Год назад
Interesting point. Everyone has energy language, and not a lot of people tune into it. As an expert in the field, I read this well. Communication is the number one biggest problem on the planet. So I took this small example to show you how quickly you miscommunicate through making up incorrect stories for each other. If you can take that away maybe you can make a difference with your family friends and teams. 45% of marriages end in divorce 90% of these are registered due to miscommunication.
@GretchenV95
@GretchenV95 11 месяцев назад
Especially after that many years of marriage? Surely he’d understand her habits and body language by this point. 😅
@catherinemolloy1
@catherinemolloy1 9 месяцев назад
Now you know why there is so much miscommunication people react in a nano second before they consciously think. That is the point of this. To stop and bring more consciousness to your life. Communication is the key to business and life successes and failures!
@user-ko2tu3ss3o
@user-ko2tu3ss3o Год назад
Boring. And the cause of much 2nd hand embarrassment.
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