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That's a lovely place to spend time to remember your Dad. Mine passed away 5 years ago. Per his request, I had him cremated and combined his ashes with mom who passed 15 years prior. My wife and I chartered a boat and scattered their ashes 100 yards off shore from the Dungeness Lighthouse on the Strait of Juan de Fuca in Washington state. While giving thanks for them, two 300 meter ocean going cargo ships sailed past: the first called "Celebration" the second "North Star". I took that as a message that they're happily together again and in a better place, and while I wait to join them again one day, to keep looking up. It's amazing how often I'm just puttering around the house, missing them, and feel a "nudge" to look up and there sailing past is the North Star again. It's dark blue hull and white superstructure are distinct and fairly gleam as it sails past. I always receive that as a message of encouragement from them.
What a lovely little film. I like your honesty. Finding contentment with small things is a great thing to be able to do because they are always available to us.
This is a lovely and such a true video. I really identify with a lot that you say. I, too, love going on walks. I wish I didn't live in a place where it's usually too hot to walk, but I do. So it's wonderful to go virtually walking with you. Thank you for sharing. I'm feeling a lot more content.
Hi Lorna first time I seen your video I saw one of your videos with Jen - I was taken back by you. You are such a inspiration please follow your dream you will do it Kindest regards Paul in Kent
LondonBoatGirl, you are happy and you entertain others and make them feel good, isn’t that amazing. Efforts don’t make people happy, because all happiness is within you. You watch the world go by, but as we watch you, for us all of the world is you. Hope your wish of owning that canal home comes true even faster. Keep doing this good work. You are amazing.
Bless you for your reflections. So many of us understand and stand with you. Thank you for just being a lovely person. Being content with crosswords and audiobooks sounds good. 📖 🚣♀️ xx
You've got this Flamingo Girl. Your insight and determination are your strengths. Content to be content is more than many will ever ahieve. Sail on sweet girl x
Lorna thank you for sharing the scenery of that pleasant walk with us.That area of Britain is certainly lovely. I was sorry to hear that your Dad had passed; may he R.I.P. (My parents have been gone over 20 years and occasionaly,I still miss them -- Think that missing the people we have loved in life is normal. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us. May God bless you.
Maybe this contributes to your happyness: You are not the kind of person I might have spontanously wanted to befriend in real life. But something seemed interesting in your videos. So, I stuck here. And now, well, I know you by your channel. Not you, just what you chose/choose to tell your audience. But what I've seen, I love - and a video that simply ends in "mere" contentment actually makes me a little bit happy. And what it does to me, it will do to others, too. So, I hope your ability to make complete strangers a tiny bit happy or happier may contribute to doing the same to yourself!
I also lost my dad in 2003 - in February, three days before his birthday. The anniversary is always tough, and sometimes it seems like I am the only one who remembers. Just remember that there are people all around the world who you have never heard from, who care about you. If that is not the kind of happiness you seek, buy David some replacement shower pegs and tell him that's for the next time he misplaces them. 🙂
Wow thanks so much for sharing this walk. It jogged many a happy childhood memory of fun family picnics spent on this stretch of canal back in the mid 80's before moving to Hong Kong. -I'll definitely make the effort to visit next time I'm back!
My mum and dad were cremated at Breakspear Crematorium too. They have plaques there. It's a very peaceful spot. That was a lovely video. My best wishes to you. x
You express so many of my feelings & experiences of loneliness & lack-of-happiness too. Good idea, to focus instead on all the little things that = contentment & even momentary joy. 'Treasure-hunting' every day on my lone walks. Love & strength to you. x
Gorgeous scenery, I’m glad you enjoyed your walk and are finding contentment in the little things, that sunlight through the trees cheered me up, I’ve been feeling a bit blue recently, so thanks for that!
Lorna, Lorna, Lorna , I don't know exactly how to say this but I'll try. I've never watched a video before that's made me feel so sad. For me to say to anyone, I would like you to be happy is easy, they are only words, but I'm sure you know I mean it when I say , I want you ; to be happy. I know I can't function if I'm not happy and I don't have a clue how to advise anyone about how to achieve it. What I do know is it's not about things, like your new boat, it's just a boat, it's what you do with those things. Please don't try too hard, just ditch the things or people that make you unhappy and concentrate on all the good things you have in your life and I think you have a good few of those. So please try to keep smiling Lorna, when that new boat arrives enjoy doing what you enjoy doing with it. More importantly be good to yourself. Please take care Lorna.
Losing a parent is one of the toughest things we go through in our life. It’s 27 years since I lost my dad and 9 years since I lost my mam. Still think of both of them regularly. Was so happy this year to discover an s-vhs tape from 21 years ago of my mam just sitting, commenting on TV shows she was watching, was like time being rolled back :). Sadly don’t have an s-vhs of my dad, but I know there is video of him out there somewhere with David Attenborough at Chilingham, one day I will track it down!
Laura yourself and Dave are good fun. Keep the head up keep going. The camogie Jersey was "go maith" best of luck boat hunting. Nil aon tintean le na tintean fein." Something like that.
Such a lovely reflective video. Nicely shot, good narration. Loved it. Give Monty a scritch when you get a chance, please. He's an important part of your contentment. Hope your new boat is back on track soon. And your dream of a canal-side house is very valid and may come to pass someday. Thinking about you and Monty and sending hugs to you both. Take care of yourself, we are all backing you.
What a tranquil canal to walk along. I am so sorry things have been difficult lately. I am glad you can find some contentment. Soon you will have your boat and the flamingo of happiness just might flutter on by. Patience is hard. Patience at difficult times of the year is even harder.
Just found your channel. I appreciate the upfront honesty and openness in the beginning of the video. Wishing you peace of mind and some good luck along the way.
Happiness is a state of mind it comes from within , if you can master that the outside world doesn't matter , goodluck I hope your in a better place soon .
I recommend vaping medical cannabis, it can help with depression and also anxiety but is dependent on the strain. Worked for me much better than SSRIs but of course everyone is different. Best wishes.
Contentment is more my thing than "Happiness" I think the notion that one must be gleeful, happy or laughing is a cultural burden. That cliché "smile dear" is so irksome, Forced happiness , like with corporate meetings and exercises, is a horror, to an introvert. I think it is more important to feel content than the construct of emotive happiness. This journey with you makes me happy; I am not jumping up and down, clapping my hands and smiling or laughing or upbeat. But I too am content and at peace. I hope you find contentment in the memories of the past, even if sad or unresolved, for they are what made you
Wow, you are realy switched on to this, wish I was that good at it. I think you supposed to say something like chin up, but thats realy meaningless, so I wish you the best in your endevours.
Your not alone in your feelings, think you’ll find we all go through a point in our lives where we reevaluate what is important to us, is it our jobs, do we need a change?, are we satisfied with the way our lives are going. Think the most important thing is having the friends around us that we can talk too, like David in your case, or Shark Boy, sorry can’t remember his name, so have been referring to him as shark boy. But you get the idea. There will always be those dates when we all feel down and I’m sure your dad is proudly looking down at his daughter, at all those achievements you’ve made in your life like the football, etc… and what about the thousands of followers you have, everyday you post you bring a little bit of light into their lives, You make a difference, you matter to a lot of people in the world, it’s because of you and people like you that people like me break away from normal lives and buy Narrowboats. Your life is going through a big change, it’s normal to worry is it the right decision, your starting a new career as a boat surveyor, your having your dream boat built the way you want, this time next year you’ll be feeling amazing, settled in the new job, living at least part time on your dream boat and living the dream. Hoping you feel better soon and looking forward to the next vlog ❤
Nice to see Ukrainian flags flying from boats. #NAFO #Fellas Things won't "make you happy", only you can make you happy. Well, apart from dogs, dogs make you happy. You take it easy and remember, there are people who care about you.
