Am a woman and I can state emphatically that when we don't love you, we use you. We spend your money, we waste your time, we give you wrong impressions, just so that we can keep draining you.
I always say it's pretty simple: if a woman is uninterested, move on. That's all. Never chase or convince anyone to like you. A person either likes you or not, focus on those who do.
Thank you Jessica. My girlfriend shocked me when she said she wants us to be friends after two years. I'm so emotional and I can't believe. I have decided to move on and focus on myself and dreams. I have decided to cut contact with her and be silent. Thank you for your help 🙏🏼
She found somebody else! Most modern day women do this quite a bit! Just go on with your life and never look back, the trick is finding a woman that YOU’RE attracted to that likes you more than you like her. I say this because the object is not to play games, but to find a woman with the highest interest level possible! By doing that, you are making sure that she likes you for you and not for the wrong reasons! 😊 Peace and blessings’
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This actually helped me thank you. I was struggling with this recently, and already decided to give up on her before watching this video but it just reassured me that I was making the correct decision.
This is highly truth and can only be said here, no matter how much effort you put in relation it the person is not into it nothing will put them inn, great job always Jesi 👏🏽😊
i learnt this lesson the hard way. they just waste your time and resources until you have nothing left to give out freely and she bails completely with a bang of clear disrespect .
6:02 i agree, the irony is that she complained that her ex didnt care about her and barely communicate with her, so imagine how frustrating is the situation.. Anyway i agree so far your feedback
You're very correct, Jessica. That's exactly what I'm going through right now. I always play the Mr. Nice guy, and that has made me dirty myself the more. But guess what, a word is enough for the wise.
I have been there in my early days of dating, I dressed nice, great smile, smell good, somehow charismatic, but my problem was that I was too nice. Being nice is the absolute worst thing a man can do, to be honest be a savage.
Thank you Jessica you are so totally accurate with all you say and it's hard to accept the truth sometimes coz it hurts but I really need to save this to favourites list so I can come back and remind myself of important points,you are brilliant at this type of thing💯 please keep videos coming as we need you xx
Simple if a woman doesn't like you it is far better to chase another woman. Such Girls will never show make time for you or even give you a nice gift to enjoy. That is why you should wait for you God Given Soul Mate. And my fellow men make sure you fingers are well groomed. That is why they say women are quite difficult.
thanks Jess...my eyes have been opened since following you.Been looking for a genuine African dating specialist for so long.Funny enough i am going through the same situation today.😅 This video is god sent.100
I'm really grateful for your works, I've been learning a lot from your videos and it has helped me to know more about relationships. thank you once again
The best coach ever love it I was in this situation before, happens to me, I think I’m not the only one, but life teaches me, now I know went to 🛑 stop, and go, Jessica you are the best thank you always
Love and respect are 2 different things. You can like someone and not respect them, you can respect someone but not like them. A woman can't love you unless she respects you. As a man, you should seek respect, not love. Respect must come first. While you can't force her to love you, you can force her to respect you. Whether she likes it or not. The art of the deal is be willing to lose her, walk away and mean it
I had moved on from my girlfriend who ended the relationship with me earlier this year, it was a painful experience. We spent time not talking no nothing until of recent when she came saying that she might have made a mistake. Truth is I do live her, am working but am far away from her. And yes we are now in a long distance relationship, but I don't know why I always get tho extreme paranoia, am always suspicious, I live in fear that maybe its all fake that she's just pathetic. Why is it that ? What should be my reaction because am protecting myself I dont want to get hurt anymore
This Video is Diamond Advice for all the young men out there arguably, However Jessica OS must also bring the problems that women also face when seeking a great man out there.
Hi Jessica, really like your videos, wanted your opinion on this situation I have a older woman in my life that I used to date and then friends with benefits, have not been sexual with her for 6 months and last week she sent me a nude selfie, but when I pursed, she said I Don’t Know Any thought? Thanks. Doug
Sounds Like This Girl I use Talk To 2019 we hookup few times it’s was one sided I was doing all the the work at that time she was sleeping on floor at her very small room I brought her a bed to sleep on she she lied about being pregnant she wanted 500 dollars for the abortion I didn’t give nothing told me she couldn’t sleep on it because of the springs in the bed chase her for year on an off but 2021 I then reach out to her ask her she then told me we Never Date then Blocked Me some how i guess she unblocked me on ig I Never Looked Back I Moved On it was Tuff I Did Liked Her A lot A lot to point were I was stressing over her it was insane I’ve Learned But All that to say I Moved On Her Lost she will Never Get Another Chance will With Me Again that’s what it was I was trying to convince myself so hard to win her over But I’ve Learned that’s Not it Chasing Women Never Chase Move On Forward an Never Look Back
Your girl, as long as she acknowledges you in public as her bf, may just be reserved or conservative. The question is, was she more affectionate toward her ex? Keep in mind it could be an issue of culture, family, past rumors, or religion. Is the issue for you a lack of affection, or feeling like she is presenting as single in public, do you fear a lack of commitment?
I've been watching and learning so much from your videos all the way from Zambia 🇿🇲 What can I do she's showing interest in me and she said her relationship is complicated with her guy. I really like her
Can I ask you some what does it mean when a female say ( I tell you when to call ) or when you say to her ( I called you on she said I am really sleppy? ) I try calling her it when to voicemail all 3 number )It Saturday the weekend ! I have been is this situation be on it was like on a weekend I was calling her on the number ring on when to voicemail am just going to tell her just do you on we both grown no need for games
Jessica hello, just an Advice Twin Beautiful Angel, chasing who doesn't noticed u Jessica, so Interesting, missing u much, what up Dearest Jessica hope ur not breaking Desire,..
Before meeting Jes vl9g I think I didn't value myself that much but noe I'm on fully steroid when it comes to self love respect and worth I tolerate no nonsense I am turning into a man I always wished to N oh can you please cover out the one with modern reality of young men watching porn how it affects them
THIS video is speaking volumes to me because I was literally thinking if I was trying to hard for a girl I’ve been chasing for the past 6 months. Both my mother and best friend told me the exact same things you are. I’m going to keep my distance from her and not peruse her any further
I had this one girl who said, "People have called me two-faced." BOY OH BOY I should have believed her. Remember, believe people when they tell you who they are, the FIRST time!
