Even if I'm not as rich and attractive as him, I think he's right. Nowadays, men shouldn't chase after women. Men should chase after success and stability instead. We have a long shelf life.
thirsty online fools are why we are in this mess to begin with... when women get validation FOR FREE from these idiots it fucks up their wiring.... i agree and have known this since birth, never EVER chase women... never felt compelled to do it, but there is a caveat, i grew up being very attractive... so i do not actually know if the same stance would work for average looking guys.... i hope it does though, because age will make ALL of us very average eventually and it would suck to find out
@@Nokss87 it's not about "outliving" it's about how long we stay in our prime. Women typically fall off after their party years around mid to late twenties, while men, if they take care of their body and focus on their goals, peak in their thirties.
I feel I must say this but, that's true, THE REAL PROBLEM is..... Are you fine with literally any women chasing you?..... Ok, sure, they chase you..... But are they the type of ppl you actually like? Believe me, it might be depressing when you realize that. Yes, they chase you, but it might not be the ppl you want, so when you actually meet the person that you really want, pls don't screw it up...... Just my opinion
I love how my dad waited till I was 29 before he told me that secret. He was like. "Yeah, Rock...the men in our family...we don't chase women. They chase us..." And he was right. Every woman I've pursued ended up in failure or those women turned out to make me their adversary. But every woman I've ended up going out with, they came after me. I was the one that asked them out, but only after they approached me and made it abundantly clear that they were interested in me.
I’m on that same plane ✈️ I’m in the gym heavy and when I go in grocery stores with my arms out they be jockin. Young and old I don’t even pay them no mind but I don’t be rude at the same time I just be letting them know that I’m about business that’s it
@@banderas2000 real talk bro that’s me all day ion ever look at them I walk with my head up and I be ignoring them. If I meet a genuine one I’ll give her convo
Are you famous? No. Are you rich? No You got a six pack? Idk 6 ft tall? Maybe Attractive that they want to sit their butt on your face? You decide. Good dick? No homo.
I've been telling my friends this for the longest time lol don't chase women. Show your interest, if they don't reciprocate, move on. They'll either wonder what they missed or they'll move on too
@Nancy Mora I've seen not so decent looking men get very attractive women because they have a strong focus on bettering themselves. Masculine energy can go a long way. Sometimes a very attractive guy can't keep women because that's all they have.
@@dark_nightwing_xl2797 showing your interest means approaching them. Are you a virgin? No girl is gonna take you seriously if you don’t even have the guts to approach her. It’s literally called being a man. God people on the internet.
Attraction isn’t made it’s natural. If a woman is attracted to you, she will let you know. All you gotta go is accept the invitation. Again chemistry only happens when it’s mutual. A man never needs to chase or seduce a woman. If a woman likes you she will drop strong signs, hints, innuendos and suggestions. If none of these occur then don’t waste your time. One time I was single, lived life and went about my business, focused on self development, then out of nowhere I attracted two hot women at the exact same time. Both women made advances towards me without me having to make an effort. When a woman wants you, she will let you know that’s it. Keep living your life. Have you ever chased a cat before? Maybe right? It’s pointless because they always run away. Notice when you mind your business and one day a cat comes purring towards you, wanting your attention, wanting you to stroke it. Subconsciously the cat knows this man has high value, knows his worth and therefore seeks validation from the man. That’s power.
Worked a charm for me. I finally found a woman I adored, she's incredible. I chased her, she backed away, I essentially said "I like you, but I'm advancing with or without you." We've been married 6 years now.
@@lucas.301 I don't dislike women, but i came to a realization there's just other stuff i'd rather invest my time and energy in, which i find more interesting and more rewarding. By staying single i can pursue these interests to the fullest extent of my capability. I'm a busy guy, don't get time to feel lonely and i've never craved company for its own sake. Take care, buddy
Hahaha same here to be honest i only want ONE DECENT ONE I don't need the headaches or the drama I got better things to do in life then chase women and try to pursue something that will never come into fruitations half the time. Its like Meh...whatever got better things to do lol
Why should we care what they want? They don't love me, they love my ressources. And I don't love them, I love their bodies. Can we stop (both sexes) being hypocrites.
*"Clean up your room"* , work on yourself, build yourself up and dont give them too much attention if any, do not pursue. Build your castle 🏯 and the rest will fall in place, King. 👑
I have discovered a system that make women chase me it goes like this I approach a woman ask her how is she doing I grab her purse and start running man I never had so many women chase me my whole life
Honestly this man is just so ahead of his time. Don't chase anyone, let a partner chase you. Just socialize, and what you might find may surprise you whether that's male or female attention. If you're just your true, authentic self and you express your passions and embrace the inner power we all have to attract, you will find someone, or someone will come to you. Just be patient.
Now if everyone is to follow this advice then we're left with a crowd of people waiting for someone to talk to them but never initiating the conversation. Sad.
@MALVINDINHO Well i know girls are manupulative and some are mean they will try to get a big chunk of my wealth on divorce. I would never like that bro
Chase things that matter. Improvement, Personal growth, Knowledge, Experiences. Enrich your life. Continuously become a better person and everything will come along. Believe me.
This is good to hear, I have my life coming along with great things but there is an ex that I’m chasing. I need to let it go. What you said is what I hope to happen because I will leave her be from now onz
Nope. There are plenty of lonely hideous people in the world, and they can easily live a whole lifetime with no one trying to meet them. The dozen different dating apps pretty much established that fact.
@@TasteMyStinkholeAndLikeIt Dating apps are for people searching for love. The people focused on life are not worried about meeting their life partner.
He said it in the interview “Express your interest in the woman, and then let her chase you”. You still have to have balls to let her know your interested. He doesn’t mean to sit back on your couch and not express interest to any woman. Lol
@@IcyDNA If she is constantly chasing you, its not because of the way you talk. Perhaps that is something she likes very much, but it is not the reason for her chasing. You must have some combination of looks, status, money, and social intelligence. Ideally you have all 4, but you cant be deficient in any one.
@@paulgilbert2506 what I meant by the way I talk, is what I say to her. I relate to her. And honestly, I have all three. Women love men for how the man makes them feel. Your totally right.
I can confirm. Horses do that with new people who walk into their pasture. They’ll slowly come by to get a closer look at you. I mean as long as you’re not downright threatening.
i still remember that scene from drake and josh. when josh's mom gives advice on how to get girl's number. She said "just compliment her and then walk away".
@tom lol...kinda but not really. If you focus on your dreams and passions, you're probably not at KFC anyway...be friendly to them BUT DON'T chase...many tend to be so narcissistic about themselves they will think..."I'm cute, he has his stuff together, why isn't he chasing me? Let me shyt test him, bother him, flirt with him till I find out." No she's chasing your validation...NOT the other way around.
I remember being 10 years old watching a Leave it to Beaver rerun and saw the dad saying this same exact thing.... Don’t know why but it stuck with me and it’s never failed..
@@gogoshagara5475 a women wants stability, a provider, a man she knows that has resources to bear children with and someone who will be able to provide for those children, that's the way I look at it
@@kevindunne4271 actually it's a much better deal for men! A woman loses 'value' in the eyes of men when her beauty fades. Men have the potential to attract women for as long as they like.
The best advise my father ever said to me was: Dad "Never try to figure women out Son." Me: "Why is that Dad." Dad: Because they can't figure themselfs out son."
He's absolutely right... Me I don't chase women. Chase something that holds value like your time. How to keep your time valuable? well read aka educate yourself, be productive aka get money, stay healthy aka look presentable, value your time will eventually attract variety of women because they're going to want to be part of your time. Its only a man's choice to balance himself and his significant other.
Can confirm, never been in a relationship because I did not like the options presented to me, but acting indifferent definitely gets some women chase after you. Let them know youre single, interested in women but do not simp. Giving them the attention they always receive from literally every other man gets you no where.
Sorry I have to disagree. Sure his fame makes it "easier" for him than the average person to pull women but he's talking about how women are in general. You don't need to be famous in order for women to chase you and i'm talking from experience! Long story short: I've chased attractive girls that seemed to like me but they would play silly games. Soon as I lose interest, stop chasing and start focusing on me, them SAME women would be calling ME a lot, trying to meet up, saying shit like "How comes you don't call me anymore?" Believe me, women LOVE to think that they have so much power us, then they get humbled when they realise that we have so many other options.
If you chase women they will friendZone you. If you create a life and lifestyle that you love and are excited about and focus on your purpose in life; that trait alone will have women lining up to date you.
@@TasteMyStinkholeAndLikeIt It is partially horseshit for two reasons: 1. If you're not attractive women will simply ignore whatever it is you're doing UNLESS you become really famous and/or really rich from doing it, 2. The only types of women that chase are usually unattractive women and/or damaged women that sleep around a lot and are looking for some guy to save her from it (usually because she has kids and needs help). Guys need to face it: it all comes down to looks, money, and status. You need to be heavy on at least one of those, or you're going to get scraps and those are the women at the absolute bottom of the barrel.
That comes across as confidence. It means: “I think you look great and maybe I want you, but my life won’t end if you reject me. I can deal with it.” That’s what women look for. Confidence, centeredness and stability.
Focus on goals and career. Young women like older men for a reason. An average (or even ugly guy) with a six pack can pull women fairly easily. A guy making good money can pull women fairly easily. A guy that has focused on his communication, social skills, and humor can pull women fairly easily. Imagine if you focus on all of these elements. If younger guys spent less time on X-box and RU-vid and more on hitting the gym, working hard and improving career skills, and spending a little money taking communication classes (or cheaply finding coaching on youtube), they would be killing it.
That goes to all y'all Trump, Hillary, Pacquiao, Mayweather, McGregor, Rousey, Holm, Valentina fanboys. Also to whoever that automatically press "like" when a famous person randomly comments in the comment section on IG.
This is were non verbal communication falls into play. You have to usually make the first move with verbally or non verbally communication then you keep your distance. If interested she will give you a sign or be direct. See women communicate non verbally also so in the beginning using non verbal communication like a smile or a body language FROM A DISTANCE is key. If interested she will make advances often non verbally and expect you to do the same either verbally or non verbally
Javon Foster lmao this is deeper than it was intended to be.. You said Chase your career and financial gain and women will come after that.. 😂😂 yeah I know they'll definitely come after that.
Also Health is very important stay away from drugs and eat protein and veggies every day, remember junk food does nothing for your body,but make you look less healthy,I know I use to be a junk food fiend.
The love and support men are giving each other in this comment section is beautiful! Even the demotivated comments are getting beautiful replies! Thank you, fellow men, for giving me motivation!
He's exactly right. You never lose your cool around women and always remain calm. No matter how gorgeous she is. Confidence is key as well. Morgan Freeman is a smooth ole dude.
Fellas don't skip over the part where he says you need to have a large amount of respect for women this is an art and can't be faked and is really the take away because you'll encounter the difference in quality when you lack this respect
He’s absolutely right . Some of the best relationships I’ve had was where the women chased me . I just started a relationship with a gorgeous Iranian girl . We met on a dating app. Long story short, she was the one who showed interest first and we’ve been together ever since .
...and if you're a true aristocrat, you eventually realize how boring and meaningless that all is. But it helps to have some of those things to know. Only the insecure keep chasing things they're not certain they can have.
Absolutely this. Think about what women bring that men don't. The answer is simple: sex, hot bodies. If you want that, pay for it directly, cut to the essentials, save your time and money (whores are much less expensive than relationships) and spend them on what YOU want and don't let anyone judge you. In a relationship 90% of the time and money is spent on what madam wants and everybody knows this.
@@mgtowmaghrebin7491 agreed dude but wouldn't the person be selling his/her soul by doing that? Plus he/she would also use that as an escape from the real world so it's better to understand the reality now rather than later.
@@mawth166 You mean you're selling your soul by hiring a prostitute but you're not selling your soul by getting a bigger house and paying for dates, gifts and vacations to please a woman just to get "regular" sex from her? I don't see the difference personally.
For the people who dot understand this.. If you show your intrest in a woman without being "thirsty" and keep it moving with your life a woman looks at it as you don't need her and you have a life of your own and she'll want too know for 1 why your not drooling like everyone else (shoes your different) and 2 she's gonna wanna figure out the mystery to your life and what all goes on
@kiyonexus women always chasing money that's while no need to chasing them once you have money, I'm serving my time in my house & business ok, you may service your time underground that's your business.
@kiyonexus I don't need to smile because this picture here is 20 years plus and I don't need any women in my life. Next week Budapest holiday is waiting for me plus her.
first in his series of talks, including: "Don't stress about your finances, just use your millions of dollars to buy things." "Don't pay in restaurants, they'll invite you to eat their because you're well-known." "Don't complain, everyone is nice to you wherever you go & ask you for your autograph."
There is something more to this. When you chase a girl, you don't know if she truly loves you. It is only when she is attracted to you when you are being you, that you can begin to trust that her affection is toward you, not the things that you do for her.
@La Louloune- her being "open and kind" to you doesn't always mean that's what she is. A lot of them play that role in the beginning and then show their true colors later on. They do their damage slowly and little by little. By the time you find out what she's done (chances are you won't have any proof) it's already too late for you to do anything about it. When it comes to women, you can't trust them completely. You have to be cynical when it comes to them. Just say women are blank and fill that blank with any bad thing you could think of and you wouldn't be wrong. Even the women (including my own mother) that I do trust, so to speak, pretend to be injured just to get what they want. They're manipulative by nature, I truly believe that. They think with their feelings and are emotionally immature. Morgan Freeman's advice isn't bad or wrong either. In fact, and no offense, but your advice is the bad one. You're basically saying you should love someone just because they love you. Really? Just like that? Even if you're not in love with that person? Don't be cautious/skeptical, just go with it? Really? That's psycho talk.
Theese kind of advice are weird. I do get them, but thinking about it literally: 1)People will chase X. 2)Everbody should be X and nobody should chase. C)So, If things work out, then nobody gets chased.
@Juru Yeah, but reasoning of my comment it's exactly: You are giving an advice that if everybody were to follow it, things wouldn't work out. As I said before, I do get them, though.
Not exactly true in relationship. When it comes to relationship, men don't care how successful the woman is, just that she is not lazy, and hold a decent job! Dating sites already prove that!
Do you think it's easy becoming a rich successful actor? No he worked for that shit, and worked pretty damn hard. Stop expecting shit in life to be easy.
