That shit hit me so hard when you said you kept dealing with the same spirit in different bodies. I have had that exact same thought “the universe keep sending me the same person in different bodies”
Bro I can just recognize it, it’s like I’m supposed to fall for some girl and then she’s supposed to break my heart or some crap, like it’s written in freaking stone. But I realized the NPC pattern that’s being sent to me and I identify it instantaneously and move accordingly. Bro I’m not no BOT 😹🫵 that crap not hitting me bro I’m not catching no freaking heartbreak bruh
Im 63 and I have Never Encountered a Woman" that doesnt have Issues....There all a Mental Case... We Just need to find One With Morals... They are almost obsolete "...
Yet as men we are expected to do the work to understand women better. That, usually at the behest of …. You guessed it… women themselves. I would try more if I felt they would try and understand us a bit better…or at all. They may but in my experience it’s only been to invalidate, trivialize, and ridicule some universal traits that men possess. Some of which serve us well. Like logic, accountability, periods of silence, I could go on…
Lot's of women today never had a father growing up, hence why a lot now suffer from psychological problems. My mom was like that yet all of her girlfriends, lots of girls at my highschool were just completely nuts. A lot of them just end up thinking that all men are bad and all F up just because they never had a father figure and just manipulate and use them to their own advantage to get what they want.
Yeup it really does come down to the father relationship. The “I don’t need a man” anthem can be distilled to contempt, resentment and or hatred toward her father. Every woman I’ve dated that had daddy issues was incredibly manipulative and disrespectful.
I had a dad growing up and still have mental issues so you can’t be “fatherless activities “ to all women. Or “lots” cus a lot of us actually have had both parents and still have issues .
@@greenlybeanly2839exception not the rule. I’ve noticed that females always use the exception to justify their actions and it is downright heinous. Anyone with a good head on their shoulders notices this.
Amen if men only knew what I and other women went through when we were children and teenagers they would understand why we have mental health issues and they didn’t offer me any therapy when I was little to deal with my parents divorce and 19 years later my dad dies I had to watch my mom go through divorce with my dad and then she got married again to this man who was a Monster and so my mom got divorced again my dad was married 3 times he didn’t come back into my life until I was 15 and this was around the time my mom got married to that monster the verbal abuse that I had to deal with on a daily basis was something I wish on no one
if you even need to ask about the father, may as well turn around and forget it. To even get to the point of needing to vet the parents probabl indicates you have already detected an issue.@@andreas8201
Proverbs 6:24-26, “To keep you from the evil woman, from the smooth tongue of the adulterous woman. Do not lust in your heart after her beauty or let her captivate you with her eyes, for a prostitute can be had for a loaf of bread, but another man’s wife preys on your very life.”
They'll try an transfer their mental issues "demons" on to you. I look back on dating a narc an couldnt imagine living like that, with no self reflection at all. And its so crazy how you can get so wrapped up in trying to fix everything as the man because you know you re doing the rights things but it never lasts when it gets better lol. I use that same energy on myself now and its starting to feel good even tho my life still isnt what I want it to be yet. Everything is better, even that well deserved rest and downtown after weight training is almost euphoric. Ive dealt with a handful of women after the narc, even ran into another one. Games to the max from all of them lol even the ones I was successful with. You cant be a genuine person with them, it will drive them away to the dysfunction they are. Im over the game for the most part. Peace and progression feels good.
You are so fortunate to do so. If only I knew back then what I know now. 33 years old and at least I managed to not get rekt, but came close multiple times. Always women. They are programmed to destroy men, so it seems, in the west. Stay safe young fella. ps. you will find yourself in situations where you connect with a woman through your social network. Women have a way of making you forget that you are taking time to yourself. The attention feels great. Be extra vigilant in these times. The devil often sends agents to those on a good path.
@@M3DIT4TE “If only I knew back then what I know now” I relate to this even though I’m younger than you. Yeah I started working out at 11-12 years old but, there’s some other self improvement stuff I’ve learned recently and it’s like “Man if only I had a 10 year window of time to do this other self improvement stuff, oh wait I had that and wasted it” it’s not a good feeling to know how much potential I’ve wasted. It’s like missing an upgrade in a video game. All I can do is just move forward and put those other things I missed out on into practice from here on out. Better late than never I guess. If you could share what you wish you would’ve did back then I would appreciate the advice.
It looks like youtube may have shadowbanned my first reply. That says a lot doesn't it. I'm at 33 and I don't look back at my life as any wasted time, it was all relevant and useful to become who I am today, so neither should you. There's nothing I would change about my past. Life would have been much much easier without going through life thinking I was the problem when in fact I was being gaslight from what seemed to be every angle. Protect self. Ask important questions. Seek answers with vigor. Are you prepared to die tomorrow? If not why not? What will you think if you are immobilized on a hospital bed with 1 day to live? These are rhetorical questions. Just something to consider.
That’s how I went about it, ever since growing up into manhood my mother has teased the thought of me hooking up with some girl just so I can pass down my genes and create a family of my own to call her grandkids. But there’s no woman out there in my age demographic who holds onto those traditional values true to their heart to ever be capable of loving, just considering how poisoned our current society is the only solution is to stay poised.
As a woman who has mental issues I can assure you I never entered a relationship wanting to use or abuse my partners. I realized I’m better alone, looking to Jesus than a man and it’s been a lot of help so far I’m working on myself as a woman , not all of us do that and I wish they would & take accountability for their actions .
Every women Ive ever known has had mental issues. My mom and sister first and second. Girlfriends, wives etc..etc.. they all destroyed me, but I am still here . MGTOW
This vid hit personal Joel, there is a lot of truth in what you say. I dated a schizophrenic girl some years ago. It was an unique, revelatory experience but also a very spiritually draining one. I paid no mind to her condition at first but as time went on, it became evident she was a really unstable person. She was a very lonely person too, I was the only person she truly knew at college. She was also into substances (pills, weed) so I tried to show her a healthier lifestyle, going for walks, hitting the gym etc. In retrospect I think I was trying to change her but nearing the end of our relationship I realized I was never going to succeed. Even if you have good intentions you can never force someone to change, it has to come naturally. I cherish what I learned in those months, but I’d never date a person like that ever again.
That's very sad. But schizophrenia is a serious chemical mental illness can't be helped. Anyone can have it rich poor persons of any race socio economic status. I can understand not being able to deal with that. I'm not sure I'd be able to handle something like that in a partner no matter how much I loved them. It would also be horrible to pass such a devastating illness on to your children. I pray for healing deliverance and generational curse of breaking of such a devastating illness.
Ever get burnt so badly that you lose muscle mass? I looked sad at the end. Well sad for me at least. That only happened once. Basically changed me, I went from passing blame to being like (I know better, I am the gatekeeper). My self awareness leveled up.
They will steal your light, mojo, connection to the almighty, whatever you wanna call it. Just a piece though. It can suck getting that piece back but in doing so you become stronger, more steadfast, more discerning. @@bobc9786
Yes that's true there's real genuine mental illness and then there's emotional and psychological issues due to trauma abuse that can be helped with therapy and prayer I'm a living testimony to that.
Technically by nature the Yin is CHAOS and DARK. (Doesn’t necessarily mean “bad”) They are supposed to be disordered and without direction to a degree… but the big issue is, women disrespect men as a recreational sport these days… and we’re the Yang supposed to bring the order to their chaos, to shine a light into their world. Without that proper respect for a man’s light and order she will be lost in the world
I think women in leadership positions is detrimental to society. At least to the scale we are seeing today. They don't go through the same character development as men do. Not nearly in the same numbers. And they vote/create policies that they don't feel the consequences for. This is a huge problem that feeds the entitlement.
@@AminXLifeyeah as a man you are in the world, not of it. The world-womb-matter-maternal-matrix is feminine, equal opposite of light of the spirit. Woman ARE the world. So yes, bring the light of spirit into the world through purpose, and naturally a woman attracts to that. But it goes to say, if you put a woman and the world in general before your purpose, you lose out on both.
Your insight is incredible. I'm a woman and I certainly have dealt with my share of mental health issues but I'm consistently working on them. This video makes me feel shameful for the circumstances I went through without any choice of mine (Childhood trauma). Your words reminded me that there are insightful, self reflective men in the world and not just those who fuel a gender war to take their channel forward. Thank you for your presence in this world.
You are speaking the truth and I understand each single word that you are referring to. Your daily topics are always interesting and l really like your channel
Everything said here was spot on. She was on antidepressants and anxiety pills. She said similar things and my heart said I can help/save her. My mind knew what what was going on but my heart overrode my mind. This was last night, now💔
I give you alot of credit for being able to talk about alot of negative topics like narcissism on almost a daily basis Joel. My energy would be depleted even thinking about past experience I've been through. You're saving the inexperienced. Give you credit.
Been there bro,i dealt with her femnazi crap,depression,bi polar,self harming a bunch of times,she knew i was stable and strong emotionally,but it never helped,it nearly ruined me,luckily I ended it and got out in time,it took me 18 months to get my soul back,I genuienly wish her all the best,I'm just glad I ended it when I did,hopefully she woke up and sees the world for it really is now.good vid mate,it's going to trigger some people,but only those who are stuck in bad choices.
How long did you date her? I was with my crazy 9 months, and then I dumped her.. Luckily I didn't stay too long, and she badly wanted to get pregnant with me
WOW…as a woman, I was on the receiving end of a sociopathic narcissist. The damage he caused was extensive. And yes, it does tear you down and destroy you. You cannot FIX anyone but yourself. There is help. Dr. Les Carter, Lisa Romano, Kim Saeed, Dr. Ramani. Take care of yourself. We aren’t all users or abusers.
If it's a Cluster B, Run. Learn the signs. They literally TELL you stuff like I'm not good for you blah blah, and are full on weirdos right from the start if you are awake enough to see it.
@@AngelKrystalStar honestly, I used to date really beautiful women. Looks aren’t AS important now. That’s what got me into that mess in the first place
@@andiwithani1215 right??!!! And as a women it's masculine to care about looks too apparently 🤦 at least we intimately know "the species" to be able to stear clear
Can't get mad at yourself, that's dating chicks yo. Lol would you rather: 1. Experience all the things that you've experienced up until today? or 2. Still be a Virgin. Hmmmm?
Great video man!! I totally 💯 know what you’re talking about. I was involved in a relationship exactly as yours for 7 years & no matter how much love, attention & constantly trying to please her it was never enough & didn’t matter. She ended doing me dirty at the end and like you, there were lots of warnings around me which some I noticed but I thought I could help her which is why I stood around so long. Good luck to you and anyguy who may be going through similar situations.
I’ve gotten the Jezebel spirit a few times in different body’s and it ALWAYS started hot and ended in chaos.They will always lead you on and then turn on you out of nowhere leaving you heartbroken .
I’ve encountered 3/5 women that I’ve met who were on bipolar medication, adhd, antidepressants, and trauma. I just walk away. I always picture a pitcher of water that I carry, and when the woman has mental issues, she’ll drain my pitcher (energy) and I would have none left for myself.
Chasing my own dreams straight up, no girl. I just got done dirty too. She had mental issue diagnoses for sure. Peace out. Too bad for the next guy and she was on to that quick style.
Especially small towns like Binghamton NY where they have a lot of women and their daughters on antidepressants and then they drink on top of it,these people have hearts of ice.I learned the hard way because they could act normal in beginning,but the more you get to know them it comes out thru actions.So fellas keep them arms length until they earn it.
My ex wife is BPD (Cluster B), and she's given me grief all the time I have known her. I only finally figured out she was BPD after it was all over and then suddenly all her actions made sense. I'm not looking for another relationship at this point in my life, if I find one then I'm good, if not, I'm still good.
Also i never text with girls. I will just text " ok . See you monday " and thats it. I prefer to do everything in person. And i will judge you based on what i see in person.
One thing my best friend who has a PhD told me. We are all crazy. No one is 100%. We are all crazy in some way and I have yet to meet a man or woman in my almost 50 years on this earth who did not have some type of metal issue in one way or another. Men blaming women women blaming men but in reality everyone is screwed up and it’s the reason people keep jumping from relationship to relationship looking for this undamaged person who does not exist
So true! Same goes for man. I got done dirty with someone I didn’t even like or date.. all because this mental person is obsessed with me and I rejected him. Now I’m being stalked..pathetic man can’t take rejection.
I dated a girl who was fatherless. Her father died When she was young as he was an alcoholic.. OMG the relationship with her was chaos. 01. She had been on Anti Depressants. 02. Her body count 13 at the age of 24 03. Agressive, Combative Personality 04. Narcassisct traits 05. Lots of male friends 06. Low quality female friends 07. Drinks alcohol often 08. Was going to bars and clubs 09. Never apologized for anything 10. Several large Tattoos 11. Hated being told what to do, or a man setting boundaries 12. Lots of chit testing & manipulative behaviour. After 8 months I kicked her out of my house after she went into an agressive rage with me.. I never contacted her again. These fatherless girls are broken and crazy!
Damn I see why I left that crazy ass chick I just had alone I told her ass to delete my number and don't ever contact me again and I meant every word! She just kept trying to ease back in every few days but only wanted me to come over if she wanted something smh her father died too maybe last year and I get it I lost ppl too but she always brought it up and how she just going thru this and that smh like hell nahhhh I'm so glad I left that girl alone!!!
@@innocehnt75 Her father was an alcoholic and he died when she was young. Apparently lots of arguments in the mother/father relationship. Also there is a possibility my ex might have experienced sexual abuse when young.
These songs were written for the very woman that started women down this cold hearted road, Gloria Steinman, and the men that were around in the 60s and 70s benefited from the free sex that was given out by the women who listened to her
5.00 minutes. Yes hmmm ! At that age you thought you could fix her . But remember, the family that they have, will keep drawing them in, to this evil stuff , you just got to find someone better. And go single for a while , until you find a better person.
There are good women still and we know that. But for the women who complain on tik tok or anything like that about their relationships with men or being gaslit is a red flag. They need to just learn from mistakes instead of putting their mental issues on display for the whole world. I’ve also learned that after my last comment that I’m single by choice and if the right one comes along then may work but it’s good to work on yourself as a whole first before jumping into relationships.
I've noticed it takes a real long time for women to get over the mental programming I guess school or whatever gives them where I just cannot do anything with this person. I noticed I could relate back in elementary school age, but from there on social programming I guess is instilled into them and is detrimental to them being compatible to even engage in just conversation with atall..
Thank you for your share, one thing that resonated with me that you said was how you said that dating a girl with mental issues & taking anti depression medication will never work & that it will ruin your life is real, I too have lived it. No matter how good or confident I am or how good I am doing in my life, that will not change anything. I too am done with all that, let the noob, the fool, the simp, & the save a hoe have it, the result will 100 times out of 100 always be the same.
Hes speaking the truth. I married a covert narcissist, she destroyed my life. I paid a very heavy price both emotionally and financially. They are monsters. And now I'm 58, a broken man with most of my life behind me.
I have mental health issues I'm a lovely person but because of all the pain I been through it's been awkward between me and others but I feel scapegoated I can't handle it all to tell the truth sorry to all the people I have hurt if I did I'm nice but pain made me do it ❤❤❤
I've got to say this respectfully, chosen and anointed people need to date and marry and form business relationships with each other and going to drop another one The chosen and anointed women need to try harder to seek out and form relationships with chosen and anointed men and not just follow the crowd.
Hi Bro Your spor on in everything you say. Your only a youn man but you have been awakened, you have walked through the valley of the shadow of death and had your eyes opened. Well done 👏 for surviving and passing your knowledge to others that are going to need it, and that's for sure. I'm much older than you and I wished I had your knowledge and level headiness back in my day. I could not begin to tell you of the horrors I have been through with these women. But I kept on repeating the karmic Cycle.. untilone day I had a light bulb moment and gave myself to Our Lord I am telling you now, do not get dragged into anybody dark Webb, men included. Stay in your light, power..and pray 🙏 too God that he stays with you when you get dragged into their spiders Webb. Thank you bro. Peace&Love&Light Namaste 🙏 ♥️
I should’ve realized this when she said that “her ex hurt her so bad that she admitted herself to a mental institution” I mean grippy socks, grippy box but damn it’s not worth it when she did exactly what she said her ex did to her to me. I wonder if that story about her ex was even true
Ive been through s#t you would not believe. I was younger then. And since my mom and dad did not have a good relationship, i saw shit that should not go on. I had to make everything up myself completely separate from that BS.
Tell me about it.the woman that I'm interested in is starting to give me red flags here.im just going to feel it out and see if it's even worth my time to continue this relationship.
What a lovley crib you have. You’re so on your grind. You got it goin on man, and you’ve been taught some harsh lessons and you’ve learned a lot from that. Been coming here on and off for years. Over the whole thing, you just have a lot of good perspectives. I’d love videos on a whole range of topics cuz you have a lot to offer. Shout out and much love from England 🏴 ma man. Know your worth dood. 💪😎 I almost wish I had a homie like you. Somebody who gets it. Who learns from mistakes and just what life will throw at you.
Dammit he's right !!! It just happened to me but luckily I caught on!! Man this dude just really spoke exactly what I just went thru lol I must of told her to delete my number and and I did the same lol I had too !!! Glad I did get to actually dodge that bullet!!
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Thanks for these videos. I live alone, but I'm am thinking about dating again. Its been too long since Ive dated. I want to stay aware of the current mental health and habits of modern women. From the videos Ive watched, its far less of a risk to stay single, but I do want a family... Decisions, decisions...
I go exercise classes, group activities and solo activities good conversations help At first with a new friend ship caution I cant even tell anyone my address as live alone Some who get around normally dont have a clean image and their conversation and cheap jewellery gives them away, sometimes bad skin