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To everyone who's not aware on what's happening right now, Someone is trying to falsify me for harassing her by calling her “cute” in sky. She goes by the name Minova she's a 14 y old girl and made a post about me in her Instagram telling ppl that she, “was uncomfortable”, she made no point on telling me and instead went too social media directly.
What actually happened is that I was being friendly towards her. If Telling her that her sky kid cute and it makes her uncomfortable why didn't she say anything to me to stop giving her compliments at first. She seems to have a motive just to gain attention, and/or clout through me. I just don't want this to make people have the wrong information, or impression about me. I was just being kind.
I never seen her as anything else than a close friend to me, it breaks my heart that she would do something like this, for some possible personal gain. i just couldn't take it. I feel so betrayed, by her choices not too come to me directly and choose too make this public.
Things were sorted out yesterday and made an apology but she private it but why? And she also made a post that I blackmailed her which is not true. I just stated the fact that if she keeps doing this I'll be forced to let the ppl know what she really been doing as for I have the evidence I needed to confirm that. Everything, our conversation in discord, her apology, the original and follow up post of hers and how things ended in sky.
So, I’m sorry for all who were involved, and the girl in question, I’m sorry as well too make you feel as such. So please I’m sorry this all has happened because there’s enough toxicity in the internet let alone the world.
Here's her Instagram
/ _.minova._
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@Minguston
@Minguston 3 года назад
After reading all the comments that say I'm the bad person in this situation. I agree with them I made a mistake, a terrible one I made my friend believe that he cannot trust me anymore And worst of all, I lost a really good friend David was a really nice person, and I'm truly sorry for causing all of this trouble. This is all my fault, so blame it on me Say what you want to say to me, whatever hate you can give, because I deserve all of it for my actions. Again I'm truly sorry for anyone who was involved in this. And please don't attack anyone who's involved, because no one should be hurt except for me
@samanthawilliams6114
@samanthawilliams6114 3 года назад
Min no, don't expose yourself! You've already been through enough already, and you need a break!
@Minguston
@Minguston 3 года назад
@@samanthawilliams6114 I deserve the hate. I don't want anyone else to be hurt except for me
@thatskydavid
@thatskydavid 3 года назад
Min no please don't, this is enough alright. These people are here to try and understand your situation, it was my fault at first for not being careful with my compliments. So I'm sorry about that on my behalf 😥
@Minguston
@Minguston 3 года назад
@@thatskydavid and it's my fault for falsely accusing you for just being nice without telling you I was uncomfortable. And instead i made it public
@Minguston
@Minguston 3 года назад
@@thatskydavid I should be the one who's sorry. not you. This isn't your fault. it's mine. So i deserve the hate
@user-ng8gm9pb4v
@user-ng8gm9pb4v 3 года назад
There’s nothing wrong with saying a sky kid is cute 🤦 😩. TGC made the cosmetics very cute and I sometimes tell my friends that they look cute too.
@1mitate_
@1mitate_ 3 года назад
Same 🗿
@thatskydavid
@thatskydavid 3 года назад
Not all people get the same idea though 😥
@1mitate_
@1mitate_ 3 года назад
I did Call My Friends cute Lol
@1mitate_
@1mitate_ 3 года назад
I didnt See Any Bad Thing From "Cute"
@1mitate_
@1mitate_ 3 года назад
I love cute Things lol
@lumpystilskin5367
@lumpystilskin5367 3 года назад
Me: aww what a cute skykid~ Skykid: creep Me: wha-
@sydneyross1586
@sydneyross1586 3 года назад
Basically the entire situation in a nutshell 🤦‍♀️
@whitedeer2204
@whitedeer2204 3 года назад
i hate how ppl nowadays are so quick to make assumptions public when the smartest thing to do would be confronting the person theyre unsure about.. by doing that this whole drama would have been avoided easily xD
@lumpystilskin5367
@lumpystilskin5367 3 года назад
Social media am I right?
@sydneyross1586
@sydneyross1586 3 года назад
@@lumpystilskin5367 lol yes 😂
@sofiaa5255
@sofiaa5255 3 года назад
It was a joke, an sky avatar doesn't have age, like if he said cute to the 14 years old girl in real life that's weird but in a game where he can't even see your real self.
@edensandler5514
@edensandler5514 3 года назад
So true, I have group of 7 with very different age range like 17 19 20 22 23 26 30 and we are okay with it, as if with sky our age doesn’t matter. As long we always pay respect and common consent to each other it’s all good!
@hazelcoching7775
@hazelcoching7775 3 года назад
Now how is calling cute now become weird
@ashen3950
@ashen3950 3 года назад
People call children cute all the time, and it's because they can be when they aren't annoying. But most people that do it are just normal people and aren't weird in any way, so how does calling a 14 year old girl cute disgusting anyway
@sofiaa5255
@sofiaa5255 3 года назад
I don't know maybe for someone is kinda weird, I don't think it's weird but maybe not all the people feels confortable with it
@littlejikatuka8799
@littlejikatuka8799 3 года назад
The avatars are still called Sky KIDS tho
@noble9149
@noble9149 3 года назад
Apparently telling someone that their skykid is "cute" isn't a compliment anymore. What has happened in the world. 😔
@emesky2020
@emesky2020 3 года назад
i think the little girl is the creepy one! if one of my friends (both younger or older) are that rude when i say them cute, i don't want to be friends with them. SO TOXIC!
@noble9149
@noble9149 3 года назад
@@emesky2020 yeah. But atleast tell us when it's making them uncomfortable. Sighs
@mysryuza
@mysryuza 3 года назад
The actual creeps ruined it for all of us
@paulohatdogen8996
@paulohatdogen8996 3 года назад
I always saying to my friends that they are cute...
@paulohatdogen8996
@paulohatdogen8996 3 года назад
...Am I a creep? 🥲
@Lemon-jh6qw
@Lemon-jh6qw 3 года назад
Sky 101: You look so cute when you're asleep. Minova: Sorry, i don't like being called cute. It makes me uncomfortable. Sky 101: Oh! Sorry about that, i didn't know. I wont call you that next time. Again, I'm sorry. Minova: No its fine. Everyone makes mistakes! Man, things could've just been done differently an all this would've been avoided.
@jin8542
@jin8542 3 года назад
I feel like some people are brushing things under the rug just because she's 14 and quite young, but let this situation be a lesson for her. She was wrong to put things in public without even hearing the person out. She posted her assumptions that put David in a bad light, proceeded to back from her statement, then made another post backing away from the other statement. Emphasis on assumption, just because she never heard the guy out. I feel like this should be said, but I feel like many people are way too sensitive to compliments nowadays. Yes, trauma may play a part, but do take note that you're possibly hurting the other person as well. Then again, like this situation, David is clearly the one hurt in the situation, considering the fact that he was accused of something that he didn't do. And seeing the pinned comment, I'm glad that she's taken accountability of her actions. And for the other people out there, just because someone is young doesn't mean they are exempted from consequences, let them learn from their mistakes. There's a reason why parents scold their children when they did something wrong, it's for them to take accountability of their mistakes, learn the consequences of their mistake and learn to not make the same mistake again.
@rocketcompass7914
@rocketcompass7914 3 года назад
In fact, it is no one's fault... Don't blame yourself David. You don't really know what that girl has been through at first, you don't actually want to harm her on purpose, so it is all just a big misunderstanding... We can't blame the girl. We all don't know how much pain she has been through in her terrible experience, especially she has to face this at a young age like this. Also, it is hard for us to understand her feelings as we are not her, so we should never judge...Ah, I feel quite sad for her though... Let's all try to show more love and care to the people around us. Remember, don't judge them when you don't know what they had been through and think twice before you act, to prevent accidentally hurting others' feelings...🙏😥
@thatskydavid
@thatskydavid 3 года назад
Yeah its best that we'll learn from our mistakes, I'll be careful on giving compliments next time 😥
@user-dd8we9kv2l
@user-dd8we9kv2l 3 года назад
i’m genuinely genuinely trying to understand from her POV but we older folks can’t deny that these kind of stuffs gives us anxiety and panic now…all of sudden, casual statement has become a subject of threat/concern. If being friends with minors feels like walking on egg shells then I’m out. I’m gonna respect the minor by not engaging with them in any sort of way. Because at this point, we can’t even tell whats triggering and whats not anymore. Might as well leave them alone. Thats too much headache.
@wrbeasts9030
@wrbeasts9030 3 года назад
Man I'd be happy if someone called my poor moth with trumpet cute 😹😹
@kakomino250
@kakomino250 3 года назад
This is exactly why i rarely interact with minors (in sky or literally anywhere) a smiliar thing happened not long ago a and minor accused me of being a predator just like that and i literally almost got into huge trouble and lost my job. They did apologize to me but the mental damage that impacted me is enermous. Sad teenagers would do something like that just becasue they feel like it. You cant exchange compliments or be normal friends with them because if you are thats a red flag to them......
@thatskydavid
@thatskydavid 3 года назад
I'm so sorry to hear that from you 😥
@kakomino250
@kakomino250 3 года назад
@@thatskydavid thank you !!! Im sorry for what you went through too david!!! Please look after yourself and even take a break from all of the internet if you want....hope you feel better soon ^_^!!!!
@thatskydavid
@thatskydavid 3 года назад
Thanks so much
@Kur0mizkun
@Kur0mizkun 3 года назад
I'm so sorry that you had to go through that , it sounds horrible:(
@mysryuza
@mysryuza 3 года назад
It’s a shame that they are probably less likely to understand what it’s like to lose your job over a false accusation because they don’t have a job yet
@unfairtrade929
@unfairtrade929 3 года назад
Sheesh how is this escalated so quickly. Ur just wanted to tell her that she's cute in-game...
@thatskydavid
@thatskydavid 3 года назад
Something happened to her sister she says, we can't blame her cuz she was just being cautious but that also led to this so yeah
@unfairtrade929
@unfairtrade929 3 года назад
@@thatskydavid Well that's succ. Hope u guys still be friends and clear the misunderstandings. Also have a nice day🥂
@thatskydavid
@thatskydavid 3 года назад
I don't think we can be friends again after this
@Ghost-ih9bc
@Ghost-ih9bc 3 года назад
@@thatskydavid Thats sad, no one meant harm and it was a big misunderstanding. I hope the other person recovers and feels secure though.
@thatskydavid
@thatskydavid 3 года назад
People just have different views this is why we talk to compromise before doing anything else
@LiviaPrince
@LiviaPrince 3 года назад
I'm probably way to old to get into this conversation. BUT let's see if understand what is happening here. 1-You two became friends. She's 14, you're 18. 2-You both used to chat very casually and friendly on discord. 3-Her character went to sleep in the game. 4-You said her character looks cute when it's sleeping. 5-She made a public post about it calling you creepy. 6-Then she apologized and said she was wrong about you. 7-Then posted something else accusing you of being creepy again and saying you were blackmailing her. 8-You show in the video that you never said you were going to "Expose" her or something like that. 9-Now she's angry at you and she's leaving Instagram. Am I right? Did I miss something?
@mozzaie
@mozzaie 3 года назад
she actually said she’s leaving instagram before this video have been posted
@LiviaPrince
@LiviaPrince 3 года назад
@@mozzaie OK got it.
@LiviaPrince
@LiviaPrince 3 года назад
When I was 14, I used to get into so much drama at school! Was that good for my mental health? Absolutely not. Did I understand what I was doing when I was 14? Nope. I can't even imagine how crazy it would be if we had access to social media back then. It would have been insane! So.. Yeah... I don't condemn her for being kind of a drama queen. I don't know what is going on in her life. She's 14. That's her prerogative. Just don't use that to manipulate and try to hurt other people.
@thatskydavid
@thatskydavid 3 года назад
Stuff happens, just switch 9 and 8
@mysryuza
@mysryuza 3 года назад
Why do 14 year olds gotta be so dumb at times? Just why??
@pdot7058
@pdot7058 3 года назад
If i were you, after she apologized I would have blocked her. Taking something like this public for no reason keeps me aware of who i befriend in sky. This children are waay to quick to post anything online blaming you of something. Teens today want attention and they will do anything on their grasp to gain it. My sympathy to you and i hope you are doing well David.
@thatskydavid
@thatskydavid 3 года назад
Thanks for your support, let's hope shes ok also
@donotreadmyprofile9373
@donotreadmyprofile9373 3 года назад
I have to say she's not wrong with it if she didn't mention who because it's her opinion, but i understand how would the person who compliment them feels if she said something like that while they were hoping to make her feel good about it. There are so many perspective in this actually but it is hard to say who's right or wrong if you only see one perspective
@readercw
@readercw 3 года назад
@@donotreadmyprofile9373 It's just kind of weird how she posted it online instead of speaking to him in private, y'know?
@donotreadmyprofile9373
@donotreadmyprofile9373 3 года назад
@@readercw well yea that's true but as i said she didn't mention who and i know how does it feel while you're in the situation, some type of people posts stuff online to rant yk
@readercw
@readercw 3 года назад
@@donotreadmyprofile9373 Actually, in the post she made she showed the screenshot with his channel name on it. "Sky101" so no, people most likely knew who it was and she did technically say who it was. Also, it is very insesitive to rant about stuff like this that involve someone else ONLINE, there's thousands of people who can see it. There is no excuse for this.
@gladyslim955
@gladyslim955 3 года назад
I have frens who call me "姐姐" (meaning big sister in Chinese), "ikemen guy", "handsome dude" and some other funny names and yes I know they don't mean bad. It's fine if both parties understand and doesn't mind being called that. It's nice that both of u sorted stuff out since misunderstandings are rather unpleasant in a sense when this kind of matters are involved.
@ghost_pictures
@ghost_pictures 3 года назад
This is definitely scary. I understand it was a mistake but as someone who will turn 18 in a handful of months I would PANIC if someone ever accused me of this. It's definitely not our fault because society has done too many innocent people wrong and it's not the accusers fault either bc they're just taking precautions. I'm quite aware that most people in this game are younger then me, if they are comfortable I ask their age and tell them mine. I also always put it on their user name bc I will forget lol. I also think there's a mini problem with online dating, I see a lot of younger ppl online date and I don't really think it's a good thing. I hope this all settles and you feel better soon. -Ghost
@Birdy_noodles
@Birdy_noodles 3 года назад
I tell my Sky friends their Sky kid is cute all the time. I’m truly sorry you had to go through that! I hope everything has worked out ❤️
@thatskydavid
@thatskydavid 3 года назад
It's fine now dw
@sydneyross1586
@sydneyross1586 3 года назад
@@thatskydavid phew that’s got to be a relief 😅
@lmp3919
@lmp3919 3 года назад
I don't understand why so much panic, it's not like if u stare at her while she sleep in real life 🙄 too much drama over nothing
@thatskydavid
@thatskydavid 3 года назад
Actually i went to sleep first then she was already there when i woke up she was also sleeping.
@berbenecanto8622
@berbenecanto8622 3 года назад
I understand both sides, because I do candle runs with one kid that is 12 years old (me being 21) I am always respectful towards she. The other day a ikemen was playing with her, following her while she ran in circles with a crab in her hands. I thought it was funny until she told me that she was being uncomfortable and was shaking irl. So I told her to go home, and we did. In my side of things, it was funny, just a playfull thing, but one can't judge what does the other ones feel, and people need to understand that. I also understand the power that social media has, and its not only the reputation that is in risk, It could put irl safety in danger so, definitely you both should've talked (but I hope everything is calming now)
@aellyze
@aellyze 3 года назад
I honestly don't see anything wrong with calling someone's skykid cute, my friends do that all the time. When I saw it was a normal thing in game I started saying it to others too. Usually they react well, return the compliment or get flustered. Some feel uncomfortable but I hope they tell me so I know I've crossed boundaries I shouldn't. I don't think anyone is at fault here, you were just complimenting her, and she's very young (and with all the awful news everywhere of people exploiting minors) she panicked at the first sign of trouble. I'm glad it seems you've both worked things out and rekindled your friendship.
@thatskydavid
@thatskydavid 3 года назад
I'm sorry but i don't think i can, I already cut ties with her
@bored_teenager8959
@bored_teenager8959 3 года назад
This was a mess and I’m glad nothing serious happened. No hate to you or to her ! 💙 I am now a 18 year old and I’ve been groomed by men older than me almost my whole teen years. Being called cute on a cute game, with legit adorable characters is not grooming nor anything predatory. It happened to me too one day to meet a moth and we talked so I can help that person in game. Asked my age casually and fully freaked out when I said I was 18. It is never a bad thing to be careful online as a minor! But please, minors, do not go publicly about a person out of nothing just because they are 18 or older. Not everyone is a creep! And to be honest, a 16 year old can be just as predatory as an 18 year old (experience again)!!! You can actually ruin someone’s life snd reputation for nothing and it’s just sad… Take care online and be careful how you speak and treat others, no matter your age ! Respect needs to come both sides and please remember to be safe, but not absurd. ✨
@RaiderAvian
@RaiderAvian 3 года назад
aw geez. I hope things get sorted out with you and Min. I heard about players that do roleplay in sky ( do sometimes but never took it seriously, it is a game after all), and sometimes, things get taken out of context, or taken too far. If Min was uncomfortable, the best thing it to think thing over carefully, not emotionally, just straight facts. Then they should have came to you first to talk things out. Though given the age difference, I get how that could have been tricky to handle. I made a similar mistake of acting too quick on something, then going public with it. It was a misunderstanding and me jumping to conclusions. The reason why I am mentioning this is that the lesson I learned from that event feels relevant. Given what happened here and what could have happened if things got out of hand in a hurry. Sky is a game where the players play skykids, sure you get to change their appearance to look older, cuter, younger or whatever but that is what the game is. It is meant to allow players to communicate with each other on even grounds. You can never truly tell the person you meet is a kid in school, a university student, an adult with a successful career, a parent, a grandparent or even if they are stupidly rich or getting by day by day. As an avid player, I believe the game does not intend to, has not been or ever will cater to bad people who can prey on other players while acting like a wolf in sheep's clothing. Anyone who does that is terrible. Just terrible. Thank you Sky 101 for giving your side of the story. I have personally not heard about this happening and am glad that you were clever to provide screenshots and presented your side. In my opinion (if that matters), there was a misunderstanding. Min seems to have thought she was going to be another victim of online manipulation, but given what I see in this video (which I think shows the whole story clearly via screenshots) she jumped to conclusions and could have damaged someone's reputation. Once you put something out in public, you can't just ask people to forget it and take it all back. Owning up to any mistake made is the best step, just learn from it, and let it go. Sometimes a person would think they are the victim, other times it is the other person that is actually the one being victimised.
@thatskydavid
@thatskydavid 3 года назад
I certainly agree with this, thank you for understanding this is actually what's in the video. I actually hope she's ok now.
@seraanderson4428
@seraanderson4428 3 года назад
This is why *EVERYONE* needs to mindful, on either sides. Because, in the end of the day ...We all still a person. Unknowingly, we may hurt as much as we cared for others. 😐
@GingafreakXD
@GingafreakXD 3 года назад
I’m sorry for what’s been happening ;; sometimes online friends can get us very anxious with some of their actions and it’s heartbreaking. I hope things go well and stay safe~ ❤️
@thatskydavid
@thatskydavid 3 года назад
Thank you
@ronnie_sc
@ronnie_sc 3 года назад
That's why we need to be careful with every word we say to anyone who's underage. It's quite sad that this happened and that it was misunderstood by your "friend", honestly I believe there was nothing wrong with saying that a skykid is cute. However, it seems she simply blamed you, apologized and blamed you again. I would block ppl that act like that, sometimes kids don't understand that it's not just emotional consequences that can be caused by a simple post.
@gladiolus3181
@gladiolus3181 3 года назад
I know they said that something happened to their sister and I’m really sorry for them, but I think that going to social media and making a post was a really bad idea. If they had discussed it with you then I feel like the problem would have been solved much faster. I also think that making an apology post and then deleting it was really dumb. Good think you got screenshots of everything so you could defend yourself. Also I really can’t agree with the comment they left on your channel. It felt really fake. I understand feeling bad, but making a comment saying you deserve all the hate and that you’re a terrible person is not the right way to go. You don’t grow by saying “I’m a terrible person, you should hate me.” You grow by owning up to what you did, apologizing for what you did and then moving on from the situation. Explain the reason why you did things, but don’t use that as an excuse. Also, this is like a side note but sky kids are meant to look cute. Sky is kind of like a social sim, TGC really pushes that they want players to interact with each other. So designing sky kids to look cute makes sense as they look friendly, especially to moths. TL;DR: This whole situation would have been solved had there been communication, saying you deserve hate in an apology isn’t the way to go and sky kids are supposed to be cute
@nostalgicgirrl6053
@nostalgicgirrl6053 3 года назад
This is what happens when social media trials are normalised 💀 the young generation grows up thinking they can defame and blame anyone on insta without any proof or clarifying things. Also, this likely wouldn’t have happened if the elder kid was an 18 y/o girl.
@ourtimousaaw1278
@ourtimousaaw1278 3 года назад
just because you're 18 and talking to a 14 year old saying she's cute doesn't your the P word. Saying a person cute is a compliment and it shouldn't be a problem. The only problem is that if you are too obsessed and desperate and your actions shows that you're behaving otherwise towards minors and genuinely creepy. It's like saying when a bother compliments their younger sister saying she's pretty/cute and calling it the "in" word. People need to understand the difference between being nice with younger people and bring the p word
@15.feolinesuwangsa35
@15.feolinesuwangsa35 3 года назад
I dont want to state the obvious (such as what could've happened and such, who's right or who's wrong and stuff like that) but I just want to encourage and wishes the best for both of you I hope this misunderstanding could be an experience both of you could reflect on and move on from it. I wish for both of you could find peace soon. Dont drown for too long, talk to someone you trust if you still has a burden in your heart. Im sure that they'll help you went through this. I've read the dc chats and I see that both of you went through stuff that put you in a low state even before this misunderstanding occurs. And I really hope you could both recover, really.. 💕
@thatskydavid
@thatskydavid 3 года назад
I'm so sorry but sad to say we can't be friends after this, I already cut ties with her 😥
@15.feolinesuwangsa35
@15.feolinesuwangsa35 3 года назад
@@thatskydavid Well then I hope for the best to you
@zitro4187
@zitro4187 3 года назад
I didnt think anyone would still keep in mind the age when playing the game because anyone could just drop that as you dont really need to bother that to something like this but i guess it can be get sensitive when it comes to social media
@thatskydavid
@thatskydavid 3 года назад
People just have different views and feelings on different stuffs, talking things out would mostly lead to compromise and acceptance.
@AE0N17
@AE0N17 3 года назад
that was pretty weird of her, even though it was a pretty simple thing to worry about. I understand the fact that she was uncomfortable with what you said, but since it was something said with no intention, she should have said she didn't like it and it ended there. in my opinion it was a silly reason to have generated so much ''disorder'', something that could have ended if she called you to talk
@llllavemder
@llllavemder 3 года назад
if a minor said the same thing to a minor, would they think the same???? honestly
@cayden9317
@cayden9317 3 года назад
Isn't this dude 18, which means he isnt a minor. Unless minors are 21 and over and I'm mistaken
@shafaazizah3595
@shafaazizah3595 3 года назад
I guess no
@thatskydavid
@thatskydavid 3 года назад
It just depends on the perspective of the person, yeah this is why we need to talk things first before going to do something
@fujiko3206
@fujiko3206 3 года назад
@@cayden9317 people under the age 21 are minors in the context of alcohol etc
@atsod2041
@atsod2041 3 года назад
This just made me think of all the assumptions I made which weren't true😥 but it also gave me courage to seek truth
@Butterfly_towards_jannah
@Butterfly_towards_jannah 3 года назад
Talk to them first, if you're uncomfortable just tell them straightly.
@RavenStarrsEpicExplores
@RavenStarrsEpicExplores 3 года назад
Awww sorry you're experiencing this, me personally I wouldn't have taken it that way because some of the things these characters do are funny & cute. But I see both sides & can understand how something innocent can get a lil creepy or weird with all the trash that goes on in the real world society these days & more creeps do seem to be out in the open with this underage stuff then you normally use to hear about. Seems like you can't even enjoy gaming anymore without predators lurking so it can put some more on edge an alert that it could cause an innocent situation to be misunderstood. Maybe if this friend has had some sort of experience in the past with this it might have triggered their emotion & rash conclusion jumping. I completely agree that no one should attack this friend or assume anything because honestly we don't know this person's personal life or situations they ever faced so best thing to do is be supportive on both sides. And I think you done the right thing by bringing this to everyone's attention because you never know when another is going through the same thing & torn between not knowing what to do or how to handle or take things some one says. We as a sky community should be there for one another even if all a friend needs is just for someone to listen to them for 5 mins you never know just how much that can positively influence that friend & brighten their day because you might be the only person in their life thats ever just listened without judgment or giving rude opinions about their situation or feelings. I do not ever want anyone to feel like they have no one to talk to or listen to them I am always open & here for anyone that needs a friend or total stranger thats non-judgmental to listen to them or help with some friendly advice. I've always been told I should have been a psychiatrist or counselor because I'm a good listener I don't judge nor am I biased & I give great advice lol I've been through everything you can imagine just about so I can totally relate to most peoples situations or feelings guess thats why I've always been someone good for others to come to about things & a good mediator for couples having problems needing marriage counseling or relationship advice. My friends come to me all the time with their private life for advice & sometimes all they want is to just vent & I let them & they always leave in a better mood then before lol I also have some underage friends in sky my youngest friend is 9 he's a mess lol reminds me of my youngest daughter that just turned 11. I'm a motherly figure to my sky kids & I call them my sky children lol they know they are safe when they are with me I'm always telling them to be careful & watch out for creeps & I even tell them how adorable their characters look. The 9yr old I believe has adhd because he is wide open with his character all over the place lol so I just wait patiently for him to get distracted & fly back to me so we can move on 😅 my youngest daughter is adhd so I know the signs & how to handle rambunctious kids with nerves of steel 👁👄👁😶🤯😌 I've said this before on someone else's post a month ago about others feeling like they have no one to talk to, I'm always here for anyone & I have an email account specifically for anyone that wants it that would like to talk or just needing to vent as well as giving my friend code to add ppl in sky.. I'll put the email here if it ok & yes please if you know anyone that you wanna refer me to give them the email. If I know i have brighthend just one person's day or made them smile that brightnes my entire life because I love helping others 🥰 I apologize for the lengthy comment stay safe everyone & know that I'm a total stranger & I love you all even though I don't know you because love is the key in the end.
@thatskydavid
@thatskydavid 3 года назад
This so much, we just need to talk to understand each other and see the view of other ppl. Yes I do get this alot and this is part of becoming a mature person. Yes you may leave an email people will need your help, there's a lot of toxicity going on and some people needed a breather from all of this stuff. Its just sad to let go of something yet but we always need to learn from our past mistakes and be a better person on the next. Thanks for writing this I've read and learned something. 🌹
@meedyy99
@meedyy99 3 года назад
Honestly I think it's fine to have an age gap friendship, esp as this is just a game, but once you do establish a friendship, you should still be aware on what base it is. What's your foundation of friendship, are there rules set out, what can be seen as ambiguous or weird etc. And don't forget, communication is key
@levytate2450
@levytate2450 3 года назад
Wow. So sorry you went through this! May this be a lesson to her. Though, that comment would've made me uncomfortable too if a male friend said that to me, and I'm not 14. Bruh, you shouldn't talk about a girl or anyone sleeping in any context unless they're your s/o
@rock2946
@rock2946 3 года назад
People, communication exists. If you're uncomfortable with someone saying something, then tell THEM about it. If they continue and don't respect your boundaries, then you can call them out publicly. I swear, this is how people's lives are destroyed. Actions have consequences.
@bensmchung6677
@bensmchung6677 3 года назад
some times misunderstanding cuts off great friendships.. sigh, wish things could’ve been more easy. anyways, stay safe and hopefully things can get better
@thatskydavid
@thatskydavid 3 года назад
Thanks you too
@CharaAnimates
@CharaAnimates 3 года назад
Some times, there's a lot of thing that you or other can misunderstand, and some of them might end up causing trouble. But if you can deal with it, you might able to stay out next time. Scary part is Parents and Rule regulation, since some parents and kids in other country can misunderstand as well and might... sue you for that if you're not careful enough. I glad everything sorted out for you and your friend. Hope you can have good life and a great future. Different people has different thoughts and point of views, you just need to be yourself.
@thatskydavid
@thatskydavid 3 года назад
I get your point, I appreciate the support. I should be careful now when giving compliments cuz they might be seen as a flirt, so I'm at fault here too.
@adeaddeity7265
@adeaddeity7265 3 года назад
Sometimes I get scared of people who use (quote unquote) *flirty* emojis and all that jazz, but I never have the courage to block them because I don’t know if it’s right to block them or not. So it just have random people in my constellation
@Butterfly_towards_jannah
@Butterfly_towards_jannah 3 года назад
Tell them to stop if you're uncomfortable :)
@readycool9600
@readycool9600 3 года назад
I see both sides of your stories so I’m not picking sides. I’m a grandmother and when my youngest son was 11 he played a game (can’t remember the name) but he had made friends with what he thought was a young girl. I had taught him not to give away information about himself but he got comfortable with talking to her and told her his name and where he lived. I just happened to walk past his computer one day when he had left for ball practice and saw a conversation he was having with her. I knew right away this was no child he was talking to. I told the person not to talk to my son anymore. The next morning I walked up to him to say good morning and he was online talking to her again. She was calling me very bad names and had told him she was really 29 and was going to come and get him so that they could be good friends. She told him she could get him into wrestling.(he was really into that at that age) I called the police and it turned out this woman was 39 years old and was a predator. She was gonna come get my child! In today’s world you can’t be too friendly but you can’t be too trusting either. I know, it’s sad we can’t live in a world with no sickos but here we are. Did you guys know that 460,000 kids go missing in the United States alone every year? It’s true, Google it. It seems everything has worked out for you two and that’s good. I just felt the need to share this so you both can see why it’s not always what it seems to be. I’m raising two grandchildren now 12 & 13. They don’t play Sky but I do.😎 I’ve taught them about internet safety from the first day I let them get online. Thanks for your time guys!
@pri3166
@pri3166 3 года назад
Bro these ppl just need attention by doing such a drama on social media 🤦🤦 they think they know everything about that person without knowing I also got in the drama with my frnds before like ur in :/ and they were posting it on Social media and and being very mean
@thatskydavid
@thatskydavid 3 года назад
Drama with friends should be kept private we all know that. Its a confidential info that friends need to deal with not social media
@paulohatdogen8996
@paulohatdogen8996 3 года назад
I think this kind of things should be private. If you feel uncomfortable with your friends, tell him/her. There's Nothing wrong telling to your friends that you are not comfortable on calling you “cute”. I always calling my friend cute and they calling me a Cool guy.
@thatskydavid
@thatskydavid 3 года назад
We don't want anything or anyone to get hurt, lets just help each other especially the girl. Let's Hope shes doing Ok Here's her Instagram instagram.com/_.minova._/
@1mitate_
@1mitate_ 3 года назад
Does She See this????
@thatskydavid
@thatskydavid 3 года назад
@@1mitate_ hopefully she does
@thatskydavid
@thatskydavid 3 года назад
I heard she's quitting, I hope that won't happen
@1mitate_
@1mitate_ 3 года назад
@@thatskydavid;-;;;; oh You Two Are Besties?
@1mitate_
@1mitate_ 3 года назад
Most Of My Veteran Friends Block Me Because I just Started 2 Months ago 🤣
@mariagonzalezc.1304
@mariagonzalezc.1304 3 года назад
Al thought I understand the situation and all I also kinda hate when people just assume stuff. I think we all make mistakes but we also need a lot of determination to see the intentions of others, game or not. Idk that’s my POV at least 🤔 I hope things get normal again, I can understand how frustrated you must be ✨
@ZakkuW
@ZakkuW 3 года назад
Sky: Children of the Drama
@samanthawilliams6114
@samanthawilliams6114 3 года назад
You do make a valid argument, I must say. The kid didn't have to do what she did, because she thought she was defending herself, and others too. If I was 14 and didn't know what I was doing, I'd probably do the same. But being blamed by the internet is actually really bad, something that can ruin someone's reputation. And for her, I've known her for quite some time. I know she only ment well, because she's literally the kindest person I know. I'll try to get in contact with her and see if I can change her mind, I know that this is a big misunderstanding and I apologize on your behalf. People make mistakes, sometimes big ones, because they think they're doing the right thing. She may think her life is ruined, but not yet, she still has 1 more chance to make things right. I'll try my best to talk her into making one last apology, and hopefully things will calm down after that 💗
@thatskydavid
@thatskydavid 3 года назад
Hey, uhm if there's anyway you can contact her, let her know that it's not the end yet and there's nothing to worry about. Please take care of her, she's in pain and it's too much for a 14 y old to handle. The people understand that its just a misunderstanding and it's already done. I wish her all the best, I hope she gets to be back to herself again sooner 🌹
@samanthawilliams6114
@samanthawilliams6114 3 года назад
@@thatskydavid alright, I'll let her know!
@thatskydavid
@thatskydavid 3 года назад
Thank you 🥺
@samanthawilliams6114
@samanthawilliams6114 3 года назад
@@thatskydavid she also said something about her discord account being logged in by someone else on Instagram, so I don't really know how to contact her, so I'll do some digging.
@thatskydavid
@thatskydavid 3 года назад
Yeah one of my friends told me this, however that we can't deny if this is true or not. Regardless lets hope she still has her socials so that the people who's close to her can give her support in this time.
@jeun1448
@jeun1448 3 года назад
Girl, don't flatter yourself.
@Wisteria901
@Wisteria901 2 года назад
This is where the phrase "think before you post" comes in.
@mio_sehenomamonjy
@mio_sehenomamonjy 3 года назад
Friendships are hard to re-build after a fight like this and since they are internet friends, it'll be harder when you can't talk face to face. The fact that they met in a game doesn't make it easier as well, seeing that it might be one of the few common interest they may have. I speak from experience. I hope no one experiences similar fights about trust like this
@ryozaki96
@ryozaki96 3 года назад
I knew it.. it's just the sky community being too insecure, telling u who u can friend and who u can't.. and always talking about age.. I don't even know my friends' ages
@thatskydavid
@thatskydavid 3 года назад
Actually TGC doesn't promote sharing personal information, its up to the person to share theirs or no. There are risks yes but sharing also builds trust so its fine if someone doesn't share their age.
@fluffypineapples589
@fluffypineapples589 3 года назад
My condolences and I wish the best for you two.
@Jkidkyeto_o
@Jkidkyeto_o 3 года назад
Lol all my friends call each other’s sky kids cute. I mean we don’t even know what each other look like so it’s not something personal. Sky kids are designed looking cute in my opinion. I’ve had a person I just met say my character was cute and I told them they looked cute too. Even after finding out each other’s ages it wasn’t a big deal. Sure there are creeps out there but just one simple statement shouldn’t be reason to accuse someone without a proper basis. Anyway just be careful everyone and try to be clear with that person first if you’re not comfortable with something.😕
@carpe5432
@carpe5432 2 года назад
After this video I realized I was not really careful calling my friends "handsome, cute, badass and etc". I guess a lot depends on how we talk to people and show our personality on daily basis, so if we say things like "you are handsome, cute" it will not be taken wrong cause the other person would just know it's the way we behave and say things, and would not creep out. But still, I did not really think such an action may be an issue and be misunderstood. I will be careful and more considerate to my friends in Sky so they don't misunderstand me. Thanks for bringing up the issue.
@beyza290
@beyza290 3 года назад
I decided to ask my friends about this cute things, cuz I always saying that. İt's can be disturbing.
@porque6699
@porque6699 3 года назад
She is 14 years old, so it can’t be helped that she would react in that way and make bad decisions. I hope that she is doing better now tho and to you as well.
@thatskydavid
@thatskydavid 3 года назад
Thanks
@jerodcraig8898
@jerodcraig8898 3 года назад
People say my skykid is cute all the time. I don't take offense cuz its a fictional game and skykids have no age or gender. Also it's more of a compliment to TGC and not the person considering TGC designed all the cosmetics. The person who made the accusation is an immature child.
@donotreadmyprofile9373
@donotreadmyprofile9373 3 года назад
Well there're many views about this so the first one is -She's actually aware, maybe they didn't trust online friend that much and she's trying to warned us with good intentions lead by miss understanding between both of them. -Maybe she wanted to start a drama with him. -sky 101 didn't Really know that she's not okay with it but he's trying to get along (leads to miss understand since she didn't know what he's thinking either) Yep and that maybe the reason to this.I won't say he or she was wrong tbh
@oonami619
@oonami619 3 года назад
I hope she will understand and doing okay...I know its happening too fast.
@thatskydavid
@thatskydavid 3 года назад
Yeah pretty hard when dealing with this
@oonami619
@oonami619 3 года назад
@@thatskydavid Yeah, Thank you, David. I wish you have a great day. We love you no matter what.
@luden13
@luden13 3 года назад
Kinda sad how kindness is rare now. Can't even compliment or someone will think you're "flirting". Sorry you had to go thru this, hope you're doing alright since it seems you have issues too.
@thatskydavid
@thatskydavid 3 года назад
Thanks, be sire to support her also
@Creamccino
@Creamccino 3 года назад
Dang. I hope things get better. Stuff like that is a real downer, especially in sky where everyone is supposed to have fun. Keep making your awesome videos, we all love you 👌
@thatskydavid
@thatskydavid 3 года назад
Thank you for your support
@cinderheartmeow6032
@cinderheartmeow6032 3 года назад
Don’t worry, i’ve been on both sides of this kind of a situation. I didn’t overreact like that but it did make me uncomfortable, and I expressed that, and later made up with the other person. I knew that they were someone I could trust and I took it in a way that it wasn’t meant to be. Now that i’m 19 I run into the issue of making people uncomfortable. I don’t often ask the age of the people I meet online. If they’re children, they’ll often forget that I don’t know what their age is, and they’ll assume i’m being purposefully inappropriate (even when what i’m saying isn’t inappropriate, regardless of age). Children (especially teens) tend to be extremely reactive and unintentionally toxic. They’ll grow out of it. We were all like that at one point, weather we want to acknowledge it or not. It’s an extremely rude and toxic thing to do (especially taking it public) but we’ve all done it at some point and hopefully we’ve all grown as people from these experiences. This person should feel bad but they don’t need the pressure and anxiety that comes with the judgment of a public audience. So, to anyone else down here, I say, don’t judge this person. I remember my middle school years were chaos and full of abuse from school and home. Children hurt one another because they’re self centered and overreactive. That doesn’t make them bad people. It only means they’re immature and they’ll grow out of it eventually.
@gensationaldraws
@gensationaldraws 3 года назад
I'm sorry but I can't feasibly place the blame on a minor. She may have misinterpreted your words, but as an adult, you should be able to realise that your message could be misconstrued that way. You should have specified that her *sky kid* looked cute when asleep. Sure the screenshot was there. But without the lack of clarification I can understand the reaction she gave. At that age, I imagine many people would have reacted the same way.
@thatskydavid
@thatskydavid 3 года назад
You are not wrong about this, but she went to post when it happened and could have told me first that it's making her uncomfortable. Its also my fault for not being careful with my compliments I admit.
@rye5308
@rye5308 3 года назад
No one is blaming her tho for misunderstanding it - it's when she posted something ol that raised a flag. Sure, teens and whatnot, but you have to understand that people should not be tarnished their reputation because of it. Any youtuber, or online personalities and normal people, has the right to defend their reputation - just as she had the right to post it without clearly understanding things.. yeah? So yeah it wasn't really *all her* fault, he could've worded them better, etc, etc, but I hope she learns that not everything should be posyed online just like that. It's not just a simple 'post'. It could literally destroy lives.
@gensationaldraws
@gensationaldraws 3 года назад
@@rye5308 sure, if she were say 17. Whatever. But. The fact she's 14??? I'm sorry but nothing here is her fault. Young teenagers make impulsive decisions. I would know. I once was one. The wording in the description explicitly feels like he's blaming her. And i don't like that. ... And the fact he had to make it public as well, is not a good look. Along with the trauma of somebody closer to her experiencing something. Actually dangerous,? "Nobody is blaming her"??? "She could have just told me that she didn't like her sky kid being complimented" ... explicitly puts the responsibility onto her shoulders.
@thatskydavid
@thatskydavid 3 года назад
Hey hey I admit that I should be more careful when giving compliments, I know you're trying to defend her but try to see what would happen if people didn't know what really happened if i should say i didn't post this video? What would you think of my audience? They would think i did harass someone without any definitive evidence from and an unreliable source. It's only natural for me as a content creator to defend my self from false accusations cause it could ruin my career. Despite the fact that this is also a burden to me. From what I feel I saw her as my close friend, who would have thought that this happened.
@gensationaldraws
@gensationaldraws 3 года назад
@@thatskydavid Still. You can show you didn't Harass somebody but still take accountability. Though imho this didn't have to go public beyond her instagram followers.
@user-oh4eb6kd8n
@user-oh4eb6kd8n 3 года назад
My friend calls me cute and I'm fine with it. I wish people would stop taking this the wrong way..
@012fce8
@012fce8 3 года назад
She is a good person in my mind but she misunderstood.
@readercw
@readercw 3 года назад
I'm so glad everything is resolved already! I'm trying to understand both sides of the stories but i simply cannot look at it as Minova did and I think she was in the wrong on this one. 💭
@kippiechick9657
@kippiechick9657 3 года назад
My take on this is: Minova shouldnt get attacked by any of yall. They are a minor and felt kind of creeped out to be woken up by a message like that (I would be too). All of you are saying stuff like 'complimenting sky kid isnt allowed anymore' etc but im not sure if ya'll realize he never said "Your sky kid looks so cute when they're asleep" No, he said "you look so cute when you're asleep" Which is a really creepy message to wake up to sky related or not. I personally don't think minova should have instantly posted about it online and blocked etc but maybe communicated with David and talked it out with him " what did you mean exactly?" etc but I 100% get where Minova is coming from seeing how she said that her sister went through something similar and she was just a bit panicky and scared. And the fact shes a minor and David isn't, so receiving a message like that definitely would send at least a small shiver down your spine even if it is sky related (since the word 'skykid' wasn't really mentioned in the sentence other than a picture ig but ive mentioned this before). But either way. Minova doesn't deserve the hate, she was just scared and didn't know what to do, so she did one thing she knew she could do. Post about it online to warn others which I think is a very noble thing to do but I suggest being sure of your case before doing so because you can really damage/scar a creators career and reputation with doing sutff like this. I don't think David was in the wrong here other than being a bit harsh towards Minova (I get why though, your image was nearly scarred because of a misunderstanding) who was simply a bit scared by the words. I see David has pinned Minova's words of 'hate me, blame it all on me, its 100% my fault' etc which i find kinda :/ but thats whatever. Don't start bullying or hating on Minova because she was scared Don't start Bullying David for not wording some things correctly(?) Sorry if I mis gendered either since I did say 'he' and 'she' sometimes but thats all. Hope this made sense! and keep in mind, this is my take/view/opinion about this.
@thatskydavid
@thatskydavid 3 года назад
You're definitely right about all of this but I actually assumed that it referred to the sky kid since its there in the photo shown that she's sleeping(her sky kid), the reason i pinned it is cuz i want people to see that she already apologized and there's no point on blaming her but rather they could see her comment on the top and give support to her.
@oceanwaves489
@oceanwaves489 3 года назад
The song scares me
@TheSonofHephaestus
@TheSonofHephaestus 3 года назад
They are a kid so they just panicked. Can't judge a kid for doing what they thought was right at the time. In the end they did their best to fix everything and that's all that matters.
@Cicada11011
@Cicada11011 3 года назад
This generation is too sensitive lol… they made a whole post about someone calling a game render cute and saying they got offended by it
@isaacterry2179
@isaacterry2179 3 года назад
I have no clue about you or this channel, but i understand the full situation and although i had no involvement i feel like you should be proud of yourself David, seems like you handled and are still handling the situation so well and i do not feel as though you are at fault in any possible way so good job, i do play sky but this was interesting internet drama 😂
@dango_nyaib504
@dango_nyaib504 3 года назад
I just hope you guys can be good friends till the end, im glad you two cleared everything out ❤️
@whoami-gi9kg
@whoami-gi9kg 3 года назад
I don't like it when she said "...and other minor..." when in fact she's the only one who feels attacked :/
@kahinkazarka1940
@kahinkazarka1940 3 года назад
me and my friends call each other cute constantly because it's just a friendly thing to do, and each of us has like 10 age difference :/
@isaach165
@isaach165 3 года назад
Advantages of being solo..
@ItsEliza5
@ItsEliza5 3 года назад
I kind of understand the head space I mean most of my friends in sky are people with families and jobs and very much so not my age so it can be a little weird when they call you cute but over time I learned that 9/10 times they are just being friendly and nice what I’m trying to say is they made a mistake but they learned from it Sorry if this made no sense
@bilalhammadi465
@bilalhammadi465 3 года назад
Trying to stay safe is not a mistake. It's not ur fault @Minova or @Sky 101 - ThatSkyDavid...... it's just a misunderstanding and all clear.....and the most important thing....u seems like a great friends..... ☺️ So hope the best for u.....and everything will be ok.....
@EcstaticPanic
@EcstaticPanic 3 года назад
I didnt know about this situation mostly because of the ThatSkyFlame incident on tiktok.
@seasonof_melodies586
@seasonof_melodies586 3 года назад
There's definitely a difference between "awww cute" and thirsting after a kid But considering skykids are played by players asking someone if they're OK with stuff like that doesn't hurt
@mairenebautista8718
@mairenebautista8718 3 года назад
The only thing that would've made it wrong is if it was flirting, but i guess i understand how she reacted :v I hope everyone has a good day
@thatskydavid
@thatskydavid 3 года назад
Yeah I have to be careful when giving compliments 😥
@mairenebautista8718
@mairenebautista8718 3 года назад
@@thatskydavid mhmmm, Now please rest, i see how stressed you were about this :< please take care!
@thatskydavid
@thatskydavid 3 года назад
Thanks and Take care of yourself too
@thatskydavid
@thatskydavid 3 года назад
Thanks and Take care of yourself too
@dawnsky5643
@dawnsky5643 3 года назад
There isn’t anything wrong with being called cute, it’s just how the other person perceives it and how the other person means it. I call my friends cute all the time and they call me cute, it’s just how you see it I guess. People might see it in a different way if it’s a guy telling a girl. It isn’t wrong to tell a girl she’s cute if your a man and you see her as a friend. It’s just how the other person perceives it. But if a guy is telling a girl that he doesn’t know that she’s cute I can understand she would feel uncomfortable. Even though this isn’t the case. Again this is my opinion, and it should be fine to tell someone their Sky kid is cute. No harm intended! ❤️
@wrbeasts9030
@wrbeasts9030 3 года назад
Man if somthing like this happens when my name is mentioned their I'd be chilling slepoing irl and also in dream m8 cuz no one cares 🙃🙃🙃
@0--0--0
@0--0--0 3 года назад
Do all 14 year olds assume that if they're being complimented, they're getting hit on? Idk but if I was a toddler that wouldn't be the first thing I'd think 🤷🏻‍♀️
@argent882
@argent882 3 года назад
This is why I don't reveal my identity in the game, whether it's gender, age, or any other status
@kishinumaayumi
@kishinumaayumi 3 года назад
That's actually really good that she is careful and is standing up for minors! Don't worry about it, minova! You're doing a good thing BUT just make sure to talk it out first when u feel suspicions rather than jumping straight into making it public. You did the right thing, but was just a bit hasty. Next time if anyone ever creeps you out, if you are on friendly terms with them, talk to them about it privately. If you aren't sure their response is good enough or not, ask for a third opinion from someone you know or who is older or has more experience about this who can show you any red flags they're familiar with. Trust your gut and try your best to get that feeling out of your gut (by digging for info and communicating) privately. And if that sinking feeling still doesn't go away, then you call in someone else and if it becomes clear this person is a creep and doing something weird, you can make it public. This goes to all minors. Take care okay, in the sky community! Most are amazing people but there are a few too many weirdos and creeps around
@Chicken_master2000
@Chicken_master2000 3 года назад
As for David I have been seeing your videos for a while ! Your contents are good! Keep it up And don't get caught up in these kind of stuffs man!👍 Cheer up🎉
@s2sHoXXs2
@s2sHoXXs2 3 года назад
easy fix is using better language maybe. It does feel a bit weird to be called cute by an 18 year old as a 14 year old. But thats because the 14 year old heard "You are cute" and put themselves in the situation (which is easy to do). I think if the phrase was changed to "your sky character looks cute!" i feel like that is more friendly and puts an emphasis on the avatar rather than the person behind it.
@s2sHoXXs2
@s2sHoXXs2 3 года назад
also, I'm a 26 year old who plays sky and have met many young kids. When I find out someone I meet is young, I usually just treat them like a little sibling or like I'm a guardian figure of some kind (this is hard to explain). But basically, I don't treat them like friends my own age or closer to my age. I dont give my discord tag to anyone under 18 either (I've only given my discord to my closest sky friend who is 33). You dont have to walk on eggshells with minors in the game, just set boundaries first. Another tip is that I dont really engage first with younger friends. If they wish to find me or talk to me, they may do so on their own as to not accidentally put any sort of pressure on them to interact. I think this is also inportant to keep in mind. I realize this mentality is hard to know automatically at the age of 18, which is why I want to share this with you.
@s2sHoXXs2
@s2sHoXXs2 3 года назад
Oh and one last thing, I hope Min can heal from this. I wish nothing but growth and peace for them. And if you would like a conversation and would like to ask more questions about this kind of thing and would like more advice for future reference, I wouldn't mind at all to help or chat. I feel like if I knew at 18 what I knew now, I would feel a lot less lost and confused with how I'm supposed to adjust to not being a child anymore.
@jeonghansyndrome
@jeonghansyndrome 3 года назад
if you feel on edge and having trust issues when playing a game then don't play, or just play solo 👁️💧👄💧👁️ i think she's been feeling on edge for awhile, so that message was like a "final strike" for her to voice her opinion to the public. tbh it's sad that she couldn't communicate with that person first if she feels uncomfortable, rather than spreading it directly to public. it's better to have a proper conversation and tell the other person whenever u feel conflicted or uncomfortable, especially if that other person is your friend 🥺 if they're your friend, they'll understand and will appreciate your feelings. i hope each side can learn from this situation, and will grow to be a better person. there's nothing wrong doing something wrong, as long we learn from it
@dead_q7147
@dead_q7147 3 года назад
Bruh what’s wrong with saying you’re cute 💀 When someone says my sky kid looks cute I give them the same vibe and the compliments never end..👀
@novaq7403
@novaq7403 3 года назад
You arent really in the wrong, im sorry this happened to you
@thatskydavid
@thatskydavid 3 года назад
I think im wrong for not being careful when giving my compliments, but I appreciate your support
@yuriyoyo7806
@yuriyoyo7806 3 года назад
Uhh what?? As a sky kid sky kids are cute like they are supposed to be.They weren’t calling the person cute as they probably don’t even know what they look like they were calling the LITERAL AVATAR cute
@anavia5074
@anavia5074 3 года назад
Huh? I always tell my friends they are cute too.. They know i meant tht as in the sky kids they have.. Imagine if this is in twitter. As a stranger's view, i think the girl are really work up abt it and made it a big deal. She could ask you what u really mean by tht before 'exposing' you. But as the comments below are saying, we dont know what she have been thru so i agree with them too Also, you can say 'your sky kid is cute' nxt time in case some more people will misunderstood tht sentence. Jst an opinion. I hope ur friendship got mended someday! And i also hope she doesnt get tht much hate too..hope tht for the both of you.
@mags6201
@mags6201 3 года назад
I understand her reaction. Predators are still something to be careful about. But i think rather than instantly making it public, she could have confronted you. From what it seemed, she posted and then talked with you about it. I dont think the blame lies with either of you. She was good if there really was a predator in that situation then it's good she raised awareness. But you meant no harm. So there cant be anyone to blame in this situation. It's a shame that children have to constantly be careful of stuff like this thag actually does happen. Sometimes they think they can trust someone but then they can't. Games like sky are supposed to be relaxing and enjoyable but when bad people get into it, it just doesnt feel as safe. I hope you both are doing well
@amaya4027
@amaya4027 3 года назад
Me who only had minimal contact with other skykids for weeks, and literally feels like coming out from a cave= what happened :0 Also me after watching the video, who I myself often send pics to people who have fallen asleep in game to themselves= D:
@w0ry035
@w0ry035 3 года назад
This is just the pettiest and stupidest thing I've ever heard happen over a videogame ahahagah imagine being creeped out to the bones just because your friend took a screenshot in-game of you sleeping and called you cute xD so ridiculous
@pompocha
@pompocha 3 года назад
Is normal this situation is going bad, is a little girl is scary, she dont have to be hated but she have to understand to dont do it that again, is important talk with the people, be your friend or not. I told a lot of people hehe, they are cute, and they call me cute or my wife 😂 im girl btw and is like joke of us my sky family me and my husband
@012fce8
@012fce8 3 года назад
She is a good person in my mind.
@thatskydavid
@thatskydavid 3 года назад
Mhm she's just misunderstood, lets hope she's doing ok
@ewnard2005
@ewnard2005 3 года назад
This whole thing was kind of made weirder than if it was just let go
@booba2632
@booba2632 3 года назад
Whaa Why they’re so serious?? U just being sweet as always, there’s nothing wrong to call them cute or anything. It’s a game to enjoy with friends y’all don’t take everything seriously ;)
@thatskydavid
@thatskydavid 3 года назад
Her sister went through something and she got cautious about it. We can't blame her for this.
@konigsblau2325
@konigsblau2325 3 года назад
So dramatic... She may had bad experience before but this is not an excuse She should have communicated with you before doing that ✨toxic✨ 🦀 And think before posting something. Every post has a responsibility and the Internet doesn't care how old you are. You need to be careful and educated before being able to use Socialmedia properly. That's why it is not allowed for 6 year old kids 🧏‍♀️
@thatskydavid
@thatskydavid 3 года назад
Yes something happened to her sister mhm, so she was being cautious but she went to the social media straight and caused this, it must be hard for her
@konigsblau2325
@konigsblau2325 3 года назад
Well something creepy did happen to me but first I waited till it was obvious and the I talked to the Person that I dont like it and if they started to be respectless I told them I block them and then I did
@thatskydavid
@thatskydavid 3 года назад
I'm sorry to hear that, I'm glad you're ok now
@konigsblau2325
@konigsblau2325 3 года назад
And the I posted something about it without pointing on someone. Bcs that's so disrespectful and mean! I mean you have a community to carry! That's just not fair but don't worry I don't attack teens bcs all my sisters are the same like her so I understand 😒
@thatskydavid
@thatskydavid 3 года назад
Yeah smh, we just need to grow ya know.
@anxia-tea5846
@anxia-tea5846 3 года назад
I tried doing chinese lessons but then I lost motivation
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