Tik Tokers Alex and Kouvr had their wedding this past weekend and influencer Lilah Gibney is in trouble after vlogging their entire wedding... [CREDITS] [Music] www.purple-plan... [Music] Kevin Macleod
It really echos Jeffree Star bringing up BLM when he was called out. Yes you are bringing up something important but I am capable of caring about multiple things at once. You need to actually apologize for your behavior first
@@Turbendido Exactly. It's deflection away from their bad behavior. I think a good majority of us care deeply about anti-trans legislation and are doing our part but that wasn't the topic of the video and her making it so was really disingenuous. How hard is it to just say "I'm so sorry," and leave it at that. No fumbling through a list of excuses and emotional deflection. Nah, not cool.
@@Barbs_Collectibles Your comment added nothing to this conversation. Clearly, you just commented to misgender her for attention. Ridiculous behaviour.
her response video is so disingenuous… it’s not even an apology it’s just barely addressing it. always a red flag if they start with “sorry if i offended anyone” . also pointing out that the bride and groom didn’t reach out to her personally, she didn’t even give them that courtesy idk why she expects it back 😭😭😭
She is so cringy. She knows baby and wedding videos pull in tons of views and she jumped right on that to capitalize. Her apology video was pretty much “sorry not sorry”.
*_Most of us know about stuff like this. It should be common sense. We have “manners”. But I think by how detached she is? In her world it was a mistake. She’s that clueless._*
I hate when people apologize with "I'm sorry YOU felt that way", bc thats not an apology. I also hate that she said "why are you mad at me when you should be mad about anti-trans laws being passed" As if what you did wasn't wrong to. That's like saying "Oh why are you happy, that person is happier" 🤨
It's like saying, how can you hold me accountable when climate change is killing our planet. That person can not read the room at all. She had no right to do this.
why is she making such a huge deal over driving 3 hours when kouvr was born in hawaii... like they couldve just easily had it there instead but tried to make it convenient..
Also, because deep down, she wasn't really there for the couple. You don't complain about the time travel if you truly want to be there for your friends. Complaining means you basically see going there as a chore or a job you have to in fear of missing out.
From her apology, all I hear was “me”, “I”. She’s so self absorbed it’s INSANE. And who cares how long you travelled for? It’s for a WEDDING. Jesus Christ
Alex & Kouvr have EVERY right to be upset. When you're invited to someone else's wedding, the number one rule is to respect the bride and groom's wishes, and it shows a lot about her massive ego that she made their wedding all about her.
I traveled across the country for my sister's wedding and I would never have posted anything that she didn't want me to and that girl straight up lied about no signs saying that it was an unplugged wedding. Like why would they lie about that? They wouldn't. She is clearly lying and has no shame at all.
I cant stand when people get caught doing something bad and then whip out the "there's way worse things going on in the world right now" excuse. I'm tuning that out immediately and not trusting anything else they say after that
I’m trans, and I felt so icky about her bringing up anti trans bills when she’s talking about how she fucked up. Like yeah, obviously that’s a huge problem, but that doesn’t negate the fact that you were super disrespectful to the bride and groom. Idk, made me feel weird.
Same, as a trans person it doesn’t give us the right to use that as a shield for things we’ve done. It was so tacky and it just gives another reason for people to see Trans People as the “problem”
I hate when people say oh you can't call me out for shitty behavior because there are people dying and suffering in the world. Two things can be true at the same time, you can be a shitty person and bad things are happening in the world, doesn't mean we can't call you out
Imagine receiving an invitation to a wedding and not actually reading it, imagine arriving to said wedding and not reading the signs around the venue, imagine not reading the room and vibes from everyone else and then blaming it on "vlogging is my way of showing love" 🙄
What happened to inviting your loved ones to your wedding? The people who appreciate you both as a couple? I think we lost the plot. Inviting people like this, it’s bound to happen. 🤷🏻♀️
@@candy2325 I don't really see the issue. It might not be as common in the west, but in basically the entire contintent of Asia, many cultures have always had huge weddings with plenty of people who you've literally never even met. In West Asian and South Asia especially, people often invite friends, neighbours, family you've never met etc. They just enjoy the idea of sharing this special once in a lifetime day, with whomever they can. Acquaintances is not weird AT ALL. It is also similar to invite coworkers to your wedding, it is common to do so, even if you arent close to them. Being an influencer is their job, so inviting people in that field makes sense. Personally as a West Asian, who has seen plenty of brides greeting strangers at their own wedding, I don't see why people are judging this. Unless they harmed someone in the process, which they didnt lmao. Personally i would only invite close friends, but some people like to have big weddings and share the joy of their day, they seem the same.
everyone seemed to appreciate them as a couple EXCEPT for her . the issue isn’t who was invited the issue is her for not respecting a simple wish from the bride and groom and making excuses for it instead of being an mature adult
My MIL posted just a picture of me and my husband from our wedding day before we could and I'll tell you I was absolutely devastated. I didn't even want to post any of my own pictures after she did that. I couldn't imagine if my MIL posted a whole vlog of MY WEDDING! I just can't believe it's not COMMON SENSE to not post somebody else's moments
i had an unplugged wedding too and would have been absolutely pissed if my guests broke that rule. that’s so disrespectful girl just put your phone away and celebrate your friends ffs
Not only did she break the rule by vlogging the whole thing, she posted it before they did and made money from it. That is why she did it and that is why she refuses to take actual accountability.
Honestly it's why I'm not shocked while also somehow more appalled, like not shocking in the sense that influencers tend to film even when unnecessary but shocking in the fact these people film every part of their lives and *still* want this to remain intimate and only bits broadcasted. I love unplugged weddings, it's how they should be.
Putting it up the very next day is CRAZY…. I have seen other RU-vidrs post a sort of vlog as an experience. It wasn’t them talking, mostly the get ready, and short clips of the actual wedding. But it was weeks after the wedding and it wasn’t a “unplugged” wedding. Girly, you were warned multiple times… and you rushed to post it the day after…. The intentions are very clear
Tana will cut off a friend for being rude at a wedding, but not a friend that solicited sexual images from minors lmao *cough* James *cough* Edit: this was supposed to be a joke. I just don’t get how she could publicly state that she can’t be friends with Lilah because of xyz. But then also says that she can be civil with James/friendly with him (I.e. participating in his brands PR video) even though he has committed felonies against minors. It’s just hypocritical in my opinion.
Gaslighting 101: "Im so sorry you feel some type of way about something crappy I did. But you should really be upset about this thing over here (instert random non related topic such as anti trans laws), that someone else did and stop focusing on me." 🤦♀️🙄
I think her views are so out of touch with reality that she genuinely has no idea what’s going on around her unless it’s about her, common narcissistic characteristics and I’m 99.8% all influencers are in this realm of skewed reality
I think bridesmaids or official people saying 'yes' to post i think they meant a small selfie, or something soooo tiny, not a four part series about a wedding that wasn't yours babbbeee so gross.
Lilah saying there were no signs or no rule book to influencer weddings is crazy bc she acts like she follows rules. Same person that smoked on a plane and gaslight Tana after getting caught…. BFFR
the fact that she pulled the antitrans laws out during an apology video made it sound like people should be mad at something else and was basically downplaying the issue.
“My love language is creating content” 😂 Got it, so basically ignoring people’s wishes and doing something completely against their request in their own sacred moment shared with family and friends is what you do? Absolute mental case.
If she really was the one who caught the bouquet, I would be so furious for the bride. Imagine your wedding bouquet is in the posession of someone showed they have 0 care for you...
I hate the “I’m sorry if you feel this way” non apologies. How about “I’m sorry I violated the trust of two people I care about. I know it was disrespectful and hurt their feelings. I can’t change the things I’ve done but if you give me the opportunity to make amends, I promise I’ll do better. & if you can’t find it in your heart to allow me in your lives again, I understand why and I’ll still try to be better. I’m sorry.”
ive been following kouvr and alex for a while , and im a fan of alex's music too. i seriously want the best for them, so this situation pissed me off even more 😅😅😅😅😅 like it is not hard to just enjoy your friend's wedding, especially when its been such a long wait for this wedding specifically. theyve literally been talking about marriage for YEARS, so the fact a friend took all of that and ruined it without hesitation or regret really ticked me off.
of course it was Lilah "shocker" she is so problematic and that was disrespectful to the bride and groom to disregard their wishes I'd never invite her to anything ever again tbh
Not realizing it was unplugged or lying about not knowing is so and doing all of this and posting so quickly is so chronically online. And then blaming other people for not caring enough about other actual bad things in the world??? Wow... she loves herself a lot
I get it but what does trans law has to do with the fact that you posted videos about a wedding when you weren't supposed to and directing the blame to the married couple?...
"I'm sorry IF I offended anyone" and "I'm sorry YOU feel that way" both belong to the category of, this is me shifting the blame onto you for feeling validly upset/hurt/offended for something I did that I don't feel sorry for. Hard to get more disingenuous than that imo 😐🙄
I hate when people say “that’s not why I intended” or “I had good intentions” you don’t have to intend to do bad to do bad. The road to hell is paved with good intentions
she goes to say how the wedding was beautiful and she's there to celebrate it but then calls it "random" at the end. never seen someone so entitled and self centered
There's a huge difference between guests CAPTURING personal moments to keep as memories and POSTING said footage in exchange for money. How is Lilah creating content of Alex and Kouvr's wedding "showing love and affection" for them if SHE'S the one getting paid for the post? She should give any money she made from the post (whether from YT, Tiktok, etc.) to Alex and Kouvr as a wedding gift.
Noooo ma'am. That's straight up manipulation right there. "Oh what I did wasn't THAT bad compared to these other absolutely abhorrent things that are happening too!" Ma'am, we can worry about all kinds of things at the same time...
