After a few dates with a real high-quality man, I was at his place for a nightcap. I looked at my watch and told him it was time for me to go. He said, “Well, you are welcome to spend the night here - but I don’t suppose it would be polite to ask.” I turned to him, smiled, thanked him for a lovely evening, and replied - “No, it wouldn’t be.” I gave him a quick kiss on his cheek and left. We were married 18 months later. 👍🥰🙋♀️🇺🇸🌹
The best way to challenge someone it’s just focus on yourself what’s for you will always come to you. Too many times as women we put ourselves this side for men. Focus on you, your goals and bettering you see how much more attractive you become. Confidence is attractive. Be a better you
"I suffered a lot due to my relationship. I always tried to be a kind and good person, but he treated me poorly, cheated on me, and left. It took a long time to heal and return to a normal life. It wasn't easy. I appreciate your work and thank you so much for your advice."❤
i met a super successful guy about my age (32) , im talkin multi millionaire successful.. he constantly has younger 20 year old girls chasing him around because he has exotic cars, diamonds, modern houses and he thinks thats how it should be when the girl likes him.. but with me i never acted like that, i was chill i showed him i like him but i wasnt chasing him and his money.. so he thought i didnt like him that much but i do like him a lot and i wish he would just date me but i am feminine and i feel like its his job as a man to make me his girl and chase me.. i feel like with rich guys its so different.
In my experience rich guys love chasing the most! If you're the prize all their friends want. They want to 'win' you & be the alpha among his friends...but we do have to give them hints they might have a chance only with them
@@bluelikebluezone Since wealthy men have plenty of options, they will only pursue women that are high quality, or separate themselves from the rest. If you desire a high quality man, you should be a high quality woman yourself.
Exactly what is happening to me now..he is used to women fluxing around him chasing him. When he started talking to me at first he got me by giving me a task to wake him up in the morning when am awake because he New that I didn't careless about him.. though I like him a lot and all so which he will just make us official. When I start listening to coach Alex... especially push and pull techniques we go no contact for some weeks to months, this hurts him and he couldn't help but to purposely pin point me in the church and then we sorted out the issue. Now we're still friends he called me and I do the same.the issues now is that he started saying that he is in love with someone and the person refusing loving him back... which I know ironically he's talking about me...I never respond to any of this because I don't really know what to say and how to say it since he hasn't been open on what he really wants from me.. Should I talk to him about it or just leave things the way it is... please I need encouraging words
As long as you are willing to be a "Queen" yourself, you are absolutely entitled to a "King". Otherwise you have unrealistic standards and expectations, that obviously any high quality individual will reject for the better or worse(regardless of gender).
Your absolutely right all the guys I didn’t like I ended up married or long term relationship with because my attraction for them was low and so they did so much to get me. The ones I like I never end up with im watching this because I really like this guy but I did things backward and he’s gotten distant
So so so True 🥰 Alex 🥰 ♥️🌹 One Hundred Percent 👍🥰 , don't buy or give men much. . . More than buy them a coffee on His birthday , unless he bought you a stunning gift for your birthday 🥳🥰 (I think) don't reward him for no commitment and or not doing the things for you that are your currency
I definitely agree with you, although once a man has shown his commitment you should absolutely reciprocate as much as possible to keep him interested. Otherwise this will result in an "one-dimensional" relationship that will fulfill no one.
I would never leave this community i love getting the advice i didn’t receive growing up and this has really helped me and will continue to help me! Thank you Alex ❤
So well said Alex, the guy I am not interested in it's easy but who that makes my heart melt I am almost vulnerable and feel he takes time to pursue, that I prolly come across as easy to get 😮
I just discovered you my friend. I’m listening. You remind me of a favorite, “Mr. Montreal”, you are damned good. Grateful. Alex. An interesting perspective
Thank you Alex! I understood that to become a challenge we should focus on ourselves not on him. Could you describe the concept of reversed psychology in a few words?
I like your answer and also the advice here to focus on self. My first response to the man would be, "no way." My next words would be, "you are a skank, the opposite of what i want, which is a prince." I would say it in the nicest way possible, but definitely, so he'll know I mean it. It's sort of the same thing you're saying but I'm letting him know I'm the ultimate challenge. I don't tolerate any disrespect. When a man has proven himself to me totally to be my prince, and put the wedding ring on my finger, then maybe i will let him call the shots, not before. I know my way is not popular but it's my way. I don’t want a man, i want my prince and will take nothing less. This really weeds out the players, separates the men from the boys. I know there is one man who will accept my challenge, the right man. A woman can't change a man, nobody can. But a man can change if he wants to, if he has a compelling reason to change. And i don't go to bars. Women today have not been brought up to understand what women understood in the past. We are all animals. Look at any animal in nature. In every species, the males pursue, fight over, woo the females. The females just go about their lives and either reject or accept a male if he impresses her sufficiently. There are no exceptions to this rule in nature. So ladies, take your cue from nature.
"do you think its ok if i ask u to come (to my place) to see me tonight?". My response- "i have sympathy towards you too . And i think it will be ok if you ask me for a walk or for a visit to a cinema and we can decide on the day and time :) " This is typical me with men :) if he would say something like "noo, i would still like you at my place" or anything similar- i would say- well, apparently someone has a lack of patience :D i would start making fun but gently and politely :D
I can't believe Im up at 2 am trying to figure out how to make him interested in me. Im not boring. I know I feed him more conversations to talk about other than sex, so why am I trying to change his mind if I'm just for sex. I guess i just cant figure his out. Is he anxious avoidant? Warming up with a high sex drive. This is maddening and I don't think it's right for me to want to do the chasing. He came on with such a strong game now.. POOF! Getting mixed up signals by a high-school friend. This dating thing is frustrating.
Hi there! I'm sorry to hear what you're going through! I know Coach Alex would love to help you with this, I would highly suggest you book a coaching call with him so he can know your situation a little more and help you through this. If you would like to check out more information on our coaching sessions, I would highly suggest you use this link: www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/ -FRE Team
I met met a guy went in 2 dates after that he went quiet few days later he texted me saying he was quite because he lose his job and was disturbed about it.he came back around and we would communicate but now his quiet again but is constantly checking my status.what should I do?
I would say - Well - that's certainly something to think about. And you can ask whatever you want and be fully yourself - my true-to-myself answer to that offer is - No thank you - I am not there yet - (winky face and polite kiss emoji) - Have a wonderful night. And then don't respond to any of his texts that aren't a better offer than that. Actually - I might hold out for a call to invite me for a better offer to be honest after trying to rush intimacy. What do you think? Better offer text or wait for the call? Hmmmmm....
Exactly what is happening to me now.. this guy is used to women fluxing around him chasing him. When he started talking to me at first he got me by giving me a task to wake him up in the morning when am awake because he New that I didn't careless about him.. though I like him a lot and all so which he will just make us official. When I start listening to coach Alex... especially push and pull techniques we go no contact for some weeks to months, this hurts him and he couldn't help but to purposely pin point me in the church and then we sorted out the issue. Now we're still friends he called me and I do the same.the issues now is that he started saying that he is in love with someone and the person refusing loving him back... which I know ironically he's talking about me...I never respond to any of this because I don't really know what to say and how to say it since he hasn't been open on what he really wants from me.. Should I talk to him about it or just leave things the way it is... please I need encouraging words
Hi there, I know Coach Alex would love to help you with this but he would need to learn a little more about what you're going through in order to help you through this. I would highly advice you book a coaching session with him by using this link: www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/ -FRE Team
well, I did decline the forst 2 invites, we had nice dates so third attempt i went along.... anyhow 1 week after and no concrete evolution although expressing how attracted he is to me.... I am puzzled. I think i did it all right
How about my friend ,we met may this year and we keep texting and he told me I miss you and i would like to go out with you to eat in the restaurant.😂pls help me out😊
thank you for this video.. it’s my first time on your channel.. subscribed🎉 What if it’s a distant relationship and he ask you to come over.. with the excuse that you coming would be cheaper cos he is not buoyant enough for the mean time.
Question: when should I suggest the 2nd place to go on the date? After we've akready finished eating at the restaurant he suggested? Or when planning the date?
Coach Alex,.my ex tell me he doesn't want to be in relationship with me, but he ask if I was seeing another man. And I really don't know how to respond to his message. Pls guide me.
Coach Alex,,,,my ex tell me that he doesn't want a commitment with me, but he just ask me if l'm seeing another man & I really don't know how to respond to that text message. Pls guide me
Say yes make him see what his missing,then if he says why say we’ll you don’t want a relationship so of course I’m seeing other guys I’m looking for the one 🙏🏼
Challenge response to him I should ??? Say : This is not what a gentleman will do . After dinner let’s do what I want then tell him… Omg I would love to go get something like some icecream. Break the date by doing something you decide to do ??? Is this what I should do to regain control??
Alex,what would a woman do with a man ,married to for 20 odd yrs. Running off to be with younger women .having fun adventures, leaving you high and dry.if,you still love that man and do not want to split after all those yrs the woman put In .Never been or looked at another man.what does such a woman do,when told about it and especially if this is done when he is going overseas on trips.etc.by himself.Please yr expert advise is needed.
I'm so sorry to hear this! If you would like to book a one on one coaching session with me so we can work through this, please use this link to find more information on my coaching sessions! www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
My response would be, i would really love to meet you, however i had a busy day at work and so tired, how about we meet tomorrow for lunch, and you can come pick me up😉
But is this not just pretending? If I had a truly busy week and tired I understand but if it's just saying it for the sake of saying isn't this not playing games too?
Dude, listened to your video for 20 minutes on your website. Before you fish for a fish, you give them a worm, not a boring story about Sara. It’s like buying a needle in a haystack. How would I know it wouldn’t be a repetition of Sara’s story that would “lure” me to get more expensive program. So disappointing.
