The ONLY way to make him miss you! 

Guys miss us when they don't hear from us. Okaaaay but I don't miss him when I don't hear from him. I detach. My feelings go cold, then dead.

The moment that I realized that I'm getting ugly because of stress for over thinking I definitely 🏃

So true! 10 months no contact rule I let him feel that he wasn't good enough for me and he came back this Christmas but right now he needs to start from step 1 and he needs to earn it. Thanku Coaches!

I do this naturally with guys I don't like and they always miss and chase me but I do the opposite with men I do like and they always run! Thanks for this video, it really solidified it for me

I AM THE PRIZE ! I AM THE QUEEN. Ignore him a lot. Works like a charm. Men are so crazy this way.

I AM THE PRIZE!! I broke up with him first, 6 days later I asked to meet up again and talk things out. It was at that moment I thought we could try again. He straight up said no. I’m a highly sensitive person, and I was codependent in this relationship (big mistake). But I never lowered my value for him, my standards were always high and he knew it. Yet he still walked away. In the end I just hugged and said “this is for the best, and I won’t forget you”. 3 weeks passed. No sign of contact. And honestly I realized him coming back won’t change a thing. Won’t take away what he caused. This is for me. I’m moving on.

“It’s not what Hollywood and Disney teach you, that’s why I am here” 😃 that was awesome!

Distance or space make the mind wonder and that's why people miss each other.

It’s been over 2 weeks NC. I will not reach out, I will take this to my grave if I have to 😂

I am the prize! 🏆 I am a challenge & will not initiate the first contact. Love it 🦋 🦋

I AM THE PRIZE , if he wants me then he's going to have to miss me and beg for me back with a big apology , high value love only. 3 months NC because he's taken me for granted 😁💕👑

Right again, Alex. Ladies, always be prepared to tell a badly-behaved man to take a long walk off a short pier. Then you can run after him alright-- and push him off.

7 months no contact, he contacted me few days ago and said he thought about me and missed me so much. Baby steps again!

I am the prize. When I met my now-husband, there were 3 or 4 other men asking me out. He was just one of a number of options for me. Because I love my life. It’s fun to be me. And I love people. And they felt that. They felt my enthusiasm and excitement about the adventure of life itself. That’s what drew them in. I’d take dance classes with gal pals I would look forward to, go to lectures or readings I was interested in, travel to amazing places with my family of origin or for work… attend theater groups or join them, go to concerts… or volunteer in the bell choir at church - who does that? A bunch of blue hairs and a hot little number. So, when I ran into these fellows - it was just between adventures and I’d have refreshing things to say. I got to pick my husband out of a stable of good men. He stood out as great and had things I wanted more than anything: the kind of relationships with his family I wanted to create for mine. He wasn’t the richest competitor. Or the most adventurous. But he had my top priority and was most proud of his family. He showed them off and puffed up to share them with me. That was more endearing than riches or adventure ever would be - and I knew he’d value me if I joined his family. So, after a few years of getting to know him, we got married and started my dream family. The life I’d prayed for. Little did I know what challenges they would bring. Lol. I’d been through times I was like women this guy describes - kind of lonely. Maybe coming across as desperate… but I worked hard and was capable of learning so I got my dream job and it brought a lot of fulfillment and joy. When I spoke of the joys, and of people I admired, it attracted more of those into my life. I got the guy I wanted who wanted to step up for me. We have the family I prayed for. Love your life. Take adventures. Don’t let the guy be your only or most valuable adventure or priority in your life. Explore ways to deepen and strengthen other types of positive relationships in your life. I asked my grandma at lunch one day, who’d lived exactly the type of life I’d hope for, for advice about “how to get a guy to like me”. She’d gotten not just one dream man to spend a lifetime with, but after he widowed her, she got another! And spent almost 30 years enjoying her 2nd husband as much as she’d loved her life with her 1st for 45. She gave the best advice: “Don’t.” She said, bluntly. “Just enjoy your life and the right man will be attracted to that, one who’ll love that kind of life, too. The right guy will notice and won’t let the opportunity to meet or impress you pass him by.” That was that. Don’t worry about it. If he’s not beelining to my door, he’s not the right one for me. Because you want someone who’ll cherish you. Life is hard work enough, let alone bending over backwards to hook the kid of guy you might not be right for and feel miserable with him until divorce does you part. Get to living a life you sincerely enjoy and even in the lonely times, hold out for somebody who truly cherishes you - who wouldn’t forgive himself for letting the opportunity to meet you pass him up. That’s the lifetime you want, a lifetime you can cherish together. Not just a dandy trophy you had to flatten yourself to win over. Get involved in classes, activities or experiences you are interested in and feel positive about. That will attract men who want positive ones in theirs, and are willing to offer that for you, reciprocally. If you’re the hottest number in your life, he’ll have to compete with *you* just to be in it ;o) let alone an arm full of other suitors. One poor guy never even got another date. The schedule just didn’t open up whenever I was in town at home, he wasn’t. But he kept calling for 6 months trying to find times to get together. I genuinely liked him a lot, but it never would have worked out for us because we have different values, so I feel it’s for the best. Had I been entangled with him, I’d never have met the guy that made my dream come true. Hold out for the guy that musters the guts to come to you. He’ll have something to offer and ask if he can bring you something: a drink, a dinner date, a white water rafting trip? He’ll act like it’s a pleasure to share with you, because it will be. You won’t have to pull teeth. That diminishes you. If you hold out, you’ll stand out as having higher standards for yourself than other women, and that will be so attractive he’ll stand in line to compete. Keep your dance card full (even if it’s just dates with yourself for a spa day or evening out with friends) and only find a slot or few each month to fit him into your life… until he’s earned more access by attending to you with consideration for a few months at least. Then surprise him with tickets to your next adventure or invite to a family BBQ and make sure he feels cherished to be included in your life as he’s made you feel in his ;o)

I love how he says " Izzz it what you want? Izzz it?!" 🤣 No Alex we don't want to suffer

Some guys are lame, they only value those who do not care about them. It makes me realized these guys are unappreciative and immature. A guy who truly loves you will accept both your perfection and flaws. Can you imagine marrying yourself to a man who do not give you value because you are a good woman and care for him a lot? That's stupid. Love should be both reciprocated between two couples and not one sided. Give and Take. To conclude, no need to manipulate nor waste time to immature guys. Find someone who do appreciate you and not take you for granted.

Even if you go no contact doesn’t mean he will contact you. Even if you had some amazing memories! . A weak man will not appreciate a good woman no matter what she does… once you realise that you need to move on. No amount of no contact can change these type of men they like the control and usually move onto the next woman that will let them sleep with them with no strings attached. It is not until these men have hard lessons that they change and some never do. The problem with thinking that no contact will bring them back can bring a sense of false hope concentrate on yourself and the right person will come along …if they do truly love you and they have truly changed then perhaps but in the meantime don’t hold your breath 😅

*Truth is everybody is going to hurt you: you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for.*

Merci Alex! Your knowledgeable advise is precious. Wishing you an abundance of all small and big things in 2022!🥂🍾

He loves confidence but it scares him and fear is stronger emotion than love . So ladies he will miss you, but eventually not reach to you

I like your being straightforward, Alex. No sugarcoating.

Yes your right be strong and do something you want for your self and make priorities your self..

This is from Fiji 🇫🇯. Thank you for your advice. It's so helpful and very effective. Love it and I enjoy listening to your advice. 🙂

You are such a good man , standing on behalf of women , advocate women ‘s rights in a roman relationship

I am the prize. Came along your channel and am addicted. Watching from Kenya. I followed your advice and it worked. Thank you Coach Alex

I am the prize!!!! This video came just in time for me 💕

❤thank you for this Christmas gift video❤

I just took your advice today. Thank You!!

We met on a chat group then lost contact..now hes so busy with church work ..but tonite ive learnt so much . Will keep you posted where our relationship goes thanks Coach

Merry Christmas Alex!!! Thanks for spreading so much love and positive energy in this world!

This is a good one. Yes, we’ve been lied to!!

ThanknyoubAlex for being there for us, pure souls whose only sin is loving someone more than ourselves.. not an obssessive love, but truely and sincerely love them. Thank You again.

So humbly put...and beautifully said😍

Since a couple months ago, I learned that my boyfriend is clueless about the dating process. I’m his first long-term relationship. He is a real gentleman who is happy to pay for the dates, but he seriously needs HELP with date ideas. So I will make suggestions and give him a choice: Take me here or take me there… we will both be happy because I’ll feel like a queen, and he won’t feel like an idiot 😂

Hahaha Alex you are hilarious - I love your advice and what I love the most is Your Passion 😀

Alex 🥰 you have known everything for so long , it's great that you still remember everything you 🥰 telling us

I AM THE PRIZE!!! ❤️. Thank you Alex. Gigi

Thank you Alex! You're such a great coach!🙏🏼

Thank you, the guy I was talking to literally giving me the exact hint you're telling us here. I need to be patient and just let It be.☺️

You are amazing coach as always .. Thank You Alex Cormont brother ... ❤👏🥰💚👍🐬🙋‍♀️🌸

28 years together ❤️ I am the prize

❤I love your channel even though am broken I strongly believe to heal and get back on track soon .thanks Mr Alex God bless u so much for being an angel to us 💋🔥

I've watched so many dating coaches but you're the only one who's actually helped me

Merry Christmas, Coach Alex! Merci beaucoup. Thank you very much for your videos, they remind me how strong I should be

I love the way you explain!.very detail!...Merry Christmas and Happy New Year,..

Thank You Very Much Alex! You're a great teacher for every wan. Look Alex! I'm a Princess & will remain my reign. I'm not chasing after no man, he chases me. I'm focusing on the positive, no one's perfect. We work on ourselves. No one can point fingers because 3 fingers point right back. You give out great strength Alex!

"I love your grandma but she doesn't give you the right advice" 🤣🤣🤣

Thank you Alex. This is real powerful!! I am sooo worth it!! 😘

Gee!!! I love you, Alex!!!! You're smart, tender, hot AND know what you're saying. A million thanks, dear. AND a big hug too. God bless you.

Thank you,Alex!I wish you Merry Cristhmas!Greeting from Zagreb!

Happy New year Alex 🎉

Thank you for being here Alex. I love your coaching style, I get so much out of your videos. I’m not a man, so I had no clue. Thanks to you, I’m learning. Love it!

Thank you Coach Alex.Merry Christmas!!

I like the way you talk the way you explain things and the way you give best of best advice 😘....can't stop watching your videos every single day when I wake up your amazing Alex!🥰

I love you Alex your coaching is amazing

Now I’m finished myself too with this relationship. NC ever again!😃

Thank you coach alex for your every kind motivation for our love life....❣️

I think this is great advice. After putting in too much effort in my relationship I’ve decided to take this advice. I’m now focusing solely on myself, if it doesn’t work then it only means he’s not the right guy for me and if it’s not him then I will find someone better.

Thanks Alex for your valuable advices and make me feel like I am valuable and respectable U are real hero

You have done a few great videos... I really enjoyed them! Thanks lots!!!!! you are best!

This is the best Christmas gift ever!

I am the prize! 🙌🏼🙌🏼

Honestly! I stumbled into your channel. I am so happy I did. Your advice has given me a lot if food for thought. You ‘ve answered all my questions. Coming from Haitian American woman I like the French accent. 😊

thank you! the no contact rule made him think what he lost and came back

I am the prize!!!!! I AM THE PRIZE!

Hi Alex! Hope you are fine...thanks Soo much for your advice...watching from Kenya

Infact I wished I started watching u already long time ago. But is not too late I will definitely value myself

Merry Christmas ..good advice...love from Australia 🇦🇺

He can miss you as much as possible, but if he doesn't act upon it and put in the proper effort, it's worthless. That's the real test. It's the tough times that test out the relationship and how they truly feel.

You re the best coach ever !💟

always so good advices, thanks Alex!

Merry Christmas Alex! You’re amazing! Thank you for your wonderful personality, empathy and compassion 🙏🏼💖

I am the Prize. Thank you Alex

I love this. Thank you for all that u do.

You are unique. Thank for sharing.

Thank you Alex, I am so grateful for listening to you advice and now I do going to enjoy x-mas with the people who I really love ❤. Have a Happy Holidays to everyone

Alex, you are so right. I don't contact my love and he gets nervous and asks me about 5 times what I have been doing and have I been talking to any other man. And he always tells me how much he misses me. And that he needs to know what I am doing when we are not together. Merry Christmas Alex.

Thank you for your advice

Merry Christmas alex,thank you.

So true . It’s the reality of relationship that works always.thanks.🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️

🦋🙂Merry Christmas Alex sir💕🎄⛄ to you and your family , Love Joy peace Thank you for teaching us Dr Ria from India 🐞

Thank you Alex😊

This is powerful!💥

You are absolutely right about everything. I spent years in my twenties chasing but when I stopped and worked on myself, I focused on my fitness and mental state. And would never initiate conversation first just because I was more focused on myself and my kid. That was when I met my husband.

I am the prize and he definitely needs to work from scratch to get me again. ❤ I am the prize!

Loved it❤️❤️❤️

Thanks Alex ❤

Thank you Alex you have taught me so much!💗 My boyfriend works a lot & he really doesn't have much time for me... He also lives over 2 hours away. Last night I told him that I need someone that will carve out time for me bc I deserve the world. He texted back I know... Now I'm waiting to see if he puts in any effort. If not? I'm totally done with him.

One in a trillion Alex☺️🥰😍 you definitely is so genuinely authentic. Veryyy nice looking on top of it, its sort of unbelievable. I know you do this because you actually really care. No other reason because I know it's not about money I feel your passion of this 😘😘😘

I am the prize.You are amazing! THANKS😊

Very very added value video indeed thanks Alex

Love u Alex, wish u a happy holidays, and new year filled with blessing and success🧑‍🎄💐💚. Bunch of tanx for ur sincere advices, and warm energy🙏.

So TRue...ALEX!!!! I was just telling my best friend today alot of times in dating we shoot our ownselves in the foot but the way we behave with men and forget about how truely things make us feel, rather in beginning of a relationship in meeting or even in one that been in long time... smh..🙄🙄🙄🙄😐😐. We have to have more dignity for ourselves ladies and truely believe we are the prize and act like it, not in a stuck up princess way though.

Merry Christmas to you and yours♥️🎄

Great advice thankyou so much Alex x

Covid has made things harder....and I have also made a mistake when it comes to love....us Italians are hopeless romantic''s and my man says he loves me but has no time to call or message me and now I found the answer of what I was doing wrong through your advice Alex

I am the price!!!👸🏻

Thank you Alex!! 2 videos I needed to hear... bloody players...(that lady from New York)....I didn't even get dates!! I've stopped my stupid behaviour. Now i know I'm a queen! 👑 Liza New Zealand 🇳🇿🙏🏽

That accent uffff love from England 💜

There’s someone who texted and called me every single day for 7 months and now he doesn’t text or call me for 3 days. So I went no contact… until he contact me first.