This is Why People Cheat in Relationships | Neil Strauss

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@gregsmindsketches 4 месяца назад

Spot on description of cheaters. Its cowardly behavior.

@sherriflemming3218 4 месяца назад

Never doubt patterns AKA The Track Record. Past behavior is future relevant behavior.

@rubincarter3904 4 месяца назад

The truth is always best. My parents always said don't play with other folks emotions. Being honest about what you feel or want to do gives the other person the opportunity to be in agreement, or to say that doesn't work for me. Then you determine how to proceed. Leave or stay. It's the lie & being made a fool of that cuts deep.

@littleiodine9480 4 месяца назад

Cheating could very well be greed. Do not want to loose what they have, $ etc.

@connieprudhel296 4 месяца назад

When someone cheats they don't value you what they have❤

@ClarkyCards Месяц назад

Thanks Captain Obvious

@ErikaLaGrande 4 месяца назад

Cheaters aren’t “afraid” to be honest. They know they have to lie about wanting more than one person because the other person would be very angry and either cheat on them too or leave.

@KG-bliss 4 месяца назад

That's exactly what they're afraid of... they don't want the person to leave or the person to cheat... so then they hide behind lies they tell themselves... that they are protecting the other person... when it's just them all the way.

@ChristinaGeorgiaAnaniou 4 месяца назад

I wish more people had this level of transparency - a lot more good relationships would come out of this!

@xeropunt5749 4 месяца назад

Ownership says don’t take on high risk individuals. You can’t control another person, you can only control who you choose to keep company with. Take the concept as far as possible: your friends are who you settle for. Solo is your default & Life goals is your duty. Friends & Lover have to meet minimum criteria. Aren’t most of our social problems from just repeatedly hanging out with problematic people?

@iamunstoppable205 4 месяца назад

🎯 🎯 🎯

@bikerultimate 4 месяца назад

The biggest uncontrollable dynamic in this is probably the family which we can't choose.

@xeropunt5749 4 месяца назад

@@bikerultimate we’re all dropped off in different seas, but all have to keep swimming to shore, or we drown.

@Hyper_Driven 3 месяца назад

Also being responsible for what your part is in that too. To the problematic person everyone else is the problem.

@reneesmith5403 4 месяца назад

The cheater is a coward. And when you cheat, you cheat on your entire family. Don't forget that.

@blizzred2143 3 месяца назад

Lying is always for some personal benefit whether that’s for avoiding consequence or getting what you want through deceit

@Son-of-Krypton 4 месяца назад

If you feel the need to cheat just be honest with your partner….most of the time the absence of attraction or desire with your partner is the cause of infidelity.

@AgiGraycie 3 месяца назад

So why don’t they leave the relationship and then meet someone? Why do they have to cheat? You keep another person hostage with your lies, while you are out doing whatever you want .

@LeslieESP21 4 месяца назад

Wow this is on point ...so true ...INTEGRITY

@gewfone 4 месяца назад

No, integrity means keeping your word...that's all...

@Chrissy856 4 месяца назад

Unfortunately, a lot of ppl don't have it.

@angel-mq2mo 4 месяца назад

This is such a copout. Cheaters are cowards that's the bottom line

@JustJanieSue 4 месяца назад

And when it isn’t a noble person such as these gentlemen, it’s important to understand that it is an act of cowardice and emotional dysfunction. (Narcissistic Abuse)

@mixedraice 4 месяца назад

Glad this is being talked about finally, but ....Maybe, because it's more about being socialized to AVOID discomfort, really. I know he says it but he's hinest with himself for pleasure but avoiding honesty for pleasure.

@lindaalfonso9065 4 месяца назад

Why even get in a relationship if this is your mentality. If you are in a relationship and you’re not happy about something with it don’t you talk about it and work on it.

@michellekilmer4777 4 месяца назад

I am laughing because it's so true!!!!

@dtorres1104 4 месяца назад

Fear of honesty? Na, they just want to have their cake and eat it too!

@MissHannah2036 4 дня назад

Exactly, they still want to have the wife and kids and a bit extra on the side

@tiffaninichole 4 месяца назад

The Bible says “ a lying tongue hates those it deceives “

@nelphacalapesepedosa4573 4 месяца назад

True

@christalbrown7138 4 месяца назад

Exactly 💯 ❤

@dignoraguzman4696 4 месяца назад

I loved it his teaching was super!!💎

@beyourownforceofnature7291 4 месяца назад

Excellent!👌🏻

@lewishowes 4 месяца назад

Thanks for watching! I'm glad you liked it!

@charissedivittorio4291 4 месяца назад

💯 True 🎯 ty great message.

@JeremiahBenjamin-n4g 17 дней назад

AMEN 🙏🏾 AMEN 🙏🏾 AMEN 🙏🏾

@nicolelee6441 4 месяца назад

I agree with this guy , however not everyone will respond in a reasonable manner if one was so straight forward with their partner.

@VaniaToledo-xk9gh 4 месяца назад

No they get off on the secret

@JJ-pj6cn Месяц назад

cheaters, people who ghost, stonewall

@snjezanaspahija249 Месяц назад

True❤❤❤❤

@lewishowes Месяц назад

🙌

@angelafox9522 4 месяца назад

They don't tell you because they want their cake and eat it too.

@Sparklyeyedmisfit 4 месяца назад

True..😢..

@AnticaPaniko 4 месяца назад

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@deatheneseatkins7769 4 месяца назад

Exactly 👀💯

@290revolver290 2 месяца назад

Neil is the real life Hank Moody

@tonylopez9129 2 месяца назад

U gotta b STRAIGHT UP with them

@jangriffin-fi1yx 4 месяца назад

When you commit to each other that's it as far as I'm concerned. I can forgive anything but not a cheater. Glad my Husband & I discussed this when first met. Our agreement was we would not cheat on each other but would have the guts to tell the other (if time ever came) that we wanted to part company. Honesty best policy we knew where we stood from start ❤

@jodie11.11 4 месяца назад

😅my husband and I had the same agreement. Didn't turn out like that though.

@MissHannah2036 4 дня назад

But sometimes they don’t want to part company. The man still wants his wife and kids plus that extra on the side.

@alexandra-q7u1m 4 месяца назад

No, no. Your response, ‘go cheat,’ does not fly in a MARRIAGE.

@Glori_nailzz 4 месяца назад

Dep on the state u live, it does

@gregstarr4735 4 месяца назад

If it were that, ez to tell us the truth, if it does happen., walk away

@Joz23 Месяц назад

❤

@alexandra-q7u1m 4 месяца назад

Ohh, a cheater knows she’s protecting HERSELF!!

@rubincarter3904 4 месяца назад

Or He's protecting himself.

@tiffanyburke2785 Месяц назад

I used to say. If you can tell me what you’re doing or whom your friends with that are female. You’re making the choice for me to stay

@thespiritualgodess7036 4 месяца назад

Whatever, cheating is a choice. It also depends on what everyone considers as cheating .

@danaparfitt2491 4 месяца назад

"Anything they know will fracture the connection"

@jodie11.11 4 месяца назад

I would have been OK with the honest truth before hand. The truth is they wanted their cake and eat it too.

@pedrogarcia-nu6pd 4 месяца назад

If you are not mature enough to love or have no self control. Or even self respect the other guy just probably seeing you as an object. Women and men stay single if you can't handle a relationship period.

@annabanzon313 3 месяца назад

Also pls dont forget years of zero consequences for cheaters in our families and friends. After a while, we just become desensitized and we empathize with the cheater.

@tanyasharadamba1264 4 месяца назад

As if most people have the option to just leave when betrayed. Accurate but 99% useless advice.

@dignoraguzman4696 4 месяца назад

"I agree with Niel Strauss"🧠

@Kinta02 4 месяца назад

people dont THINK they are protecting the other person. People SAY they want to protect the other person when obviously all they think about is themselves. Consequences is what they really think and are afraid about. Neil do better tf

@margaretrosin7853 4 месяца назад

Just stay single. Simple and guilt free, if you are honest from the beginning that you don’t want to be monogamous. I don’t understand why someone would marry when they full well know they are cut throat cheaters.