I think it also will help men alot if we change from using the word "confidence" to using the word "boldness". Because confidence is only reliant on your experiences; boldness is reliant on your audacity. Men need more audacity, not confidence. Audacity says "I dont care what happens, I want it, and Im going for it."; Confidence says "Based on my previous experiences, I know what the outcome will be if I do this." Also, I think men just need to stop trying to hunt for random women in the streets and mall and start building or joining small communities and date internally. Whether it be a hiking club or reading group, you gotta condensed yourself to a smaller group of people who can you can build some familiarity with. Its MUCH easier to find a woman who will date you if you are a part of a community, than if you are hoping to find someone at a grocery store or in the big wide world. The girl Im talking to now caught my attention a month after I started going back to church. We only knew each other for two weeks and we was already hitting it off. Our chemistry is great so far because we both have a strong belief in God. Its happened WAY faster than when I wasnt a part of a community and was just wandering. (And no, I am not rich and I dont even have a car right now, she's still fine with all of that. She did say she thinks Im handsome, so I guess you gotta have SOMETHING. Lol But when you are a part of a community, its much easier to have things in common that would make bonding much easier and help her feel safe about you.) I recommend men go back to church and find godly women. Leave these worldly girls alone. (Also, give yourself to Christ as well. Dont come to church and spoil the environment with lustful desires. These girls will want you to wait because God wants all of us to wait. God is 100% against hook ups and premarital sex, so dont go into church to get a woman without a godly mindset.)
W Comment holy shit, the differentiation between bold and confidence is extremely important. Can’t have confidence off the jump unless your a psychopath
i love you so much from the bottom of my heart you changed my life so much i started reading the Bible as you advised and started being a more succesful man in any aspect, you really opened my eyes and guided me to be a better man hope God gives you His best gifts in this and the after life because you deserve it a lot ❤🙏
Needed this kam I like you’re style of making videos got me thinking you gon teach me how to get woman but then you show me how to love myself god bless you kam 💯🤙
I love your vids They really are gems each and every one. I have made so much progress or well I thought, After watching this it has really put me back on track. Keep up the grind
@@MistaUanteik420that’s not approaching that’s some psuedo barely trying shit, what he means by approaching is someone ACTUALLY going up to you, making the first move which women generally don’t do.
@@ryanbrown9833 they barely approach by coming up to you and starting a conversation that's true (the ones that do are usually kind outgoing women not looking to flirt) but I mean a woman that's interested in you, their ways of approaching is by giving signals , majority of men are just too stupid to pick up on it .
This vid makes me feel better because before this video I was one of those guys who stresses about not being attractive to women well I'm kinda got out of this because of this vid Thanks for the vid 💯
So true kam , you have to love yourself unconditionally guys have to stop worrying about how females look at dem because 9/10 they looking regardless even if you don’t notice, it’s to many woman out hea fellas
My body language is down bad cause I wanna hide from people s eyes because of my acne. Whenever I sit next to someone I feel the need to create some boundary to prevent them from seeing me. Maybe I place my hand as a block, or put a chair The sad thing is apart from acne, I feel like I have everything else, good genetics, good shape, charisma and competence, but acne ruins my confidence. I’m 2 weeks into roacutaine now, so hope it will help
i needed this video very very bad i been thinking about women constantly like the past week and wondering why i don’t have a girlfriend i gotta rid of my anxiety first and for most
Nah rs I started doing minor shit like walking with my head up instead of constantly looking down trying to avoid eye contact with people…and istg the week I started doing that I had 2 girls approach that same week and ask for my number at the gym…i was missing hellla signals cause I was scared to look up😭💯
@@amonzi8646 Think my message got deleted,but i'm planning on majoring Data Science and become either a or AI/ML Engineer or data scientist .we gonna get rich together and ghost all these hoes,dont even trip brother
@DJShun good grindset, thats what I like to hear man, however we can't be so focused on ignoring women we miss the right one for us, grind but enjoy life man do things that make you happy, that's what I live by
I live in Madison Wisconsin… We got decent amount of brothers here 😂😂 I’m Indian, Madison / Milwaukee is mix of everyone … beside that it’s pretty white
If you approach them with confidence and allat then u just not facially attractive to them.Jus like what kam said in the last part you might just not be attractive to them specifically
Everything is physical. When I was addicted to drugs I had no fat on my body and therefore my facial bones were quite prominent and I had a lean handsome face. Women would talk to me all the time. Now that I am no longer using drugs I have put on about 20 pounds and my face is definitely more puffy and not as defined as it used to be. Women never approach me and only occasionally to I get indicators of Interest from them.
I’m gonna get it checked up on soon I always wear glasses then all the sudden during the day I stop wearing them to take pics my point is whenever I wanna look good I take off my glasses
The only thing I disagree with is that some people may be able to just see themselves as himothy even tho they aren't for most people self improvement will make themselves more confident. Self improvement leads to confidence which leads to big booty bitches. You got somewhat be him to feel like him bruh just sayin
Honestly we should talk about the fact that women just don’t approach guys because they’re too anxious. It’s been that way for me and for people I’ve met. I have never seen a girl who was interested in me approach me, or for any other guy I’ve met. They just wait for the guy to do it.
wsp bro need help. i’ve been texting this girl only acouple times and i want to get to know her more. is it weird if i told her and just be straight forward you look like an interesting person and i’d like to get to know you. and i can say i can ft you tom or smth what u think
