Put up a photo of him with a message in the lobby to inform others and also on the inside of the door facing out (assuming it’s glass), so when he comes back he can see his face. It could scare him off if he knows everyone in the building is aware of who he is and what he’s doing. If others in the building are concerned, you could consider collectively hiring a security guard, even if it’s temporary.
Yes and a large Photo on the front door with the words "Do NOT allow this criminal (stole package, Harassment) in the building and POLICE are notified and coming for you"
haley, please take this small advice: do NOT call a psychopath your ANYTHING, and certainly not your stalker. calling them that gives them a sense of ownership or possessiveness and makes them feel like they’re succeeding or whatever. it may encourage their behavior.
I don’t think they are stalking her. There are at least two men involved. This is a pre-meditated robbery or kidnapping. They are trying to physically get to her to get access to her banking information or to traffic her. It’s not a crazy person thinking he loves Haley, this is a criminal enterprise coming after her.
I was thinking that too People like this already suffer delusions that there’s a connection and now there’s an entire video He could potentially see/hear this and think she’s thinking about me, she made an entire video about me…she noticed me. Chilling.
Came here to say this! I really hope she sees this. Informing us is great but for anyone dealing with this, do not call anyone "my stalker" as it can cause these creeps to feel special and continue stalking you. Refer to them as losers, creeps, scumbags, shitstains, but nothing with "my" attached. Also, as much as it sucks, don't go into detail publicly about feeling scared or unsafe. Some of these creeps feel power in being able to scare us and it sucks. Keeping you in my thoughts!
The fact that you said “please stop, this is making me incredibly fearful” probably added fuel to his sick fire. Do not show fear, these sick stalkers thrive on feeling powerful over someone. Document every single thing: day/time/location/camera footage. Have your neighbors do the same. Get a restraining order. When leaving your building do not have earphones on, do not look at your phone, be alert of your surroundings and if possible, be accompanied. Ughhh I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I had a stalker at my gym, made my life a living hell. I’m South American so by nature I’m super friendly but during that time I became paranoid, distant and cold. Most torturous of all I didn’t even know what my stalker looked like, so could have been anyone. You are armed with knowing what this creep looks like, so feel empowered about that. Do not let him rob you of your power, joy or peace of mind. Praying you are promptly able to put a stop to this! 🙏❤️🙏❤️
In all jurisdictions that I am aware of you need to have a name to get a restraining order. Which makes having the police ID the guy even more important.
Anyone else feel that the stalker stole the package so that when he comes back again and Haley asks for the package he can show it as a cover and break in? Stay safe Haley.
Girl you NEED to carry pepper spray or some sort of defense tool when you leave your apartment EVERY TIME just in case!! I am so thankful your apartment has excellent security features because if it didn't I dont even want to imagine what would happen to you. Just please be careful and aware of your surroundings every time you leave your apartment💖
Also, I know you get a lot of private messages on social media. But dig through as much as you can, chances are he’s probably messaged you. You might find his identity or at least clues.
I'm so sick of those people. why do they exist? why are they the way they are? also, in some places, bringing or using pepper spray is considered carrying a weapon and the person having it for self-defense can be fined. :"(
She looks like a sexy Tomb Raider, she’d kick his ass. Joking aside, that is scary, women can’t even be safe in their apartments. As a heterosexual male it makes me sick
That’s not a stalker that’s someone with a plan to harm. Maybe you should move place for a while, that’s concerning for you to even be traveling to your home there. Keep safe ❤
They look like they might be squatters. If you never answer, they think nobody lives there and break-in to take possession of the place. Unfortunately, the crazy laws give them that right.
Stalker or human trafficking behavior... Whoever that is, they are not well and not safe to be around. The guy 1000000000% knew he was there for shady sh1t. IF its something else, it's likely a really stupid package thief hoping that repeated attempts to get in will net him some package that's worth money.... but my bet is on trafficking/kidnapping by the way the guy attempted to grab the other girl who came out. So sorry you're dealing with that but so glad you live somewhere secure enough to protect you! I can't imagine the fear that must give you to live with
that def isnt how human trafficking works generally. trafficking is more often than not a grooming situation by someone who knows the woman is vulnerable (from an abusive home, addicted to substances, etc) and take advantage of that- very very rarely would anyone try to traffick someone so recognizable and through forcible kidnapping. kidnapping for personal sick purposes is much more likely
@@Jsrxfo999The more cuns there are at people's hands the more they get used. Not a solution. More like escalation. But Americans don't understanding simple logic, they are believers of strange beliefs.
When I look at Paris and London I'm so glad I live in America and don't have to worry about getting shot, beat, stabbed and acid burned and be unable to defend myself and face charges for protecting myself.
@@garhent that is fair, I moved from London to one of the safest Catholic countries in the world. I didn’t want to raise my children in London. It is expensive and crime ridden.
I remembered in one of her videos she was talking about her favorite bagel or something, and someone commented that she should be more careful because she was saying that place was super close to her building. It’s not her fault but sadly right now, we have to be more careful with the information that we share on social media. Please be safe 💕
Spoken like someone who wasn’t alive before FB. It is absolutely stupid and crazy to be putting any information about yourself on the internet, in general. “Look at me!!!! I’m on vacation in Cabo!” Aaaand come home to a house that has been robbed.
I commented on the bagel video! Between her tagging businesses that are close by, and the fact that she has a super distinct living room window, I’m sure a local could easily locate her building. Wouldn’t be hard to tell which unit # was hers based on that. Not to mention if it’s a rental, her floor plan is probably available online.
This is terrifying. I am worried for you! I am so glad that you are sharing the man's face with RU-vid, because at least there is a public record of what is happening. More than anything, I hope he stops! Wishing you so much safety Haley!
@@fabiosabzevari1333 bro stfu your not funny at all, plus, yall r such crybabies. yall are acting like "IM MELTING, MELTING!!!!" witch from the wizard of oz movie over an audio? grow up damn.
Girl! I have had 3 stalkers, all men I don’t know (one when I was 8, one when I was 17 and one at 24). They only stop when they’re behind bars. Stay with someone else until they find him because he will be back. He knows the camera is there and he doesn’t care. You probably don’t wanna find out what was in that bag.
After watching baby reindeer, I am now realizing I got stalked too by a woman ( I am a woman myself) and I distinctly remember my Dad telling me, ' You are so lucky she is a woman, if he was a man this would be stalking.' That shit hurts and has stayed with me for a very long time.
Sad that the authorities cannot or will not help you and arrest this man. Here in the South, he still might break in, but only about two steps in before his breaking in days would rapidly come to an end.
She waited until after the third time, they said CALL IMMEDIATELY- she didn’t- she waited until he was gone. If she’d called as soon as he showed up, they might’ve been able to catch him. This is not the fault of NYPD
New York?? Serious criminals are being let out of prison in CA & likely it’s the same in Liberal NY. I’d move in with friends or family for a month & monitor the situation. Even if you had a Restraining Order, he would likely not stop. All action must be taken by you to protect yourself. Do not anticipate that Police will be there to protect you.
Miss, this is coming from a security professional and personal private security. Please contact someone from a private protection service. I'm in a different area of the world. But I can bring you in contact with a protection provider, I'm surprised that someone of your stature doesn't have protection yet. - Greetings, secure mindset.
Your right contacting for protection is good but I think the reason she doesn't have any guards or assistants is cause they would be freaked out by her TikTok video's😂
She's so sure that building security is enough that she showed her full address and unique window of her apartment in the video. Everyone knows her location for a year now. She became more popular for the last 6 months and is still oblivious to the fact she's doxxed herself and continues to shoot videos in front of her house.
Stalking laws need to be updated and more strict!! It’s absolutely terrible that ppl are allowed to stalk, and not be punished before they actually commit some act of violence. On a related note, the same goes for online stalking… such that people can start an online campaign against someone, release unauthorized, comprising photos, etc. Hope this gets resolved ASAP, Haley… this is terrible.
You know what no one cares. You are viewed as a economic and labour than a human being to the society. Finally it all comes to our end when someone become a victim. We give these people chance to become criminal.
Talk to that girlfriend and get info from her about the perp! Tell everyone that this a repeated offense so that they dont accidentally let him in again (have a buddy system going in/out). I would also have someone stay with you until this man is caught and taken in. Safty in numbers!
Also take that screenshot of the man and make flyers that you put in and around the building saying this man is a stalker and potentially dangerous. Even if he is your stalker, he tried to grab another woman, so he's a security risk for everyone
Damn! This person is a threat to everyone in the building! What worries me now is that this person may wait nearby for you or any woman who leaves that building! Please protect yourself....be ready with pepper spray, sharp pen, anything! Maybe everyone in the building can pitch in on getting a security guard to sit/stand inside or even in a car in front of building until this person is caught.
Please stay safe!!! I just watched your apartment tour video on facebook, which stated how easy it would be to locate your apartment… Then I googled you and found this video! Very scary! 😬 Please hire security and get these guys arrested ASAP!!!
I'm so sorry this happened. Maybe you and the other tenants can hire a security guard for the lobby seeing as the man put his hands on someone exiting the building.
Get some wasp spray. It can shoot up to 25 yards away. Pepper spray, they have to be closer to spray. I would make absolutely sure the door after the elevator is always locked.
You can get in trouble for this, if used on humans it can be considered assault. Self defense items have to be made for that and legal in your state. Bear spray is illegal to use on humans as well
@@chillout1109 He STOLE a package on video, didn't you see that?? Also more serious is stalking and Harassment is a criminal violation and Assault if he grabbed that girl by the arm leaving the building. And Trespassing, so at least 4 Violations
This is utterly distressing to hear - Please be safe Hayley and don’t be afraid to speak or act on this should it happen again… You’re incredibly popular and beautiful, it’s not outside the realm of possibility that he could be a very unhealthy person who is stalking you…. Please stay safe, girl! I’ll be thinking of you and sending wishes of security and safety your way xox
So sorry you were going through this. I’m only liking it so that more people can see it. I do not like that you have someone behaving in a way that makes it feel unsafe to be in your own home. 😔
The fact like he’s just RIGHT AT THE DOOR is TERRIFYING imagine feeling trapped within your home because of some fucking weirdo with no integrity or manners
hi, i think this is a thought-out/pre-planned attempted kidnapping. You/anybody in your situation is lucky that nobody was in direct contact with those creeps and didn't *actually* get kidnapped. I would suggest buying more security items/safety gears. Snice you are a social media star/influencer(you are moving places due to collabing with other ppl, etc ) those weirdos are noticing your schedules/tracking your moves, its adds even more/ extra-layer of creppines. I am genuinely scared for your safety and well being. And pls call the cops right then and there, its better to be safe than to be sorry.
OMG! After reading your post, what if this guy watched the shorts and thinks there really is a billionaire boyfriend and is trying to kidnap her for a hefty ransom? Weirder things have happened.
I think it’s a robbery, but they are clearly intending to get to her physically. That’s why they are coming at night - they figured she’s more likely to be home and may open the door because she’s tired. They are also not running away when they realize she’s home, which means they want to get to Haley to probably make her empty her bank accounts and open the safe if she has one. Unless their intentions are worse than that…
@@life_lived_well_8I’m not too sure. These seems like very typical stalker behaviour. It’s not well thought out if it was a kidnapping. In my mind tho stalkers are more dangerous. They are delusional. Like in my mind the stalker doesn’t see the skits about William (fake billionaire) and think kidnap, more like he sees the mistreatment and he can “save” her etc. Seriously get a gun (failing that a taser or pepper spray). If it’s kidnap attempt he’s failed 4 times so might as well give up, a stalker will more than likely be back.
I thought the exaggerated title was another humorous video of yours but I see that unfortunately this is real so I hope this situation is resolved and that you are fine Greetings from a fan from another country
Get ANGRY about this and NOT SCARED. Take all precautions to not be alone and when you are walking outside of your building, stay vigilant. Have purpose when you walk and do NOT text while walking in the street. Focus, Haley!
I HOPE YOUR FINE HALEY😭♥️ this is disgusting behaviour and im sure he doesn't jave amy good intentions you should file a case against him..and please look out sending prayers and love🥺💕
Omg he's a piece of work because when you showed his face, I felt my soul leave my body and simultaneously chills descending down to my toes. I've never had such a reaction to any human I have ever seen.
Praying and thinking of you through all of this Hayley. It's absolutely awful to be put in such an uncomfortable and scary situation. Just remember you have 6million subscribers and were all here with, and for you xx
Sending you all my love and strength. I’m so tired of us going through this, it’s creepy and disgusting and weird. I know this literally is so random and has nothing to do with the situation, but I’m hoping it can make you smile and distract you for a second. I run a small press on business to care for my mother and I wanted to send you a free set (I promise you, it’ll be unlike anything you’ve ever worn before). I’ve been trying to for over a year now and I feel like right now maybe that’s something that will make you smile. 😊
Everyone is scared of getting cancelled so I doubt she knew what “ let them eat cake” meant and the meaning behind that phrase. I think she was just following the trend for that sound effect. I like to think the general population are not heartless swine over the plight of other humans.
This isn't even creepy, this is downright terrifying. Stay safe Haley❤❤❤ (Also, be very careful about what you post, who knows if that dude is watching it and recognizes the location, and goes there)
This is terrifying- but idk if anyone noticed that she said "the first time they came over was April 19" and then goes to say they come back 2 days later on april 1st 💀 She probably just had a brain fart, but my timeline of this whole thing is confusing
I’m so sorry you have to deal with this Haley!! I hope they don’t come back. That would really scare me too, especially if they had done this multiple times!!
Ugh you’re beautiful and funny and smart and there are evil people in this world who want to dim the light you shine! Protect yourself, I’m almost 40 and was stalked by a man I once dated and it wrecked me. Nobody should feel unsafe. Keep calling for help, keep showing his face, stay loud. Stay safe, you deserve to feel safe at home. ❤️❤️❤️
I have been in a similar experience with my ex and Hailey you made the right choice calling the cops early enough, do not underestimate the situation, there is nothing friendly about this man's face and his eyes are dead, they are not here bcz they are fans trust me.
Praying for you. Without getting into details, my family went through a situation that required us to move after we lived at our home for 20+ years. In reading through the comments, someone mentioned private security. 100% agree. Also, if you have the resources, counseling is good. The situation can get in your head a little. 🙏
This is so scary. I would be terrified to come and go from my apartment. Going forward, please don't share what the outside of your apartment building looks like online!
I'm sorry you are going through this, it sounds absolutely scary, unnerving, overwhelming and challenging in so many ways. With that being said, i'm not sure that someone buzzing your apartment Is the same thing as them trying to break into your home but I hope that you are able to do whatever you need to, in order to feel safe in your space.
Hahahah probably. It’s astounding to me how braindead people decide that somehow being a criminal would be a good idea, like no, committing crimes won’t save you from your own stupidity…
Haley that is so scary and very real. I’m so sorry you have to go through this! Stay strong and safe, and don’t hesitate to call the police to come if he does come back.
You're so brave Haley. If I were living alone and something like this happened, I'd never recover. Ps: I genuinely wish you stay safe. Please take care girlie
HALEY They know its creepy and wrong THEY DONT CARE when he was at the door, instead of talking to him, you had the chance of calling the police at that moment!!!! THIS IS NOT TO SHAME YOU IN ANY WAY that’s just how i was taught growing up, NEVER MAKE CONTACT WITH THEM. THEY ARENT WORTH YOUR TIME. Jail is where they belong as to not hurt another person again
i keep seeing so many influencers uploading videos about stalkers/break ins and it's really terrifying. stay safe haley and always remember to lock your doors! also, congrats on 6 million. :)
Something near identical happened to me a few months ago!! This random guy kept buzzing my door looking for a woman named Alice or something and no matter what he kept coming back and trying to look into my house and yard. He also kept flashing an Apple gift card at my door camera and even left it there once. Long story short he got arrested for trespassing and haven't seen him since 😬😬 He was almost 70 but the cops said he seemed completely lucid and had no prior record! People are so weird!!!
If he is 70 he might have Alzheimer’s or Dementia, I have seen people with the condition mistake other people’s home as theirs but you did the thing of not opening the door, you never know these days, even 70 year olds can be criminals.
@@PersisP yes I know but I got confused because I didn’t know there was another meaning to it so I thought it meant he was in a lucid dreamlike state that he knew he was dreaming but sleep walking or something, I tried to make it make sense in my mind lol English isn’t my first language so I get confused sometimes with multiple meanings like in this case lucid would mean in his right mind.
I had similar situation in the past and Im not even famous person, but just some random girl that is trying to pass my university. It all started when I was studying and one time when I was walking to my grandma's flat some man showed up and went after me. I managed to get away safety, but I saw him again the other day. And again. And again. And again. Sadly we don't have any cameras, we live in a small flat in the poorer part of the town. I was trying to do something about it, because he was following me few times more but situations like this are common here so no one cared. Every time I go to my uni I pray to not see him again. I hope you stay safe, I know how scary situations like that one can be, so just be safe. I hope that maybe your case at least will be explained by the Police. Stay safe ♡
Sweet summer child, youre such a light. You bring joy and smiles and humor to people but you've reached a level of recognition in which you must now be diligent and discerning. You live in NYC with millions but you're building is recognizable, the stores you frequent nearby are recognizable and your such a stunner that anyone looking for you could probably find you. I wont say to be careful, thats a given but my advice to all women is to get your buns into a womans self defense class - not to go kung-fu hustle on a bad guy, but to build confidence and have a plan. You are not weak. You are not a victim.
