In the modeling industry, even if you are the "perfect model", people will still treat you like an object. So even if a girl is lucky to be "pretty enough" in the industry, she will not have a better time than the rest of the models. Which is very interesting.
met someone who was a modeling agent. they said models were just "human hangers", so yeah. even if you look perfect by their standards they'll probably give you the same amount of respect they give to an inanimate object
“In the modeling industry “ no that’s just how the world treats all women . That’s why it’s important to prioritize your self before what men like or think.
@1w598 that's completely fair, but even so everyone is still humans, like even if that is the standard when it comes to modelling, and don't get me wrong I understand that looks is quite literally everything when it comes to modelling (like it's literally a job based on your looks) every single person is human and they all deserve to feel like they are worth more than your looks (bc you are!!, like she said in the video we will all end up looking like raisins 🤣) at the end of the day a job is just to get money so we can thrive, there's honestly no point in existing on this earth if you aren't happy and enjoying it (why put yourself through the pain and hardship of living through life (bc let's be honest it sucks ass) if you aren't enjoying it.) I love y'all and hope you find a way to be happy on this earth ❤
@@1w598 “Clear expectations” sounds enviable until you look at what’s expected- constant judgment and criticism, frequent rejection that’s given with demeaning “feedback”, no emotional support, no concern for your mental health, and no other fun or interests allowed in your life. Actually, that sounds like an abusive relationship… When those things are normal expectations, the healthy move is to leave.
Good for you for making the choice to quit the modeling industry! By leaving the modeling industry, you are prioritizing your own well-being and happiness over external validation and societal pressures. It's important to remember that there are many paths to fulfillment and success, and the modeling industry is just one of them. Your decision to leave opens up new opportunities for personal growth and exploration, allowing you to find a path that truly aligns with your values and passions. Keep going, and don't be afraid to forge your own unique path in life.
Thank you for putting this put into the world. You are such a wonderful person and we are all lucky that you walked away and gave us the gift of your videos.
I’m so proud of you for making that decision that day Hailey. we soo support you❤️❤️ also those modeling agencies are LITERALLY SILLY for making you feel like you’re ugly. Actually what?? I can’t believe it girl you’re so gorgeous😭 but I’m so proud of you for making your life what it’s meant to be. You were meant to make people laugh , not get judged for your looks
That was actually really wholesome. Thanks for sharing your journey.. I wasn’t ever a model but I was a dancer for 12 years, basically most of my childhood till I was 18.. it wasn’t quite to that extreme, but the pressure of being a ballet dancer and having a very specific “image” was always in the back of my mind and definitely did have some correlation to insecurities I developed later on that I didn’t even realize were there until the last year or so of my performing. I’m glad you got out and are healthier!
I have never ever seen such a happy soul like her. I mean she was describing the most distressing journey of her life without actually abusing someone and with a smile.
I've only ever randomly seen you on my feed, but after years of insecurity, along with a particularly difficult insecure few months, "in the end we're all going to look like raisins" was really comforting. 😭💜
Crying in the club 😂 from the message toward the end - really hit me since finding my own wonderful place to be me on the internet. Thanks for the amazing content, Haylee - so glad we have you here!
😊 Really enjoy your uploads as they make me smile! This has opened my eyes even more to how the modelling agency treat people! Every person who goes for modelling auditions & are treated as though they're not good enough, must be so disheartening! Anyhoo, glad you escaped & are focusing on your health & mental self care 🫶🏼 x
Haley truly the most intelligent, inspirational, and kindhearted person on this platform. ❤ She always knows how to cheer me up when I’m in a bad mood and I always love coming home from school and watching her vids! Thank you Haley, we genuinely appreciate you!! ❤❤❤
Thanks so much for sharing your story. I'm so glad you are in a better place now. Your joy is infectious! You literally give us a moment to smile with each of your videos.
God bless you for your beautifully authentic soul. 🙌🏻 You shine from the inside out, gorgeous. Thank you for inspiring and empowering so many souls to live more authentically and to believe that ANYTHING is possible BECAUSE you choose to live authentically. As a former stand up comic, it's pretty awesome living through you vicariously. Keep on letting it glow.. you truly are Haley's comet! Lol 🌟 🤩 ⭐️ 🌠 💫 ❤
I’m so glad you chose this path Haylee! Your videos make so many people laugh and smile ❤ happy that you got out of that toxic industry and that you’re doing better. 😊
I have OCPD to mask my ADHD, and this would have killed me. I was scouted young. My mom was so against me doing it and I hated her for it... But I'm so glad now. At 40.
Always enjoyed your funny videos...i think it does good to see someone as beautiful as you not take themselves to seriously... thanks for the giggles & gaffaws!
under 5 minutes but such an impactful video. thanks haylee! your shorts are a great source of entertainment for me, it brought me out of blue days more than i can count
So good to hear about this. It's easy to look at your videos and to think: 'wow, her life must be amazing. I would be so happy if I looked like that'. Hearing this puts everything in perspective. You're an amazingly talented, smart and funny creator and I can't wait to keep following you on your journey!
ur gorgeous obviously, but your mind and personality is what i love about you hay, it’s so refreshing to see someone as beautiful as you also have such an impactful persona, keep it up i am so extremely proud of you ❤
Thank you so much!!! Everyday I wake up worried about my appearance, but what you just said inspired me... a lot. Thank you, and you did the right thing
I love you as an individual Haley because you are as human w humanity! And it’s true here! You are so much more of an individual! Keep going luv!!❤❤❤❤❤
Awww thank you for sharing your story! You are so beautiful, but you sparkle and shine that beauty from the inside out and that’s what makes you so special! You’re so right, we are so much more than our measurements and outward appearance! ❤️🤩
I really love you for this. I think it's so important for young people to know what the industry is like. Your humour is fantastic and I'm so pleased you got out and got healthy. X
Wow, well I'm happy for you that you chose to do smthn healthier than that modeling trauma & glad you shared this. I needed to hear esp part of this!! Glad I watched this ❤
I love this! I would love to see a "Lets talk about it" about how you could effort that beautiful appartement. Did you save up, or was it the modelling earnings before tiktok? Maybe a weird topic but i just find budgetting and saving strategies very motivating 😊
I am very happy for you for taking action to feel good again! You are so smart, grounded, empathetic and beautiful! You are in inspiration! I wish you all the best for whatever you set your mind to :)
I love your videos so much and I'm so happy you quit being a model because I love this. I'm here for this. Thank you for being so wholesome and so so sooo down to earth!
Hey I know this has nothing to do with it, but here’s a chocolate chip cookie recipe: Butter-1 cup (cold cubed) Brown Sugar- 1 cup Sugar- 3/4 cup Eggs- 2 large Vanilla- 2 teaspoons Flour- 2 3/4 cups Cornstarch- 1 teaspoon Baking soda- 3/4 teaspoon Salt- 3/4 teaspoon Choc. Chips- 2 1/2 cups 1) Preheat oven to 400 degrees 2) In a large mixing bowl, cream butter, brown sugar, and sugar for 4 minutes until light and fluffy. 3) Add eggs and vanilla. Mix for 1 minute longer. 4) Stir in flour, cornstarch, baking soda, and salt. 5) Mix just until combined. Fold in chocolate chips. 6) scoop cookie dough onto baking sheets. 7)Bake for 8-11 minutes or until the edges just begin to turn a light golden color. Try it!!!❤❤❤❤❤
YAAAAAAS As always your "let's talk about it" feels like a breath of fresh air out of an oven that's baking fresh chocolate chip cookies. Literally stumbled upon your YT in the last 24hrs and I ❤ you and your journey to being happier being you ❤ actual inspiration, not just bland influence 😘 ty
What a great vid! Such an important point of view - hearing from someone most of us only dream we can look like who turns out to be someone most of us should try to be like.
Haley every time I watch your videos, I wonder how someone can be so smart! You're so talented, so funny, so nice! Keep it up❤ I'm so glad you left modelling. They didn't deserve you🥺
You are beautiful ❤️ and no matter how beautiful a model is , no one remembers any of the faces ! We remember what they were like and what legacy they left !
