This One Thing Made Them Love You Twice As Much 

Friends will always give advice contrary to their own actions 😅

I still find it difficult to revisit that horrible experience of feeling so abandoned and worthless. thank you for making this channel 🙏

I am now a whole person that doesn't get clobbered. With your help on this show.

This spoke to me so much, I’m just realizing that my ex is a fearful avoidant and that I was going about things in the wrong manner. I needed this today, thank you!

Hey Craig and Victoria, What a great video. It brought a tear to my eye too, to hear the quality of this relationship and how she was working through it. Just such great advice and comments from both of you. I’m going through a similar situation with my ex but we are BOTH going through real rough times in our lives. It’s so wonderful seeing you work together. I’ve been listening to and watching your channel for 3 years. I’ve learnt to much and been soothed so many times through the toughest patches. Yes, I’m one of those who listen to you to get through an anxious sleepless night. I absolutely loved/ do love Margaret and miss her but thank god her presence and wisdom is there for all of us in recorded form. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for the important work you do. Helping people become the best versions of themselves in the life learning arena of relationship. Love from N.Z

I love what you are doing. This kind of lesson is great. Thank you so much.

Thank you for all your help Coach. I’ve been watching your videos since 2018.

Wonderful Achievement. Thank for sharing. Please keep going further . I am waiting for your next content dear.

I really appreciate all your videos. I really like all of Victoria's input. I feel she's very inciteful. I found your channel shortly after I started healing my attachments and its nit easy but worth it. Thanks for all you do!

I lost my twin when we turned 32. It completely changed who I am. My ex was significant in helping me move through the process and the subsequent years to follow. That made me love him twice as much. After the break up of 30 years with this ex, on my birthday and the anniversary of my twins passing, he reached out to say he was thinking about me and my family. I was honored. I let him know he is still a part of our family. Right now, I am in no contact. I still have hope that there will be an epiphany on his part, that he'll realize how big our love is and how good it is to have a partner to count on. as for loss, I feel, it's not something we get over. somehow we learn to live with it.

My x and I did get back together after 7 months one day he just showed up with his bags he acts like nothing ever happened but I still feel some kind of way idk why I’m feeling this way he is treating me a 100 percent better

I watch your videos and I am glad to find you but in the end of the day practical nothing change . If they miss you or not , if they think about all these moments or not finally doesn’t matter . Practical nothing change , you are still totally strangers , separated…. I don’t know if make sense for us to think , even know with some way that dumpers miss us or the way we treat them . We can’t detach if we think with this way

can you make a video about when an ex drunk calls? mine left about 6 drunk voicemails after 6 months of no contact.

2 months after i met my ex,her father had an car accident and he was in a hospital for the next 2 or 3 months.The night that happened and i heard about it,i went looking for her at the hospital,went all the city on foot to be with her.I was there for her the whole time,when her relatives seemed to go crazy and kept telling her "oh,he won't survive..".Her father allmost completely recovered,she broke up with me a month ago and it seems she forgot all about the hard times i was next to her.Don't know what to think anymore😢

Sounds like a lofty promise.

You hit the mail on the head with the friends and family comment

My avoidant ex told me a couple weeks ago how he loves that I’m the only one who laughs at his jokes. Lol after all I do for him that’s what he remembers.

It’s been 4 weeks, he still hasn’t contacted me. So now I know he never cared or loved me the way I cared and loved him. I have to move on. I loved him unconditionally. But his love for me was full of judgement. I had to be perfect!

Craig I feel like I have all the answers now I've done all the work I did the healing course. I dis the be a master in relationships videos. I've learned everything I need to learn. the problem isn't my anxiety the problem is the sadness. Even though I'm nearly perfect now how do I get over the sadness of not being with my ex. Still waiting on her

Craig if im the one who made the mistake and it's been a month of no contact is there is a chance of her coming back

Am in the same position with my ex

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P.s this goes with my message down below 👇 I’ve had abandonment issues since I was a young girl my dad always left & came back & growing up dating most men did the same ( just thought I shouldn’t leave that out)

As Robert Greene said in the Art of Seduction, “Love can only grow in your absence.”

Been 38 days now. And I’ve been as tempted to message as I’ve been this entire No Contact. I’ve been gyming. Been studying. Been working on my communication. And I genuinely do *feel* as though I’ve come a long way - already. Still a long way to go. But yea, I am very, very tempted to reach out. Such a struggle man

Please, help me what to do he lift me 😢

Yes it's nice when we can try to remain so caring and understanding for others but this does not mean to tolerate abuse or any form of mistreatment, if you entertain people that do that to you, it is only inviting more of that abusive behavior. I have a friend that has some issues and when he starts to get passive aggressive or manipulative.. I take more space away from him and sometimes I think that I will never go to talk to him again, but I do still sometimes check in with him and we share some exchange, sometimes that's all it takes is to give them a space and time, now don't get crazy lol I'm not homosexual but a little kindness can sure go a long way. sometimes it may be the very thing that can help them save their own lives.

Hey Coach. If i was dumped, should I use social media to make a post the odd time or should i be totally silent on social media?

Hey coach Craig! Where do i send you guys a success story? I'm currently doing the creative healing course and im wondering where I can send my success story when I am at the point where I am fully healed and ready to move on. I promise that it will happen!

I am in the same exact situation. Went no contact and she called spilling her guts saying similar things in just 3 weeks. They don’t truly want to leave. It is a real situation where “it’s not you it’s me” is actually true. Patience will pay off. Eventually they will need someone they can trust and lean on. We are the ones that they eventually understand that will lead them out of the dark after they get help. My ex is in therapy and it’s making her realize who I was for her. I’m so proud of her.

My ex and I had been together for 5 months when his father passed away. He broke up with me 1 week later... He expressed doubts about his decisions 2 days later, but he didn't change his mind. We went in no contact for a month. He still liked my pictures of Facebook, but I didn't reach out. Lately, he's been sending me songs we often listened to when we were together, and nothing much else. It's hard, I don't know how to respond. It seems like he's thinking of me, but he doesn't want to talk much. It's a weird situation...

Not possible for me.

He had a good girl for sure. My step brother unalived himself rigtht when i started dating my ex. My ex was real sweet about it for about 6 weeks then expected me to get over it. He would get mad at me when i talked about him so i just quit talking about it. He caused so much stress i never got to focus on grieving. My ex was an alcoholic at the time so im hoping thats not really who he is because it wasnt good. I broke up with him because there were so many bad thigns he did and said while drinking that no matter how nice he was after he got sober i just couldn't get over the past. He literally told me i should be thanking him for listening to me (about my brother) 🙄

There is a guy who is on here does what you do and if this girl would haven given him this story he would say that the guy isn't interested even if granny fell down the stairs , idk if he's being a jerk , or just want to hurt people's feelings i honestly don't believe that's true you have to be selfish , horny , disgusting*ss to think this way honestly in this situation i don't think she stands a chance unless she completely pulls her energy away and he eventually longs for her and he makes the initiative because in my opinion I felt like she was being pushy and asking questions where he couldn't give her an answe to and i feel like yes he notice the qualities but i feel he used to it to his advantage to be nice i could never ever expect for him to give me an answer especially at a time like that no way i would def. Pull away until he felt better and let him doing the reaching out also involving friends and family too ! That's very immature and just find a way for her to initiate any type of convo . W/ him this story was annoying me ! Lol

This gurl was very selfish and self absorbed. He was grieving his dead brother for god sakes. She didn’t even offer empathy or sympathy. She doesn’t deserve him

This lady sounds kinda selfish and the guy is a sweetheart. Just support him how he needs help 😅