I watch this video periodically as I'm still new in my quilting journey without any quilting friends or a guild. It's the best advice I've found, it frees the soul, and keeps the craft honest. Thank you.
This couldn't have come at a better time for me, I just now finished the sixth quilt of a donation that I am doing - all I see are the mistakes. You've helped me see that I need to be kind to myself and celebrate what I am doing, which is giving a gift to a soldier.
What I was trying to say - I have judged my work against people that have quilted for years. You are encouraging me to love what I do and learn from what I do. THANK YOU!
I'm still wiping a few tears from my eyes. So well said. I always think of every quilt that I make as children. They're not perfect but unique and always create happiness.
You are an amazing human being Angela. I just started quilting 6 months ago, I have completed 7 quilts, and am working on an English paper piecing quilt now. None of them are perfect, but those who received them love them because while not perfect, they all tell the story of our relationship. I’ve even jumped in and tried my hand at free motion quilting. Not perfect by any means but finished and tried something I had never thought I could possibly do. I am proud of what I’ve accomplished and Angela, I owe you a debt of gratitude for your guidance and positive approach to something I never thought of accomplish. I know I am many years late to the party but THANK YOU for being you!
Oh Angela I so get what you are saying. This video is so special and you touched my heart in such a special way. I thank-you for that gift as I have nearly no family. I still have Don my husband and he only has me. You have given me an insight to what family really means and if you hadn't pointed that out to me and the meaning I would never have known the joy and the meaning of your quilt. What pleasure your grandfather must have had to see it finished before he died. Do you know Angela that you were actually the gift not the quilt because you finished it for him and you told him that he meant a lot to you and that is really rare gift of LOVE. Your a treasure Angela. Thank-you so much Angela for sharing your LOVE for your grandfather.
Oh Angela, you are an Angel. When I was four grandma taught me how to sew 4x4 quilt scares together. My job was to always so my favorite color of blocks. They were awful! Then the quilt scares would go into a special tin. I would not see them again until they were made into quilts. Mine turned out to be as beautiful as Grandmas' was. Of course I know she would take them apart and put them back together again. She was always proud of me and I love my Grandma so much and I miss her so much. I did not get one of those quilts because they were all used up! I remind myself how wonderful it was to crawl into Grandmas' be and take a nap with her underneath the quilt she and I made!
Well, after I quit tearing up I wrote down your uplifting sayings to encourage me and my friends to continue on quilting and being joyful and remembering what the quilt is for. I am the world's worst at pointing out my mistakes. My husband will be so happy to know I watched this video. Thank you so much and God Bless you in all you do. Oh, I hope it is alright if I put your quotes in our news letter for our guild.
I watched this back last year. I had made 3 quilt tops, one for each of my kids, for Christmas. I was fairly new to machine quilting and was so afraid to do the quilting myself. I had convinced myself I would pay someone to do the work because I didn't want to ruin them. Then I watched this and realized the purpose of these quilts was to give something of myself to my kids. Did I make mistakes, sure did but they didn't see them, they saw quilts made just for them with personal touches. I learned a lot from making them.
Angela, I started quilting just recently. My Mum passed just before Christmas 2017 and I struggled a lot with that. I kept her all her duvet and pillow covers, as memory and due to her skin, they were 100% cotton. Because of my depressions, I would only get up to work and after work back to bed, switching through RU-vid. Last year, I came across your videos and they inspired me to get my sewing machine out and give quilting a try. I used my mum's duvet covers and pillow cases to make quilts for my 2 grandchildren and one for each of my children, so they have a memory of their grandmother. I would like to thank you with all my heart for your videos, because they are fun to watch and informative. With help of your ideas and instructions, I had a way of fighting against my grieving that caused me to fall into a painful depression. I know that I will always miss my Mum and there will always be days as me being sad and cry. But with every Quilt it became easier, because my grief was replaced by memories of the nice, loveable and fun times, I had with my Mom. When you talked in this video about your husband's Grandfather, it touched me so deeply and I wanted to let you know that on the other side of the world, you have changed a life and that is a very special gift. I wish you all the best, health and success for 2020 and beyond. With greetings from Ireland, Sandra
Thank you for putting these thoughts into words and sharing them with us! I have officially been quilting for 20.5 years now, but it's only been the past three months that I've gotten excited about doing my own quilting. (That's what happens when your mom is a professional long arm quilter, you get pretty spoiled.) This week I finished my very first free hand loop-de-loops on a child's charity quilt, and tomorrow is guild night where I get to show it off. I had planned to start with the customary, "don't look too close or you'll see all my mistakes", but now I'm gonna really try to only brag about the progress I've made (and the places where I did a really good job). Thank you for the encouragement!!! 😄
Thank you so much for this quick reminder of what makes quilting so great. "Comparison is the thief of Joy" might have to be hung in my sewing room as a new mantra. Your three don'ts apply to many things in life and I'm taking them to heart. Thank you for sharing the story of Grandpa. What a joy it must have been to learn from him and share the tie quilt with him.
I first watched this video years ago and it changed my perspective completely. I shared it AGAIN today. Years Later these words are still changing quilters lives for the better. Thanks for all you do.
I thought your closing comments about the importance of a finished quilt was very touching. Thank you for sharing your story about your grandfather's tie quilt. I learned to quilt from a 61 year old woman with MS, who I worked for as a caregiver. She quickly became like an aunt to me. She passed away a few months ago, and since then I have finished two quilts for Christmas, one of which has been a WIP for about 3 years. I feel that the best way to honor her memory was to finish what we started. I have only made three quilts so far and a table runner, but they have all been given to special friends and family members. I'm looking forward to getting to the quilting process for a quilt of my own so that when I sit down to snuggle up with a finished quilt, I can remember the wonderful moments I shared with my beloved friend and mentor. Great advice all around, and a wonderful video!
Thank you for this video. I am my worst critic. My first ever quilt was a T-shirt quilt for my daughters co-worker. I learned on the internet. Made so many mistakes it is not funny. So when I gave it to her she was in awe. I was there telling her ever mistake. And apologizing for the quilting. I mean this was the very first time I have ever free motion quilted. To me it was terrible. To her it was and still is cherished.
"A finished quilt is always better than a perfect quilt". This is why you say in your shows: "close enough is good enough", isn't it? The story behind this means a lot to me. Thank you so much for sharing. It's hard being satisfied with what I've done because I'm a perfectionist. But now I have a new motto. Thanks, thanks, thanks.... Many greetings and love from Berlin/Germany Linda
Thank You Angela Walters! I have a quilt that I would like to 'quilt' for my Mom. My thoughts of actually sitting down and machine quilting it make me freeze up. I know my Mom would just really love the quilt because I made it for her. You are right. I shed a tear at your story, knowing that my Mom's health is not the best and I'd rather have her get warmth from a not so perfect quilt I made her with love than for me to miss my chance altogether. I will finish that quilt this weekend. And send it to my Mom. Thank you for the encouragement! I'm confused at how this video has any thumbs down. It's a zillion thumbs up for me!
No wonder we love you Angela. My only Grandson is now 19 years old and a freshman in college. I began a crocheted baby blanket for him as soon as I found out he was on the way. I soon discovered that the church my daughter and son-in-law attended was filled with expert talented women with crochet. So I stopped working on the blanket. Recently he and I accidentally ran across the half finished little blue and white blanket. I'll never forget the almost hurt look on his face. After listening to this touching account I now know it's time to lay aside my quilting and finish that blanket with love in every stitch. 💕 Thank you! ( Now where is the Kleenex for this teary Grammy?)
I had to wipe away a few tears before I can say that what you've said here is what I needed to hear.I'm posting this on my little sewing site I recently started so I can listen to this often,thank you so much!
Thank you so much for your Words Of Wisdom. I am a beginning quilter, but I love the process of quilting for a gift of love. I am also a perfectionist. Thanks for the reminder of the purpose and not the product. Happy Quilting!
WOW! Angela im so touched by your words im over 50yrs and have always loved quilting but was afraid have been learning by your channel and your advice and lectures Love it all Thanks a million your have givin me words of encouragement to keep on i dont know anyone who quilts so your my only hope Thanks!!!
Perfect!!!! This needed to be said so badly, so glad you did such an awesome job of saying it well. I teared up as well at the sweet story of your grandpa but also because my perfectionistic side has prevented me from finishing things; along with having ADD and several crafts, I do the same thing with. So many crafters need to hear this very inspirational video, thank you so much for giving us our joy back to continue our creativity and acceptance of our in-perfections.
Thank YOU for your sweet words! There's nothing wrong with being a perfectionist, but when it overshadows your love for what you do, it becomes a problem.
This will be my three commandments of quilting! I enjoy the process so much, that I simply do not use the word perfect. I just have a good time cutting, piecing, and sewing. Thanks for sharing your heartfelt words.
Thank you Angela. I am right where you are talking about. I have sewn my whole life so I know a machine inside and out. But not a quilting machine. Or at least not the use of free motion, which I love. I am starting to make my own stencils and they look pretty good. I have moved on to use a VERY smooth finished wood piece 12"x 3" as a straight edge. I was not ready to invest in quilting rulers quite yet. I am so proud of how much I have accomplished in the past year. I finally "GOT IT" with the rhythm of my machine and the movement of my hands. This was like the best AHA! moment. I really felt the sky was the limit. I have done all the DON'TS you mentioned, and am trying very hard to let them go. I am having a great time and will continue to learn as much as I can with great JOY. Thanks again, and Angela this is my first video of yours but NOT my last. I am late to "You Tube". OH ya, I bought a medium longarm last year, one I can sit down with. I love it ! And one more thing I am only 71 years old. So you can teach OLD dogs NEW tricks. Cheryl Looney, Arizona
Angela, your words couldn't have come to me at a better time. I have been having trouble free motion quilting a top for my Granddaughter and now know that I just have to sit and finish it because that is all that will really matter to her. Thank you for your wonderful words!
Hi Angela. I am 64 years old and have been making quilts about 6 years. However, I have most of them quilted by someone. I received 2 quilts that my great grandmother made. I don’t know when she made them, but she was born in 1868. One is a double wedding ring, all hand pieced and hand quilted. The other one is a ducks in a pond pattern that had never been quilted, just the pieced top. It sat in a closet for years, until a friend of mine encouraged me to hand quilt it. I did. Definitely not great! But you are absolutely right! The quilt hangs in my stairwell as a reminder to me of my amazing heritage! I never met her, but she’s close to my heart! A finished quilt is better than a perfect quilt top.
For her second birthday last fall, I gave my granddaughter my first finished bed quilt--for her doll crib. I made it with the quilt-as-you-go method with additional quilting before binding. Today I saw it again when my sweet granddaughter wrapped it around her new baby doll . . . then later used it as a placemat (LOL). I had added some of the quilting to hide imperfections. As a beginner quilter, I experimented with straight-line and specialty stitches. But, you know, seeing it again, I am really impressed with it! I had learned so-o-o much through the fantastic tutorials so many people generously share that even that first doll quilt is a keeper. Thank you for your contribution to my ever-expanding education in quilting.
You are quite an inspiration to me, It has been three years since I actually learned how to use a sewing machine and learned how to sew square pieces to put a quilt top together for the ladies of our church group, since then I have come a long way, quilting has become a passion of mine, and I dare to get one of your quilting tutorials (quilting negative space) and I used that to quilt my very first quilt and now I love it, you inspire me to use rulers and I love it, I never thought that I could do it, but you an a couple of other ladies have been my inspiration. Thank you for your so easy style.
You still made my cry, but only because between you and your husband's wonderful grandpa, this beginning quilter is going to keep herself focused on actually trying to finish something, anything for my elderly mother who was a very talented quilter and exceptional knitter before she became ill. I know she will love this first lap Quilt I'm making in her favorite colors and I'll be thrilled to finish it. So far, so good. I'm almost finished sewing together all the blocks, and I still have to decide on what to use for the backing, the batting, and the trim, not to mention the quilting itself. I plan to keep it as simple as possible so I can finish it soon. The other thing that is exciting to me is that I've found that I really enjoy making quilts. This is a lot of fun! I'm so glad, because this is a craft that gives pleasure in the making of it, and a sense of gratification when you complete each step and the item as a whole, plus the wonderful ability to be able to give something meaningful and personal to others. Because it IS better to give than receive.
Lovely comments Angela, thank you so much for sharing. You are so right about a finished quilt vs perfection. I've have been quilting for 8 months and am enjoying the journey. Have fallen Ito the 3 traps many times but the joy on my grandchildrens' faces when I have handed each of them their own quilt...priceless.
Love how you cut to the heart and soul. What a wonderful teacher your Grandpa was. Since I've started watching your videos, I have been repeating to myself, "a finished quilt is better than a perfect quilt top" and that keeps me going at it. So much of the quilting world is uptight, about things being perfect and that mistakes are errors; you've shown me that we can be easy about our quilting. I'm not an uptight girl in my life and I don't want to be uptight in my quilting either. Thanks so much!!!!
Angela, thank you so much for your inspiring words. At this point in my quilting adventure, your words and insights seem like they were directed right to me. It’s just what I needed to hear, and I should play this video over and over when I start to get down on myself. I taught myself to sew in 2012 at age 57, when I could no longer practice medicine. I started piecing and loved this new still. Last week, I just purchased my first long arm quilting machine. It’s a lot harder than I thought, so this is why I say I needed to hear your wise words right now at this moment. I have to remember to enjoy the process, just like I enjoyed learning to make my first quilt tops. I want to focus on the process of learning and doing. I also must stop pointing out my mistakes. Because of your wisdom beyond your years, I will always consider you one of my two quilting gurus. Thank you very much for your uplifting inspiration. I admire you, would like to emulate your work, and consider you a true gift to us quilter’s and to the world. I could go on, but I’ll just end here by saying how grateful I am that our paths crossed, if only through RU-vid videos, Craftsy, and cyberspace. Maybe one day I’ll be able to say hello to you in person and thank you face to face at a quilt show. Keep up your truly amazing work and positivity. Dr Michael J Elinski, East Hampton, NY
Angela, it is so very funny to me that you stated "Don't point out your mistakes" and I would like to share with you that is one thing my husband is always saying to me. Whenever I make a quilt for someone that is always the first thing I point out to the recipient. I have always felt if I show it first and show the person I know where the mistake(s) are then they can't point my mistakes out to me. I don't really think anyone I would give a quilt to would do this to me so I don't know why I do it. I will definitely have to work on this part of my personality. I have done this to myself all my life. Maybe, I need therapy!! There goes my piecing and quilt time!! Thank you, so much, Angela, for all of your shared experiences with all of us. I wish you would have been around when I was just in my 30's. You are a blessing to all of us!!
Thanks Angela. Most of the time, I do remember the last point. But sometimes the reminder is good to hear. I really appreciate that you shared this with the greater quilting world.
What a timely and true 3 things not to do! Your story touched me as I have inherited, from both sides of our families, several boxes of quilt blocks, both finished and unfinished. Some are over 100 years old. I fretted over how to handle some for over 15 years. Many are hand and treadle machine pieced. I decided to hand quilt small items and machine quilt larger unfinished quilts. Why, because a finished quilt won't be sitting in a box it will be in family hands to love and bring back memories. Currently, I am working on one where the precious hands passed into dust in 1959, the year I was born. My husband did sit on her lap breifly, his Great-grandmother, and remembers the stories from others of her quilting. On my side are the 100 year old hand pieced quilt squares dug out of a box to breath and live again. I am not one bit concerned about blending styles or fabrics, it is like the past and present holding hands. I am enjoying every step along the way.
Hello Angela I have been learning from and enjoying your midnight quilter series so much. Thank you. I just came across your daytime sessions and am so very appreciative of your openness and willingness to share so much of your personnel experiences with regards to why quilting is important to you. Specifically the details about the tie quilt verses the quilt top meant so much to me. I'm 67 years old and my 37 year old daughter who lives in Germany recently asked me why I spend so much time quilting. Frankly I was a bit dumbfounded. I had just given her a beautiful quilt I made and was proud of. At the moment I couldn't answer her. A year later I went back to Germany to visit her and the quilt was hung in her home prominently positioned. I was surprised and stunned by how beautiful it looked. Clearly it was important enough to her that she just didn't fold it up and put it on a shelf in her closet. I thought to myself, oh, that is why I quilt. I want to give a little bit of myself to my family. My other daughter received a quilt from me to celebrate her marriage which is also hung in her home. I know these quilts will be with them long after I am gone. They will remind them of so many other important moments they enjoyed with their family. Thank you for being so articulate about what we do. You are a gift to all of us who just quilt.
Thank you so much for this short segment. Yes, after shedding a tear, I thank you! I am trying so hard to quilt on a budget, and teach myself, and work at the same time like so many others. Not able to attend any classes as none are at night. I forge ahead with determination, its the sentiment behind each gift I give, the perfection is love, not in a straight stitch. As each day goes by I learn a little more depending on videos such as yours, thanks again.
Thank you Angela. I have many quilt tops waiting for me to get "good enough" to quilt beautifully. I have 27 grand and great-grandchildren of whom I want to finish their quilts before I pass on. You just helped me make up my mind to take them out of the cabinets and get busy quilting. Your right, they won't mean anything if they are not complete. It's time to stop practicing on the small ones and get them finished. Thanks again dear one.
As a newbie, looking for tips, I stumbled across the "Don't Do List". It was quite timely as I am in the midst of two days that I am devoting to my first large quilt. I had been frustrating at my lack of perfection until I saw your video and realized that I am LEARNING a new craft and the joy is in the learning process. Thank you for making my day.
Thank you so much Angela, for reminding us of the real nuts and bolts of the quilting process. Great advice and lovely sentiments to make it all so touching and memorable. Blessings for you and your wonderful grand-dad
This inspired me to not give up on a quilt I'm trying to finish making for my daughter. I watched almost all of your videos for advice, inspiration and knowledge. You are such an inspiration to me. Thank you!! ❤
Thank you for sharing your words of wisdom. 3 years ago my son and his friend were fishing on a bridge to celebrate their 25th birthday, they were both killed by a man texting and driving. I bought a sewing/embrodery machine so I could make a quilt in his memory. Instead I have been scared to make it because I want it to be perfect because it will represent my son. You taught me, It doesn't have to be perfect it will represent him, and no one will judge it because it will be made out of love. And a finished quilt will be better than one just waiting to be made. Thank you for sharing your story about your grandfather, and for inspiring me to make my quilt in memory of my son.
Angela - This is the first of your videos I have viewed. What wonderful advice and I love the story about your grandpa. He must have been a great teacher! I think your advice is good for all of our sewing projects -- not just quilts. Think about the purpose, whether a garment, zipper pouch, toy, etc., and how the person you give it to will use it and enjoy it. Thank you again for your words of wisdom.
Angela, very touching & the advice is worth its weight in gold. I have my husbands Grandmother's quilt pieces from a double wedding ring in a cardboard drink box. The sections that are done are completely hand pieced. He wants me to finish it. You've encouraged me to get it done. Thank you so
WOW....I am misty eyed and glad I decided to listen all the way thru and enjoy your words of wisdom....WOW...I too am a grandpa......and I especially like his quote about a finished quilt is much better than a perfect quilt top...or near what he said. that was very HEAVY for me....and everything you said about WHAT NOT TO DO/SAY are the best TOOLS to have in quilting. I am no stranger to quilting....am so called "self taught", but in reality alot of folks out there helped me learn....I listen to alot of videos / shows...and always keep the OPEN mindset....that I can always learn something new, and that TODAY I will learn something NEW...... Thanks very much....this is a very EXTREMELY Learning video and am glad I stopped in to view it. God Bless... Ken from Orlando, Fl, USA
This meant so much when I first heard it and just as much tonight when I heard it again five years later when I am finally making my first quilt after years of enjoying your craftsy classes , buying fabric and planning it out in my head. I am not beating myself up for making what was going to be a crib quilt but now will be for his fifth birthday. The original was about me and his parents-some fabrics of which will still be in the quilt--but now it will reflect what he loves and who he actually is. Thanks for “finished is better than perfect” something I need to remember elsewhere in my life too.
Thanks, Angela, for your wise advice! First off, I have been a perfectionist my entire life and it's caused me much frustration in many pursuits and made me give up several hobbies. I started quilting this summer and I'm now working on a quilt for my soon-to-be born granddaughter. All my points don't meet perfectly, my sewing machine should probably be tossed out the window and stitching in the ditch may be the death of me, but as I've worked on this quilt, I've decided to embrace the organic quality of quilting. With every quilt I make, I learn something -- about quilting and about me. Life is not perfect; I don't have to be either. That thought has been liberating!
Thanks for sharing these points! I just began quilting a few months ago and have now branched out into sewing clothing, after many years away from it and making purses (first time). After each completely project, I'm so critical of my work, to the point of being frustrated. I remind myself often that it's my work and I'm not perfect so nothing I set out to do is going to be perfect either. My husband told me that after my first quilt and I've tried to remember it along the way. I'm working on a king size quilt now and it's just a quilt top, hanging on my design board, waiting for me to finish it. Your comment, "A finished quilt is better than a perfect quilt top", hit home with me. I'm going to put your comments on the wall in my sewing room and hopefully it will keep me moving in the right direction and stop thinking that it has to be perfect to be acceptable.
So beautiful and so many precious ideas packed in these few minutes. Thank you so much for sharing the lovely story about your husband's grandfather, it gives a glimpse of what a wonderful relationship you shared with him.
What wonderful advice! I can fully relate to your story. I have a very dear friend who is fighting metstatuc breast cancer. I made her a quilt. It was not my best work but all of my love was stiched into that quilt. "A finished quilt is better than a perfect quilt top." Thank you for all you share.
Thank you, Angela, for this, especially the reminder about the purpose of a quilt. I have just "discovered" this and I thought it was so lovely that I made my non-sewing roommate watch it!
Awww man! You made my cry! Such wise advice, and such a touching story about your grandpa that really brings home the point. There are many things more important than perfection (which is unattainable anyway) such as the love, effort, and time (days, weeks, years of your life) that you put into a project for someone else, or yourself. When you give a handmade gift, that's what most people focus on, and how pretty it is, and how comforting it is and the awesome texture. That's what makes me value a quilt. :-) Thank you for sharing, even though it was hard for you to talk about. Your grandpa would be so proud of all you've accomplished. Shows what a little encouragement can lead to: Big things!
Wow, that really hit home for me. I am guilty of probably all three. I will work on that! I have a king quilt top for my bed that is pieced that I started free motion quilting and stopped because I couldn't keep my stitches even. My mission now is to get it back out and just "do it" as the saying goes. Done is better than perfect, I guess. Thanks for the great advice.
Thank you for your tutorials...and the insight into the joy of quilting. After two cornea transplant and ten years later I finished baby quilt...not my best. but I am happy that it's done.And satisfied of my work... the struggle ten years ago and finishing it now. Bless you for helping me be accepting and content. Being able to see has made a difference from then to now.... because I am a perfectionist . Gloria Schleh from Missouri.
Thank you for this video. I am in the process of teaching my 7 yr old grandson to sew and make quilts. I hope he will have the same wonderful memories after I'm gone(hopefully not for a long time) and treasure the quilts I've made him and what we will make together.
Wow what a great family story!! You and your Grandpa rock!! I'm a newbie to quitting so your story really hits home. Really its about me learning something new and doin the best job I can!! Amen Sista!!
Thank you for this, Angela! The title caught my eye as I was looking for another topic. So glad I stopped and watched. YES! A finished quilt (insert any handmade item) is better than an unfinished, perfect quilt. I love it!
I am a quilt maker but the rest of the crew around here are woodworkers. I haven't been able to convert the men in my life to my machines rather then their machines but we are ALL critics in our own work. Thank you for taking the time to remind us to enjoy our art. It's unfortunate we have lost a lot of joy doing what we love because we're so judgmental in our own craft. Fortunately, YOU have reminded us why we do what we love to do. Keep on keeping on because your videos are my lifeline to my connection with DW (he's my HQ Fusion BTW).
Hi Angela, I am so glad that I saw your video early morning before I went to my sewing desk. I am a beginner in quilting. I am so touched with your every word. Each word felt like it came deep down from your heart. I will keep your points in my mind, every time I sit down to do my project. Thank you so much for making me see the purpose of the project. Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. :) This video is a keeper.
Angela, thank you so much for the positive advice. I love to quilt. I enjoy each step of the process. I love to think of the people the quilts are for as I make them. Each one of my quilts is like a journal for me during the time I am making the quilt. They all become "memory" quilts for me in effect. I love the story you shared of the quilt you finished for your husband's grandfather. What a precious memory. Once again thank you for sharing your story with us.
Thank you Angela. You are so correct !!! Before I started quilting my girlfriend quilted me a wall hanging and I loved it. When I started quilting I thought my projects were terrible. I pointed out every mistake to her. She said that mine were excellent and pointed out her mistakes on the wall hanging. I had never seen ANY mistakes until she pointed them out. I just love your attitude. Thank you so much.
As a recently retired physician and a new MALE quilter I am still navigating my way through the landmines of this newly discovered art form. My compulsive nature has served me well professionally, however, I have discovered that my compulsivity has been my own worst enemy when it comes to learning this new art as well as in my well honed fly tying skills. Just as the fish don't care if my feathers are a wee bit out of place so too I have to keep convincing myself that no one else will care if my stitches or quarter inch seam allowances are a bit off. Thank you for the reminder and your encouraging words. Greetings from Rapid City, SD
I can't believe I just "happened" to stumble on this. I have a complex quilt that I made for my son and DIL. I lost my job and couldnt have it professionally quilted so I was forced to machine quilt this queen quilt using the embroidery attachment on my machine. Three weeks and many, many frustrating mistakes later, I finished it. From an overall viewpoint, it's beautiful; the piecing is near perfect and I am very proud of it - but I can most assuredly point you to every single mistake in the quilting. I just wanted to say thank you for this video piece. It IS easy to compare and pick it apart - and lose sight of the purpose. Especially when you're already down because you're dreams of taking it further were cut short from a job loss... Yeah I know. Im whining. Anyway, just wanted to say thank you. ♡ Your msg was well received. I cannot fathom why there would be any thumbs down on this video...
I've just listened to this four times in a row. I'm going to get these three bits of key advice into my brain and soul if it kills me - they are absolutely hitting the nail on the head for me and couldn't come at a better time. Thank you so much, Angela.
After quilting for years off and on, and making several projects in the last month, I finally made a wall hanging and I didn’t have to rip out one seam! I can’t say I didn’t compare my quilting to Angela’s, but I gave myself grace and kept on sewing my crooked quilting. My husband proudly put his U of M wall hanging in his man cave, he loves it!
Wow, that was powerful!. You know all of us that sew tend to do the same things as you mentioned here. From this day forward, I will be practicing these things. I look for the joy in other things in life, it is time I did so with my sewing. Thank you!
Thanks Angela. I love this story and what it means. I have only been quilting a year and this makes so much sense. I have learned so much and continue to learn. I am making quilts for Christmas gifts this year. I know they are not perfect, but I just totally finished my first quilt and am so proud of it. Now I have three more to bind for completion. Blessings to you and your family.
OMG I am so guilty of the first two points. I see an amazing quilt from someone who has been quilting for decades and I start thinking that I am the worst quilter. I literally started crying when I heard you say that. I enjoy so much making the quilt and have such a huge sense of accomplishment when I finish it. Then I start looking at it and all the mistakes and I see someone else's quilt that is has such intricate work and is so much more elaborate and I think that I suck. I lose that sense of joy that I got from picking the fabrics, piecing them together in a cool pattern and the wonder of watching a video and copying or even altering that pattern to make it my own. I was at the Quilt Guild show in Austin, but had only just started quilting so I hadn't found your videos yet. Thank you. I never had the experience of quilting with my grandmother's (both of whom were hand quilters). But every time I sit down and start to make a quilt, I feel so close to them.
Thank you for the inspiration. I as well have taught myself to quilt. My very first quilt was a memory quilt for my daughter, made of shirts from her dad. He passed away 2 years ago of a massive heart attack. I watched hundreds of videos and read many blogs on how to piece the top, on quilting and binding. As soon as I completed the binding I sat and cried because I had actually finished it. Again thank you for the inspiration because I was my own worst critic.
Thank you for this video...My daughter has been very hard on herself as a quilter, nit picking every little error she thinks she has done. I sent this video, as it is the most heart felt video I have watched, and I know after viewing this she will than begin to relax and really enjoy her journey as a quilter. Again Thank you... Thank you... Thank you...
You are so right on about everything you said!! I've learned also that family and friends don't care about the little errors I've made they are just happy that I made them a quilt! I'm not anywhere with free motion and I don't have a long arm as I can't afford it after having 4 major back surgeries. But I still love to quilt and people want my quilts. Thank you for a great reminder because I had forgotten what you just said. Sorry about your grampsand wish you a Merry Christmas!
Wonderful! I'm struggling with a piecing I have never done before. I am very much a novice. Things are not lining up perfectly. I needed this. Your story at the end made me reflect on a quilt I have, and compare how I see it to how anyone who matters will see the one I am strugling with. My maternal grandmother started a quilt just before she died, in 1929, and her quilt group finished the top and gave it to her mother, to give to my mother who was a baby at the time. About 1998 my mother's quilting group helped her finish it. She gave it to me just before she died. I've seen the blocks my entire life; as a child whenever I would rumage around in Mom's cedar chest. Never then or in the ten+ years I have had it did I notice any imperfection...not until I recently decided to wash it and put in on my bed. I only noticed because I was looking closely to see if it was likely to sustain any damage in washing. It is clear that four or five different women sewed the Dresden Plates and only one had a somewhat properly working machine, lol. I treasure it no less. It is beautiful!
This is such great advice. Thank you. It made me think about the quilt I made one of my nephews. I pointed out all the mistakes to his mom when I gave it to her to give to him. They sent a video of when he got it - he was leaping and dancing in front of the quilt (he is 5). I do not think he "saw" my mistakes.I am going to make a sign to post on my cubicle at work with all of your advice.
Angela I so enjoy your quilting shows. I also enjoy the history you share about your own quilting process and treasures. I have started to really enjoy actual quilting of my quilts. I have just jumped in after watching so much youtube and different quilters. I am now quilting an irish chain quilt for my great grandson to arrive in August. I am already thinking of one for his older brother that will be twin size. And then of course one for their cousin Arabella. It is so much more fun to do and learn than to languish over what I would like to do. I have so much to still learn but life is about learning and loving. Thank you for just being so down to earth. Deb
Thank you for the quote"Finished quilt is better then a perfect one" i have been postponing finishing my granddaughter's quilt because of fear of not doing a good enough job! Now I can with purpose and determination
Such a touching story. Makes me think of my grandmother who quilted and how proud she would be of me quilting now. Thanks for the pep talk.... I needed it. Love your videos
This is wonderful advice. I’m 68 and am going to learn to quilt. My wife and I just bought a mid- arm w/ frame and are exited to get started. My wife is already a quilter but has been using a baby lock sewing machine
Thank you for this! I have finished my 1st ever quilt top and have been hesitant to quilt it my self. I’ve watching every tutorial and practiced (the paisley is my favorite). However, I really need more time and practice to be good enough to use anything but a straight line stitch. I have even gone on to making another quilt top but after seeing this, I’m going to go back to quilt my 1st finished top. You’re so right, a finished quilt is much better than a dozen perfect quilt tops! Thanks again. I’m so glad I found my new therapy!
Good advice! The quilts I love the most are the 1st quilts I made for my children. I had cross stitch squares of their favorite characters, (cross stitch was perfect) and I put borders on them, then joined them together and bordered the whole quilt, no machine quilting - I just sewed the backing on like a bag and turned inside out. I can tell you the borders weren't equal and the quilt was a little crooked, but I was so proud of these quits, especially when my children took them to show and tell at pre-school; all the kids wanted me to make them one. As my children grew out of their old quilts, they got a new quilt and each time I made one, I learnt something new in making them. Even today after I have learnt so much more about quilting, those old quilts are very precious to me. There is a saying I have heard from the Amish, "only God is perfect" hence they make a deliberate mistake in each of their quilts, not to mention the non-deliberate mistakes. I think quilters often forget how much time, effort and love goes into each of our quilts. Learn to love them faults and all, learn from your mistakes for next time, because the sun will rise tomorrow, and your next quilt will contain something you wish you had done better.
I love how you honestly share your heart. In my devotions today I was reading in James about taking care of widows and orphans and realized that making baby quilts for charity is part of that. The less I stress about making everything 100% PERFECT the more quilts I can make and bless more new moms. Years ago I adopted a drug baby as a single mom and a woman crocheted a blanket for her. Never once did I search it for her mistakes or even think about them. As my daughter grew this was her special blanket and she often asked about the woman that made it and was thrilled that someone made it for her when she was a baby.
I was looking for quilting ideas and ran across something even better. I found something so much more useful then quilting skills; joy. You have great insight behind the joy of quilting as an amazing tool for peace. I have enough frustration in other aspects of my life. It was great to hear validate my beliefs; that is, quilting is my personal gift to me and allows me to put on the brake instead of increasing the pressure to go go go. Thanks for sharing your beautiful ideas. They are all so true.
Angela, I shared your video on a Facebook quilting forum because several folks were expressing disappointment in themselves and their abilities. I think this is just so inspirational. Thank you for this!
Very well said. I am just starting out doing quilting and I had to say to myself, " When it's a cold night no-one will be looking at the sewing, they'll be huddling under the quilt cosy and warm". As you say, "Remember the purpose". Thank you, and I'll try not to mention my mistakes.
I don't know about targeting just quilters with the "Don't Do" advice in this beautiful instruction video - I think it is equally relevant to life in general. It could do with being watched by everyone in the world. Well done you for encouraging people to be as equally generous with their acknowledgement of their own skills as they are for others. Thank you.
I'm just starting to quilt after doing bits of home decor sewing over the years. Thanks for teaching me first what quilting is really all about. I won't forget it.
Angela.... you are one fantastic mentor . Love your words, your work and hope that with practice I develop a tenth of your talent. AND I so agree with you about a finished quilt is better than a perfect quilt.... those words resonated in my soul. Thank you
❤️ Mad love for you Angela ❤️ So many people are only out for themselves & are Not cheerleaders for people who are starting out or who don't have the confidence to even show our work. I have a problem with being critical of every single error that others only see the Beauty in. Thank you for being such an Amazing woman. I really enjoy watching your tutorials. ❤️❤️❤️❤️ My most cherished possessions is my Grandmother's handmade quilts with feedsacks. I love seeing every single stitch she hand quilted ❤️
Wow Angela, talk about hitting home!! My old mantra , "perfection is the enemy of success ", will now be replaced by "comparison is the thief of joy"! So what if I have been sewing all my life! I am as good as I am at this moment! I am going to enter my quilt into our towns 100th anniversary quilt show! Thanks for breaking down the issues into simple solutions
That was beautiful! You are a great source of inspiration to me! I really say to my self every time I watch your videos: I LoVe HER! Thank you Angela you are my number one mentor on this quilting journey! Blessings!!!
I just finished my very first free motion quilting project for my ex-mother in law. I showed it to my husband and was depressed I didn't stitch in the ditch, exactly, in a few places. This video hit me right in the heart. I'm gonna make signs of your sayings and hang them up so I can always see em. Thank you from my soul... Barb from AZ
