I have empathy for Tia. This lady was bonded to her sister first, then her now ex-husband. So, she has over 40 years of being tied to someone, to now, transitioning into being by herself. Hell, i would be crying to. That is a very tough transition in life, and a huge wakeup call.
@@earthmatters8866 ummm so cancers are ruled by the element water or cups if you read tarot. That means emotions play a big role in their lives. Obviously everyone cries. Nothing wrong with that. It’s actually very brave to be that vulnerable. I’m just making a correlation between what I know about signs and behavior, but you know, hit dogs always holler. 🤣
@@earthmatters8866 I honestly feel like if you have the courage to be transparent and cry in front of ppl that is a beautiful quality ❤ so many ppl would love to reach that level of intimacy and can’t. I think Cancers being emotional is such a blessing ❤❤❤
I was watching a clip of Tia and Tamera’s old reality show and Tia gave birth to Cree and she immediately started working after 6 weeks, she was sad that she was missing sentimental moments of her son Cree, and Tamera told her “you don’t have to take all these acting projects in one year, you have a choice” and Tia said “i don’t have a choice, after sister sister, we didn’t work for 7 years” but now i think she had to work because she was the bread winner and Tamera got to be a stay at home wife.
@@suemurray8808 that’s true but after her wedding she wanted to relax for a bit and enjoy herself as a newly wed marriage, this was back then before The Real. Tia was against her taking that break
@@ciarajca25During the 7 year break they had a social life and attended Pepperdine University, graduating with honors! Once in their teens andSister Sister ending they had their own friend groups and own identity. She the youngest they never have true independence identity as the oldest seem to have that's why she married early. They met at 25 her son is maybe 14 she didn't have kids young...she just turned 45.so she was average age. This is her mid life crisis so she need to become a serial dater and stop caring what ppl think. Tia CHOSE marring a man beneath her acting abilities that's why she went to work after having Cree. Tamera wasn't even married during that time she was planning her wedding and was also CHOOSING her acting gigs selectively...as the older sister (mindset wise) that's what Tamera was trying to get Tia to understand but Tia wanted to be a work horse who had that scarcity mindset cause her husband barely got gigs and wasn't doing anything on the side to bring income in.
I was talking about this with my cousin and I said I believe as she got older and living her younger life as she did, things in her changed, she changed, wanted some things to be different and didn’t have the language within her relationship to say what she needed and thus decided to divorce. She needed to do something drastic. But I agree with you she don’t need to jump into anything. She needs to just be for a while.
I agreed with you for the most part. As vocal as Tia is, she was definitely telling Corey to step it up. She was the one flipping all the bills and he was doing nothing. She realized that she married a stay at home husband and he did not present himself as that from the beginning. She felt tricked because she was.
What stuck out the most for me was that Tia said that she had been going to these type of events every year and he never wanted to go, until they got a divorce. Like TF?
He went because he was hoping to run into her. That's why his face lit up when he saw her. I think he's hoping they can find they're way back. And maybe they will after a few years apart to grow.
I love tia's show!! If you have been married and divorced you will know where she is coming from. Please let tia live her life. Tamera is living hers too
Tia needs therapy and that’s no shade. I went to therapy over my relationship with my sister. I learned in therapy that it’s ok not to have a close relationship with a sibling. We are cordial but not close and I’m fine with that.💅🏾
I love ❤ Tia out of both of the twins 👯♀️ I think she is the realest. Love that she’s showing that breakups aren’t easy it’s definitely a grieving process.
So awhile ago I replied to someone's comment saying she's the "Black Twin". I agreed with the person. I went to Tamara's page to find out I was blocked. 😂 I was like girl I wasn't even following you! Anywho carry on and Hey Cousin!!
She divorced him because she wasnt happy and after 20 years, not having someome in your space all the time now can alos me tough..i cant stand people who cant sympathize and will do and put up with anything just to have a warm body men laying up with them. Plus, he does give me he was not contributing financially and the way he was talking to her during one of their interviews... Nah.
All of this! I remember that interview! It seems like she probably had to coddle his feelings a lot in the marriage . She probably had to do the most as to not make him feel less of a man while not presenting to be the big personality that she is. SMH
Thank you Rodney! Look at the optics, Corey was married to Tia for 10 years and produced nothing. He didn't even try to pursue more in his acting career until she filed. Sir, you were supposed to be doing that 10 years ago. Stay at home husbands need to be transparent from the dating stage!
This right here is the golden comment. You put it in perspective for me. She left because she got bored, he wasn’t challenging himself enough. He wasn’t being the man in the relationship
@@A_C2215 Rodney said you don't hear anything bad about him and that's because he was DOING NOTHING. The man hit the jackpot and stopped doing anything. What is there to teach the children? She was tired of being the everything in that relationship.
He can take a lesson from Dolly Parton's husband for sure if he wasn't confident in being on the scene as a husband to a star. I, too, think he was lazy & insufferable!
@@xluvsRIGHT! Ppl always like to paint the quiet person as the non-problematic person & that's furthest from the truth. That's why ppl are easily trying to paint her as the problem.
19:10 Tia pick Corey up at a bus stop. The sisters were driving a drop top and offered Corey a ride home. The way you start a relationship is how it will end.
They were also young actors. Tia and Tamera lucked out as they did not do much right after Sister Sister. Without sister sister as struggling actors they too would have been on the bus
@@ebonydixoncollins1169 what's the point of this comment? They could've been broke so that means date down no matter the finance. Also after Sister Sister they had Disney movies and Tamera had the show Strong Medicine and Tia had The Game.
@Kinksgalore there were plenty of years when the twins said themselves where they were trying to get acting jobs after SS. My point is they're in a career that's not guaranteed to always have ups. Not surprising that a new actor didn't have $ yet.
@MrsMoore1 I don't think they are allowing you to post links on other people's pages like once before. (Saurabh Facto) is the person named I went to. FYI
@@suemurray8808 She was paying her high ass rent, we both were talking about having to have a second job (and she's a damn Accountant!). She said she was fortunate to have chosen a good guy to have kids with but a lot of women aren't that lucky!
@@SHunt2024as a woman no longer "going through something" I echo those sentiments as my teen does her weekly chores. Even if you were married happily or not i echo them. When I was childless I moved differently the stress hits different when you have a child NO MATTER the circumstances and its never ending it just changes and lessons the older they get but never goes away.
In your short bio about Tia history of her marriage, Tia did everything right. How many woman can say that they stayed a virgin until 25, I’ll wait 😂? Tia marred before having sex, and children. That is a wonderful thing. Unfortunately my life didn’t go that direction. However, I wished that it did. Nonetheless, we don’t know what really happened in their marriage as to why Tia wanted to divorce. In this day in time coming out of a marriage and trying to get into the dating scene is not easy. This era of life isn’t interested in relationships or marriage. People are only interested in hooking up and using you for what they can get out of you in the process. I wish they could’ve worked through their issues instead of divorcing. Nonetheless, I’m wishing them both the best ❤
Actually Tia said she met Corey at 20, had sex with him at 25 and then married soon after. She has no experience dating and exploring to see what she really wanted
Majority of women are scared to leave because they think they can't find anyone better. I give her credit for having the courage to leave. She wouldn't have left if things were that good.
@earthmatters8866 lolol he literally got that check two seconds ago. And it's a good thing everyone doesn't think like this. This kind of thinking keeps folks miserable 😢.
I LOVED Half and Half, and I always thought Essence was beautiful and so is the lady who plays her mother DeeDee. I also think Essence played on the show with Tia's brother. The brother was very smart on the show, and they were being raised by the dad.
Once a crier always a crier! They both have always been criers. I think one of their parents is also maybe the dad I cant remember but their first show is when they showed how much they cried even their Cousin Tyrone is a crier, and cries with them. Nothing wrong with it...I'm one too 😢😂
I haven't watched the show, but I may check it out after watching your review. I definitely remember Tia being in those comments liking stuff and it didn't do anything but fuel a bunch of narratives as to why her and Corey got a divorce. Thats why on the preview clip that was going around, I was a little irritated with Tia.
She just needs to go out and have her second childhood. She’s been married, her kids aren’t babies, she has a full co parent, and she’s financially secure. She needs to go out and date for fun (whilst being discerning) just enjoy her life. She’ll probably run into her next life partner when she’s out doing her thing and if not just live it up 🤷🏻♀️
Tia’s development was arrested. I think not being allowed to date until she was 18 was extreme. She missed out on a lot of living. I remember Corey on a couple episodes of S.W.A.T. He’s popped up on our TV screens here and there.
Honestly it's normal for Caribbean people. Her mom is from the Caribbean and so am I. I couldn't date until I was 19 and my development is fine and I have no regrets that I delayed tethering myself to men
I don’t think it was the fact she couldn’t date until 18, I think i it was moreso the fact she got with Corey at 20. He’s the only person she’s ever dated so she has no life experience outside of that.
I enjoyed the show and I love her friends they are so supportive but not yet negative. Because you can always count on that ONE friend who thinks about throwing you a DIVORCE party. Lol😂😂
I feel like im going to like this show! To add to the viral comment, I feel like now, I understand what she meant. It's weird being in relation to certain women who are married, even if they are family. Tamera seems very marriage and family-oriented & Tia is no longer in that space. It can be very difficult relating to people like that & you can sense the subtle, if not apparent, judgment or just distance. The convos aren't the same because day to day experiences are vastly different. Now she's a divorcee so that's a major blow & insecurity for a lot of people. Idk if they've had a discussion about it 1 on 1, but she can also probably be internalizing the feelings of not knowing HOW to relate to her sister any longer. Picking up the phone or popping up could possibly make her feel like she's a burden of some sort given the dynamic of their relationship as their reality show perceived them to be. She's also trying to find & learn herself. In doing that, it takes radical humanism in a sense to do so. I can't imagine doing so while in the public eye & feeling the need to verbally articulate your every thought & move while being ridiculed. If anyone read this, thank you. I know it was long asl. Lol
"Don't cry for me Argentina!" She did go to college - Pepperdine University. Her portrayal in the reality show with her sister has cemented my negative impression of her. I will watch all of your reviews, though!
This right here!! They both graduated with honors didn't they? Yeah ppl that actually watch the first reality show know how Tia tried to preserve her situation has better than, more important etc that Tamera saw what was really going on. It slightly reminds me of how Tamar got on camera claiming Vincent to be "TOTALLY DIFFERENT" than her sisters husband's only to have ended in divorce with them. Tia is the younger of the twins ans she moves like the younger siblings. Always wanting to be first, always wanting the attention trying to so the most. She wasn't a young mom she just was tethered to a man not on her level at a young age and let him consume her world. Her son is probably 14 and she's 45 she had children at and "average" society age, just her husband dispised her for not being as successful as her.
I think Corey was unavailable emotionally, didn't listen and was not interested in anything sh wanted to do. He was very stale on their reality show, and Tia didn't look happy then. When they were trying to figure out the kind of man she wants, she mentioned having someone fun, a good role listener and understanding and Corey didn't come off as none of that
Chile when Essence Atkins showed up on this week’s episode of Reasonable Doubt, I was tryna figure out if that was Essence or Tia! That was probably the first time I’ve ever not been able to tell Tia from someone and it wasn’t even her twin! I can tell them apart all day.
In your short bio is Tia history of her marriage, Tia did everything right. How many woman can say that they stayed a virgin until 25, I’ll wait 😂? Tia marred before having sex, and children. That is a wonderful thing. Unfortunately my life didn’t go that direction. However, I wished that is did. Nonetheless, we don’t know what really happened in their marriage as to why Tia wanted to divorce. In this day in time coming out of a marriage and trying to get into the dating scene is not easy. This era of life isn’t interested in relationships or marriage. People are only interested in hooking up and using you for what they can get out of you in the process. I wish they could’ve worked through their issues instead of divorcing. Nonetheless, I’m wishing them both the best ❤
I am a 30 year old virgin (by choice as I don't believe in sex before marriage) but I feel like windmilling atp 🤣😫. I was never interested in marriage and now that I'm starting to warm up to it finding a partner seems to be very challenging..Sigh
Tia said what she said. She said they aren’t close in proximity ! She can’t expect her sister to drop everything and come stay days with her and etc. like she said her sister is married, with jobs, and with kids ! She literally said they aren’t close and elaborated that she meant in proximity to each other !
The show is a lot less annoying than the commercials made it out to be😆 It seems authentic and I applaud Tia for being so vulnerable. She does come across as cookie cutter happy all the time on her social media so to see this side of her is refreshing
What I don't like is how people try to paint Corey as a deadbeat. He's been in numerous series and in regards to acting it's not like Tia has been doing very much lately
Let's keep it a buck, Tia has always worked and has been consistent. Corey had jobs here and there, and they weren't lead roles. Not to mention her other streams of income.
You're the first and only person to refer to Corey as a deadbeat. Not as successful as an actor yes, saw an opportunity to advance his career or lifestyle yes, kept husband yes, but never a deadbeat.
I personally think Tia married him more so because she lost her virginity to him. She probably loved him, but knew they probably should not be married.
Tia has children, a big family, friends, I’m assuming a civil co parenting relationship, resources & access. She has way more than the average person.Not to say her feelings aren’t valid, but she also has access to the best therapists. She had to have known that, “graduating” from her marriage was going to have heavy consequences. And why can’t she call Tamera? Tia knows that her sister has also found her voice, and Tamera is not dealing with any ole thing.
I love Tia's daughter so much ❤❤ She's so adorable and i love it... I think Tia needs therapy from that relationship and the relationship of her twin. I think Tia was broken down with that relationship with Corey
I think people are tired of her because she popped out talking about her divorce was like a graduation and she’s always on social media dancing acting happy. Now she wants us to feel bad for her for being lonely. If that’s the case she shoulda divorced quietly. Then when she did her show and cried and shared her loneliness people would be able to understand. That’s the downside to faking happy, when you tell the truth about not really being that happy no one has sympathy for you.
I see what you mean. On social media, she was acting as if her life was fantastic SINCE the divorce but honestly, she was lonely and sad but wasn't showing that to the world.
@@angelawilson1828truth is shes been lonely and sad their whole marriage. Yall really gotta go back and watch their first reality show. They are deom the Customer Service codes with age. I was just telling my daughter that its becomes second nature putting on a front when you worked in a field that serviced ppl...that both of them but Tamera doesn't allow too much of her very personal vulnerable moments on her social since living the Real. Tia has.
12:40 I’d like to know how her momma and daddy was living during her childhood. Because society says a lot of things that we haven’t seen her subscribed to so I’m curious how she felt this burden if this wasn’t also what she saw in her home. Society said, now how I get in this? Lol Maybe she don’t want to throw momma and papa Mowry under the bus; especially after how the comments ate Tamera up when she married that YT man. But TT, if yo momma was his lover and his secretary working everyday of week; then say that’s where you learned your role as a women.Now maybe society confirmed what you learned 🤷🏽♀️ still love you TT lol
People are vilifying her for going through normal things that happens to average individuals. It's nothing to be ashamed of if you are getting divorced and you're unhappy or embarrassed or ashamed if you are exchanged from your sister or a sibling. Just because you are related does not mean you will be close. Everything doesn't have to be broadcast however it's okay to go through normal life situations and deal with it accordingly.
I totally understand Tia's pain. I've been with my husband for 26 years, and we went through a rough period! When I tell you!!!! I wanted to jump feet first in a casket! I feel for Tia, that pain is real and there's not too much you can do about it.
Tia is getting all the smoke for leaving her marriage. And for whatever reason she is not saying why she said goodbye to Cory. All I know for certain is her brother said Tamara’s husband is his favorite brother-in-law and i have seen Cory acting short with Tia. Also, she put in the work for the $$$ 💰💰 to support her family for years. So my question for Tia is: Why did you leave Cory? Now that you have left him you are so unhappy. you are telling us a lot except for why he got thrown back in the dating pool. If you don’t want to tell us , your fans, then stop playing with us. Take a seat somewhere and leave us out of the craziness. I WISH YOU WELL TIA ❤
Rodney, I see what you mean about the wedding dress but why burn it, just give it to someone. I bet there is a woman who would LOVE to have a free wedding dress.
Cousin you getting it wrong. Tia and Tamera are Pepperdine graduates so they did have their college experience and once they in the teens and left the Sister Sister they had their own friend groups and own identity. She the youngest they never have true independence identity as the oldest seem to have thats why she married early. They met at 25 her son is maybe 14 she didn't have kids young...she just turned 45.so she was average age. This is her mid life crisis so she need to become a serial dater and stop caring what ppl think.
But the show cut the scene of her what she said about her sister and edit in a newer more accepted version because of the bad wrap they got on the trailer. The thing is Tia didn’t want to tell Tam about this project cause she did not want any comparisons and wanted this show to be about her alone. And we should stop calling Tam the white twin cause it hurts her a lot.
We never heard Cory say , I wanted to go marriage counseling , I wanted to save the marriage, I think he was just tired of her, I watched some TV shows they attended, that he was done and un bothered
Rodney We are right here with the Ciara thing. I'm not a fan of hers. I think she overstepped and I believe this will be an issue in the future. She's the type who will get too comfortable.
I watched the show and it was good but I’m not in that space so the show was so up and down for me. 😢😂😊 I would say take your time to heal, bc it took me 3years to get over my divorce.
I believe that Tia and Tamera their relationship has something to do with the way Tamara is living her life which is not her life and it's because of the life of Tamara's husband the white man she's married to Tamara does not represent anything black like Tia does to from Tamara's hair to her clothes you will not any Blacklist coming from Tamera if you ever seen her on her Tik toks when she's cooking or whatever or her lives or whatever you want to call it cuz I've seen Tia on Tik toks or whatever I believe that chills life Castillo represents her Blackness you can tell from her hairstyles from even doing tick tocks to the way she dressed to your represents that she come from a black woman that they mother is black and their father is white Tamara is living the life that her husband wants her to live and that's a white woman's life that's just my opinion I know a lot of people don't see it that way and not looking at it that way but in my personal I believe that Tamara's husband has something to do with Tia and Tamera relationship
Tia said what she said. She said they aren’t close in proximity ! She can’t expect her sister to drop everything and come stay days with her and etc. like she said her sister is married, with jobs, and with kids ! She literally said they aren’t close and elaborated that she meant in proximity to each other !
WE all know what she said and what she meant. Tia not fooling anyone. They haven't lived close to each other since Cree was born. That been 14 years or longer. They haven't been close close since University when they gained their own friend groups and identifies. After graduating is when Tia got married. So its been decades (2) since they've been close close.
