Really most woman are "hurt" when they take a strange dude home to have sex with? So why do these woman take these guys home if it happens that way so much? Ppl just say stuff, her actions don't matter?
There would be less women like this if they were taught their value. Alot of women are not taught that their bodies are something special and shouldn't be giving it out to anyone. Growing up I made so many mistakes because I was never taught my value.
All that over some ugly shoes…phewww she’s lucky she didn’t end up a statistic. Lord thank you for your mercy because I’ve definitely made some very foolish decisions
There’s nothing casual about sex. Who you lay down with matters because whatever spirits they have will remain with you once their gone💯❤️ Demons are real and it’s not worth it!
This is insane! If she is an average representation of the dating pool, it explains SO much. Why so many women are being deleted, why there are so many unwanted babies, and why there is so much anger goin round. She got online, shared her intimate business with millions of strangers! She talked about sleeping with any random man she locks eyes with. I mean, she talked about it like she was talking about what she had for lunch. No shame. 😞
You listened to this story about a man entering her home to steal her items and conclude WOMEN are the problem??? You can’t be helped…it’s a lost cause😂
Exactly what I was thinking. She is the average representation of the dating pool and it’s so clear why things are the way they are now. I wish women of today had more self respect.
We need to bring shame back to this society; starting with people over sharing on social media about stories NO ONE even asked for, posting their intimate marriage business, and immodesty!😭
It's her truth. It brings awareness to others who're making poor choices which can save other's lives. We have got to stop hiding our mess. Instead, let's stop doing stuff behind closed doors.
@@Barnyard-sunlight You have to remember this is an immature world. She exposed him for stealing, not that fornication is wrong. If someone spiritually guided isn't pointing out the wrong in this, who else will? She gave up her body and all she cares about is her shoes.
See what’s incredible to me the extreme naïveté for as “smart” as she able to articulate her thoughts but s lacks judgement, forethought and critical thinking skills. All she could care about is a pair of outdated looking shoes with a high price tag on them?!?! So your body has less value than the shoes???? This vagabond not only stole her shoes but he took her body (probably unprotected intercourse) and took her common sense! And see if I say to you as a more mature woman you want to criticize my generation for thinking we know everything and you don’t want to listen to advise now what happens is you get burned on so many levels. Now not only did he steal from you, sexed you for free and a pair of shoes, now you’re publicly shamed because you put your biz all out in the Internet streets for more strangers to violate you verbally…c’mon baby you got to start thinking…this is a major lesson for everyone who sees this situation play out on the internet. Anyway ⚜️Sir Michael⚜️ thank you for the video and the work you’re doing to get people to think🤔 💭 🧐 dropper about how one will choose to move in the world.
The fact she brought him to her house is crazy when she didn't even want a relationship with him. What was her plan for getting rid of him once she inevitably established that she didn't want to take him seriously? He could just come to her house any time!?
Man the cringe was so strong listening to her recount of events. However, I refuse to judge. I've made some dumb decisions in my life as well, the difference though I took accountability. The minute I took accountability the minute I begin to see improvement in my decision making moving forward. 🤷🏽♀️
She referenced the shoes being given to her by her father. I'm sure he's very proud of her antics and her obsession with getting back some ugly shoes instead of thinking about her own personal safety. The second hand embarrassment I felt listening to her is real.
@@ambersaura9988 exactly bad behavior is bad behavior no matter who is doing it. This is the part where she is saying is double standards.. the men in the comments are saying this is “manly”.. no this is trifling behavior period.
Men too. Stop letting theses women in your house too. I'm not going to say who it was but a older man I know has been messing around with these young girls and one of them sent him up to be robbed. Thank God he was in the kitchen when they came in and they didn't see him. His quick thinking saved his life. He was able to get away quickly but they had guns and everything. Ya'll stay safe out in theses streets.
The shame shouldn't be in revealing this on a public platform because far too long people put on masks to who and what they are. Others, foolish like her, can benefit from her telling her truth. This can really help others. However, the shame should moreso be before God IF she is a believer. It's not presenting the body as a living sacrifice.
There’s deep underlined issues here. A lot of us need therapy. This behavior doesn’t just come from no where. I hope she gets the help that she needs, that’s if she realizes that she needs help.
@@gapeach7814it appears if the event is not recorded, I guess it didn’t happen. Baffling how everything has to be recorded and posted, to be embarrassed!!
I’m still baffled by her more focused on him stealing some shoes and not the fact that now he knows it’s easy to sleep with her without knowing his full history and background, knows where she lives and that she gave him access to her body. Like this is why stds are running rampant. Because of those like this woman and the guy who stole her shoes.
She's worried about some funky boots, he could have given her HIV, or some other disease.. come on Ladies and Gentlemen, love yourself better and first..I pray your video helps someone..❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Sometimes, you just don't need to make everything a social media story time. She messed up and this is her mistake cause she invited a random to her house without vetting him at all. She should be glad he didn't unalive her.
She seems very shallow and is more concerned about the shoes than the fact that she slept with a stranger after bringing him into her home after two dates and could have been kidnapped and/or killed. She's so excited relaying her story because of the attention it brought her. I don't wish anything bad on anyone but she needs to be careful as her antics might bring bad consequences to her door.
I agree with everything you said. But a lot of people can’t be happy alone so many people are co dependent even if they not in a relationship they have a roster of men or women they juggle. Access should be earned. And I believe people on dating sites are broken. They are Unhealed just going from person to person. I’d rather just wait to meet someone naturally in person. Most people on dating sites aren’t walking in their purpose or aligned with God especially the ones on Tinder Okcupid etc.
Yes!!! I’ve been off the dating apps and social media for 2 years now. Within that time the only men I have spoken to, are my family or coworkers (I work remote btw). No dates, and no social media. Completely hidden, and there have been a few times that I was so sad and lonely, that I almost made my accounts again, but I always stop because I realize I had no recent pics 😂 I feel like when God says it’s time, I will meet my husband. If not, I’m content with the Lord, and still blessed ❤
I’m embarrassed for her. I would’ve never shared this. It’s definitely her fault. Had she not brought a stranger to her home this would’ve never happened. She put herself in this position.
Actually I’m glad she did post it. It helps ladies not want to be done like this. Or to think twice. Hiding the bad stuff is like pretending that it’s safe out here… and it’s not safe.
If she was gonna tell the story, the part about them sleeping together could’ve been left out and just said she invited this guy over she met on a dating app and after they spent some time together she noticed he stole her shoes. Saying she slept with him is just TMI.
@@anonnnymousthegreat why lie??? And deceive people? It’s fake and lacks in character and truth… he could have came out and said “ohh she just mad cause I won’t be with her after I put it down so good!” … AND IF HE COULD PROVE he had sex with her… no one would even had believed her about the shoes plus how else will younger girls understand how serious this is is the truth is not being told?? I learned by seeing many of the same girls in my neighborhood becoming baby moms and passed around and that fact help me make it out the hood without being touched by one guy there. (My personal experience) each person learns their own way. But lying 🤥 ain’t it.
@@cdubya752Of course we all have, but taking accountability for those stupid things is what makes the difference. This woman doesn't think she did anything wrong at all which is delusional.
@@cdubya752what do you mean? She’s scrolling on dating apps to find a guy she thinks worthy enough to get into a relationship with. That was the whole premise of this situation… She wasn’t feeling him enough for a relationship so she decided to invite him and have sex with him in her place. She literally said that.
The thing for me is, that she didn't just put herself in danger the first time by allowing him in her place the first time it's the fact that she did all of this knowing that he knew where she lived. She could've still been in danger and he could still do something to her after she got her shoes back. I didn't know so many women did not know how to move accordingly when it comes to these things (or living alone) but don't ever let somebody in your house that you do not know.
I am roomates with a female sibling and one weekend I was away. There was a plumbing issue and the building supervisor was not responding, so rather than call a plumber, she asked a RANDOM dude off the street to come in and "help her". When she told me this, I was MORTIFIED, especially since we have a trusted neighbor who she could have easily called. I told her that I was not into this and asked her to never do that again for her safety and the safety of pur home. She became a angry with me for "judging her". Women are security risks and they don't even know it.
she seems like a good person but she can't repeat this behaviour because it's dangerous and she is worth more than this...it's ok to let loose sometimes but do it safely and get to know them first....this guy is for the streets! Hopefully the girlfriend is ok as well...
This time period of women and some girls are in enough danger because a lot of guys don't know how to handle rejection so to forget something as simple as stranger danger is baffling to me. You do not know a person you met twice
Exactly. It shows how desperate she is for attention. No thought to her health or personal safety and then has the audacity to come for people who 'slut shamed' her. - not that I agree with that either - do you but use some common sense. Also it's strange that she stalked him online to find out he had a girlfriend and that she was now the proud owner of the shoes. How did she get hold of that picture? The whole thing is suspect on both sides.
She has every right to be upset that an unfair thing happened. However, I don't think she understands why her own actions left her vulnerable and a simple change in it could have prevented this. There are many beautiful young women who paid the cost of this lesson with their lives. She is very lucky. What I like about this story is that she is warning other women about what they should not do.
Sexual liberation to me is self respect and self control. Some ppl are very lonely and deep down they miss a warm touch. However, we on 🌎. STDs, human traffiers and Serial killers girls. 🙄
Nothing self controlled or self respecting about sleeping with random strange men all over the place. Self control is waiting to PROPERLY receive that warm touch despite burning with passion, and self respect is vetting that person.
@@doll.ov.poetrii4682 Exactly! SB: You young ones. are brave. They crazy as hell out there and it's not that serious. Many ppl don't have my level of discipline. But trust, I'm a happy, sexy Nun. 🤣🤣🤣
Nope! I used to meet out in public and I never ever went directly home. Did she say SOHO? Like in Manhattan, NYC SOHO? She’s clearly bugging. We don’t do that. She doesn’t even sound like she’s from there. No ma’am!
I see both sides to this. In a perfect world, a person who doesn't want a relationship and not ready for that commitment should be able to have a little fun from time to time; we're human beings and it's human nature to want to fulfill our basic wants, sex being one of them. However, this is not a perfect world, people are dangerous. I do think she should have taken more accountability, because she did take a risk inviting a stranger into her home with all the dangers lurking. I do like that she told people to be respectful to the other girl who had no knowledge that her man was doing this. People posting meme's of her though, I'm sure 60-70% of them have done something just as reckless/similar; but yes, be careful.
Her: "theres not decent people out there." Also her: "I'm not feeling him, but I'm gonna eff him at my house." 🙃🙃🙃 you get what you get, and you dont throw a fit.
You gave great advice as usual. I thought about it and I believe different generations would had handled that situation another way. Baby Boomers would had chulk it up as experience because they wouldn't want anybody to know what they did. They would had gotten new shoes. Gen X - 50% would had let it go because they would had felt stupid falling for this guy, but 50% would had done what this lady did and get her shoes back. All I have to say is that women as too precious to give their bodies to just anybody. I hope women will take your advice. Ladies please be careful out there.❤
Lord have mercy! I’m in my 40’s and feeling like a Grandma compared to these folks out here not acting their age! Their heads are simply in the clouds and they’re living by their flesh and emotions out here. This could have costed her her life, health, and so many other things. You can’t be out here all Willy nilly sharing your time, space and body with everybody! Bad spirits are real!
If she would have invested the same amount of time into getting her shoes back into finding out about this dude. This video would have not been made. She is taking no accountability of her actions at all.
All of this over some shoes??? Be glad he took your shoes and not your life. Sexual liberation is BS, dont invite strangers to your house. Sad that she's not understanding the big picture.
Using her logic….. shouldn’t she make sure he is a decent human being before opening her legs. It’s not misogyny it’s your fault for poor judgment, and lack of accountability.
Trauma unresolved, fear mutes otherwise high intelligence in many instances. I think women sometimes subconsciously or consciously sacrifice themselves to make the point through their own stories that they are tired of having patience while just aging slowly on rhe sidelines. How long are you really supposed to wait? Bc decent men are not jumping out of the woodwork and raining down. It is the unhealed, prowling ones that are.
Finally, someone with some sense here! The people who can listen to this story and conclude women are the problem are SICK! This is such a tone-deaf take after “brickgate” and that girl who was beat senselessly by her athlete boyfriend! Men really can’t stop telling us who horrible they are, but expect us to be chaste brides eager to marry them!
That's a lie... If it where true you wouldn't be able to leave home. Your dad your brother your cousins would be like you said at the least to some other woman if not you.
I definitely don't think it's misogyny to simply tell people not to sleep with people they don't know. I think maybe where it can become misogynistic is when the focus is on "opening your legs" etc. The language has undertones. I do think as a whole if we begin to tell people (men and women) not to have random sex with strange folk the world would be a better place. I definitely thought the shoe thing was weird asf--- like what man steals random women's shoes for themselves to wear-- the red flag to me would have been that he liked them in the first place. 😂
Because it could have had painted out a whole lot worse than what it did and I hope and pray that she learned something out of this and that she would take accountability for her actions
Hey Shumake!! Just want to say, been watching since the car videos and I like the new editing how you go into a thought bubble on the bottom right. Usually people do that choppy green screen when doing reactions and they take up the whole screen, but I like your set up. Keep doing what you do 👍🏿
Crazy stuff, all in this world Parents teacher daughters not to be desperate for Men A 2 parent home. That's take your daughter's out on dates. Show them how a man is supposed to treat them. Don't let them learn from the streets you teach them. Father, if you don't know, get around, men who do. Know how to treat their daughter? And take them out.
Either there is nothing wrong here and the ends justifies the means or it's completely wrong and she needs to make some adjustments if she's on the marathon of life. This looks like a sprint towards a pine box.
Anything that can be resold can be stolen by anyone. Men commonly steal women's jewelry to resell it, so It wouldn't surprise me that one would steal women's shoes.
LOL exactly. He claimed in one of the messages that he could afford to pay her back for the stolen shoes as long as she didn't talk about it on social media. So why then didn't he simply BUY his girlfriend the shoes? There's more to this story.
Here’s my answer HELLLLLLLLLLLL NO!!!! If you had a good Dad, he would have given you a lowdown of how men are and why he’s over-protective out of love for his daughters.
She is old enough to know better. But her lust took her there. She locked eyes eith him. He was attractive to her and she just wanted to sleep with the guy .point blank periodt. That wasnt safe, man. Thank God he only stole her shoes and not her life‼️🙄
I don’t feel comfortable sleeping with men that I wouldn’t like enough to be friends with (which is the core of a relationship), which is why I can’t have casual sex. What I hate is the judgment that comes from simple minded/whorish men about being celibate for extended periods of time. They don’t realise it’s the highest form of self-respect. It’s not because I couldn’t find anyone to sleep with me, I just didn’t like them. What I’ve learnt is that in order to be a “trail blazer” you have to really stand up for yourself and be QUICK to look at people like they’re stupid if they try to patronise/judge you. That being said, It’s so exhausting.
I see NO LIES told! She set herself up, not understanding it's the grace of God, why she's still alive. I wonder if the internet would have been so helpful if she would have gotten pregnant or contracted a disease?!
2:08 She probably did this for the same reason that some men entertain women that they aren’t serious about. I’m not interested in casually date anyone but some people don’t mind having a fling. It’s definitely risky tho.
I had to search what a tabi was when the video started lol…She’s lucky he took those pilgrim shoes and not her life. It’s like she misses the whole mark when speaking on it🤦🏽♀️ 🤦🏽♀️
Actually, this is a warning. She’s being very irresponsible. She’s lucky she got out with her life…These are not the times to play fast and loose with your life…
