TikTok's Un-Motivational Speaker 

LMAO

"I spent money on this thing to help with my mobility but AHHH it is tooooo scary. Gosh, golly, why did I let this into my home. Ahhhh. So scary. Sure, it would help me move around and experience more of life, probably due to a chronic illness, but IT IS SOO SPOOKY"

@@Pinkcatninja hahaha

Wheelchair user:just vibing *looks down* Wheelchair user: aah!

[wheelchair user looks down] uh- aH- (HORRIFIED SCREAMING)

"Eating disorder? Just eat right"

Why do you have asthma there’s so much air around you just don’t know how to breathe properly

"In a wheelchair? People are too nice to you!"

“Homeless? Just buy a house!”

Broke? Just work hard become a CEO

Same here, my 7th-9th grade teacher would love to point out how stupid and worthless people were if they didn’t get the full points on a test and got enjoyment out of berating KIDS for failing the classes because she wasn’t a good teacher 😭

I hope a student beats them up.

I was straight up getting flashback & triggered

@@bloblovlalalulu3422 same

There’s so many teachers out in the world that need to be fired now

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"WHY ARE YOU IN THAT WHEELCHAIR, JUST GET UP AND WALK" I assume that's what he'd say...

YOU ARE NOT BLIND JUST SEE

stop poor 🤨🤨🤨 make money👹😟😩😳🙇🏻‍♀️🙏🏼

RENAL FAILURE?? YOU’RE THE FAILURE! STAND YOUR GROUND, MAKE THOSE KIDNEYS WORK!

GET GOOD

It's different when kurt does it 😤

Lol

motivenein

Movtiveno

I actually took so long to figure out the stupid joke that he was already halfway into the brand deal when I finally laughed

Dude, gtfo. No one cares what you think except those losers that love to judge anything that doesn't resonate with their "truth". You were never going to help that guy anyways, so go back to eating your McDonald's.

so true. i was abused by my teachers & they used the excuse of “””teaching””” me plenty of times

Right!😂

Yeah, especially with the math teacher bit because it took me back to my primary school days when teachers berated me for getting math problems wrong 😅😢.

kurtis rlly does have the potential to be a bully and the fact that he isnt makes him 10000x better

He's just so jittery, and the way he talks, it's like he's keeping himself distracted so he doesn't start thinking about himself and get crushed under the weight of introspect. He gives people such a desperate look, too, like, "For the love of God, don't let this conversation end, or I will die in myself"

Are you talking about Kurtis or the subject of this video?

@@aldentetoes130 it's definitely the dude Kurtis is talking about, Owen

@@deuceydee3506 So people can't be jittery and confident? 😂 I guess tourettes people or autistic people are fucked, ripppp

That's exactly what I thought too.

thats what i was thinking too like ppl are more often than not just awful to disabled ppl?? so idky he said that

Kurtis made an excellent point too that the inconveniences disabled people face due to most things being made to be used by abled people is pretty high. People being nice to disabled people is never an insult.

I think the way people are "too nice" is when they keep trying to help when nobody asked ya know, I've done that to a classmate multiple times, and I fell so shity for it nowadays cause he was clearly bothered but I didn't realize it

Honestly, I think he miscommunicated what he was trying to say. He isn't afraid of people being "too nice", he's afraid of being pitied. I think this is probably a deep-seated ego fear that a lot of these guys have. They can't handle pity because they have no self-awareness or confidence.

@@logangantner3863 I see the point you were trying to make about being mindful of your wording. In which case you should have stopped talking after that thought, because the rest of what you typed out was simply a meaningless guess.

💀😂

This dude set my gaydar off high key. Was scrolling through the comments looking for someone who said the same thing

@@kaszidyo3827 my gaydar might be defunct honestly. i think it's worn out from constantly pinging when im hanging out with my friends

I see no lie

"gay as hell" 😂😂 Perfect. Made my day

he's crying rn cuz you insulted him by being nice to him by worrying about him *dabs*

*almost*

Too true

I was going to comment the same thing

he guides others to treasure he cannot posess

same with “oh you’re depressed just be happy” it pisses me off so much

@@jex638I'm glad most people now have realised that you can't just turn that frown upside down

So true. Also, me, a wheelchair user: *everyone is tOo nIcE to me!!*

@@jex638 chill out

Just breathe if you're choking idiot

I feel so bad for people that are too lazy to watch the full video because its "an hour long", then judge based on short entertaining video. The guy that was "bullied" actually looked like a totally different person in another video Owen posted. Please don't talk about something you have 0 knowledge of (in this case, trauma release and social conditioning)

⁠@@gamingpig4997that still doesn’t like make me still feel bad form some of theses people, maybe I’m just a snowflake because if I was in that spot and got bullied I would just cry on the floor

LMFAO

First step is realising alpha wolves don’t exist 😊

@@blackparademistress1 the dude who wrote the paper on “alpha wolves” quickly realized his assumptions were wrongs, and the alpha wolves were the parents of the wolf pack; but his paper on “alpha wolves” had already been published and the american public already adapted the idea, so no one listened when he tried to fix it

@@blackparademistress1 your name is killing me 😩👌

he obviously meant your alpha self not your real self

When I had a serious knee injury, I used one of those motorized carts & people literally went out of their way to sneer & obstruct my path because they assumed I riding it to goof off. People are vile to the disabled.

I love your pfp

ppl in my class would fight over who got to push the person in the wheelchair😭

Awww well that fucking sucks. My friend has been in a wheel chair for years. She gets her fair share of shit as well but we love her so it doesn’t matter.

@@ongakira lol so would we but it was to do races with her lol I race her around disney when we went. It was a blast.

Nice! xD

Agreed

unless they’re a math teacher i guess idk lmao

1000% agree. Let’s make this the Law!

And you best believe they are the same people that make fun of astrology 😂😂😂

@The Up Paradigm I can't tell you're joking or not, but if you're not...... THAT'S HILARIOUS!

I was thinking the same thing!

Exactly

dude exactly!! it's so obvious he's projecting his insecurities onto his audience😭

@@treshurwilliams-carter4006 100% agree! The anger with which he said “never let it happen, it’s death” and so on and so forth, is proof enough for me.

Man needs to treat himself to some therapy

SAMEEE OMFG IM HYSTERICAL

Underrated comment :D

Bothered me so much. This dude is so obvious

"The number one trait of an alpha is being comfortable with yourself" *Does not know what to do with his hands*

@@fabiobalassia EXACTLY

@@Itsme-qo2le thank you! :]

he probably got bullied tbh

@@skitzstuff5788 Maybe? Idk. He has such natural bully energy I feel like he's always been this way.

And tbh i respect the hustle.

@@skitzstuff5788 many people have been in both situations

@@Jabadamazo He grew up and is now yelling at people 10+ years younger than him

:( That’s so sad tho

if you have depression: just never be sad!

@@GandSsavoy if you are missing an eye, !!!just get a new one!!!🤯

If you're an orphan, just don't lose your parents!

If you are homeless: just buy a house!

If you're dead, just be alive! It's that easy1!1!1!1!1!1

this is so true LMAOOOO

omfg best comment lololl

SIKOWITZ

Or like 10th grade world history teacher that thinks they are funny

Who def gets fired cos he snaps and beats up a student

I never got why people would question that because even if someone didn’t need it (which would never happen) it’s none of your business!

I'm really glad I read your comment and then you username in that order, that made me laugh quite a bit. I walk with a stick and it's just the **worst** when someone offers me their seat on a train, HOW DARE THEY?!!?!?! :)

exactly what I thought as a wheelchair user lmao

I like ur username lol

Right? He's an albeist POS

what’s up, checkmark.

They always were

Uh oh

I looked at the comments the exact moment that this was said

It kind of reminded me of Ryan George's videos LOL. "super easy barely an inconvenience"

Oh no. Oh God. Ohhh.

THAT KILLED ME 😂😂😂😂😂😂

Preach!

100%

Plus, we need to get rid of the stigma surrounding therapy. A lot of people in professional careers, like lawyers, avoid therapy as it make their records look bad.

THIS it def needs to be more affordable to ppl who need it and to those who want to go but cant afford

Yessss

100%

On point, and sometimes the whole “alpha-male-motivational-speaker” shit is the root of it. This people prey on the young and radicalize them, I've seen nice guys turn "absolute savages" because of this type of content...sad, man...

Absolutely right ✅

that’s why therapy exists. yes, it is expensive, but if someone decides to drop $500-2500 on a self proclaimed “motivational speaker” then i’m sure that they can also afford going to a therapist or like a support group (which usually targets a specific community). also, in addition to what you said, they plant these messed up ideas in their heads and i am almost certain that they don’t help anyone in the long run, if anything, these alpha men are shitty, egoistic and pretty misogynistic too.

The "advice" that motivational speakers spew is literally the opposite of what any therapist would tell you and I'm pretty sure it's actively harmful to those who do struggle with it

BuT wErE ThEy TOO NICE tO yOu???!?!?!

Hey, were you there when I was a kid?

@@DragonMaiden77 lol

@@DragonMaiden77 im sorry :(

Natsu knows what I've been through wow

@@DragonMaiden77 even if its a joke, hope you’re doing okay right now

he sounds like the type of guy to say "how are you blind? just see."

‘’Oh u just witnessed someone getting murdered which scarred you and will slowly drive you to insanity for lying to everyone that you didn’t witness such a thing…just forget about it, sensitive prick’’

Just be confident in yourself and stop thinking others are judging you! It's easy! Just do it! JUST DO IT! DO IT! FUCKING DO IT!!!! - Him if he was my therapist

Lol what are u supposed to say to them? I remember when my friend was having a asthma attack, I didn't know what to say so my dumbass just said "Just Breathe"

“Oh you’re having an asthma attack? Just breathe loser”

DUDE I'm so sorry. A teacher tried to do the same thing to me, too. I was like "if someone drops THEIR pencil you pick it up and give it back to THEM and THEY say thank you." I've been repping singular They pronoun since I was in elementary because of that one shit teacher, mainly because I was disgusted that she tried to incorrectly correct me lol. But I think it was a great coincidence, I ended up being nonbinary. I think it's insane that someone can grow up speaking a whole language where they regularly use singular They, and not even realize they do it. That teacher sucked, I'm sorry you went through that.

I had to argue to my school board so many times to get my accommodations. But yeah, the hardest part was that they were so nice :(

thought he meant like he was afraid of being infantilized or sum but nah that's way too wise for him

this is what empathetic means by the way: "showing an ability to understand and share the feelings of another." i think the word you are looking for might be apathetic or unsympathetic :)

@@DARKENINGTIMES they're being sarcastic, I believe

@@skellish Indeed, he's **totally** empathetic to disabled folks.

*If you're lucky*

Kill your friends. (To be lucky.)

"What I'm saying is I'll murder your friends"

he followed that kid home after this event and shot the first person the kid talked to and was like "told you"

I'm terrified

Same he says the T so softly XD

and braincells...because they’ll be DEAD for sure

They saved money but they lost brain cells

fuckin opportunity cost man

ESPECIALLY if “time is money” according to many of these speakers

Too high of a price.

I second this as someone who has a father like that💖

I third this except it’s my mother who does that

@@FiendEnder hey! Me too! It's always fun to bond over abusive parents, isn't it?

@@nana-qn1zc same

Basically he’s punchable 😊

The way neuro and physio-typical people perceive differently abled people is real strange. Almost a weird sense of jealousy.

@@ChezzaOuttaNowhere such people are just very insecure due to failing to achieve what they desire, as well as feeling lonely and not appreciated/recognised by people. They get so desperate to get the attention they're unable to get with their set of skills that it makes them jealous someone can actually have it (even when it's mere courtesy) - it's similar to how misogynists always focus on how "men are expected to open doors/carry things" whenever there's an argument about women's rights, as if it's relevant and the "extra niceties" they bring up are at all comparable to the issues discussed. Similarly, they will find any excuse to think to themselves that when someone else has what they want it is undeserved, and must be due to (for example) disability, since everyone is "too nice" - they can't face the fact that they're just not good enough. They almost wish they were in the same situation as they know they wouldn't get the "attention" otherwise, convincing themselves that even mere courtesy is some kind of special treatment (that they crave but can't have), therefore demonising it and staying ignorant to all the issues that come with disabilities. It all stems from hurt egos that are too fragile to face reality, and it's honestly pathetic.

@@ChezzaOuttaNowhere most typicals aren’t even aware that there’s a whole differently abled world out there that is absolutely different from how they function. It’s like we’re unicorns lol

@@ChezzaOuttaNowhere It’s so insane to me how so many people when they can’t relate on a personal level just decide that it’s ok to throw empathy out of the way.

I had to use a cane for about a year last year because of a huge surgery left me very very weak. I’m 24 and people were so incredibly nice to me, it made me want to vomit.

Yeah I’d say that’s pretty much it

It’s just a little bit of a darwanism

damm sam ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-xwgJtolLGYE.html

What if you got no friends or support to lean on though

@@pepperchan6471 yea ur right, it's hard for others to be there for you the way you want. i'm going thru so much and i have to somewhat be there for myself so idk.

​@@pepperchan6471 seek a professional. not a motivational seeker or weird people with 0 credibility trying to steal your money, i mean a therapist. i'm of the belief that relying on friends and seeking help with family can lead to more harm than good, because not everyone is equipped to handle someone else's baggage and it's frankly not fair to expect that of everyone at all times. you shouldn't be relying on friends or family for your mental well-being, that'll only drag you both down to the ground. you'll slowly ruin all your relationships by constantly dumping negativity on everyone around you and hoping to get positivity out of other people. you need to learn how to be stable and functional on your own first, and getting therapy might help you get your footing for that.

@@ayatoculus @kirin I'm not saying I like motivational speakers or anything, I find them cringey too. And yes, I know that one should not use friends or family as an emotional dumpster, because from a young age my own parents have unloaded their emotional baggage on me, effectively fucking me up. However, a lot of people in my position CANNOT AFFORD THERAPY, and live in shitty countries where seeking help for mental problems is a huge stigma. I'm a minor, and am trapped in a abusive household and have no money. Lots of kids out there like me. Worst thing is that this is normal in my country. Services for child protection won't do shit. So I understand if someone turns to Motivational Speakers as a last desperate resort. It is easy to attract and manipulate emotionally vulnerable and lonely people.

@@ayatoculus that sounds much like victim blaming, also as the other comments said not everyone can afford a therapist, especially while being underage and in a non-supportive household. Or maybe they tried and had a bad experience (I got a shitty therapist [which my mom didnt even actually get for my mental health, she just wanted to get a paper saying that I needed a support dog or whatever so our dog could stay home] that costed hundreds and they literally just made me feel like shit and my mom got angry at me for "exaggerating" things. I know this was only 1 therapist and doesn't reflect on all the others, but lmao my mom ain't taking me to another one since she got the paper for the dog. Also, saying that you shouldn't rely on friends or family is only your personal belief. My friends have been what are keeping me floating and alive. I understand than friends are not professionals and they are not equipped to help with your emotional baggage, but that isn't what it is about. It's just about having someone who you know likes you despite you thinking that you're shit. They just listen to me, I listen to them and then we play games together and forget the bad things. It's one of the only times I'm happy and having fun.

Assuming u have money please seek professional therapy instead of these "courses". IF u are actually unhappy with self image or depressed then these courses/conventions are very damaging instead.

I hope youre doing great now! Everything will turn out great for you I just know it!

you made the right choice

excuse me- I find it very ignorant but I do know people don't believe depression exists but I have NEVER heard someone say that people get cancer because they live resentful lives. Like wut the fuq. My grandma and aunt died of cancer bro-

@@Chikaboom_Boom my grandpa died of it too what the motivational speaker said is so ignorant. a lot of people live happily but still get cancer so it really irked me when i read that part. i'd like to see that speaker get cancer and then have someone tell them "well maybe you were living a resentful life🤷" to see how they would react

Nah "alpha male" clothes still wouldn't be shiny nor new. But yeah, this and enforcing toxic masculinity on yourself and/or other men are basically the same ol' shit.

No one takes it seriously I feel like. I’ve only seen people rip on it but maybe that’s because I don’t watch Jake Paul who knows lmao

Yarp

not even to mention wolves dont even have "alphas" which makes the whole thing they based their rebranded toxic masculinity on completely incorrect. If you want to see the dominance and social hierarchy they talk about when being an alpha, a chicken is the best bet. They have a very strict pecking order and will seek to bully other chickens lower on the hierarchy

@@user-yf4ly2rz7q the alpha chicken 😂

Maybe watch the full video to understand? You must know what it means when someone applauds you for being fake and inauthentic, he's forced to be nice, too scared to be otherwise.

Do you know if he has a RU-vid channel. I would love to hear about more about him.

sooo true. I find that shit motivational. Hearing people talk about ACTUAL adversity they had to overcome - makes you realize how lucky your are and more likely to make the most of each day imo

what a champ! the only good motivational speech I've ever heard was from muniba mazari, in which she told the story of her accident and how she ended up in a wheelchair and everything that followed!

Clint Malarchuk gave a speech in my high school once and genuinely brought me to tears. He has SUCH an inspirational story, it's insane

you mean surface leather?

Just wow ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-3wHWI9XOrUI.html

Mannn he’s so smart

Its Curtis Konner* get it right

THISSS LMFAO

It was his alter ego! How can you not tell! Why else would he have a mullet?

He actually was Talks about it in this video ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-f7HIyQaJN9Q.html

Little baby man

hell to the yeah

they had us in he first half, not gonna lie 😂

Yess 👏🏻👏🏻

This is how a feel about nicacado avacado. The only reason I haven’t killed myself is because nicacado avacado will have outlived me.

He motivates me to never be like him

that's what I was thinking- his DICK was CAUGHT in the CHICKEN?

I recently revealed the genders of my two girlfriends. It got a lot of hate and now has 30 times more dislikes than likes. I am really sad that people can be so mean. Sorry for using your comment to talk about my problems, dear av

sounds like a heck of an assembly

Motivational speakers are a lot like fake psychics in that they say incredibly generic things but their audience is going to interpret those generic sayings to apply to their specific situation without even realizing it so they will attribute wisdom or knowledge to the psychic or speaker. It's a natural human instinct to relate to other humans and relate what other humans are saying to our situation. It's a basic part of human empathy. Unfortunately con artists know this and they use it to manipulate people. Which is why so many people believe in horoscopes and those psychics that claim to speak to your dead relatives and motivational speakers apparently.

@@AxxLAfriku wat

Ur from india

I-

ok but you're not wrong

I came ngl

Jesus

no...... no

I'm sorry, it is insane to tell at a literal child like that. You didn't deserve that

@@jazwhoaskedforthis thanks it happened years ago and i did rlly good in english prelims so I'm winning now

Im german, but ive had the same experience. It was so strange and i hated it 😭✌🏻

@@piaj2742 im swiss and same😭😭

in America we had someone come in and sing about Johnny Appleseed and the dangers of high fructose corn syrup🥴

@@vbm8992 only thing i know about johnny appleseed is that one weird ass prayer we had to do in catholic elementary school. That’s a weird ass assembly lolll

@@vbm8992 WAIT DID HE WEAR A GREEN SUIT AND HAVE A WHOLE MOVIE THING ABOUT LUNCH FOOD

Just don't do that ❤✨

just stop being depressed 😜🤞 smile 😃‼️

Just that he'd scream that at your face 😂😂

guy literally said "stop being uncomfortable with yourself, just be comfortable with yourself"

@@muskratloggin right like wow I'm cured thanks buddy why didnt I think of that

powerful

I'm pretty sure I've already said this to my partner

i say this on the daily to everyone

I exhaled forcefully through my nose after reading this comment

@@guydisorder tbh, that's how I thought everyone else would react instead of liking this comment.

I'm having an awful day at work, and your comment made me exhale so loud, thanks

Meanwhile, middle-school lesbians: omg I left fuzzy cat ears at home!!! Whatever will the pack do now?

Bruh this comment made me laugh out loud Also what's the flag on your profile picture?

@@Korra228 its the agender flag

@@Korra228 and if u dont know what that is its when u dont have a gender :))

Anxious? Just relax 😌 Dying? Just live ✨

ADHD? Just focus! Sick? Just be healthy!

anorexic? just love your body!

Poor? Just get money!

have asthma? just breathe 🥰

"homeless? buy a house" "no food? get something to eat" people give the most mind blowing advice. and nice username, must be some good wifi

“You have bees? Just give the hive a formal eviction notice and taunt them with your having-a-homeness, then punt the hive into the next house over.”

i know this is a joke but my band director once told the whole band (who is full of mentally ill kids) the anxiety and depression things 😕

Adhd? Just focus!

Schizophrenia? Just stop hearing things

hands in the honey pot ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-xwgJtolLGYE.html

dude straightup looks like a younger lester crest lmao

Owen had "I was bullied by my dad" energy.

"Alpha males"- No, no, don't be an average man, be an *old* man!!

David Mech: Fucking THANK YOU

even funnier considering the whole "alpha/beta" rhetoric in wolves was made up too

And there are SO MANY other animals you can take inspiration from!

In that case, that motivational speaker guy has the hairline of a wizened grandpa, and we should definitely listen to him!

ironically will smith’s motivational talk(shown for like a second at the start) using his skydive as a metaphor actually made me skydive and not do whatever life thing he intended the use to be for

most of them are millionaires living in their mansions just trying to make money and truly believing they got to where they are now because of their life skills, so they try to pass it on to others with a price tag.

Me too. Like a good Ted Talk or something. 🤔

beating addiction is nothing. I quit heroin 3 times this morning. big whoop.

@@sewershaman3280 you are the funniest person alive

Betta fish are alpha af

underrated comment

yes

Lol

Betta fish do wanna fight 😳

Just wow ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-3wHWI9XOrUI.html

ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-tAnyvY6KHrw.html . .

AYEEE pfp buddy

ikr

@Hart AYYYY

I'm going to turn off my dysphoria now thank you /s

Has "Just stop being sad" energy

👽

@cloverseas it looks like trash

@@davitothevillios4316 wtf