@@ibmsulaymani You can't censor my comments here lol. Why did you block me from commenting? Is it because people would've saw the video about dawah man?
@@ibmsulaymani I don't hate dawah man bro. You know you're are deceiving the people here because you know what I said. Don't act like I was mocking anyone or calling anyone names. That is considered as slander, but I don't expect much from someone like you. Because you slandered me, insha'Allah Justice will be on the day of judgement. Also you know I was asking genuine questions, but you couldn't answer so you blocked me.
This is SUCH an important topic. And as a mother who wants to homeschool my children, may Allah make it easy for me to monitor what they watch online and on tv (hopefully no more tv by then), and may Allah protect them from the fitna and the evil that is online, on tv and everywhere around them, and may He make them steadfast on the Deen and the Sunnah, amine ! Salam
Start with throwing that TV out of your house and ban all other devices for your children. You as a parent are responsible and have the power. Don't blame society or them for how they turn out. Parents often complain but why do you hand them devices to begin with and keep them in your house? May Allah give you and your family steadfast and keep you safe. Ameen.
@@elafzal5866 yeah I am anti tv, hardcore! And my husband and I agreed that we won't give our kids ANY of these devices (that's what I meant by monitoring, making sure they are not exposed to that), just an old phone without internet/apps for emergency when they are older and have to go out
@@elafzal5866 unfortunately my husband watches the tv (sports), so we have one but if it was just me, I would never ever have a tv at home. I think it's a tool of shaytan (hope I don't sound crazy but I truly believe in this). My husband is a wonderful muslim mashallah so I pray Allah make it easy for him to get rid of it !
@@sisterfleur7523 Your children are blessed to have parents like you. May Allah make it easy for you. Yes absolutely agree that it is a tool of Satan no doubt. May Allah keep increasing you and your family in knowledge and protect your from the trials of this age.
The ability of social media to display utter filth and normalize it is something that terrifies me. The future generations who grow up consuming this are going to have it tough.
How lust/desires destroy a person/Muslim ummah and when you follow desires/lust Allah doesn't help or support you!. Astaghfiullah Chapter (4) sūrat l-nisāa (The Women) Allah wants to accept your repentance, but those who follow [their] passions want you to digress [into] a great deviation. Pickthall: And Allah would turn to you in mercy; but those who follow vain desires would have you go tremendously astray. Yusuf Ali: Allah doth wish to Turn to you, but the wish of those who follow their lusts is that ye should turn away (from Him),- far, far away. Shakir: And Allah desires that He should turn to you (mercifully), and those who follow (their) lusts desire that you should deviate (with) a great deviation. Muhammad Sarwar: God wants to be merciful to you but those who follow their evil desires seek to lead you astray. Mohsin Khan: Allah wishes to accept your repentance, but those who follow their lusts, wish that you (believers) should deviate tremendously away from the Right Path. Arberry: and God desires to turn towards you, but those who follow their lusts desire you to swerve away mightily. And who is more astray than him who follows his desires without any guidance from Allah (Sūratِ al-Qasas No.28, Āyat 50) In this verse following certain personal desires and whims is directly linked to being astray. In fact, it is the reason behind being astray. Desires can be a thick curtain over the eyes of the intelligence, refusing to let the light of wisdom in. It is interesting that this verse condemns those desires which are not in line with any guidance from Allah ‘azza wa-jall. This shows that there are some desires which incline towards good and virtue, that which Allah subhānahu wa-ta‘ālā has commanded. They lead a person towards truth and perfection. But it is the whims that are not based on any solid guidance which cause the downfall of the human being. Desires have been placed inside human beings so they may continue life on earth. Desires and emotions such as anger, love, attachment to the self, family, wealth, etc. all have a place and purpose in life. But sometimes these becomes excessive and transgress natural bounds. They take control of the mind and makes it submit. Men then loses the choice to act appropriately in line with his status as the khalīfa of Allah (swt). It is like the flood of desires, unstopped by any dam of guidance, sweeps him away. In another verse of the Quran, Almighty Allah talks about such people: Have you seen him who has taken his desire to be his god? (Q25:43). Desire, for these people, is worshiped, obeyed at all costs. Logic and reasoning have no effect on such people. It is not that there is something wrong in the logic presented to them. Rather it is because of the veils of personal desires which are a barrier. Certain desires can make a person so attached to something that he loses the ability to discern. He becomes subjective and is blind to the truth. That is because a clear perception of the truth cannot be derived when there are emotional attachments to wrong. Such a disease is a huge affliction to the soul. It is becoming common today in a world which glorifies and indulges in desires. Imam Ja‘far al-Sādiq ‘alayhis salām taught this Du‘ā to the believers for clarity of thought and to stay away from following desires: اللَّهُمَّ أَرِنِي الْحَق حَقًّا فَاَتِّبَعَهُ، وَأَرِنِي الْبَاطِلَ بَاطِلًا وفَاَجْتَنِبَهُ، وَلَا تَجْعَلْهُ عَلَيَّ مَتَشَابِهًا فَأَتَّبِعَ هَوَايَ بِغَيْرِ هُدىً مِنْكَ Allāhummā arinil-haqqa haqqan fa-attibi‘ahu, wa-arinil-bātila bātilan fa-ajtanibahu, walā taj‘alhu ‘alayya mutashābihan fa-attibi‘a hawāya bighayri hudan mink. O God! Show me the truth as the truth so I follow it, and falsehood as falsehood do I stay away from it; and let them not seem similar to me, for if this happens then I will follow my own desires without guidance from You. (Bihar al-Anwār, v.86, p.120).
TikTok in particular is currently catalyzing the growth of mental illnesses such as major depression and anxiety in the youth and by worsening people’s self-image and encouraging bad habits. May Allah guide us all in the dunya. Allahuma ameen 🙏
@Sulayman Saeed good for you brother mashallah, stay as far away as possible from the filth thats published on it. I use it occasionally because my algorithm shows me islamic content which is good but besides that, theres not that will intrigue or benefit you as far as I know.
Its highly addictive media platform wallah Tiktok is like heroin it draws your time to be on it constantly involving in random things giving a buzz and excitement including sharing yourself exposing yourselves and later regret it. So many women follows the trends on it and starts to behave improper and will effect them later but they dont realise it long time after
And that is why I am definitely not letting my kids have any social media when I am a mother, I will go back as it is the 1980’s. Have a normal proper family that talks to one another and is not hiding from another in the rooms watching God knows what. Every day there will be routine where they come home sit down and do their work and read books I will make them fall in love with books and learning and Islam. Ya Rabb that is my future and yours 🌸🥺 MAY Allah protect us ameen❤️
Look at how the social media owners don't allow their children to use social media. Personally, I deleted social media. I feel it harms my aakhirah (hereafter).
@@ObaidahNaseer it really does! You can just be scrolling and all of a sudden see something so horrific 😭 like I was scrolling on RU-vid and I saw something so traumatizing that I don’t even know how it’s allowed to be on this app we have to be reallyyyyyy careful
How lust/desires destroy a person/Muslim ummah and when you follow desires/lust Allah doesn't help or support you!. Astaghfiullah Chapter (4) sūrat l-nisāa (The Women) Allah wants to accept your repentance, but those who follow [their] passions want you to digress [into] a great deviation. Pickthall: And Allah would turn to you in mercy; but those who follow vain desires would have you go tremendously astray. Yusuf Ali: Allah doth wish to Turn to you, but the wish of those who follow their lusts is that ye should turn away (from Him),- far, far away. Shakir: And Allah desires that He should turn to you (mercifully), and those who follow (their) lusts desire that you should deviate (with) a great deviation. Muhammad Sarwar: God wants to be merciful to you but those who follow their evil desires seek to lead you astray. Mohsin Khan: Allah wishes to accept your repentance, but those who follow their lusts, wish that you (believers) should deviate tremendously away from the Right Path. Arberry: and God desires to turn towards you, but those who follow their lusts desire you to swerve away mightily. And who is more astray than him who follows his desires without any guidance from Allah (Sūratِ al-Qasas No.28, Āyat 50) In this verse following certain personal desires and whims is directly linked to being astray. In fact, it is the reason behind being astray. Desires can be a thick curtain over the eyes of the intelligence, refusing to let the light of wisdom in. It is interesting that this verse condemns those desires which are not in line with any guidance from Allah ‘azza wa-jall. This shows that there are some desires which incline towards good and virtue, that which Allah subhānahu wa-ta‘ālā has commanded. They lead a person towards truth and perfection. But it is the whims that are not based on any solid guidance which cause the downfall of the human being. Desires have been placed inside human beings so they may continue life on earth. Desires and emotions such as anger, love, attachment to the self, family, wealth, etc. all have a place and purpose in life. But sometimes these becomes excessive and transgress natural bounds. They take control of the mind and makes it submit. Men then loses the choice to act appropriately in line with his status as the khalīfa of Allah (swt). It is like the flood of desires, unstopped by any dam of guidance, sweeps him away. In another verse of the Quran, Almighty Allah talks about such people: Have you seen him who has taken his desire to be his god? (Q25:43). Desire, for these people, is worshiped, obeyed at all costs. Logic and reasoning have no effect on such people. It is not that there is something wrong in the logic presented to them. Rather it is because of the veils of personal desires which are a barrier. Certain desires can make a person so attached to something that he loses the ability to discern. He becomes subjective and is blind to the truth. That is because a clear perception of the truth cannot be derived when there are emotional attachments to wrong. Such a disease is a huge affliction to the soul. It is becoming common today in a world which glorifies and indulges in desires. Imam Ja‘far al-Sādiq ‘alayhis salām taught this Du‘ā to the believers for clarity of thought and to stay away from following desires: اللَّهُمَّ أَرِنِي الْحَق حَقًّا فَاَتِّبَعَهُ، وَأَرِنِي الْبَاطِلَ بَاطِلًا وفَاَجْتَنِبَهُ، وَلَا تَجْعَلْهُ عَلَيَّ مَتَشَابِهًا فَأَتَّبِعَ هَوَايَ بِغَيْرِ هُدىً مِنْكَ Allāhummā arinil-haqqa haqqan fa-attibi‘ahu, wa-arinil-bātila bātilan fa-ajtanibahu, walā taj‘alhu ‘alayya mutashābihan fa-attibi‘a hawāya bighayri hudan mink. O God! Show me the truth as the truth so I follow it, and falsehood as falsehood do I stay away from it; and let them not seem similar to me, for if this happens then I will follow my own desires without guidance from You. (Bihar al-Anwār, v.86, p.120).
Even the people who claim to use it for "good purposes" It is still a fitnah and has a very negative impact on our heart later on. May Allah guide us away from this and keep us strong.
how can we have hope for the youth when their parents are lost and far away from allah? we are living in a horrible sinful and decieving time. i see it everywhere. i feel like an alien just because im trying to obey my lord as much as possible but in every direction im being dragged towards sin.
Stay strong. We are many in that situation. I sometimes feel sad when I see how almost EVERYONE is so engrossed in the dunya and so compromising islamic teachings. But I will NOT desobey Allah, because THAT is the straight path! I am definitely like an alien but alhamdulillah our Prophet said "glad tidings to the strangers" !
@@Bairom06 yes, they forgot god and started chasing worldy things. The current generation is only a reflection of the one before it. I was born in 1991 and all I was ever pushed towards was worldly success. Nobody taught me about the importance of having a real connection with God and obeying his commands and laws. That is the real success in gods sight. Not money, status or any other thing. It feels so lonely but God is always with his sincere believers.
Here are some sunnah of the prophet(SAW) #...When ever the prophet is mentioned say (sallallahu alaihi wasallam) #...Dikir after every prayer/you can also add (wa bihamdi) and reciting *Alatul Kursi after every fard salah *SubahanAllah 33 times *AllahuAkbar 34 times *Amhamdulillah 33time #...While entering home syaing this supplication (Allahumma inni as'aluka khairal mawliji wa khairul makhraji bismillahi wajlana wa bismillahi kjarajna waaalla rabbina tawakkalna) #... While going outside of home saying this supplication (Bismillah tawakkaltu aaalallah wala hawla wala quwwata illa billah) #...When entering your home give salam even if there is no one give salam to your self #...Entering the bathroom with left foot and exiting with right *and covering the head and while relieving yourself sitting is wajib *and when relieving yourself don't face the qibla or your back behind it #...Entering the masjid with right foot and exiting with left and performing wudu at home #...Every muslim you cross by give salam #...Using meswak #...Using fragrence #...Reading Surah Khaf every Friday #...Dusting the bed with an edge of an cloth or bromm #...Eat with your right hand and share your food with the nearest person #... if any food drops of the plate pick it up remove the dust and eat it *after finish eating lick the plate with your fingers and lick your fingers #...Before eating and drinking saying bismillah and after finishing eating and drinking saying Allhamdulillah *if one forgots to say bismillah before eating or drinking say this (bismillahi fi awwalihi wa akhirihi) #... After finish eating sya this supplication (Allhamdulillah hil ladhi at amani hadha wa razaqanihi min ghayri hawlin minnee wa la quwwatin) #...Before staring any work or going to do something saying bismillah #...After doing wudu saying (La illah illallah wadahu la sarikala) #...While drinking or eating sitting is recommended and it is an sunnah #...Sleeping on the right shoulder #...Not sleeping on your stomach or chest #...Before going to sleep *sleep in the state of wudu *Surah ikhlas 3 times *Surah Nas 3 times *Surah Falak 3 times *Ayatul Kursi 3 times *And saying (Lailahaillallah MuhammadaRrasulullah) *And reciting Surah Mulk #...When going to sleep saying this supplication (Bismika rabbi wada tu janbi wa bika arfahu in amskata nafsi fagfir laha wa in arsaltaha fahfazha bima tahfaz bihi ibadaka-s-salihin)or (Allahuma bismika amutoo wa ahyaa) #...After waking up saying this supplication (Allhamdulillah hil-lathee ahyana baaada ma amatana wa ilayhin nushoor) #...After waking up doing wudu and put water inside the nose and blow it #... when wearing cloths syaing this supplication (Allhamdulillah hil lathee kasanee hatha aththawab warazaqaneehi min ghayri hawlin minnee wala quwwah) *While wearing entire the right hand first and when taking of start with left hand same with the shoes Reference Sahih Al Bukhari: 12.28.153.168.183.216.217.245.568.3295.5010.5623.5628.5630.5631. 6293.6294.6295.6296.6311.6314. 6322.7393.7394 Sahih Muslim: 265.267(c).304.2018(a).2020.2024. 2025.2032.2034.2626 Jami Al Tirmidi: 14.1857.1858.1885.2048.2678.2689. 3426.3458 Abu Dawood: 2.30.51.4023.4141.5094.5095.5096. 5212 Ibn Majah: 303.307.3287.3288 An nasai: 259. Credits goes to Ismalic knowledge official Ranga nature English May Allah guide us and have patience and remember Your lord is not ONE EYED and to read surah kahf every friday Plz pray for palistine,Jordan,Syria,Iraq, Iran,Somalia,Yemen,India,China, Bangladesh And for this ummah Lailahaillallah MuhammadaRrasulullah
Yes that is right, but it is very hard for the young people to just ignore the tiktok and the social media today, in that difficult time we live in. I will give Dua for all our umma and not only for the children
Ustadh, your friend was right. Seeing the filth on the apps and websites everyday has made me desensitized and it is your videos and the videos of people like you who remind us everyday to leave such evil. We must use these things appropriately and according to Allah's ﷻ command. Thank you.
Biggest influence for children, besides their parents, is definitely peer pressure and friends. The reason so many parents fail to protect their children is because the children spend time in schools with heedless peers who don’t care about religion. It’s very difficult to ban your children from social media, games, music, movies, haram hobbies and ignorant beliefs when all their friends are doing this. Being the odd-one-out will cause great hardship and isolation for the child and possibly lead to bullying. And the psychology of a child is very fragile. They can be traumatized for a long time. A child’s friends and school are EXTREMELY IMPORTANT. They will not be strong enough at that age to resist peer pressure. This is why living in a Muslim country is extremely important. You cannot protect your religion in an ocean of disbelievers. Make hijrah!
Subhanallah muslim countries are not better these days..they have access to same technology and high speed internet most and all on the social media. I believe its the home and parenting that can make big difference at the kids lives..parents need to pay attention to what their children watch and hear..we have to spend more time with the children and make them priorities and invest in them..technology is parenting many children that parents neglected them. May Allah protect our children and may allah guide us all 🤲🏽😥
Wallahi Akhi you are 100% right. This doesn’t affect just the children but also heavily affects adults who are also afflicted by these same issues. May Allah Asda wa jal preserve us all
Me being someone form this generation I have gone through almost everything he said and if I had more of a support system I feel like maybe I would have had mad better choices but alx u live and learn whit allahs permission and guidance
Today i feel good with this lessen, this is my every day concern. Social media especially TIKTOK is destructing our norms, ethics and religion. THANK YOU Ustadh Abu Taymiyyah.
salamu alakum, this was such an amazing and important topic. i can a teenage girl who its trying to find her way and stop using social media. i have tried and i just keep going back to it. and ive had tiktok for a long time now. after listening to this lecture, ive thought about things i can do to stop using it and after watching made me understand
ma sha allah... such a beautiful speech...i love your lectures..even u r my inspiration بارك الله فيكم وحياكم الله وحفظكم الله في الدنيا والآخرة اللهم امين يارب العالمين
8:40 He hit the nail on the head. Parents are using devices to raise their kids and do the parenting for them. The children don't know any better and get hooked on the devices.
Allah Yibarik Feek ya Akhi. SubhanAllah the way you deliver your speeches is so simple yet so impactful. It would benefit so many people if you shared more videos Insha Allah. Jazak Allahu Khairan akhi & May Allah bless you & increase you in knowledge.
This is a beautiful reminder. I have found myself indulging in Muslim Tiktok making excuses that it's ok because their Muslims. The stuff they were doing was basically imitating the disbelievers. SubhanaAllah 🥺😩 May Allah guide the Ummah to what is correct. Ameen
Salam aleikoem jazzak Allahu khayran for this kind of videos. It would also be very useful if tips are given on how to organize your day with your children responsibly, morning ritual / evening ritual. The main thing is that the children continue to like it and that you have something replaceable that continues to interest them.I really hope you can find out more about that soon. Salam aleikoem
Deep subhan Allah very deep. Its made me reflect on myself and release I need to correct certain aspects of my life. Allahu Akbar. Marsh Allah this brother has become very wise since the days speaker's corners al-hamdulliah. May Allah increase upu in ilm and wisdom, we need more balanced and humble brothers like yourself.
am somali and see him speaking somali haha this is my first time i have seen this sheikh and I was shocked when he said at first habaryar I rewound it back wlh to make sure if he spoke somali or nah is he somali?
@@libaxw6508 astaqfurallah isnt it bad enough tribalism destroyed Somalia and made millions into refugees? So why bring tribalism on this video? Subhanallah no wonder somalia can't find peace and unity for decades 😩😥 may allah guide you and clean your heart💙🇸🇴☝🏽
