You are 100% right. I am the older sister in the family, and I give advice to my younger sister. But I always dreamed that someone would give me advice and share his life experience with me
Proverbs 25:19 Confidence in an unfaithful man in time of trouble is like a broken tooth, and a foot out of joint. Awake thou that sleepest, and arise from the dead, and Christ shall give thee light. (Ephesians 5:14) ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-PpylUDKrHek.html
"you're not asking for too much, you’re asking the wrong person" 28:07 you dont know how much I needed to hear that. thank you so much for your empowering words 🙏
In 2020 I thought that I was a nothing and there was that one girl who made my life a hell but in 2022 July when I first saw one of your vids I changed into this confident person tysm liz Ilyy
my notes! - Buy it mentality - Focus on what you can control, and not on what you can’t - Who are you not? - Shadow work - Create routines/systems - Make money - Learn the art of communication - Socialize - Start wearing sunglasses and looking people in the eyes - Do things you find cringe or uncomfortable in public - Body language - Become delusional - Listen to positive meditations, affirmations - Listen to music that makes you feel confident - Make decisions that are best for you - Use other peoples’ success as motivation - Create an aesthetic for yourself that you’re most comfortable with - Keep clean and well-groomed - Check environment - Become comfortable with your body - Take dance classes - Start practicing yoga - Be comfortable with your own company - Don’t hang out with people that constantly disrespect you - Don’t get offended/threatened easily - Give people their space - Realize that you’re the main character - Have expectations for yourself and others - Start doing a gratitude meditation - Realize that you create your own reality - Do what you can with what you have now - Realize that you’re a blessing - Make sure you become a satisfied old person feel free to add your own notes or anything i've missed!
👀 TIMESTAMPS: 0:11 - Would you buy it mentality 1:19 - Focus on what you can control 2:28 - Don't focus on things you can't control 3:32 - Who are you not? 4:12 - Start doing shadow work 4:31 - Create routines 5:44 - Get your money up, not your funny up 7:26 - Learn and practice the art of communication 9:16 - Go out and socialize with people 10:32 - Start wearing sunglasses and look people in the eyes 11:27 - Start doing things you find cringe or uncomfortable in public 12:06 - Body Language 12:52 - Become delusional 14:16 - Listen to positive meditations, affirmations 15:20 - Listen to music that makes you feel confident 15:53 - Start making decisions that are best for you 17:45 - Use other peoples success as motivation 18:42 - Create and aesthetic for yourself that you feel most comfortable with 20:01 - Keep yourself clean and well groomed 20:32 - You might be insecure because of your environment 21:11 - Become comfortable with your body and realise that no one is perfect 22:46 - Take dance classes: Heels dance, belly dance 23:05 - Start practicing yoga 23:35 - Become comfortable with your own company 24:54 - Do not sit with people that constantly disrespect you 25:59 - Don't get offended or threatened easily 26:31 - Give people their space 27:03 - Realise you are the main character of your life 27:48 - Have expectations for other people and yourself 28:41 - Start doing gratitude meditation 29:11 - Realise that you create your own reality 29:41 - Do what you can with what you have now 30:27 - Realise that you are a blessing 30:34 - Make sure you become a satisfied old person
25:59 "Do not get threatened easily. Honey, if you know who you are, if you know what you're capable of, no one can threaten you. What will you do? Who are you? You think I'm afraid?" The way she said that gave me goosebumps. So empowering, I really need this.
Whenever I feel insecure or feel like I don't deserve something I immediately think "what would liz have done" or "how would liz have reacted". Can't thank you enough Liz. Much love❤️
@@AhmadLearns theres nothing wrong by being inspired by a woman while being a man. We’re more than just our gender. We’re a soul and it’s normal to be inspired by someone like Liz, she’s literally helping people find their worth and that’s beautiful, men need that too. So pls stop with that childish mindset
@Le Justicier du Net idk what u tryna say but she really did help me. I literally knew nothing ab confidence till I listened to her vids. Btw be more specific pls
“The past doesn’t exist” “it only exists in your mind” this is so true. Never go back in the past focus on the future. That’s why I’m becoming the new me that I am. Thank you Liz ❤
as a teenager, i'm so lucky i found your channel this early. absolutely all the things you say make so much sense, all the posivity and confidence you irradiate it's so contagious, and all the advices and help you do are so, so helpful and motivating! tysm for doing these kind of videos because for people like me who sometimes feel lost in life and who really want to change a be a diferent and more confident person, you and your channel are a helpful masterpiece. 💗💗
As a teen who is struggling a friend recommended your channel to me and I've never been more thankful. I watch your videos everyday in the morning to start my day with positive affirmations.... thank you liz❤❤❤
To anybody who's reading this, I pray that whatever is hurting you or whatever you are constantly stressing about gets better. May the dark thoughts, the overthinking, and the doubt exit your mind, disappear. May clarity replace confusion. May peace and calmness fill your life ❤
I love people who use their confidence to empower people not to abuse them. That is what makes a difference between a confident good well-being and straight a bully
It seems like youtube knows that I'm having a hard time and it shows me your video. Thanks for helping us trying to overcome our weaknesses and giving us good tips👍
I feel so proud of you, i dont know you but i just love your energy liz , im 13 and i live in a toxic arab household so when i watch ur vids its like i start to believe more in myself that i can get myself out of here. And i use ur sucess and motivation, thank you so much liz
You reminded me of that daughter of the rich Sheik from Dubai I think and her story portrayed by the reporter who tried to help her then no more news about the girl. If Lorena is your reap name, is your mom Romanian by any chance? I have a 7 year old daughter and a niece your age almost. If there is anything I can do to help, let me know.
When Liz said, "You can go lie flat on the ground for people to walk all over you and those people will start complaining that you're not flat enough." I FELT THAT! Bc if you've ever gone through that, you know it sucks! You might as well put yourself first no matter what.
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I really have severe social anxiety and anxiety.. U have no idea how I was so proud of myself for reading in class because I got confident from this video.
@Le Justicier du Net so it's weak to improve yourself now? Also she's not selling anything. For once in your life please try not to suck the joy out of everything
@Le Justicier du Net if you're not interested then YOU ARE literally the one who's wasting time. You wrote that thing on every comment. How idiot is that?
@Le Justicier du Net she wouldn’t care either ab what you think of her either ways. Neither, why are you here then? Bc clearly this vid ain’t for you??💀
@Le Justicier du Net not like people are giving her their money tho. So what if they're placebo words? If they're helping people then they're helping people
needed that ‘do what you can with what you have’ i am constantly coming up with excuses to not recover from my mental illnesses and saying that i’m too young (it’s so stupid but it stops me everytime) or that i can wait a little longer and then get better
While I was listening to your video and internalizing what you were saying, I was walking out of the gym, and a REALLY CUTE GUY asked for my number! Your videos really help me a lot especially since this week I was not feeling so confident but you really inspire me to take ownership of my reality and chose to feel confident and proud rather than a victim of my mood and attitude. Thank you Liz!
She is spreading powerful words from the heart. She has been sent from God to help people. Reminds me of Indigo intelligence. Messengers sent to help the people, an Angel.
Remember: confidence is an emotion, sometimes you feel confident, sometimes you don’t. HOWEVER, high self esteem is a mentality, that is what guides you from day to day life
100% true queen! Make sure to get a boob job and lip fillers to meet the society standards that you guys supposedly don't care about! Stay healthy queen!!!!!
@@arth4r179 tf are you on? When did i mention societal standards? If you’re ugly and butt hurt then thats you, but having a high self esteem is what I’M talking abt 🤷🏾♀️
I’ve been watching her regularly like half a year ago and saw improvements in myself. Then i kinda stopped watching her videos idk why and I realised that I can’t go on with my life without her vids since she literally helped me to be more open and confident. Maybe sounds weird but she’s my therapy and I’m so grateful for that. Thank you Lizz
This is all so well said and so important! I didn't even realize how poor my self confidence was for a really long time. The minute I started actively trying to improve it - by accomplishing even the smallest goal or reminding myself of something I'm good at - my entire life started to improve. I've always been friendly and a good communicator, but it never really got me anywhere because I didn't value myself enough to have real goals. When I paired the new self confidence with my communication skills, my entire life changed. Drastically and quickly. I love your channel, Liz. When I need some encouragement or a reality check, I just pop onto your channel and I always find something that gets me back on track. Thanks! 💚✌️☀️
Thank you a lot Liz. Im doing a new routine thanks to you were i try to do one hour with podcast, im treating myself better. Im doing cold showers, im going to the gym even if i feel like i dont wanna go. I keep this discipline and that makes me love myself even more. All because of the way you talk. I was so desesperate other a situationship that didn’t respect my boundaries and kept disrespecting me. And i was sad the whole day. But now that i listen to you, i like him less and i love myself more and im an amazing person. I don’t waste people time so im not gonna let him waste my time and i will just continue with my routine because i deserve to be treated like the queen i am and im treating myself better.
im so happy i found ur channel because ive set alot of boundaries and people end up with disregarding them and i would do nothing then i started trying to act like them so the could like me then i lost my confidence after reflecting on it i found ur channel then i started putting everything into pratice and since then ive been feeling confident in myself thank u soo much Liz
Being a yoga instructor I totally agree with her about how it changes your life. I have seen many clients from being stressed and not knowing what their body is capable of to confident and comfortable with their body. Its incredible to watch.
Can’t believe the hard time I ended up in my life- depression, confidence gone. I need to get out of this. I’ve never watched Liz’s videos until 3 days ago… now I need to watch these. I need to. Coz it’s gotten too far and I need to lift myself up. I can lift myself up! I can be confident. I lost it all, but let’s go! I can do it. If Liz did, we all can, you can and I can. ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much for this video Liz! I really needed this talk as I see how insecure and self-conscious I am around the guy I like and you said all the right things to get my confidence back!
Liz you have no idea how much you helped me in getting confident and motivated to continue my studies and cutting all the toxic people out of my life .i believe now that I'm going to be the strong independent woman i have always wanted to be.thank you so much 💖
This video is so good. I LOVE that you said that confidence is NOT a certain look, because it's not but many people think that it is (which is very sad). Even I thought that it is and I would always be sad because I didn't look a certain way.
Me too. Keep flourishing as yourself because you dont look ugly, you look like you. “we are all born beautiful, the tragedy is being convinced we are not” - someone
The problem isn't only in looks. The problem is that the second I enter the school everything getting worse - hair looks not the way it is, the skirt hurts, my books don't look and feel neat as it was at home - everything just feels like a mess there, and I know that this problem comes from me not being organized
@@klmxts i'm not sure what your family situation is like, but you could still break that bad habit by keeping your personal space and life organized as much as possible, and maybe also trying to get your family to change their ways
Thank you for putting this out there. Always a pleasure to see a young lady putting out some sensible thoughts and ideas. Everything you mentioned is spot on, especially about the past and lying flat for people
Liz, thank you so much for this video. I'm a 14-year-old girl who's on a journey to love herself, and heal her trauma- and you help me fulfill that wish. Seriously, I love you so much. 💗
Yes I second that! ^^^ I’m 19 and I was watching similar stuff at your age, never let anyone tell you your too young to do this, your definitely on a good path for sure!! Good luck girl
GIRLS, lemme tell ya something. I am 28 now, i have something to tell. ... 1. Do not waste your 20's on Party, drinking and stuff. Invest your time in work and start invest early. 2. Do not sleep with guys for free or because its "love"...go get yourself a good husband who will cherish you and Invest in you. 3. Never NEVER !!!! Go for less..have your price, be a proud Lady. I can say you that because i made mistakes and good desicions. Now i have good life and Do not have to work.
Your fabulous remember this you are no one’s punching bags. And if I can give you some advice while your young if a man forces his way into your life whom you know you will never like don’t let him manipulate you into a relationship with him. You say no you are not allowed and you leave.
a lot of people don’t have anyone in their lives to help them with these very practical things or to talk to about how to improve themselves …I respect the way you take the time to simplify and help people with these things ❤️❤️❤️
Divine timing! When Allah wants you to hear something, you WILL hear it. I was literally just crying about a lot of the things addressed in this video. I am facing many challenges, and it's taking a toll on me. Thank you for the much needed boost and helping us become better versions of ourselves. 💗
This just popped out randomly in my recommendations and it's just what I needed to hear, lately i've been struggling with self esteem, or i suppose more accurately confidence issues, and when im around people at school i dont want to take my mask off or i feel like words don't come out, even though i think im beautiful and i have very interesting things to say, you're right, i need to start taking myself more seriously and become braver to face my life, thanks for the encouragement!!!!!
i am determined to make this summer my hot girl summer and i think that the number 1 step to that is being confident and being productive. Tysm for the people posting videos like this to help other people with confidence and all the other things that are really handy to know in life! If you’re this far reading this comment i hope you have a great day/night!☀️🌘
Liz is a major red flag. The amount of bragging in her videos, constantly talking about herself, is a sign of insecurity, not confidence. This girl is the female equivalent of "toxic masculinity".
Liz your a life saver, I've been dealing with really bad autoestime to the point where it affects school,my mental and physical health and my daily life,but with this video I feel a bit better. I want to improve and this motivates me to do so❤
When I first started watching Liz, I thought the change she was talking about was pointless because it would just make me feel bad and take me out of my comfort zone. But now, all I want to do is change and adopt a completely different mindset than I had before. Liz is helping me every day to become a version of myself that I never thought I could ever become. Thank you for this, I am learning a lot
I never thought that a person from RU-vid would affect my consciousness so much. With each video of Liz, I feel better and better. Every word she says cuts into my mind. This queen is like a doctor for my soul
I don’t think there is anyone out there that’s “prettier.” Like you said, everyone has different standards and everyone is beautiful in their own way!😊❤
Liz, watching your videos you changed my life, I've been watching you for a month and now I don't recognize myself, I'm a different person, new and above all now I have confidence, until a month ago I didn't have much confidence but now, now I have so much confidence that my friends ask me how do I have so much confidence, how can I be so beautiful and love myself, I tell her to follow you, and many of my friends have changed thanks to you. I don't have an older sister, and you are like an older sister for, I love you
oh to be reincarnated as her daughter is such a blessing. her words are very powerful that it would literally wake you up on what you can possibly be. i am so grateful 💟
Wow it's been over a year already. I've been here since the beginning, still remeber watching your first video and wondering when the second one will come out. This channel grew so much and so did we, the community
18:58 the way the cat just popped up when liz was talking😂❤ so cute i always learn new things when i watch liz’s videos honestly. she’s always helping me grow
this is the only video that helped me on topic of confidence and self worth- I followed your advice on doing the shadow work prompt questions and had an actual breakthrough for the first time in my life. I was completely elated all day because of how good it felt! THANK YOU FOR YOUR WORK AND CONTENT
@@abelizzlexo9395 I wasn’t being negative I’m just saying you should listen to how other people deal with it and find ways that help you, these people make money off insecure people it’s kinda mank. Try and find ways that actually make u feel better :)
@@daquaviousbingleton9763 she's literally telling how she dealt with it, yet you're out here hating (or whatever) on her, she isn't making all this up. You can tell someone when they're being authentic and when they're not
timestampppssss!💓💓 0:10- would you buy it mentality 1:20- focus on what you CAN control ( attitude, view in life, self talk, etc ) 2:28- do not focus on things you can’t control ( your past, your future, others opinions, etc! ) 3:25- who you are not ( if you can’t define who you are, focus on things you aren’t- liz’s example: she knows she’s not lazy, revengeful, etc ) - 4:04 write down on a piece of paper ‘who am i not’, to become more self aware 4:13- start doing shadow work ( go on pinterest and write down shadow work questions, and answer them ) 4:31- create routines, to structure your life - have a morning and night routine 5:44- get your money up, not your funny up (get a job and work, it doesn’t matter what it is- it doesn’t have to be your career just a source of money.) 7:27- learn and practice the art of communication ( communication is what helps people be confident and successful- it’s very important) - books she recommends : 1- the art of people, by dave kerpen 2- how to read friends and influence people by dale carnegie 9:18- go out and socialize ( you can’t act the same way with everyone, because people have different beliefs ) 10:33- start wearing sunglasses and look people in the eye ( if you look down, and avoid eye contact you will seem insecure ) ( IM GONNA FINISH THIS LATER JUST GONNA TAKE A BREAK!!💓)
18:15 Liz this was very powerful to me. Especially where I am in my life right now, everything is coming together to get to my goal! Struggling but learning a lot, to get to my destiny. Thank you so much.
I'm very very confident in myself now and I'm 100% my type of girl like I scream in the mirror everytime I look because of how pretty I find myself lol. But it was not always like this. anxiety and my environment made past me into a very socially unattractive, reclusive girl, who would hate herself and her looks and always be picked on by her looks, specially family. All that is in the past now, because as long as you find yourself attractive, your confidence will be too tall of a barrier for other's opinions to get inside your skin. Or at least, not as much. But we're not perfect and we're constantly working on stuff we need to get better at, and really i CANNOT stress enough how much of a fact it is for me, that in my environment and country I'm not attractive. No one in my family recognizes my beauty, no oe calls me anything because they're more shocked now, because I was completely different in the past. I think that people who know about what you've been in the past, or how your vibe and image was, cannot re-associate as quickly. I changed countries several times, and I was a goddess in other countries, wow, how much of a truth that is lol. And in asia my traits like very pale skin, big clear eyes, ginger hair are very charming, while in my country it's somewhat ugly, being very pale is not attractive, etc. It's really incredible tbh. I wish to work on my self concept more and everyday, so the poor recognition and the things that my own family and my environment said about me in the past, critizicing me, will not ever cross my mind again!
“You will never miss out on what is meant for you.” What a powerful and positive message. Liz I am beyond thankful for your videos and the help you spread on this platform. I am a person absolutely brazen with anxiety, but you inspire me to keep trying even when it feels impossible.
OH MY GOD! I wish I watched this video before. You are the sister I never had. I’m in my finding and working on myself era, and this is what I needed to hear the most.
i love listening to you ❤️i’m a trauma survivor too. i was taught into addiction and for a long time i felt sorry for myself. but now i am taking my power back 🙏🏼
