Tips On Being SINGLE and HAPPY! | Being a Single Christian Woman 

I'm really sorry to hear about your loss. 🙏 For you now.

Holy GOD. That's my favorite Bible verse. Neato burrito!

As Christians, we are called to grow in the likeness and spirit of Christ. Whether single or married, this is our ultimate goal and purpose because it brings glory to God. Spiritual growth is not a means to an end, a quest for a reward, or a trade for what you desire. Rather, it is the living sacrifice of love, obedience, and thankfulness to our Lord for His amazing grace. This is why I am often wary of the assertion that earthly blessings are necessarily attached to spiritual maturity. Singles often hear the assertion that if they simply focus on their relationship with God and grow in righteousness, a spouse will suddenly appear. I have heard this on more than one occasion and it always rings hollow. This is not because growing in grace and truth is unsound advice, but rather because it is unscriptural to assert that realizing our earthly desires necessarily hinges on spiritual maturity. As stated above, the point of spiritual growth is to become more like Christ, not to get what we want on earth. Now, of course it is true that living in obedience and righteousness and conforming ourselves to the image of Christ can and will bring about blessings. Psalm 1 demonstrates this principle. Correspondingly, a life of sinfulness and disobedience will not bring about the blessings and peace found in a life renewed and regenerated by the redemptive work of Christ. However, there is no guarantee that we will be given what we desire while on earth even if we are walking in faith and truth. Spiritual maturity will not guarantee a spouse or health or earthly happiness. I know spiritually mature Christians who have remained unmarried for years upon years (despite longing and praying for a spouse) while other, less mature, carnally-minded Christians already have spouses and are enjoying all the benefits of such a relationship. When attempting to comfort singles who are facing the trial of prolonged, unwanted singleness, people will often point to Christ's words in Matthew 6 as evidence that if a person seeks the kingdom of heaven and God's righteousness, all things will be "added to them," as if that is the formula for getting what you want. However, many Christians starve to death, many are murdered for their faith, and many will live earthly lives that are utterly lacking in certain pleasures, enjoyments, and blessings that are showered upon others who seem to be living more unfaithful lives. Does this mean that God is unfaithful? Was Christ being misleading? Not at all. Rather, it demonstrates that the ultimate fulfillment of Christ's words and God's promises are not found on earth, but rather in heaven. Spiritual growth and maturity do not guarantee earthly happiness. They will not guarantee a spouse. They do, however, store up a treasure of eternal joy and union with Christ in heaven. 1st John 2:25 says, "this is the promise which He Himself made to us: eternal life." Until we fully realize this promise in His presence, we must learn to follow Christ's examples and pray "not my will, but Yours be done," no matter how painful or confusing God's will appears to be at the time.

Arcanon10 All things are possible to those that believe. Mark 9:23 ❤️🕊🙂

Arcanon10 All things are possible to those that believe. Mark 9:23 ❤️👑✝️🙂👊

@@chief1redwolf909 Indeed :) And 👊 back at you

girl i GET THAT SO MUCH. Don't feel rushed. you have so much more time than you think you do I promise.

Oh good I'm not crazy! Same here.

Women want mostly materialistic things from you not your body and soul, that is the issue sadly.

Good call meatball!

Me too 😑

Iam a rock I cant fall in love easily, but somehow I thank God for that, because it has helped me in some relationships in my past that were not from God for that I could overcome.

I'm so glad you liked it thank you for your support!!!

Carla Bellefleur hello carla

NONSENSE made to SHAME single people. So Christians can grow in Christ but single Christians are DOOMED to repeat the way life was in their singleness? Exactly, doesn’t make sense. Load of nonsense

You make an excellent point in this post. As Christians, we are called to grow in the likeness and spirit of Christ. Whether single or married, this is our ultimate goal and purpose because it brings glory to God. Spiritual growth is not a means to an end, a quest for a reward, or a trade for what you desire. Rather, it is the living sacrifice of love, obedience, and thankfulness to our Lord for His amazing grace. This is why, as you noted, we must be wary of the assertion that earthly blessings are necessarily attached to spiritual maturity. Singles often hear the assertion that if they simply focus on their relationship with God and grow in righteousness, a spouse will suddenly appear. I have heard this on more than one occasion and it always rings hollow. This is not because growing in grace and truth is unsound advice, but rather because it is unscriptural to assert that realizing our earthly desires necessarily hinges on spiritual maturity. As stated above, the point of spiritual growth is to become more like Christ, not to get what we want on earth. Now, of course it is true that living in obedience and righteousness and conforming ourselves to the image of Christ can and will bring about blessings. Psalm 1 demonstrates this principle. Correspondingly, a life of sinfulness and disobedience will not bring about the blessings and peace found in a life renewed and regenerated by the redemptive work of Christ. However, there is no guarantee that we will be given what we desire while on earth even if we are walking in faith and truth. Spiritual maturity will not guarantee a spouse or health or earthly happiness. I know spiritually mature Christians who have remained unmarried for years upon years (despite longing and praying for a spouse) while other, less mature, carnally-minded Christians already have spouses and are enjoying all the benefits of such a relationship. When attempting to comfort singles who are facing the trial of prolonged, unwanted singleness, people will often point to Christ's words in Matthew 6 as evidence that if a person seeks the kingdom of heaven and God's righteousness, all things will be "added to them," as if that is the formula for getting what you want. However, many Christians starve to death, many are murdered for their faith, and many will live earthly lives of loneliness and sadness that are utterly lacking in certain pleasures, enjoyments, and blessings that are showered upon others who seem to be living more unfaithful lives. Does this mean that God is unfaithful? Was Christ being misleading? Not at all. Rather, it demonstrates that the ultimate fulfillment of Christ's words and God's promises are not found on earth, but rather in heaven. Spiritual growth and maturity do not guarantee earthly happiness. They will not guarantee a spouse. They do, however, store up a treasure of eternal joy and union with Christ in heaven. 1st John 2:25 says, "this is the promise which He Himself made to us: eternal life." Until we fully realize this promise in His presence, we must learn to follow Christ's examples and pray "not my will, but Yours be done," no matter how painful or confusing God's will appears to be at the time.

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haha yes girl!

It’s boring after 25 lol

I'm so so happy that you could relate!!! thanks for commenting!

that's so awesome embrace this season!!!

@@NastasiaGrace I will! Thanks, it has been hard indeed. Been single for almost 3 years (after a 7 year relationship) and I'm definitely using this time to ve close to GOD. Alot of pruning, healing, and reflecting....but GOD has promises for my future

hahah!

you can lust after a rock most of the time people are lusting mistaking it for love

thank you!!

yay I'm SOOO glad thank you!

Tonia Moronczyk hello tonia

Hi Toni morconizyk,. Toni. What kind of CD you have

thank youu!

Iris Heinrich hello iris

thank youu!!

thanks!!! It's my friend's lol

aww that's so sweet thank you!!

Asia Moore hello asia

How are you doing queen

Tonia Moronczyk let your friends know I'm looking for me a HOLY WOMAN OF GOD I STAY IN BASILE LOUISIANA LET ME KNOW SOMETHING

You're welcome!

There is no other name under heaven given among men where by we must be saved. All have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God. All have lied all has stolen. So we all must be born again by Gods spirit. By one man Adam sin came into the world. And by one man Jesus Christ sin can be forgiven!!! We are saved by grace through faith and not of yourself, it is the gift of God not of works so no one can boast. Christians trust God’s finished work alone ! His righteousness is what God sees when he looks at us ! We do good works for rewards and obedience not to earn our own way to heaven!!! Bible says God doesn’t share his glory with another

In our next lives assuming that you accept Jesus Christ as your savior then you're able to be in the kingdom of God there is no marriage no one is married.. and by the way religion cannot save anybody.. only Jesus Does

Jesus is the way The Truth and the Life ☹️

@@inayah4518 its the truth

@@lailamossemann8316 amen sister

I feel your pain. I feel crushed from over a decade of debilitating anxiety and depression. My career has fallen through, no relationship and I still live at home with my family. I'm in my early 30s. I see so many people without faith able to move forward in life while I feel forever stuck. I know God has a plan for me, but the sadness is oh so real.

@@lilacscoffee9360 hey! As christians and believers we are right to be healed and we are! Please listen to Andrew Wommack. It helped me when I had extreme anxiety and pannic attacks. It's easier said than done but dream for your future and read bibble.Talk to God. For me he's the only real friend! For God nothing is impossible. Somethimes we have to wait for those really good things. Now I think those unbelievers are not so happy after all ;) If you want you can talk to me.I'm 30 y.o. too :)

I don't think there's a "right" answer to this necessarily but for marriage, I absolutely do not believe anyone should get married before the age of 18 (I am very much against child brides in every culture) and as for dating, I believe that's up to the discretion of the parents but I plan to have my future children wait until they are at least 16.

@@NastasiaGrace thank you so much for giving attention to my comment can i have a prayer request to you pls pray for me to trust God in His plans and His time because im 27 still single