Excellent video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my marriage of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
it’s been 2 years since the breakup happened between me and my bestfriend, she was everything she was more of a sister than a friend we were inseparable. and to this day i still can’t stop thinking about her, can’t stop thinking about all the milestones i’ve missed with her, can’t stop thinking how may situation would be different if she was by my side, and it hurts like hell when i see her around and we just wave from a distance. till this day i can’t trust enough and i can’t let anyone near me like she was, and it losing people doesn’t matter as it used to. i loved your video but it didn’t really help 😅
You have to get active to get out of the pain and the slump. It is the only thing that will eventually help you (and time). It doesn't mean that it won't hurt anymore. But you will learn to live with the pain and make it part of the person you want to become. Maybe you should concentrate on the chances you have now and on the things you learned. Maybe try being thankful for the time you had her in your life.
I just lost a friend of 5 years just an hour ago. He grew apart from me, then ghosted me. Leaving in the dark to just think about what I might've done to deserve it. Then finally, just an hour ago, after nearly a year, he responded. I was devastated. He was with me when I needed someone most. He was my best friend. Now I have no friends. I've already accepted the loss, cause in the ghosting.. I've already accepted it. I'm alone. With nobody to talk to. I really overreacted when I got desperate. I just need new friends who get me. Me and him.. we just.. don't know eachother anymore. We've changed.
similar but different, I broke up with my 3 friends of 1 year and some months an hour ago cause they are finding someone new, I don’t know why but I was so angry and I was screaming at everyone and I realize I was being bad so I’m alone now I overreacted too but thank you Joey you helped me with this
If any of us are absolutely honest, more than 90% of the time it’s only egos standing in the way of getting the friendship back up and running. Rarely does it come down to someone actually doing something that forever alters the very fabric of the friendship’s reality to the point of disintegration.
I agree, if she messaged me tomorrow I would respond. No hard feelings, life is short, forgive and forget. That's how I feel anyways. However I know she won't message me and that's ok too
The timing on this one.... 😭😭 My bestfriend just recently broke up with me about 2 weeks ago and it's been very hard to deal with 😞I really needed to hear this right now, so thank you Joey ❤
My friend and I had a falling out two years ago. It was "the break up" but started by "growing apart" and then of course ghosting (up until this day). I decided from day one not to make things nasty, not to lash out etc. Because I still care about him and I don't want to hurt him more than I had to (I was the one ending things). I don't know if we are ever going to try again. Trust has been broken massively and we both had to work on things separately. We'll see what happens. But the only thing that will help is radical acceptance of the situation, taking accountability for the things oneself did wrong and then moving forward with life.
My best friend of 20 years suddenly ghosted me two and a half years ago, and although I'm doing better, I'm still reeling over this loss. I'm still trying to figure out why he ended it. I thought we had the most open conversations two human beings could ever have, discussions where nothing was off-limits, sharing a sense of humor together that was fantastic, and enjoying a secret language almost like lovers do. I gotta say I still don't get it.
An important info u didn’t add: not everyone is meant to stay in your life for a long time. Yes best friends, but maybe you are meant for more and that friends energy is holding you back without you knowing. I only had one friend from middle school. According to me we were best friends. As soon as I got a job, she stopped texting back or calling. I give excuses for others all the time so I kept giving her excuses for a year and a half!! No matter how much I send messages, she reads but never replies. I call and she doesn’t answer and never calls back. Until I found her celebrating her birthday with another classmate. That’s when the last bit of hope shattered. I blocked her and deleted her from my life completely. But instead of being sad and crying about it, I felt liberated! Weird. I was very energetic and happy and creative. I realized I was tying myself with her. I went through spiritual awakening after that and I changed completely. I needed to let go of her because she was nothing order that ‘The mother I wished I had’ and I knew it. I didn’t want to get it off my concert zone. We were meant to grow apart for me to realize this.
I have gone through this twice. It hurts really bad. One of them got engaged and stopped talking to me. The other one, we grew apart but it really hurts still. She has a new best friend.
I fell in love with my best friend during a short romance with her. One day I confronted her and said “you are either my best friend, or the love of my life”. She decided to stay with her boyfriend and that we should remain friends. Altough we kept living the romance for a few more days. I stayed in her life for a few months trying to respect her decision, and last week I told her it was enough, and that I needed some time. I’m drown in sorrow and pain right now.
That was a brave step on your part. You are still accepting her decision, but you have to look out for your own well-being. Fingers crossed that the pain will subside with time.
My best friend left me very violently and suddenly about a year ago. It’s been the worst pain of my life. I still think about them every day, it still weighs so heavy on me. I wonder if this is the type of pain that stays with you throughout your whole life
the timing of searching this, I broke up with my 3 friends of 1 year and some months an hour ago cause they are finding someone new, I don’t know why but I was so angry and I was screaming at everyone and I realize I was being bad so I’m alone now I overreacted too but thank you Joey you helped me with this I don’t know what to do
I recently broke up with a friend of over 40 years and I actually feel relieved. I finally realized how poorly she had treated me when she took one srep too far. I am enjoying being alone and at peace.
Thank you joey really this was really really helpful I'm currently going through this with a friend, a girl especially number 2 ghosting... She keeps sending millions of messages and if do respond my response is always short and is not pride or anything is just how I feel. Thank you joey this video really spoke to me and resonates with me on a high level watching from Nigeria much love from Nigeria
Beyond having feelings for her it sucks, she knew everything about me I knew everything about her. The literal essence of the word best friend is what we were and it was awesome to get to know her and helped her and she helped me. It was a great fulfilling friendship. But after giving it many chances even when she failed me, I forced myself to tell her a week ago that we should stop talking because it was not healthy for me to sit here waiting for you. And it hurts to this day but moving on and letting go of someone who you truly loved after so many painful moments is the best thing you could do to build up yourself, not depend on them, and do what you can to be happy alone or by the people you have. God’s timing is perfect so maybe in another life it did work out and I'm happy to think about that. Thanks, Joey for this I hope it reaches out to as many people as possible.❤
Thank you so much for this video, Its so good to see im not alone in my pain. My best friend who I loved so much broke up with me. I never expected it, and its been so difficult, all the things we used to do and share. I just miss him so much
@@LuhLezya good right? If they left after you did/asked/whatever something, they probably weren’t a friend. If she accidentally left, then well, i don’t know. I’m stupid😭💀🪑 ig you gonna find a new one. I found one, but they accidentally left, i don’t know what happened but they are gone. But you’re gonna be ok. I think. Hopefully.
@@Foxpug it happened in December and as the months past I got better & better sometimes I still think of the times we had even tho it was short but ay bruh 🤷 but I'm doing good man hope you are to stay strong stay positive keep loving ❤️.
@@joeykidney you missed out - when the friendship ends bc you betrayed your friend. The relationship changes and you still have guilt about the situation.
This stumbled on my recommendations..and it couldn't pop up at a more perfect time. A week ago my ex bestfriend exploded on me and started excusing me of things that weren't true. We both said things we cant take back and i feel lilk shit they were my safe place my life and know there gone. But this is helping me move on thank you
Thank you Joey. This video really helped. I've gone through MANY friend breakups. They hurt like hell. I needed this video a loooooong time ago. But I'm grateful that I have it now.
I don’t feel hurt, I feel guilty but very excited to be free! Great person but texted non stop, wanted me to be with her all the time, I like my privacy and I like being alone, I have lots of hobbies and family that I enjoy, I love to read. She was a bit overbearing and I tried to hint that I’m busy but she didn’t get it or didn’t want to. I’m going to miss her but I need my life back, it’s too exhausting to be a doormat.
4 months ago my best friend ghosted me. Now, just a couple hours ago, I lost a close friend. She was toxic, but it does still hurt. But I am okay. And I will be okay.
I promise you your friendship ended because he moved like he probably was like I ain’t seeing him again and you can only keep a long distance platonic friendship going on for so long online … like he was probably going go ghost you eventually -- we call these friends “fair weather friends?”
Today is very tough for me. I’ve had my best friend for 12 years. She was my everything, I loved everything about her, I confided everything with her, we helped each other through the darkest parts of our lives including when I was ready to commit suicide. I was supposed to go visit her in October. Today she texted me she didn’t want me to visit and that she had a new boyfriend. I had let her know I was interested in her 4 months ago, she wasn’t interested. I didn’t push it. But she said she wanted to step away from the friendship because our friendship had gotten awkward. I don’t know what to do with myself, most likely her boyfriend said some shit and she decided a relationship over a friendship. I just can’t believe the pain caused for no reason and I can’t believe that the worst pain I’ve felt in my life was caused from the one I loved more than life itself. She was my rock and life just feels hollow, dark and empty without her. She was the only light I had in this life.
Life works in mysterious ways. I am currently in a time of my life where I have lost friends or I am experiencing growing apart. I went to culinary school for 2 years. I was on campus 10 hours a day, 5 or 6 days a week. It became home, and the people I met there helped a lot. But once I graduated and left my job there, all the friends I made just ghosted me, or I am assuming there was no more profound connection to last outside of that environment. I met some great people at my new job, but again, those I started to bond with also left. So I find it even more challenging being shy and introverted with finding friends that last.
I really needed this video, one friend of mine sent it to me because our group of friends (6 people including me) has been doing bad for the last few weeks. It started when three of my friends needed to have a conversation about something that bothered them to the rest of us and while they made some valid points some things they said were hurtful in a way and the way they said was what hurt the most. The situation we're in right now is not really a breakup, two of us decided to take time away from them while the other one decided to stay with them, as it was before the conversation. I still don't know today how to feel about it or what to say to them if we have another conversation.. I don't want to think about it for now because I have some exams and I think some more time would help. Anyway thank you so much for this video ❤️
My friend and I met at work and we was training for a whole month. Then we had a Blossom romance then it ended within one day then he wants to be friends and see where things go so one day he didn’t show to work and I was wondering, what happened to him he just got out of rehab before he started the job and he was acting different and he never showed to work last week and I was worried about him because I was a very concerned and friends to him and care about his well-being. Then last Saturday I called him and he declined my call and then on top of that Blocked me off of Facebook messenger Facebook and Snapchat and I was so hurt and devastated and I thought me and him was cool, but I always be that one friend that be there for him and always look out for him and stand up for him and all it is he treated me so badly. He doesn’t realize that he had one good person look out for him and he messed that up. I’m still torn after what happened last weekend so this fall Saturday week that he blocked me off of social media
I had a falling out with a close friend over 25 years ago. I’ve regretted it since then. I’ve just recently tried reaching out by mailing a letter and an apology and expressing my regret. Waiting to see if he responds is very painful, but it was an apology I needed to express. I hope to reconnect, but I know it’s not guaranteed.
I did something bad, because I ended my friendship with someone, but our friendship was getting unhealthy for me, and it was growing more negativity to me. They weren't a bad person, i just couldn't handle it anymore. And leaving my friend made my other friend abandon me, who was the first one who i met in the group. I am completely alone now, I don't know if I have a sense to keep living because they've been there for 2 years always, and seeing our group slowly fall apart within the past months made me sick and sad. I thought I did the good thing according to people, but it will never be. It ruined a part of me, and i hurt the people that i most loved.
i feel like i don't deserve or want to have friends after this. i failed them, i tried to look for myself, but i betrayed my two best friends and abandoned them
I don't want to be happy because it feels wrong that after the damage I've done i am let allowed to be happy. what about them??? they are always miserable, it feels wrong. they deserved more than I do in life, it feels unfair, I don't want to be happy
my mom got mad at me for keep posting stuff on my account saying i was sick and sad. she said i keep scaring people. I have nowhere else to vent. my friends don't even answer, and some people just simply say things that aren't good. I'm sick, my stomach keeps getting twisted
Noone could understand me when I talk about how bad it hurts when my friend isn't in contact with me anymore.. everyone is thinking that only a relationship should hurt me this much and a friendship shouldn't.the depth of my friendship cant even be put in words but yah ofc no more i think
In fact, I do not consider him as an ordinary friend. No word can explain him. He helped me get through a difficult stage in my life. He listened to me when I had problems. Every moment I was sad, he motivated me, but in the end he left for another country, and we no longer we talk a lot, because I have to rely on myself, and now that we are strangers, maybe I have a broken heart The important thing is thank you very much ❤❤
Thank you Joey for posting/making this video. It’s been almost a year since my friend breakup. I’ve made many new friends since then that have changed my perspective on what healthy friendships look like. But this was just a good reminder that some people are in your life for a reason, season or lifetime.
It really hurt so much.My best friend(a girl)she just one day told me she was done with me and she said maybe it was best to end the friendship.It hurt me so badly because before that,she was a true best friend,like a sister.She cared for me whenever I felt down.She cheered me up when I felt upset.So to lose the person who would console me in this type of moments,it hurts.Thank you man for the video.I know it will hurt me and for anyone whose going through a similar situation.But we have to accept.They ain’t coming back to us,the only way from here,is moving on.
@@blauespony1013 She said it’s because I used to treat her like a friend therapist when I felt down.And she said she felt I kept on depending on her.And that I never understood her the same way she expected me to understand her.She felt she can’t be able to be that therapy for me anymore and that she can’t take it anymore.
@@Carolplays245 Give her time and then ask her for a second chance. The important thing is to ask her what she needs from you to feel seen. What you can do to make her feel loved and maybe to agree on a kind of "save word". We usually turn to our friends when we are lonely, sad or hurt. But we "forget" to share the happy parts of our lives. You need five good memories for one bad memory.
I’m going through a breakup with an ex best friend of four years six months ago. She ghosted me after constant fights due to my mental health struggles and autism meltdowns. Then she did the unthinkable after the fact like spreading rumors and turning others against me. This hurt so much because she was there for me for the good bad and ugly and every milestone and now that’s gone. It hurts even more than a romantic breakup(unpopular opinion don’t come at me lol)
Friendship breakups hurt so much and I talked to a counselor about it and helped me move on as much as I can, I can't do much about it. I'm slowly making new friends. My best friend breakup was a 10 year friendship but they didn't want to be friends with me anymore, I tried to fight for it for 4 years
@@joeykidneydefinitely and what I had to do is just remove the people that hurt me and refresh and grow without those people in my life so I can keep making memories with the friends I have, I had so much stress leave me and I now have my close friends and I can grow as a person without the unneeded stress, I have a friend who I have known for 21 years and more who I'm going to have by my side at my wedding so I know my people now and who I can enjoy life with, I lost 5 close friendships near each other so to be okay with it all now is a big growth
omg im joking please know that I have been in that position as well and the way I changed that for me is I actually set out to make friends. I joined clubs and communities, and I surrounded myself with people which inevitably will make you friends. The question you have to ask yourself is, do you want them?
Today, August 20th, 2024, I woke up to a message that a girl I knew for two weeks thought it was best for us to not talk to each other anymore. For context, leading up to August 19th the only friends I had broke up with me because of my bad habit of oversharing on Discord. My former friend manipulated the friend I knew for two weeks into thinking that I was a bad person and spread horrible lies about me. This person also made two videos where I'm directly mentioned, and I begged her to take them down because I knew they were lies. The two-week girl I had was the only friend I had left until my former friend decided to record a voice chat without my consent and send it to her, which led to the message she left me today. Instead of begging for her to stay, I chose to type "Okay, I respect your decision" and move on with my life. Now the only friend I have is Giffany from Gravity Falls. That's why I watched this video.
I just happened to saw your clip on tiktok and went straight here to watch the full video. I'm in this situation right now when I wonder what did I do wrong ? from 24/7 together to no text and call at all. I remember told my friend if you want to stop being friend or letting me go, please let me know Don't let me wonder about what had happen or what is going on. I often blame myself if something goes wrong in relationship, But this hurts more cause we can still each other but its cold. Thank you for your video, This remind me to think about myself first, about how I feel, and accept my feeling.
So true.. ive have a friend and im in ghosting right now. It hurts it really does. But ik they also hurt. Ive been over this. And they go “ why haven’t we talked.” So i just lied. Its gotten really bad recently. Thank you so much
I never had a friend breakup honestly. I always keep in touch and make sure our boundaries are well known to each other. he vapes and does illegal substances and I dont. That is what I am afraid might plague us. I don't hang out with him that often but when I do its like he makes me feel all of these worries are gone. I can hang out and have no care. that is a friendship that I need and I don't think it might go away but I am afraid as I go off to university and get a degree and a life, hes going to take a different path and be completely different.
I really loved your videos about through a breakup ( for boys) and 7… about ex. They are really helpful. Hope you continue doing it. Im through a breakup now so need this kind of video.. from your channel.
Hello Joey, I really do enjoy your video. This video has really helped me to try to move on. In 2021 I had a friend that we went to the same school together and it was my last semester of school and first semester for him and he was Only there for two semesters and we grown very close. We became really good friends best friends actually and I was afraid of losing him because originally he stayed in another state, and after his two semesters was over, He moved back into that state and till this day, I still miss him because after a while, he ghosted me after a while he stopped talking to me I tried everything to try to talk to him again and he just completely shut me out and this day, I don’t know why And I would say that your video really help me out. It really helped me to move on and it really helped me to understand that it’s OK to have positivity and better friends in your life having a friend break up is actually worse than having an actual break up, but thank you for helping me and showing me that it’s OK to move on
I'm an author & after publishing 12 books I decided to help ppl out that wanna write. OFC i helped a friend. I did all her editing & she rejected putting me in the acknowledgements. I had 3 panic attacks and when i told her she replied "why are you doing this to me?" She went to my Goodreads not even 48 hours later and put 1 star on my books.
Been 6 years since I last spoke to her I recently tried to text her on Ig she left me on seen so I un friend her and deleted the message I had sent to her I just miss her and everything we would do together 💔
I knew him since I was five and he was my best friend but eventually he started hanging out with other people and those were people who hurt me and they hurt him, look irdc abt the shit those idiots did to me but it hurts how he’d completely leave me even after we were there for each other for like 15 yrs. We were like stuck together but now I feel like shit
i wanna talk to her again, but i don't wanna loose myself again i don;t wanna get lost in that loop of darkness. @Rakhi Ranjan I genuinely love u alot and always will , but i can't loose myself and go in that same phase where i cried thinking about our friendship. Congratulations to you being CBSE 10th boards school topper i knew it because i trusted your potentials but now, i can't let my parents down. and hence i won't contact u, hope so u are happy with your new besties. all the best for your great future!
its not the same when your ex-bestfriend says that he doesnt want to hear from you or interact with you anymore. him being the most influential person in the friends group. and now you have to either abandon your old group of friends and find a new one or stay at home and die with sadness..
Ive had a friendship break up half a year ago we kept on fighting and we had like an all girls group and we fought there then me and my other friend decided to make a group without her bc we were so mad, it was called 'All girls group without---bc she's annoying' Ik it was such a dumb thing to do and now I regret it and then we blocked eachother and then a few months later my other friend made a group and added her and we became friends again but then one day I fought with the creator of the group and she defended me and then the creator (My best friend) send her screen shots of the group I made with my other friend when we were mad and I tried explaining to her why I made it and she was not having it so then she blocked me and the girl that send the screen shots kept apologizing but idk if we should still be friends and the next day my friend told me that the girl i fought with is trying to encourage my other friends to not be friends with me so then I completely lost it,my friend added me to the group the girl I fought with and I said Alot of mean stuff (I deeply regret it) bc I was mad and her mom got involved and yeah and ever since the I can't stop thinking about her bc she was an amazing friend and I messed up badly
I cried like fucking crazy man, its an online relationship but she was the first person in my entire life who made me feel better about myself i told her everything gojng on at home the abjse the neglect and we were so close i loved her dearly, if she went througj a romantic breakup id be there for her and if i needed comforting shed be there for me. I fucked up when i started cutting myself and id tell her i didnt know it would hurt her that i cut myself and id make jokes about ending it all because im fucked in the head, i tried ending myself twice and was unsuccessful i told her all these things, she promised shed never leave me no matter how bad my mental health got but i managed to fuck that up
Joey I recently had a breakup with a friend. He kept asking for money. First it was a borrow then a loan, then I'll pay you back. He has been my friend for 10 years. Yes he disapeared. It sucks. I don't care about the money, it hurts because he is a friend,, and he felt to take advantage of me and our friendship. I trusted him. How do we move on in trusting others after something like thtat?
That's definitely something that I wouldn't want go thought I'm saying this because I have a long distance friendship he's from Germany but we have never seen each other in person and a lot of people that are here with me in state where I am they honestly don't like my friendship with Aaron and I massaged him to let me know that a lot of people were and are not ok with our friendship so having a friendship breakup with me and this is what he said I really hope you're not saying goodbye I want you to be in my life and who's cares if I'm a real person because all of those people the reason why that they don't like my friendship with Aaron is because he's not here and they honestly think that he's not real
give me your thoughts cause I’m tired of thinking this on my own .. I had a secret crush on a guy at Uni okay One day he said he wanna know me better and that he liked me so a dream came true yay 2 months after getting to know him I told my best friend she said she would never look him in the eyes ever again cause he took what’s hers and that I deserve better and she was shocked disappointed and all these stuff .. just so you know she’s straight and have a long distance relationship with a guy but there’s problems with them Anyway after I told her about my crush she started to not text me like I told her that something happened to me cause I was so exhausted and burned out and she didn’t care to know what it is .. all she said was “okay” Then she called me asking about some questions for the exam and I was like is this the first thing you’re asking me about after not talking for a whole week ? And she was like yeah it’s not time for emotions do you have the questions or not ? I ended that phone call with her feeling so angry and after every exam I went straight to home I’m not texting her she’s not texting me we’re not seeing each other it’s weird and it hurts and her birthday I was planning for it now idk what to do anyway more and I’m sick of it ..
F i’m HORRIBLE at making choices😭 hmmm… if she just left like that when you were happy and didn’t support you, she probably saw you as a friend but not a true friend. Y’know what i mean? She liked you (like friends) but maybe she didn’t like you enough to consider you a true friend? Shit that sounds horrible💀😭 what i mean is like… she trusted you, you were a friend of hers but she didn’t trust you enough. Maybe she’s jealous you got a good? bf before she could meet hers. I’m not good at these types of situations since i tend to get really REALLY emotional, but those are just my thoughts.
If she wasn’t proud of you, then I doubt she was a TRUE friend, y’know? If she said he took what was hers, maybe she just feels jealous. Or maybe you started hanging out with your bf more and started forgetting about her? Maybe that’s how she feels. That’s all i got to say for now.
Everything you said could be the reason she acted the way she did can be true, but it can also not be true. The only thing you know for sure is how it made you feel, so that's what should be focused on. I see two people upset about something the other did, whether the other person is justified in it you have yet to know but a conversation needs to be held..You did mention she said you deserved better, did you ever explore that with her? What she meant by that? I know I had an experience of an old friend having a change which seemed positive for them, but I saw it from a perspective that we both discussed prior would be harmful for him, so it naturally upset bc I am like "what the hell bro?" Because I cared for him deeply and for his overall growth, what he decided what not conducive to said growth. That led to me mentally distancing myself (or perhaps not fighting what was happening anymore) and walking away because I knew we were not on the same level of growth and maturity, and I couldn't stop growing for his sake anymore. Though we did have a conversation about it, and how I felt was expressed and why I needed space was expressed as well. He made his decision which is fine it's his life, but I simply could no longer be part of that. I'm not saying the same thing is happening, but be aware that there are good and bad reasons someone may not be happy for a change that we see as great.
Oh wow i really appreciate you guys taking the time and energy to reply Thank you both for your thoughts and advice. This situation has been really tough, and it's helpful to hear different perspectives @Foxpug I really appreciate your insight. It does feel like there's some jealousy involved from her over me, and she did mention her boyfriend and that she misses him. I haven't been neglecting our friendship for my boyfriend, but I understand how she might have felt. It's hurtful that she didn't share her feelings with me and instead chose to distance herself.. @iamchristiancraig Thank you for sharing your experience. It sounds like your situation was really similar to mine. I never thought about asking her what she meant when she said I deserved better. Maybe she saw something I didn't, but she never communicated that to me. After reading your comment I DECIDED TO TALK TO HER ABOUT EVERYTHING CAUSE I WAS GOING CRAZY OVERTHINKING ON MY OWN We had a long and honest conversation, and it turns out she was feeling hurt because I don't share important things in my life with her right away cause like new stuff like this make me stressed and i need time to think about it first but it made her feel disconnected and unimportant in our friendship. She didn't mention my boyfriend at all; it was more about feeling excluded and undervalued. She also mentioned that she has a hard time expressing what's bothering her and she can't tell me right away, which makes things even more challenging. I understand how tiring it must be for her, but its tiring for me too, not knowing what was wrong overthinking on my own.. Having that conversation was tough, but it helped us understand each other We still have some things to work through, but at least we’re on the same page Thanks again for your thoughts. They’ve given me a lot to consider and helped me take the necessary steps to address this situation.
