To Love Is To Grieve - Mueni Wambua 

I have had my most painful time with grief and I totally relate to this November 4th 2022 I lost my dear dad and on January 17th 2023 I lost my dear only sister. It's been difficult for me and this losses have put me down . I have so many questions. I believe one day I will come through this. God's Grace has been there for me.

A.authentic acceptance of grief I. Inconclusive acceptance of the unanswered questions R.invent your life how your loved one would have loved you to live.

Thanks for sharing and more grace to you as you soldier on🙏🏼 Takeaways: AIR A- Come up for air as you remain authentic. I- Live with the in conclusion. R- Reimagine your life afresh. We are all on borrowed time (bundles)

Today is mum's 6th anniversary and what's pops up? My chaama mate Pasi Mueni talking about grief. Ooh, I grieved my mum. Those hot tears at times unceremoniously but they become less with time and sweet memories dominate.❤

Grace has brought me this far and Grace will lead me home.

It is fortunate when you have grief not complicated by other terrible circumstances.. Someone died and you are heartbroken. Others like us faced hostility and rejection from our mates families and friends and crippling financial burdens, not to mention having to deal with young children. That still persist to date. But the promises of the Bible are true in that All things work for good for they that love the Lord and whom He has called according to His purpose. It shall be well with all of us who are grieving.

I didn't want her to end her talk. Grief is inconclusive. This was so wholesome. Thank you Mueni. ❤

Passie, walked me down memory lane. Grief is great in its own way. Abuna, never met such a beautiful soul.

How do we live with the inconclusion? How long should one grief? How long does the effect of grief impact our lifeline? I have had my most painful points with grief and I totally relate to this...I agree our lives are in the hands of a loving God. He provides us the unconditional love and grace we need to navigate everything!

Me and grief are sworn enemies. I chose to ignore it completely, and refused to pay attention to it even when it was standing in front of me screaming in my face. Grief on the other hand completely refused to ignore me or release me till I have allowed it to sit me down and face it squarely. I still hate it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I have lost my brother, who means the world to me and a cousin one month apart, and it hurts. You have spoken to me because grief is a topic, not even pastors preach. Grief is excruciatingly difficult, especially if your loved ones were killed.You are an amazing storyteller.

Thanks for this overcoming grieve has been the hardest thing in me.i know one day I will...I lost my bro on 4jan 2021...but little have I know how to handle this...but to everyone am that strong girl that people can envy

Always Come Out For AIR...

❤❤❤ You know you are a big part of my healing journey. I celebrate you always. 2020 - 2023 were such a tumultuous years 😔. Grief has changed how i relate... I feel the emotions. I live with the incoclusion. But I am cognizant that grace has brought me this far, and grace will carry me home.

This reminded me of my daddy...4months ago...THE A.I.R.Part is very helpful.....I almost dream with him daily...I was his lil girl♥️🙏🙏🙏😭

We have so much in common, from the name to the dad's favorite human to being a last born and grief .. You've just earned yourself a fan.

My dear sister Alice,it has never been the same since you left 😢,,still struggling with grief,each passing day without you around aches my heart,your demise really broke me💔,,continue resting easy my love,i miss you so much my bestie,till the resurrection morning,i will always love you Abuna❤❤💜💜💜💜

Mueni....thanks for this piece on how to handle grief....came very timely after loss of two colleagues.

Thanks Passy for this. Truth be told, i am still trying to re invent myself after Alices' transition... It hasn't been easy even after all these months/ years.

Huweeh, Passy Mueni Wambua, your compassionate and insightful reflections during the talk illuminated the depth of your connection with our sister Alice and underscored the invaluable role you played as her friend and therapist during her journey. Your words eloquently captured the essence of those meaningful conversations, offering comfort, solace, and wisdom to those who are currently grappling with similar experiences. It is truly an honor for our family to have Alice's memory and legacy celebrated in such a meaningful way. Your willingness to share her story with grace, humor, empathy, and authenticity reflects the profound impact she had on those fortunate enough to have known her. Thank you for journeying with the our family on this one. Continue resting Easy Alice!

Oh, Alice , it's never the same again, mtaasis. You are celebrated in death. Just as in life .💜. Beautiful one Pasi 🙏

Im still grieving but I'll remember to come up for air. Thanks for this.

Great talk, very inspiring and encouraging. May your Dad, Alice and Middi rest at the feet of the Lord Jesus

This is such an encouraging piece. You are beautiful and eloquent

Thank you for sharing your grief story Mueni. It will three years this July since I lost my mum. That is the most difficult thing that I have ever gone through in my life. I lost it! I became numb... I cried loads, I shut people out... the 'I' part of Air was the hardest! Guilt creeped in, the things I had planned to do for mum but never did. The wasted time... I am glad that God helped me through it! I am reinventing everyday and it is bearable now. I am glad that I didn't get stuck in there. We mourn because we love.

This is an awesome piece. You made me reflect over many things. Very touching. God bless you Passy.

👏👏👏 I have been waiting for this since we 'met' @ LBWC. Message well delivered. I love your bright smile.

❤❤ grace has brought me this far and grace will lead me home 💕💕

May the Lord continue to comfort you

Poleni sana. Thank you for sharing your story of grief. It has encouraged me and i've shared it with others.

Touching, bundles

My grief and my story told so well by Pastor Mueni. Thaaaaaaankyou so much. No one really understands me one year later; but working on me slowly to still stay afloat.

Thank you Pasi. Thank you for sharing ❤❤

Jirani looking gorgeous... Very sorry about middi really sad I'll pass by one day

Wooow! Well said, this is soooo good am blessed to have come across it. am still grieving my son 2 n a half years later and this has changed the tone of everything in my heart mind and spirit

Wow! Thank you Pasi Mueni. You're so graceful and God's love shows on your face.

Beauty 😍 eloquence and the wisdom. So much to be grasped from you passie Mueni.

Master piece in real life ,,, Great Authentic In conclusion Reimagine evaluate einvest

Very well delivered, very authentic and creative 👏👏👏

❤❤❤ No words!!

Sometimes when it rains it pours.

Death is cruel. Grief is more overwhelming. I miss my big sis every day. 😢

She's beautiful

More blessings to you Pastor Mueni

This is another one again I lost my Champion my son who was battling cancer at a young age of 5 the dark day I mark it as 14th July 2023 just what name do you give to a mother who has lost her child pain it is

May God bless Midi

Which church does pasi minister in because I feel like this is it? I have finally found a home

Haki am relating kabisaa...

In Greek we say, wendo nī ùnyamarania.

grief l did😢 2008 through to 12.2012

Almost 8 months ago my Dad died. I have not grieved him yet🥹

Wow! ❤ Do you have a Midi in your life?

I need her contacts, someone please. I'm breaking down.

Pasii😅