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This was hands down the best video explaining the difference between the parents and children. It makes it so clear. Usually parents will tell you to do something and use the phrase "I'm saying this for your own benefit." or "I know better". But Alhumdulillah now we can look at the request and ask "is it really for my benefit or is it for theirs" and go based on that. This guilt trip culture that a lot of parents put their kids in needs to stop. Its tough because never have cultures mixed to this extent and the gap between parents culture and kids culture is huge now compared to their time so it causes even more tension. May Allah swt make it easy on us.

My parents are doing sihir and committing extremely big sins they ruined every part of my life slandering oppressing me from childhood till now once they poisoned me but thank Allah He saved me. It's very struggling to be with them

18:30 what about opressive abusive parents? parents that ruined your whole childhood and their marriage being a failed marriage and the root cause of the problems being from both sides of the family?

Most of us are so conditioned to listen to everything our parents ask no matter the logic it’s just becomes a domino effect, where when you are older and say no to a small thing it’s like you have committed the biggest sin. I believe even when you listen to everything for respect you have set boundaries or you are setting yourself up for emotional stress. May Allah forgive me but I have always tried my best to listen to everything my parents told me until they forced me to marry someone just because I wanted to marry someone I found suitable for myself. Don’t let someone make haram decisions for you when you can take halal actions for yourself.

Impeccable timing.

I think it's irresponsible to suggest that it's expected (and almost "cute") for mothers in law to be evil and to resent their daughters in law because they think no one is good enough for their son. Normalizing this type of thinking and behavior is not Islamic.

They have ruined me, and i am seeking answers from wherever possible, how sad! Sad, sad, sad,

Generally I agree with you on most things. But here I feel that you should have focused more on the rights of children as barely anyone speaks about it (you already mentioned this). You also mentioned that obeying your parents is a better choice even if you are not obliged to obey them in that matter. This can be used as an instrument by many parents.

Question: Do you have to obey your parents in everything? Yasir Qadhi : it depends The critics: Yasir Qadhi is denying the Quran and Sunnah

How do you tell your parents in a loving way when they try to force you to marry or make you stay in an abusive marriage? (whether emotional or physical).

Salam. What if my Father gives me a look such as a frown or a displeasing look (which tells me that I could have thought properly but chose not - I know my Father and he does this a lot ) after telling him something like: "Oh, yes now I understand what to do...". How should I deal with this Ya Dr?

this sounds like the same Mustafa from the Shiekh's lecture about decision making...

Jazaka Allahu Khairan for tackling the difficult questions. May Allah increase you in knowledge. Amin.

What if your parents out of anger keeps on cursing your whole future to the point your feeling the negative consequences of there duaa?? Constantly failing suffering hardships getting no goodness in life? A parents duaa is heard an answered by Allah it’s it not?!

Where do you go to ask questions?

Useful. Well explained. But I think this could be well summarized though, didn't have to be 24 mins long.

your kids are lucky to have father like you.

Masha Allah beautifully explained by our shaykh JazakAllahu khayran Shaykhna

5:05 Please quote the Quran's verses on this either on - the screen, or in - the 'about' section, or in - a pinned comment, or provide - an accompanying PDF.

My parents and I are oil and water. When I first found out about the concept of fitnah the first thing I thought of were my parents.

very well said I LOVE IT

Great lecture sheikh

How about obedience to the husband?

ANXIETY A VERY POWERFUL SUPPLICATION DUA. O Allah, I am your servant, the son of your servant, the son of your maidservant. My forelock is in your hand, your command concerning me prevails, and your decision concerning me is just. I call upon you by every one of the beautiful names of which you have described yourself, or which you have revealed in your Book, or you have taught to any of your creatures, or which you have chosen to keep in the knowledge of the unseen with you, to make the Quran the delight of my heart, the light of my chest, and to remove my sadness and dispel my anxiety. This is for a women to say, it is same dua but here it tells you how a woman should say it.

Someone should prepare an master-list of all verses, hadith and major sahabas (radhi Allah ‘anhum) quotes on parents. Those that apply directly and indirectly. Nadhratu An Naeem like.

We need to think about long term sustainable societal good as well as the context from an Islamic perspective before anyone can answer this question

Can someone please provide the email address to ask sheikh question?

Jazak Allah khair akhi

This needs to spread everywhere

My mother doesn't want me to go to musallah at fajr because she says its dangerous. Do I listen?

Thank you so much. Baraka allahu fik.

10:30 Kuch to log kahenge, logo ka kaam h kehna

Sheikh Yasir, do one on young children too! If their parents are abusing them, they need to speak up! No blind obedience, even if you’re underaged!

Nice timing!

Please convey this message to Sheikh Yasir. Take a one year hiatus. Study Biyatul Mujtahid, Usool Ul Fiqh (muqarin) and qawayad al fiqhiyyah, in detail. Intense; either by yourself, or with an expert. Then return to this forum. You’ll be much sharper. More articulate in your pronouncements.