Too Logical for Love | How Your Avoidant Attachment Style Is Failing You 

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Wow! You totally described me!!

wow loved this episode! heavy on the part where you said if you box and have a specific way you want to receive love from others you’ll miss out on a lot 😭

I had an avoidant I really cared about and thought was my person, walk away. Something I thought we could talk through, they just shut down. No matter what I did or said to be thoughtful in my words and approach. And he did that quite often. He could be so intense. This was reassuring in such a way that I am having a hard time blaming myself and my imperfect-ness despite giving my all and authentically caring for them. So thank you. I know you were speaking to your people but I don’t know. It strangely put me at ease. And gave me some relief. I’ve done the work on myself in the past and continue to do it always. I’m not afraid to be held accountable. And still felt like I was falling short of understanding and responding to him. Where I needed my emotions and needs met he would bring logic and the clash would bring his withdrawal or distance. Anyways. Yeah. I dunno. I’m still processing it. But thanks.